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By *umBucket85 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Hartshill, Stoke-on-Trent

What's the deal with people that will look at your profile multiple times a week but when you ask if they're interested, they say no. And then keep viewing your profile every other day anyway.

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
20 weeks ago

Sheffield

Entirely possible they're just trawling the who's on or site updates.

Can easily tap on a name without registering it and scan the profile.

If you've messaged them and they've said no or just blanked you. Block the profile and move on.

It's frustrating, but doubt it malicious.

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By *eroLondonMan
20 weeks ago

Mayfair

OP, check out this thread. It's not a million miles from your subject matter:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1636176

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By *umBucket85 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Hartshill, Stoke-on-Trent


"OP, check out this thread. It's not a million miles from your subject matter:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1636176"

I get that people will view profiles and find it's not for them. I do it all the time. And if they say no, or don't reply, I take the hint. It's that they still keep viewing my profile regularly.

Ah well, hope they enjoy the viewing

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By *obilebottomMan
20 weeks ago

All over

The Mona Lisa might not be for everyone but if in the Louvre you are bound to take a look and not just the once. And you know, she never shows any interest either

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By *umBucket85 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Hartshill, Stoke-on-Trent


"The Mona Lisa might not be for everyone but if in the Louvre you are bound to take a look and not just the once. And you know, she never shows any interest either "

I dunno, she's always looking at me no matter where I stand

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By *urry BlokeMan
20 weeks ago

Stalybridge

It's the ninjas 🥷 that look without you knowing that you need to be worried about

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"It's the ninjas 🥷 that look without you knowing that you need to be worried about "

It's the cereal viewers who are the weird ones.

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By *umBucket85 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Hartshill, Stoke-on-Trent


"It's the ninjas 🥷 that look without you knowing that you need to be worried about "

Ha! I'm stalked by a machiavellian psychopathic ex on the DL. The ninjas can't be worse, I'm sure haha.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
20 weeks ago

Next Door

🥷🥷

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By *he Silver FuxMan
20 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

I know what you mean, it’s just one thing after another

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By *ellhungvweMan
20 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I just assume that they are cultured, erudite people who appreciate perfection but aren’t quite brave enough to touch it.

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By *obilebottomMan
20 weeks ago

All over


"I know what you mean, it’s just one thing after another "

Incidentally, is their an emoji for bearing a cross

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By *NewBNWOMan
20 weeks ago

back

For me if I'm viewing multiple times it's because I can't message due to your age limits & hoping they'd take the first step

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
20 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If they're looking constantly and haven't responded positively to the query I'd just block them.

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By *umBucket85 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Hartshill, Stoke-on-Trent


"I just assume that they are cultured, erudite people who appreciate perfection but aren’t quite brave enough to touch it."

Haha! That must be it.

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By *umBucket85 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Hartshill, Stoke-on-Trent


"If they're looking constantly and haven't responded positively to the query I'd just block them."

Thanks, I'll take note

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By *umBucket85 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Hartshill, Stoke-on-Trent


"For me if I'm viewing multiple times it's because I can't message due to your age limits & hoping they'd take the first step"

Thats a good point. I hadn't thought of that.

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By *ornucopiaMan
20 weeks ago

Bexley


"What's the deal with people that will look at your profile multiple times a week but when you ask if they're interested, they say no. And then keep viewing your profile every other day anyway."

I frequently look up people who have posted to the forum. I do this either to get a better idea of where they 'are coming from' or to remind me of who they are. As I don't always commit the information to long term memory, I often do this time after time.

Nothing more sinister than that!

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By *ornucopiaMan
20 weeks ago

Bexley


"What's the deal with people that will look at your profile multiple times a week but when you ask if they're interested, they say no. And then keep viewing your profile every other day anyway.

I frequently look up people who have posted to the forum. I do this either to get a better idea of where they 'are coming from' or to remind me of who they are. As I don't always commit the information to long term memory, I often do this time after time.

Nothing more sinister than that!"

Oh, and nobody ever asks me if I am interested!

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By *umBucket85 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Hartshill, Stoke-on-Trent


"What's the deal with people that will look at your profile multiple times a week but when you ask if they're interested, they say no. And then keep viewing your profile every other day anyway.

I frequently look up people who have posted to the forum. I do this either to get a better idea of where they 'are coming from' or to remind me of who they are. As I don't always commit the information to long term memory, I often do this time after time.

Nothing more sinister than that!"

I get that.

BTW, not suggesting anything sinister is at play. Just wondering what the deal is.

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By *eroLondonMan
20 weeks ago

Mayfair


"For me if I'm viewing multiple times it's because I can't message due to your age limits & hoping they'd take the first step

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Thats a good point. I hadn't thought of that. "

I will politely challenge that approach: filters exist for a reason and not for circumventing someone's age •preferences•.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I view multiple times because I forget who the person is that has placed a message in the Forum that has piqued my interest (that and I am old and forgetful and a perv).

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By *umBucket85 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Hartshill, Stoke-on-Trent


"I view multiple times because I forget who the person is that has placed a message in the Forum that has piqued my interest (that and I am old and forgetful and a perv)."

'old, forgetful perv' - might make that my profile name

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By *eroLondonMan
20 weeks ago

Mayfair


"...I am old and forgetful and a perv)."

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In that order? 😉

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"...I am old and forgetful and a perv).

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In that order? 😉"

Who are you again?

.

(maybe the forgetful should have jumped up the list slightly!)

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"I view multiple times because I forget who the person is that has placed a message in the Forum that has piqued my interest (that and I am old and forgetful and a perv).

'old, forgetful perv' - might make that my profile name "

You are a wee bairn!

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By *umBucket85 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Hartshill, Stoke-on-Trent


"I view multiple times because I forget who the person is that has placed a message in the Forum that has piqued my interest (that and I am old and forgetful and a perv).

'old, forgetful perv' - might make that my profile name

You are a wee bairn! "

Ha! No lies detected.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

20 weeks ago

East Sussex

Block 'em. That stops them in their tracks

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By *umBucket85 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Hartshill, Stoke-on-Trent


"Block 'em. That stops them in their tracks "

Will do, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"It's the ninjas 🥷 that look without you knowing that you need to be worried about

It's the cereal viewers who are the weird ones."

I’m often secretly surfing over my sugar puffs in the morning.

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By *rindnbump V2Couple
20 weeks ago

Our little world of Kinky Fuckery in Durham


"It's the ninjas 🥷 that look without you knowing that you need to be worried about "

We're usually in stealth mode, and there's nothing worrying about us

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By *umBucket85 OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Hartshill, Stoke-on-Trent


"It's the ninjas 🥷 that look without you knowing that you need to be worried about

It's the cereal viewers who are the weird ones.

I’m often secretly surfing over my sugar puffs in the morning. "

What did you call me?!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
20 weeks ago

chichester


"What's the deal with people that will look at your profile multiple times a week but when you ask if they're interested, they say no. And then keep viewing your profile every other day anyway."

Just like wanking over pics. In 99% of cases

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By *ansoffateMan
20 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Indecision?

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