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By *exandcoffee OP   Woman
19 weeks ago

Stamford

…had a couple of these messages lately. At first I thought “that’s nice to ask” but then I thought actually that’s a bit odd, because what if I say no? You’ll do it anyway? What do you guys think, and do you reply?

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By *hePleasurerMan
19 weeks ago

Cheshire

If your photos are on here, they're here to be seen, and if people want to get off on what they see, they will! Someone who asks that question isn't really asking that question, they're trying to get into your mind ("look at me, I'm wanking over your photo"). A bit manipulative, maybe?

P.S. Love that photo...

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Maybe he gets turned on by consent, and won't actually do it if you're not on board. Maybe he's just really really considerate. Who knows. 😇

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By *exykitten888Couple
19 weeks ago

Downpatrick

When we get messages like that we are very inclined to block them! We personally find it a bit creepy

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
19 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't like these messages, if rather I didn't know.

Mrs

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By *eordieJeansCouple
19 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Knock one and yourself out.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

I just pity them

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By *eyond PurityCouple
19 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We block people who message to say they are doing it. They could have easily knocked one out and not told us.

It’s not sexy at all when it’s a randomer - someone we know and C fancies would be a turn on.

K

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
19 weeks ago

Wherever

I keep blocking them midwank 🤷🏻‍♀️

Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

If I'm thinking of a specific real life friend when alone I often ask. I find it hotter if they are into both whatever I'm imagining and also the fact that I'm imagining them...

I generally find their reactions positive

Sadly () for Fabbers I don't use images in those moments.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

19 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I keep blocking them midwank 🤷🏻‍♀️

Sorry."

😂😂😂😂😂

But do you have to guestimate as to whether to hit the block button after 30 minutes or 30 seconds? 🤔🤷‍♂️

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By *ongandharderMan
19 weeks ago

Rotherham


"…had a couple of these messages lately. At first I thought “that’s nice to ask” but then I thought actually that’s a bit odd, because what if I say no? You’ll do it anyway? What do you guys think, and do you reply? "

Yeah seems silly to ask as they will do it either way

My pics are here if people wank over them hope they have fun

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By *olfandtazCouple
19 weeks ago

Bristol

We have had messages asking if it's OK to wank over our pics... normally it's a simple reply of crack on!

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By *siancouplehantsCouple
19 weeks ago

K-PAX


"We have had messages asking if it's OK to wank over our pics... normally it's a simple reply of crack on! "

Same here

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By *naswingdressWoman
19 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's a weird question. They're only asking because they want to involve you

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By *exandcoffee OP   Woman
19 weeks ago

Stamford

Didn’t even think of it being creepy, I find it kind of flattering that someone likes my photo. I’d never actually reply no, I just thought it was odd to ask.

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
19 weeks ago

Birmingham

Videos on here now so why photos a bit old fashioned I guess they are 🤣

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By *ib.Man
19 weeks ago

Hampshire

I've told people. I say it because I'm clearly interested and there's a possibility it's a compliment.

If you're putting sexually alluring pictures on the internet, it's pretty fair that someone who is attracted to them may get aroused by them. Bit bizarre to think otherwise.

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By *ase4122Man
19 weeks ago

Lancashire


"…had a couple of these messages lately. At first I thought “that’s nice to ask” but then I thought actually that’s a bit odd, because what if I say no? You’ll do it anyway? What do you guys think, and do you reply? "

Probably just trying to break the ice, maybe

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By *ris007Man
19 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

Only if have permission

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By *ou only live onceMan
19 weeks ago

London

No one's ever asked me...

😭

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By *reggSausageMan
19 weeks ago

derby

If permission kink is a thing then maybe it’s that, who knows the world is weird and wonderful

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
19 weeks ago

Wherever


"I keep blocking them midwank 🤷🏻‍♀️

Sorry.

😂😂😂😂😂

But do you have to guestimate as to whether to hit the block button after 30 minutes or 30 seconds? 🤔🤷‍♂️"

Usually the latter. I’m applying the scientific approach and my long time knowledge and I estimate they are on it already and they don’t last long.

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By *exandcoffee OP   Woman
19 weeks ago

Stamford


"I've told people. I say it because I'm clearly interested and there's a possibility it's a compliment.

If you're putting sexually alluring pictures on the internet, it's pretty fair that someone who is attracted to them may get aroused by them. Bit bizarre to think otherwise."

Bizarre indeed. I take it as a compliment. I wouldn’t actually say no.

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By *ewbootsandpanties99Man
19 weeks ago

Darkest South East Surrey

I think people might be over thinking this. There's an awful lot of people on here, singles and couples who make it known that they love tributes of their pics. As it's a stonking hot photo maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
19 weeks ago

Essex

I’m thinking maybe I’m weird

It doesn’t turn me on. People I know and fancy, yes. Randoms, no.

But whatever the kink - permission, getting replied to…. It doesn’t hurt me. As people have said - I have knowingly & willingly put my images out there.

I’ll reply. They’re happy. I’m happy. No harm done.

I actually quite like indulging a kink that doesn’t affect me.

And I have never received any kind of negative backlash from it.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
19 weeks ago

Stoke

Must get 5 a week, gets a bit tedious after a while.

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By *parkle1974Woman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

I delete and block, no point conversing with the creeps x

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By *lue morphoCouple
19 weeks ago

North West


"I keep blocking them midwank 🤷🏻‍♀️

Sorry."

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

19 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I think people might be over thinking this. There's an awful lot of people on here, singles and couples who make it known that they love tributes of their pics. As it's a stonking hot photo maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed. "

On that basis, unless it's stated in a profile, status update or forum post shouldnt it be assumed otherwise, because 'consent'? 🤔

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By *ib.Man
19 weeks ago

Hampshire


"I think people might be over thinking this. There's an awful lot of people on here, singles and couples who make it known that they love tributes of their pics. As it's a stonking hot photo maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed.

On that basis, unless it's stated in a profile, status update or forum post shouldnt it be assumed otherwise, because 'consent'? 🤔"

Consent to wank over a lude photo, publicly uploaded?

I've heard it all now.

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By *ib.Man
19 weeks ago

Hampshire

I hope you're playing devils advocate.

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By *adyBugsWoman
19 weeks ago

cognito

Usually just delete the message cos they probably wanked while sending it.

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By *rivateparts!Man
19 weeks ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I never get messages like that and I don't send messages like that either.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
19 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

I just block

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By *all me missWoman
19 weeks ago

South Wales

Go ahead….it’s exactly why my pic’s are here to be enjoyed by all

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By *ib.Man
19 weeks ago

Hampshire


"Go ahead….it’s exactly why my pic’s are here to be enjoyed by all "

To be fair - they are pretty decent.

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By *ewbootsandpanties99Man
19 weeks ago

Darkest South East Surrey


"I think people might be over thinking this. There's an awful lot of people on here, singles and couples who make it known that they love tributes of their pics. As it's a stonking hot photo maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed.

On that basis, unless it's stated in a profile, status update or forum post shouldnt it be assumed otherwise, because 'consent'? 🤔"

I'm a bit confused, are you saying that people shouldn't wank over publicly uploaded pictures because consent isn't given or are you saying they shouldn't send an unsolicited tribute to someone (which I totally agree with)? If so, isn't he asking for consent?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

19 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I think people might be over thinking this. There's an awful lot of people on here, singles and couples who make it known that they love tributes of their pics. As it's a stonking hot photo maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed.

On that basis, unless it's stated in a profile, status update or forum post shouldnt it be assumed otherwise, because 'consent'? 🤔

Consent to wank over a lude photo, publicly uploaded?

I've heard it all now.

"

Not what I said.

"maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed."

The sheer volume of single men asking to do this, and offering up photos of gf's, wives and partners who aren't on the site is actually quite sickening.

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By *ib.Man
19 weeks ago

Hampshire


"I think people might be over thinking this. There's an awful lot of people on here, singles and couples who make it known that they love tributes of their pics. As it's a stonking hot photo maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed.

On that basis, unless it's stated in a profile, status update or forum post shouldnt it be assumed otherwise, because 'consent'? 🤔

Consent to wank over a lude photo, publicly uploaded?

I've heard it all now.

Not what I said.

"maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed."

The sheer volume of single men asking to do this, and offering up photos of gf's, wives and partners who aren't on the site is actually quite sickening. "

That's... quite a different kettle of fish.

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By *naswingdressWoman
19 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think people might be over thinking this. There's an awful lot of people on here, singles and couples who make it known that they love tributes of their pics. As it's a stonking hot photo maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed.

On that basis, unless it's stated in a profile, status update or forum post shouldnt it be assumed otherwise, because 'consent'? 🤔

Consent to wank over a lude photo, publicly uploaded?

I've heard it all now.

Not what I said.

"maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed."

The sheer volume of single men asking to do this, and offering up photos of gf's, wives and partners who aren't on the site is actually quite sickening. "

Yeah. It's one of those things that's difficult to prove, but you see "wife chat" pop up a bit where the only people who seem to be participating and sharing stories and pictures are men. Some might have permission. I'd bet decent money that not all of them do

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By *essTTWoman
19 weeks ago

Birmingham


"…had a couple of these messages lately. At first I thought “that’s nice to ask” but then I thought actually that’s a bit odd, because what if I say no? You’ll do it anyway? What do you guys think, and do you reply? "

Block and delete

I find it really really weird

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

I have had a few too… usually delete, but recently I told one guy he could do what he wanted, the photos are public so knock your socks off!

Then he message saying could he send me a ‘tribute’, I told him I didn’t need to see him wanking over my photos!

Deleted 🤦‍♀️

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
19 weeks ago

Lincoln

Nobody ever wants to wank over my dick pics 😭😭

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"…had a couple of these messages lately. At first I thought “that’s nice to ask” but then I thought actually that’s a bit odd, because what if I say no? You’ll do it anyway? What do you guys think, and do you reply? "

They want you to say yes, then they'll ask can they send you a pic/vid of them doing it. Then it will be, will you send one back

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By *exandcoffee OP   Woman
19 weeks ago

Stamford


"…had a couple of these messages lately. At first I thought “that’s nice to ask” but then I thought actually that’s a bit odd, because what if I say no? You’ll do it anyway? What do you guys think, and do you reply?

They want you to say yes, then they'll ask can they send you a pic/vid of them doing it. Then it will be, will you send one back"

Ok that makes sense!

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
19 weeks ago

Debauchery

Asking to do something they’re going to do anyway, this falls in to the same newly-developed pet hate bucket as “can I ask a question?” 🤦🏼‍♂️

As you asked OP, what would the sender do if you just replied “No”?

Hades

x

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
19 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"I think people might be over thinking this. There's an awful lot of people on here, singles and couples who make it known that they love tributes of their pics. As it's a stonking hot photo maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed.

On that basis, unless it's stated in a profile, status update or forum post shouldnt it be assumed otherwise, because 'consent'? 🤔

Consent to wank over a lude photo, publicly uploaded?

I've heard it all now.

Not what I said.

"maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed."

The sheer volume of single men asking to do this, and offering up photos of gf's, wives and partners who aren't on the site is actually quite sickening. "

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By *naswingdressWoman
19 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Asking to do something they’re going to do anyway, this falls in to the same newly-developed pet hate bucket as “can I ask a question?” 🤦🏼‍♂️

As you asked OP, what would the sender do if you just replied “No”?

Hades

x

"

"Can I ask you a question" is so often a softener for "I'm going to ask you something extremely fucked up"

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
19 weeks ago

Reading

They like you knowing they are wanking over your photo. That's the thrill for them.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I tell them to knock themselves out, but I don't need a running commentary on it

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
19 weeks ago

Wolvo

As others have said it is a tad odd but i get the mentality behind it. I ignore messages of that sort. Not a rabbit hole I'm arsed to go down. Wank don't wank. Meh.

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By *ris007Man
19 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

Just uploaded a tribute.. have a look ladies of you want one get at me

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