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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

What does a healthy relationship look like to you? Can be romantic, sexual, friendship, family.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Communication

Boundaries

Respect

Honesty

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Honesty, clarity, and joy 💜

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
9 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

OOOOOOOOO...... Great Question.

Im going to have a quick think but first ARE WE talking like 'partners' or any relationship ? ( I don't see much diff really now I think about it )

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By *acey_RedWoman
9 weeks ago

Liverpool

Good communication, honesty, genuinely wanting the best for each other, having compassion for each other, actually enjoying being around each other.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
9 weeks ago

North West

I think it's one where you lick each other and don't say ewwwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Couldn't tell you unfortunately.

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By *eliWoman
9 weeks ago

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What does it look like for you NipNips?

I'm going to have a think in the mean time. :D

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By *ell GwynnWoman
9 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Mutual respect, care, and compassion

Open and honest communication (with kindness)

Everyone takes responsibility for their own emotional wellbeing and doesn't try to foist it onto the other.

A sense of fun

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

When their farts don’t smell too bad.

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By *IXEN200Woman
9 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

Trust, loyalty, empathy on both sides if possible, the list could go on.......

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By *ittlebirdWoman
9 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Honesty, kindness, care, love and most of all smiles ♥️

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By * and R cple4Couple
9 weeks ago

swansea

The ability to be able to have honest and sometimes hard conversations. Trust honesty and friendship,and great sex also helps.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
9 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

This is by no means exclusive

The needs of all individuals in the relationship are met ( e.g. one doesn't succeed at the expense of the other/s )

Each is supportive of the other/s

No one is critical of the other/s

Issues are discussed honestly with all

A healthy relationship is non-combatant - differences are settled through listening and understanding

No one is in charge, they each lead or will be led as times dictate

A healthy relationship is free from verbal, physical and psychological abuse

It is fuelled by love of the self and of the other/s

Each is honest in thought and deed.

No one is used objectively for the gain of any other. Each individual is viewed as a person in their own right.

One feels pleasure for any other that experiences success.

There is a lack of ( low level of ) jealousy , envy, ridicule or bitterness and each owns their own feelings

Everyone fucks each other and no one eats my hob nobs...... thanks

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

If both are content with how things are for the most part.

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By *ellinever70Woman
9 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"If both are content with how things are for the most part. "

I like the simplicity of this

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"This is by no means exclusive

The needs of all individuals in the relationship are met ( e.g. one doesn't succeed at the expense of the other/s )

Each is supportive of the other/s

No one is critical of the other/s

Issues are discussed honestly with all

A healthy relationship is non-combatant - differences are settled through listening and understanding

No one is in charge, they each lead or will be led as times dictate

A healthy relationship is free from verbal, physical and psychological abuse

It is fuelled by love of the self and of the other/s

Each is honest in thought and deed.

No one is used objectively for the gain of any other. Each individual is viewed as a person in their own right.

One feels pleasure for any other that experiences success.

There is a lack of ( low level of ) jealousy , envy, ridicule or bitterness and each owns their own feelings

Everyone fucks each other and no one eats my hob nobs...... thanks

"

Hats off to you I couldn’t have put it better if it tried 🙌

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
9 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Everyone wears a hat

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"Everyone wears a hat "

Not sure what that means 😂

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By *olfandtazCouple
9 weeks ago

Bristol

Communication

Honesty

More Communication

Trust

Loyalty

Commitment

And Communication

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
9 weeks ago

St Leonards

Well Mrs TwistyNips,

I would say that across nearly 8 billion humans (plus relationships across other species and phenomena), there's a wide variety of cognitive channels, and a wide variety of cultural channels, leading to different understandings of "health" and "relationship".

So a healthy relationship would be where two or more coincide "enough" with their own belief systems around the meaning of "health" and "relationship" for the shared experiences to tick enough boxes on a mostly ongoing basis, whether they're consciously aware of the process or not.

There's also "healthy relationship" with yourself, whereby our contradictions and paradoxes are integrated "enough" that we enjoy our time far more than worry during our time.

However, interestingly, people who have unhealthy relationships with themselves can often have healthy relationships with another (or more) if those people "top-up" the other person's unhealthiness into healthier modes of living.

I find that a bit codependent and dysfunctional, but I'm also fairly certain that unhealthy people benefit from others who have "extra-health" in the area(s) that are lacking, and although I think those relationships do better as temporary needs rather than lifelong codependencies, if it works, who am I to tell a passive floppy dweeb they have to become a bit more dynamic if the dynamism they need is filled by another (or other permutations) if they both get something out of it?

Makes me vom, but if others grow via it, it's better than feeling like poop.

So - a healthy relationship can be a whole range of things, but needs and desires need to coincide, even if one from a place of lack is topped up by one from a place of abundance.

We change though, so what was once healthy isn't guaranteed to be permanently healthy xxxx

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By *ansoffateMan
9 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Collaborative rather than competitive, broadly speaking.

Whether both people feel congruent in the relationship, is the perhaps the best way to measure it.

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By *udding RoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Somewhere out there


"Well Mrs TwistyNips,

I would say that across nearly 8 billion humans (plus relationships across other species and phenomena), there's a wide variety of cognitive channels, and a wide variety of cultural channels, leading to different understandings of "health" and "relationship".

So a healthy relationship would be where two or more coincide "enough" with their own belief systems around the meaning of "health" and "relationship" for the shared experiences to tick enough boxes on a mostly ongoing basis, whether they're consciously aware of the process or not.

There's also "healthy relationship" with yourself, whereby our contradictions and paradoxes are integrated "enough" that we enjoy our time far more than worry during our time.

However, interestingly, people who have unhealthy relationships with themselves can often have healthy relationships with another (or more) if those people "top-up" the other person's unhealthiness into healthier modes of living.

I find that a bit codependent and dysfunctional, but I'm also fairly certain that unhealthy people benefit from others who have "extra-health" in the area(s) that are lacking, and although I think those relationships do better as temporary needs rather than lifelong codependencies, if it works, who am I to tell a passive floppy dweeb they have to become a bit more dynamic if the dynamism they need is filled by another (or other permutations) if they both get something out of it?

Makes me vom, but if others grow via it, it's better than feeling like poop.

So - a healthy relationship can be a whole range of things, but needs and desires need to coincide, even if one from a place of lack is topped up by one from a place of abundance.

We change though, so what was once healthy isn't guaranteed to be permanently healthy xxxx"

This is very good, makes sense and I agree with it!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Tamworth


"Communication

Boundaries

Respect

Honesty"

Sums it up beautifully for me.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
9 weeks ago

Stoke


"Communication

Boundaries

Respect

Honesty"

Exactly this.

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By *holouk1970Man
9 weeks ago

Beckton

Respect, caring and good sex.

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By *erfHerder74Man
9 weeks ago

Greenock

Respect

Communication

Affection

Love making

Supporting each other

Lots of time together

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