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By *oMasNoMor OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Surrey

Is it, just taboo? Is it bad/wrong to want to seek out someone with a physical disability? Is it ok-er if the seeker has a disability?

I feel like they're hidden more than they're not, but I also feel like it's a sexy thing.

Just me?

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By *punk n gushCouple
9 weeks ago

new milton

I personally don't think it's a taboo just because they may have a physical disability they can and do still enjoy alot of sexual experiences they still have the ability to want and need sexual satisfaction

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By *iker JackMan
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Physical disabilities come in a broad spectrum, not all of which are visible, so it cannot, for me, be put to a specific answer

What they should not be or nor should anybody be, in my opinion, is objectified for this.

We all like what we like

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By *iker JackMan
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"Is it, just taboo? Is it bad/wrong to want to seek out someone with a physical disability? Is it ok-er if the seeker has a disability?

I feel like they're hidden more than they're not, but I also feel like it's a sexy thing.

Just me?"

Why do you feel they are hidden?

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
9 weeks ago

Sheffield

People with disabilities like sex and want to feel attractive just as much as anyone else.

The issue tends to be the rest of society. Shame related to disabilities etc.

Mundane dating can be a nightmare let alone anything else.

I do know of people with disabilities who like going to alt clubs like Club Anti-Christ because they're just accepted and not stared at.

A key issue, with things like swinging is being treated like a piece of meat, because someone has an amputation or wheelchair kink.

So they're more interested in the disability than the person. I know this can also frustrate a lot of Bi people who are seen as 'Unicorns' for a couple to play with and then get discarded once playtime is over.

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By *vaRose43Woman
9 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I suspect like anything someone with a disability would prefer to be wanted for themselves not because of their condition

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
9 weeks ago

North West


"I suspect like anything someone with a disability would prefer to be wanted for themselves not because of their condition "

Bingo!

Often, disability fetishism is assumed or foisted upon disabled people, a bit like dick pics are pinged at you. It's pretty irritating tbh.

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By *agatoXXXMan
9 weeks ago

Mordor


"I suspect like anything someone with a disability would prefer to be wanted for themselves not because of their condition

Bingo!

Often, disability fetishism is assumed or foisted upon disabled people, a bit like dick pics are pinged at you. It's pretty irritating tbh."

⬆️ this.

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By *inceIlkestonMan
9 weeks ago

Ilkeston


"Is it, just taboo? Is it bad/wrong to want to seek out someone with a physical disability? Is it ok-er if the seeker has a disability?

I feel like they're hidden more than they're not, but I also feel like it's a sexy thing.

Just me?"

Disability not a fetish but something I'm happy to work with. Same with amputee.

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By *oMasNoMor OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Surrey

You all make interesting and equally valid points.

I highly respect the disabled community, I'm a part of it, I just don't come across them often, and want to, so much so now that it's a bit of a kink! I've been incredibly attracted to many different types of disability but the opportunity never presented itself.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
9 weeks ago

North West


"You all make interesting and equally valid points.

I highly respect the disabled community, I'm a part of it, I just don't come across them often, and want to, so much so now that it's a bit of a kink! I've been incredibly attracted to many different types of disability but the opportunity never presented itself. "

Attracted to the disability or the person?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Central

People should be free largely to enjoy their relationships as they wish to, if there's full honesty and consent between partners.

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By *urious_male1982Man
9 weeks ago

aylesbury


"I suspect like anything someone with a disability would prefer to be wanted for themselves not because of their condition "

This

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By *wingsbothMan
9 weeks ago

Alfreton

I've always found physically impaired are more passionate in bed

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By *luecarpyMan
9 weeks ago

rowtown

Ellie simmonds does something for me

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
9 weeks ago

North West


"I've always found physically impaired are more passionate in bed"

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By *electableicecreamMan
9 weeks ago

The West


"I've always found physically impaired are more passionate in bed"

This is on a par with 'fat girls try harder'.

Quite frankly it has vibes of preying on the vulnerable

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
9 weeks ago

North West

"Physically impaired"

Yikes.

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By *iker JackMan
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"I've always found physically impaired are more passionate in bed"

Wow

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By *agatoXXXMan
9 weeks ago

Mordor


"I've always found physically impaired are more passionate in bed"

With my success rate on here, you must be the only one.

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By *acey_RedWoman
9 weeks ago

Liverpool

As a disabled person... why?

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By *acey_RedWoman
9 weeks ago

Liverpool


"I've always found physically impaired are more passionate in bed"

That's a grimace, not passion. My hip just hurts .

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By *opinovMan
9 weeks ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I don't think it's wrong to seek out those who fit your preference. We're just people making our own way along our own rocky paths. I like sharing happy moments with different folks on the way.

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By *eckme70Man
9 weeks ago

Strabane


"I suspect like anything someone with a disability would prefer to be wanted for themselves not because of their condition "

100% like a lot on here there are too many judgemental people about!! Just let people be who they want to be 🤗

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By *agatoXXXMan
9 weeks ago

Mordor


"I've always found physically impaired are more passionate in bed

That's a grimace, not passion. My hip just hurts ."

I am likely to let out an "ooh yah, ooh yah, ooh yah!", as well as a grimace.

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By *essTTWoman
9 weeks ago

Birmingham


"I suspect like anything someone with a disability would prefer to be wanted for themselves not because of their condition "

This

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By *luecarpyMan
9 weeks ago

rowtown


"I suspect like anything someone with a disability would prefer to be wanted for themselves not because of their condition

This "
exactly

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By *oMasNoMor OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Surrey

Again, valid and interesting points.

I'm a wheelchair user myself. I guess it's like a black guy seeking out a black girl, that's never been with a black girl. I'm black too.. It's not particularly physical, or cultural, I think its more of a mental thing if I were to try to pinpoint a logic.

That said, I have consistently found every amputee iv come across very sexy.

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By *oMasNoMor OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Surrey

I'm disabled. I do try harder to compensate. Could be my competitive nature, could be that I just enjoy giving my all. But I am a hung guy with little dick energy.

But I'm not trying to hunt on the vulnerable.

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By *oMasNoMor OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Surrey

If I notice a girl cos she has huge breasts, and we hit it off.

Did we hit it off cos of her boobs?

I'd say no.

Am I attracted to her cos she's curvy? Probably.

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By *electableicecreamMan
9 weeks ago

The West


"I'm disabled. I do try harder to compensate. Could be my competitive nature, could be that I just enjoy giving my all. But I am a hung guy with little dick energy.

But I'm not trying to hunt on the vulnerable. "

My comment wasn't directed at you

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By *inceIlkestonMan
9 weeks ago

Ilkeston


"Ellie simmonds does something for me "

Mmmm me too and other dwarves used to fancy a friend who was small.

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By *luecarpyMan
8 weeks ago

rowtown


"Ellie simmonds does something for me

Mmmm me too and other dwarves used to fancy a friend who was small."
nice to know I’m not the only one thinking of Ellie

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By *rMotivator2.0Man
8 weeks ago

Donegal

Jesus I don't know about this one...

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