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By *kivi Bi Male OP   Man
18 weeks ago

North Shields

When you check 'Who's looked at you' feature and you respond to them, instead of replying with a 'No Thanks' or something along those lines. They block you, the hight of bad manners I think.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
18 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

They looked at you and chose not to reach out, that already tells you that they're not interested.

They're just making that extra clear since the original hint wasn't taken 💜

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
18 weeks ago

Tamworth

Really? I look at plenty of profiles with zero intention of chatting - looking at people who’ve said odd things on the forum for a start. Plus, how do they know if you’re for them or not unless they look first 🧐

Looking at your profile doesn’t mean you’re in a promise.

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By *a LunaWoman
18 weeks ago

South Wales

Most folk look at a profile because they’re nosey, not out of a genuine interest for anything more, I reckon.

Don’t take it personally.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
18 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Thank fook for 🥷 mode

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
18 weeks ago

Essex

I know what you mean OP

Yesterday a man looked right at me in Sainsbury’s. So obviously I walked straight over and grabbed his crotch. He ran away!! Cheeky sod. He looked first. He could have just politely said “no. Thank you.”

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By *a LunaWoman
18 weeks ago

South Wales


"I know what you mean OP

Yesterday a man looked right at me in Sainsbury’s. So obviously I walked straight over and grabbed his crotch. He ran away!! Cheeky sod. He looked first. He could have just politely said “no. Thank you.”"

Were you looking for misappropriated satsumas?

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By *eroLondonMan
18 weeks ago

Mayfair


"When you check 'Who's looked at you' feature and you respond to them, instead of replying with a 'No Thanks' or something along those lines. They block you, the hight of bad manners I think."

OP, I don't think you've quite grasped the correct protocol here. 😬

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
18 weeks ago

St Leonards


"I know what you mean OP

Yesterday a man looked right at me in Sainsbury’s. So obviously I walked straight over and grabbed his crotch. He ran away!! Cheeky sod. He looked first. He could have just politely said “no. Thank you.”"

4th time this week Misty?

😘😘

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
18 weeks ago

Essex


"I know what you mean OP

Yesterday a man looked right at me in Sainsbury’s. So obviously I walked straight over and grabbed his crotch. He ran away!! Cheeky sod. He looked first. He could have just politely said “no. Thank you.”

Were you looking for misappropriated satsumas? "

We all know what I was looking for. Sainsbury’s is a fuck-market, isnt it? He was right by the pineapples ffs. He was begging for it. Dirty tease.

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By *ascaIMan
18 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

The penny will drop one day.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
18 weeks ago

The Continental

Would you like some cheese to go with the whine?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

18 weeks ago

East Sussex

Op it's safe to say that if someone looks they will contact you if they'd like to take it further

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
18 weeks ago

Always on the move


"I know what you mean OP

Yesterday a man looked right at me in Sainsbury’s. So obviously I walked straight over and grabbed his crotch. He ran away!! Cheeky sod. He looked first. He could have just politely said “no. Thank you.”"

Which Sainsbury's is it you shop at.out of curiosity?

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago


"I know what you mean OP

Yesterday a man looked right at me in Sainsbury’s. So obviously I walked straight over and grabbed his crotch. He ran away!! Cheeky sod. He looked first. He could have just politely said “no. Thank you.”"

Would love to bump into you

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
18 weeks ago

Peterborough and Bedford


"Thank fook for 🥷 mode"

This!

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By *herrybakewellCouple
18 weeks ago

Staffordshire

You'd be amazed though how many times saying no thankyou just gets you an abusive reply.

That's why people block and just not bother. It's not worth the drama.

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By *iker JackMan
18 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Take this theory off this site

So anyone who looks at you has to engage with you whether on the street, the shops, the bus etc

Never going to happen

Be happy that at least people are looking

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By *heelerMan
18 weeks ago

Northants


"When you check 'Who's looked at you' feature and you respond to them, instead of replying with a 'No Thanks' or something along those lines. They block you, the hight of bad manners I think."

I got blocked by a woman and I'd never messaged her or anything I noticed the daily photos suddenly stopped .

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I know, whenever I get looked at I try to message in case they're shy about making the first move. Then if it gets ignored, I'll message again in case it got buried under loads of other messages. Then I'll message again in case they read it but we're too busy to reply. Then I'll message again just to let them know I'm still interested. They'll message back one day

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
18 weeks ago

Tamworth


"I know, whenever I get looked at I try to message in case they're shy about making the first move. Then if it gets ignored, I'll message again in case it got buried under loads of other messages. Then I'll message again in case they read it but we're too busy to reply. Then I'll message again just to let them know I'm still interested. They'll message back one day "

This is exactly how I like a man to do things! I want to know you’re really keen before I reply.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
18 weeks ago

The Continental


"I know, whenever I get looked at I try to message in case they're shy about making the first move. Then if it gets ignored, I'll message again in case it got buried under loads of other messages. Then I'll message again in case they read it but we're too busy to reply. Then I'll message again just to let them know I'm still interested. They'll message back one day

This is exactly how I like a man to do things! I want to know you’re really keen before I reply. "

Taking notes………

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By *issmorganWoman
18 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

This is exactly why I and many women will look in stealth mode, to avoid the I saw you looked etc.

If people want to meesage after looking, they will op. If not you're not what they're looking for.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
18 weeks ago

Lincoln


"I know, whenever I get looked at I try to message in case they're shy about making the first move. Then if it gets ignored, I'll message again in case it got buried under loads of other messages. Then I'll message again in case they read it but we're too busy to reply. Then I'll message again just to let them know I'm still interested. They'll message back one day "

Had us in the first half

LvM

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By *acey_RedWoman
18 weeks ago

Liverpool

Maybe they just wanted to look at your tattoo

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
18 weeks ago

The Continental

I’ve just messaged the last 100 people to look at me. Fingers crossed eh?

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By *electableicecreamMan
18 weeks ago

The West


"I know, whenever I get looked at I try to message in case they're shy about making the first move. Then if it gets ignored, I'll message again in case it got buried under loads of other messages. Then I'll message again in case they read it but we're too busy to reply. Then I'll message again just to let them know I'm still interested. They'll message back one day "

Have you considered attaching a photo of your dick? Could be the thing that gets you over the line.

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By *iker JackMan
18 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"I’ve just messaged the last 100 people to look at me. Fingers crossed eh? "

You’ve had a 100. Show off 🤣🤣

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I’m always in 🥷 is it worth being in not 🥷?

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By *vaRose43Woman
18 weeks ago

Forest of Dean


"I know, whenever I get looked at I try to message in case they're shy about making the first move. Then if it gets ignored, I'll message again in case it got buried under loads of other messages. Then I'll message again in case they read it but we're too busy to reply. Then I'll message again just to let them know I'm still interested. They'll message back one day

Have you considered attaching a photo of your dick? Could be the thing that gets you over the line."

Bonus points if it’s an up nostril dick pic or over a toilet

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By *electableicecreamMan
18 weeks ago

The West


"I know, whenever I get looked at I try to message in case they're shy about making the first move. Then if it gets ignored, I'll message again in case it got buried under loads of other messages. Then I'll message again in case they read it but we're too busy to reply. Then I'll message again just to let them know I'm still interested. They'll message back one day

Have you considered attaching a photo of your dick? Could be the thing that gets you over the line.

Bonus points if it’s an up nostril dick pic or over a toilet "

Mines usually over the shoulder

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
18 weeks ago

The Continental


"I’ve just messaged the last 100 people to look at me. Fingers crossed eh?

You’ve had a 100. Show off 🤣🤣"

It’s ‘cause I’m handsome as fuck.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
18 weeks ago

Lincoln


"I’ve just messaged the last 100 people to look at me. Fingers crossed eh? "

You're getting a hundred views? What a stud 😳

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago


"I know, whenever I get looked at I try to message in case they're shy about making the first move. Then if it gets ignored, I'll message again in case it got buried under loads of other messages. Then I'll message again in case they read it but we're too busy to reply. Then I'll message again just to let them know I'm still interested. They'll message back one day

Have you considered attaching a photo of your dick? Could be the thing that gets you over the line.

Bonus points if it’s an up nostril dick pic or over a toilet "

*Scribbles down notes* this is ingenious stuff!

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By *agatoXXXMan
18 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

I pay no heed to who's looked, if they don't follow it up with a wink or a message or such. I'm old and wise enough to take the hint.

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By *ex HolesMan
18 weeks ago

Up North


"When you check 'Who's looked at you' feature and you respond to them, instead of replying with a 'No Thanks' or something along those lines. They block you, the hight of bad manners I think."

Report them OP

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
18 weeks ago

The Continental


"I’ve just messaged the last 100 people to look at me. Fingers crossed eh?

You're getting a hundred views? What a stud 😳

LvM"

I like sucking dick so there’s quite a few chaps in that list.

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By *electableicecreamMan
18 weeks ago

The West


"I’ve just messaged the last 100 people to look at me. Fingers crossed eh?

You're getting a hundred views? What a stud 😳

LvM

I like sucking dick so there’s quite a few chaps in that list. "

So that's what I'm doing wrong

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
18 weeks ago

The Continental


"I’ve just messaged the last 100 people to look at me. Fingers crossed eh?

You're getting a hundred views? What a stud 😳

LvM

I like sucking dick so there’s quite a few chaps in that list.

So that's what I'm doing wrong "

When the pussy count dries up…….jump on a dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

"no thanks"

"Oh you don't like what you see?"

"Why did you look?"

"I've attached more pics, you like these?"

"You shy babe" One day I will go on a serial killer spree and do all these "are you shy" people in.

And so on it goes.

They looked, they didn't message. Take the hint.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
18 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

You should probably sit down then.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
18 weeks ago

The Continental


"You should probably sit down then."

Reply of the day. 🫡

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By *ffervescentMan
18 weeks ago

winfrith


"When you check 'Who's looked at you' feature and you respond to them, instead of replying with a 'No Thanks' or something along those lines. They block you, the hight of bad manners I think."
It seems it's the norm here they've looked and aren't interested ,blocking just cements it in place .

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By *uckingFutzMan
18 weeks ago

Plymouth

Worse when you have been chatting and because you've been busy and not had the time to reply instantly - blocked!!! I mean REALLY!

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By *ornucopiaMan
18 weeks ago

Bexley


"When you check 'Who's looked at you' feature and you respond to them, instead of replying with a 'No Thanks' or something along those lines. They block you, the hight of bad manners I think."
Don't check it. Problem solved!

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By *eeper ThanMan
18 weeks ago

Dartford


"I know what you mean OP

Yesterday a man looked right at me in Sainsbury’s. So obviously I walked straight over and grabbed his crotch. He ran away!! Cheeky sod. He looked first. He could have just politely said “no. Thank you.”

Were you looking for misappropriated satsumas?

We all know what I was looking for. Sainsbury’s is a fuck-market, isnt it? He was right by the pineapples ffs. He was begging for it. Dirty tease."

Sorry had to run off I did put my best underwear on for the shop was caught on the hop ! And I like pineapples I eat a lot of them

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
18 weeks ago

Sheffield

Thank god you can choose to look at profiles incognito!

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
18 weeks ago

Galway, Clare


"I know, whenever I get looked at I try to message in case they're shy about making the first move. Then if it gets ignored, I'll message again in case it got buried under loads of other messages. Then I'll message again in case they read it but we're too busy to reply. Then I'll message again just to let them know I'm still interested. They'll message back one day

Have you considered attaching a photo of your dick? Could be the thing that gets you over the line.

Bonus points if it’s an up nostril dick pic or over a toilet

*Scribbles down notes* this is ingenious stuff!"

If it's over a toilet, make sure to have your undergarments around your thighs so we can see them.. women love that.

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By *ou only live onceMan
18 weeks ago

London


"I know, whenever I get looked at I try to message in case they're shy about making the first move. Then if it gets ignored, I'll message again in case it got buried under loads of other messages. Then I'll message again in case they read it but we're too busy to reply. Then I'll message again just to let them know I'm still interested. They'll message back one day

Have you considered attaching a photo of your dick? Could be the thing that gets you over the line.

Bonus points if it’s an up nostril dick pic or over a toilet "

What is an up-nostril dick?!?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Central

It can be easier or harder with some to know whether you want your body physically intimate with another. Sometimes you get a game changer staring in your face - perhaps someone is physically wrong - too tall/short or just not attractive. The better the profile, the easier you make it for others to count you potentially in or out. Be very grateful when you have not had to waste further time

Sometimes it may also be about availability and where meets happen. If someone wants an immediate meet and another isn't available, then it's clearly wrong.

The really clear and simple tool that says 'thanks but no thanks' is the block button. It stops any more totally unnecessary expenditure of effort and energy that most people keep wasting.

Most people are not mutually compatible. Accept this, whilst knowing that people here who aren't desperate single men do not have to compromise and pander to anyone.

I don't know how good this OPs profile is but the viewer who was contacted, knew either just from this, or the unsolicited message, that they absolutely were not for them. Learn and move on.

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