FabSwingers.com forum: Here’s what I’ve realised

By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

This place is full of desperate men. Whether they’re men or gender confused. I’ve met some really nice folks on here - including the trans community. But! Basically it’s a sausage fest, and nobody has anything worthwhile to say. Except a few folks. This place is dying on its arse.

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By *assy LassieWoman
12 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Best get out while you can then🥴🤣

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
12 weeks ago

Portstewart

OK op does that mean that you will try a different tact when looking for meets yourself or will you perhaps try somewhere or something else

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By (user no longer on site) OP
12 weeks ago

Probably somewhere else - I had no idea I was so attractive to men and not ladies! Except when I’m out and about.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
12 weeks ago

Portstewart

Use your filters like everyone else else does to stop unwanted messages from those you don't want to interact with

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Covent Garden

My dear chap, I couldn't agree with you more. It's such a farce to die on your arse when you get so much attention from those we shan't mention. I blame the bitches, the snitches and the harlots, the Audreys, the Gertrudes and the Charlottes, for not outnumbering the men, the chaps and the blokes, of which there are too many for us fine folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"Probably somewhere else - I had no idea I was so attractive to men and not ladies! Except when I’m out and about."

When out and about do you wear a sandwich board covered in bareback wank bank pictures and knob shots? Or do you just whip it out to show people while you're saying your worthwhile things to them by way of introduction?

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By *uttercupWoman
12 weeks ago

Borders

Great isn't it

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By *appy HoHolly DeeWoman
12 weeks ago

Wherever

Like attracts like.

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By *Silver-Man
12 weeks ago

Mold

😏

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By *vaRose43Woman
12 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I have a hypothesis:

Sausage fest profiles attract only other sausage fest profiles.

Use your filters OP and if your approach is not working here, perhaps it’s time to change it

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By *eordieJeansCouple
12 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

You staying here is only adding to the sausage fest. Ironic really.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
12 weeks ago

Leeds

Welcome to the life of a woman on fab, great ain't it.

You can use message filters so you don't get messages from men.

Mrs

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By *aven.Woman
12 weeks ago

Not the North West...

I like sausages

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
12 weeks ago

Southampton

"I like sausages "

Me too.. especially with hash browns 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"I like sausages

Me too.. especially with hash browns 🤣"

Hash browns lathered in melty cheese... 🤤🤤🤤

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By *ustincider888Man
12 weeks ago

Preston Ish

"I like sausages

Me too.. especially with hash browns 🤣"

I prefer them on toast with hp sauce

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By *airyboxMan
12 weeks ago

sheffield

I have a hypothesis:

Sausage fest profiles attract only other sausage fest profiles.

Use your filters OP and if your approach is not working here, perhaps it’s time to change it"

I’m feeling a little left out! No getting messages from other men. I mean how dare they ignore my fine hairy body and ugly face.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
12 weeks ago

Southampton

All this sausage talk is making me hungry🤣

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By *Silver-Man
12 weeks ago

Mold

I like battered sausage

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By *vaRose43Woman
12 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

"I like battered sausage"

Deep fried or like… with a paddle?

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"I like sausages "

Cumberland?

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By *Silver-Man
12 weeks ago

Mold

"I like battered sausage

Deep fried or like… with a paddle?"

Deep fried...

No one's paddling my sausage

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By *d mirerMan
12 weeks ago

lost

Flat sausage ?

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By *ealitybitesMan
12 weeks ago

Belfast

Someone, somewhere, is bound to have read a paper on blue ball syndrome and how it affects festering sausages.

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By *hesubtlegentMan
12 weeks ago

surrey

I tell you what I’ve realised, people here have a fantastic sense of humour.

The comebacks here are hysterical 😂

As for the site being full of men, I use my filters. Don’t get harassed at all…. Some of my pics get fabbed by guys but I don’t get inundated with messages from desperate men…

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
12 weeks ago

Southampton

"Flat sausage ? "

I do love a square sausage 🤣

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By *acey_RedWoman
12 weeks ago

Liverpool

I'll have you know my thread about spare vaginas was very worthwhile. Positively life changing. Then I can take even more sausages. You're welcome.

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By *viatrixWoman
12 weeks ago

Redhill

Maybe a marketing campaign is in order to attract more clientele suited to the OP’s taste is in order?

How dare more women not be on here and ready to just spread them open and let him in! The scandal!

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By *cottish guy 555Man
12 weeks ago

London

It's like bemoaning the fact that you are stuck in traffic whilst sitting in your car.

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By *ripfillMan
12 weeks ago

havant

"Flat sausage ?

I do love a square sausage 🤣"

For me, you can’t beat a Wabberthwaite Cumberland sausage, even better if it smoked gastronomically it probably is in the top three!

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"Maybe a marketing campaign is in order to attract more clientele suited to the OP’s taste is in order?

How dare more women not be on here and ready to just spread them open and let him in! The scandal!

Preposterous, I daresay!

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By *ripfillMan
12 weeks ago

havant

I tend to disagree. I don’t think Fab is dying on its arse. I think fab has got lots of opportunities for lots of people from different walks of life. Represents a kindred spirit and non-judgemental platform for which people can make comments lighthearted and indeed very much on a more serious basis. it is a diversion. It is addictive and you can spend and waste an awful lot of time in the forum and at the same time I do feel it’s community.

I have learnt an awful lot about sexual kinks desires And a lot of information about sexual diseases and Mental health and the well-being of others.

If you want to post on the topic which is serious and with great gravitas the post if you want a diversion from the muggle world where we tend to live in the main then fab is a great platform

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts

Can’t say I’ve noticed the desperation or gender confusion. What I have noticed are people who focus on their own efforts without blaming others for their lack of success or frustrations.

Maybe I’ve been looking at the wrong people.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
12 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"It's like bemoaning the fact that you are stuck in traffic whilst sitting in your car.

Or going on holiday and saying that there's too many tourists there.

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By *og-ManMan
12 weeks ago

somewhere

I can't believe that people like sausages with Brown sauce

Heinz Ketchup is the only type of sauce that should be on a sausage sandwich and served with a hot cup of tea

OP use your filters and men can't message you

It really is that simple

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By *umalotagainMan
12 weeks ago

a town called malice

"I like sausages

Me too.. especially with hash browns 🤣"

And bacon

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By *obilebottomMan
12 weeks ago

All over

OP, you said that guys admire your inherit beauty and masculinity in public. How do you deal with it? Do you visit speaker's corner and protest, go on a march against the deviants, give them a good slap so they don't do again or something else. It's a big community here and everyone is different. As so many have said, there are plenty of ways and tools to nanage your profile and who you want contact from. As for fabbing your pics (which incidently I have not seen), most will take that as a compliment. I love comllimenting people, it makes everyone a little happier. I fab lots of pics for lots of reasons, mainly because they are nice pics. I also wink, mainly when in one of the uplifting threads we all engage in to pass time and for a bit of an excape. I will not cross boundaries with messages. Sometimes a fab or a wink may start a new conversation and not because anyone wants anything else except just being friendly. Why so serious about something that can so easily be managed well. Wishing you a more relaxed time here if you decide to stay. There are some lovely people on here many of whom lift my spirits every single day. Anyone I don't want to interact with, I just don't. Finally, even with sausage, as you have already witnessed in responces, everyone has their preference not only in what it is but much , much more than that

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By *ou only live onceMan
12 weeks ago

London

"This place is full of desperate men. Whether they’re men or gender confused. I’ve met some really nice folks on here - including the trans community. But! Basically it’s a sausage fest, and nobody has anything worthwhile to say. Except a few folks. This place is dying on its arse. "

Is this a worthwhile thing to say? Probably. But who's the judge? It's all just so confusing. I really enjoyed the one word sentence though - they're underrated.

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By *r John WickMan
12 weeks ago

The Continental

There’s a simple binary set solution to Fab life.

Like the place - stay.

Don’t like it - delete profile.

You’re welcome.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
12 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

"Maybe a marketing campaign is in order to attract more clientele suited to the OP’s taste is in order?

How dare more women not be on here and ready to just spread them open and let him in! The scandal!

But did they wait the required 3.42 seconds before being inundated?

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"This place is full of desperate men."

Indeed.

"Whether they’re men or gender confused."

Probably need to elaborate further OP.

"I’ve met some really nice folks on here - including the trans community."

Good for you.

"But!"

Excellent attempt to introduce a clause contrasting with what has already been mentioned above, but, probably a comma would have sufficed.

"Basically it’s a sausage fest, and nobody has anything worthwhile to say."

I don't think the two are necessarily connected. BTW, the Sausage and Cider Fest at Warwick takes place on 14th September, just four days time.

"Except a few folks."

Are these few folk the exception to the sausage fest, or are they the ones who have something worthwhile to say (actually the two may not be mutually exclusive. Can you draw me a Venn diagram please?

"This place is dying on its arse. "

How many people die on their arse? Obviously Elvis, but some more examples might be helpful.

Thanks OP. I think you need to develope your thesis further.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Over the last few years, I've noticed there has been a rather large increase in men using sites and apps. The ratios are, at a guess, around 20:1 (potentially more).

This started roughly a year or so before COVID kicked off, which also caused a vast amount of the population to sign up, from all sides.

It seems that when things calmed down, most of the ladies either stopped using the sites and apps, or they simply forgot to delete their profiles. Perhaps some thought that deleting the app might also erase their profile? Who knows.

One particular place I used to frequent became absolutely overwhelmed with men. Quickly, their behaviour turned into shitty attitudes and childish behaviour. All because they weren't getting any attention.

I'm/you're one man in thousands. This is just how things are now. The odds of anyone being interested, is not only small but also random. If that makes any sense. Either I/we do something to stand out, or sit patiently and wait.

On the other place, I created a female account. Mostly out of boredom, but also as an experiment. I had spoken to a fair amount of ladies who had some horror stories, that's for sure. I wanted to see what it was like.

I grabbed a photo of some close-up boobs (with no face or distinguishing marks) and added a basic profile with a little cheeky flourish.

Within 12 hours, this profile received over 200-250 messages. I can't remember the exact amount, as this was ages ago and my memory is patchy at best, but it was a lot! The majority of which were just "I want to fuck you" types, some with absolutely disgusting behaviour, some getting pissy because "she" hadn't replied instantly and you get the general idea.

I scanned through them and only saw perhaps 2 or 3 normal and polite messages, that began with "Hi" or "Hello."

With that also in mind, who has the time to sort out 200 messages? How long would it take to read, let alone reply, to all of those? From my experience, most people won't respond to anything other than a polite and friendly message, that's shows you've read their profile in some way.

But are these places dying? Not at all. They just have a different proportion of users than before, that's all. It's something everyone should be aware of. The ratios aren't different in just one place, it's the same everywhere nowadays.

Ultimately, it's up to everyone to make it a fun and enjoyable place to be. I find that simply ignoring my chances and just interacting now and again makes it much easier. I might comment on the state of things, as I have now, but in the end I don't actually care all too much.

I not putting all my eggs in one basket. Fingers in many pies. And another food analogy I can't think of right now.

Funnily enough, I've had more opportunities away from specifically sexual places, than any of these types of communities.

Besides, if anyone finds that they're no longer enjoying it or getting what they want out of the experience, then it's decision time. Stay and perhaps change your tactics, take a break for a while or leave and try somewhere else.

You can always come back later.

It's easy to become obsessed with these things and feel that you should get something after the effort you put in. That's quite normal, to be fair. But it doesn't work like that. It never has. If anything, it's pure luck. Sometimes combined with a bit of effort, but I feel that it's mostly luck.

Also, patience. Lots and lots of patience. Some people have a shitload of messages to sort out, especially if they are popular. They have lives to orchestrate and often not much time to do it all in. It's not unusual to never get a reply or for someone to take weeks to get back to you.

Chalk it up as a "No, thanks" and move on. I delete messages I've sent after a certain amount of time and just ignore it. Whether I've missed an opportunity by deleting is irrelevant, it's the removal of the (slight) temptation to send another message.

Anyhow, I've rambled but that has been my observations and thoughts about the whole thing lol.

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By *ilverfox for youMan
12 weeks ago

Hull

Let me know if you find another genuine site that’s free . I put up with it .it’s only chat !!

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

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By *opinovMan
12 weeks ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

"Over the last few years, I've noticed there has been a rather large increase in men using sites and apps. The ratios are, at a guess, around 20:1 (potentially more).

This started roughly a year or so before COVID kicked off, which also caused a vast amount of the population to sign up, from all sides.

I grabbed a photo of some close-up boobs (with no face or distinguishing marks) and added a basic profile with a little cheeky flourish.

I scanned through them and only saw perhaps 2 or 3 normal and polite messages, that began with "Hi" or "Hello."

I not putting all my eggs in one basket. Fingers in many pies. And another food analogy I can't think of right now.

Funnily enough, I've had more opportunities away from specifically sexual places, than any of these types of communities.

You can always come back later.

Anyhow, I've rambled but that has been my observations and thoughts about the whole thing lol."

Yep

We're basically plankton.

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By *hristopherd999Man
12 weeks ago

Brentwood

You've just admitted to creating a fake profile, there's enough of them on here already

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By *avexxMan
12 weeks ago

cheshire

seriously i do like a nice sausage,

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By *issmorganWoman
12 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Op firstly use your filters and block men.

Next, your profile is full of cock pics, which men seem to like,but it will put some ladies off.

As someone said above, I'm guessing in the real world you don't go out with your pecker out,when talking to women.

Yes there are some deperados on fab, men, women and couples, but it is what you make it.

People do have things to say too, I have some great chats with some top people on here.

Ultimately if you're time on here isn't happy, either change something or maybe hide your profile for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"You've just admitted to creating a fake profile, there's enough of them on here already"

Who, me? Firstly, I did say that it wasn't here and secondly, I removed everything from the other place anyhow.

Besides, the other place was already a cesspool of vile behaviour and shitty comments. One temporary profile, to investigate and inform wasn't an issue.

I actually posted up my findings in a diary entry and some male users came to me in private, thanking me for showing what it was like. Some even apologised for the messages they sent.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I think the site is much like any other. It takes all sorts to make for an interesting place to be and there is certainly all sorts on here. I have had some great chats with people on here

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've been on here for over 15 years and every month someone declares the place is dying on its arse.

I've been having a glorious time for 15 years.

I suspect you get out of this site just as much as you put in

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By *nnCeeWoman
12 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"Yep

We're basically plankton."

We're all just dust, floating amongst the stars...

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By *ascaIMan
12 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

"This place is full of desperate men."

You got me 😔

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By *elix SightedMan
12 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Here’s what I’ve realised (always known):

People don’t ‘alf whine.

And here’s my suggestion:

If it’s not working for you, change your approach or go somewhere else (spelled slightly differently…).

Problem solved.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts

"This place is full of desperate men. Whether they’re men or gender confused. "

I just look confused.

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By *uscious_Lady1Woman
12 weeks ago

Norwich

I think from what I’ve seen some men are “straight” on their profile yet have photos and verifications with other men… not a problem but it means a lot of men who like the sausage try their luck with straight men incase they’re “fab straight”

I might be wrong but just an observation…

Use your filters… problem solved!

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By *avexxMan
12 weeks ago

cheshire

op has left the room

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By *ansoffateMan
12 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Just as I start to like someone, they leave.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
12 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

One less sausage in the sausage fest 🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"This place is full of desperate men... This place is dying on its arse. "

And another one bites the dust (UNLOS)

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By *erfHerder74Man
12 weeks ago

Greenock

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By *erfHerder74Man
12 weeks ago

Greenock

I like sausage fests

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By *hrek101Man
12 weeks ago

Herts

"I like sausages

Me too.. especially with hash browns 🤣

I prefer them on toast with hp sauce "

Wait..what..why have I never thought of that, hash browns and cheese....arrrrggghhh

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By *r John WickMan
12 weeks ago

The Continental

Took my advice.

That’s a rare occurrence.

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By *8on33Man
12 weeks ago

winfrith

"Best get out while you can then🥴🤣"
He listened to you then ,wise words.

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By *ansoffateMan
12 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"Took my advice.

That’s a rare occurrence."

Must have been desperate.

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By *nnCeeWoman
12 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"Best get out while you can then🥴🤣He listened to you then ,wise words."

It's ok, he'll be back soon with a new profile... 🤣🤣

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
12 weeks ago

Markfield

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By *osey WalesMan
12 weeks ago

Surrey

I'm in.

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By *olfandtazCouple
12 weeks ago

Bristol

That didn't take long!

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By *ex HolesMan
12 weeks ago

Up North

Who was the OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"Who was the OP? "

Forgotten his name already I'm afraid - cant remember even how long he had been on (think it was seven weeks and that he had one social with a couple that might have progressed - but could be getting confused with someone else's profile [that's age for you])

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By *irthandgirthMan
12 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Oh dammit. I was going to point out he must be doing something wrong us the rest of us are practically wading through seas, nay oceans of fanny.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
12 weeks ago

North West

"Who was the OP? "

Rex Holes

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
12 weeks ago

Markfield

I can’t remember the username but I looked at his profile and it didn’t have “not looking for single males” selected. Rookie mistake?

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By *oiluvfunMan
12 weeks ago

Penrith

On the bright side though; at least you were getting mail.

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By *oiluvfunMan
12 weeks ago

Penrith

"I can’t remember the username but I looked at his profile and it didn’t have “not looking for single males” selected. Rookie mistake? "

I'm straight, but don't have that selected either. I like to network with other guys (it's amazing what you find out at times

), and also; some single guy profiles are actually couples not wanting too much attention (but shhh! Don't tell everyone!)

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By *ou only live onceMan
12 weeks ago

London

"Who was the OP? "

Dunno. But one less sausage at the fest.

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By *adyBugsWoman
12 weeks ago

cognito

"Who was the OP?

Dunno. But one less sausage at the fest."

There’s a sausage fest? Where was my invite

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By *ou only live onceMan
12 weeks ago

London

"Who was the OP?

Dunno. But one less sausage at the fest.

There’s a sausage fest? Where was my invite

Ladybugs, where have you been? Can't move for sausages around here, according to the now AWOL OP.

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By *adyBugsWoman
12 weeks ago

cognito

"Who was the OP?

Dunno. But one less sausage at the fest.

There’s a sausage fest? Where was my invite

Ladybugs, where have you been? Can't move for sausages around here, according to the now AWOL OP.

Been indisposed…I miss all the fun stuff

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By *ou only live onceMan
12 weeks ago

London

"Who was the OP?

Dunno. But one less sausage at the fest.

There’s a sausage fest? Where was my invite

Ladybugs, where have you been? Can't move for sausages around here, according to the now AWOL OP.

Been indisposed…I miss all the fun stuff

You snooze, you lose. Sure there'll be a spare sausage around here for you somewhere...

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
12 weeks ago

Markfield

"I can’t remember the username but I looked at his profile and it didn’t have “not looking for single males” selected. Rookie mistake?

I'm straight, but don't have that selected either. I like to network with other guys (it's amazing what you find out at times

), and also; some single guy profiles are actually couples not wanting too much attention (but shhh! Don't tell everyone!)

Yeah but he was complaining about getting messages from single guys ….

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By *haveanicevoiceMan
12 weeks ago

Soggy Middle-Earth (Cumbria)

"Who was the OP? "

BORIS JOHNSON

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By *ark73XXXMan
12 weeks ago

North Staffs/South Cheshire

"I can’t remember the username but I looked at his profile and it didn’t have “not looking for single males” selected. Rookie mistake? "

Plenty of people make mistakes on this site

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By *oubleswing2019Man
12 weeks ago

Colchester

Perhaps the sausages being offered were not to the OP's liking ?

Or perhaps the OP is now having an existential crisis and wondering if perhaps they might enjoy the odd sausage ?

Has this very thread made someone question their own sexuality ?

(I know threads can make people question their own sanity, so it's not too far-fetched that a thread could ignite a spark. Preferably on a BBQ. With some lovely sausages ?)

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By *oiluvfunMan
12 weeks ago

Penrith

"I can’t remember the username but I looked at his profile and it didn’t have “not looking for single males” selected. Rookie mistake?

I'm straight, but don't have that selected either. I like to network with other guys (it's amazing what you find out at times

), and also; some single guy profiles are actually couples not wanting too much attention (but shhh! Don't tell everyone!)

Yeah but he was complaining about getting messages from single guys …. "

And some guys complain they never get any messages at all….

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