FabSwingers.com forum: Kink

By *parkle1974 OP Woman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

What kink don't you "get"?

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By *oshrocksMan
19 weeks ago

Gloucester

"What kink don't you "get"?"

Feet

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By *asterfulsoulMan
19 weeks ago

Manchester

Denial is a kink I don't get

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By *igNick1381Man
19 weeks ago

BRIDGEND

A few

Scat / vomit

Sounding (jesus Christ)

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
19 weeks ago

Lincoln

Pain. Not for me 😇

LvM

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By *elix SightedMan
19 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Poop. It will always be poop.

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
19 weeks ago

Redditch

Poop

Feet

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

"Poop. It will always be poop. "

This 👆

🤢

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By *zeroMan
19 weeks ago

Glasgow

The whole daddy thing

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By *T89Man
19 weeks ago

Llandudno

Poo

Pain

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By *hunky GentMan
19 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

The 3 Ps.

Not for me.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
19 weeks ago

Wherever

Apart from the obvious, pet play.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
19 weeks ago

Reading

Aside from what everyone else has said, I don't understand degradation/humiliation.

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By *wannafreakyouMan
19 weeks ago

london

Poop

Feet

Men wearing women’s underwear

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By *vaRose43Woman
19 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Age play

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By *ealitybitesMan
19 weeks ago

Belfast

The one in my hosepipe no matter how well I roll it ffs

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By *aybickleyMan
19 weeks ago

bromley

Period play!

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

"The one in my hosepipe no matter how well I roll it ffs"

You need one of those stretchy ones

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

"What kink don't you "get"?

Feet

I've never seen a nice pair of feet yet

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

"A few

Scat / vomit

Sounding (jesus Christ)

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

"Pain. Not for me 😇

LvM"

Depends what level of pain for me

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

"Poop. It will always be poop. "

I think that's my No1

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

"Poop

Feet"

Agreed

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By *litpleaserMan
19 weeks ago

Oldham

Men in lingerie...WTF...

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

"The whole daddy thing"

That gives me a shudder!

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

"Apart from the obvious, pet play."

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By *eterandJaneadventuresCouple
19 weeks ago

Sutton

Women nude just in shoes , black tights and trainers on ladies

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

"Aside from what everyone else has said, I don't understand degradation/humiliation."

I think I'd end up punching someone in the face

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

Age play

That's another one I don't get too

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

"Period play!"

Too messy

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By *ex HolesMan
19 weeks ago

Up North

I refuse to shame the BBC dwarves

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

"Women nude just in shoes , black tights and trainers on ladies "

Is that a kink??

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By *lemFandango23TV/TS
19 weeks ago

Clarkston

Furniture play, human toilet/ashtray etc, puke, feet, I mean I can’t judge people as some of the ones people have listed here I have as a kink so each to there own

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

"Furniture play, human toilet/ashtray etc, puke, feet, I mean I can’t judge people as some of the ones people have listed here I have as a kink so each to there own"

The thread wasn't about judging more finding out the ones people don't get x

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By *litpleaserMan
19 weeks ago

Oldham

"The whole daddy thing

That gives me a shudder!"

It's creepy

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By *vaRose43Woman
19 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I’m not about to yuk someone else’s yum, but if anyone would like to share what about these kinks they love, I’d love to understand.

Yes I’m aware that the nature of kink and fetish doesn’t always have an explanation

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By *ir tootMan
19 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

[Removed by poster at 06/09/24 22:08:02]

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By *ir tootMan
19 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Poop

I dont understand this one, don't think i ever will

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By *orphia2003Woman
19 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Adult babies.

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By *olfandtazCouple
19 weeks ago

Bristol

Feet! There is nothing sexy about them

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Men cleaning up other guys cum

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By *litpleaserMan
19 weeks ago

Oldham

"Men cleaning up other guys cum"

Definitely wrong... just my opinion

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19 weeks ago

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By *agerMorganMan
19 weeks ago

Canvey Island

Daddy, I don’t understand.

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By *appytochatMan
19 weeks ago

Deep in the New Forest

"What kink don't you "get"?"
. The thing I see more of lately is women stuffing there knickers in their Vaginas. What is the appeal of this?

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By *asterfulsoulMan
19 weeks ago

Manchester

Monogamy

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

"Poop. It will always be poop.

I think that's my No1 "

Thank goodness I've never met anyone into 💩🤢

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Some great replies seen so far on here. I'd add spitting I don't get.

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By *ucka39Man
19 weeks ago

Newcastle

Ropes 😂🤣 seen far too many true crime

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By *riar BelisseWoman
19 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

All of the non legal ones

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By *ensualMan
19 weeks ago

Sutton

My problem with the whole "getting thing" is that it's a trope for acceptability and othering. Kink/Fetish/BDSM are not for other people to get.

Provided the acts are consensual, and the people taking part are enjoying themselves, there is no need for others to think about it. There is nothing to get. It's different strokes for different folks.

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
19 weeks ago

Debauchery

Poop. I understand the degradation side of being pooped on but just the thought makes me heave 🤮

A long time ago I never imagined that I would be enjoying some of the kinks that made me recoil at the time, but now they're part of who I am 🤷🏼‍♀️

Cherry x

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By *asterfulsoulMan
19 weeks ago

Manchester

"My problem with the whole "getting thing" is that it's a trope for acceptability and othering. Kink/Fetish/BDSM are not for other people to get.

In hindsight, I think that was the whole point. Just my opinion.

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
19 weeks ago

Debauchery

"Poop. I understand the degradation side of being pooped on but just the thought makes me heave 🤮

A long time ago I never imagined that I would be enjoying some of the kinks that made me recoil at the time, but now they're part of who I am 🤷🏼‍♀️

Cherry x

*but I wouldn't, couldn't poop play 🤢

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By *ags73Man
19 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Feet, poop, blood.

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By *ripfillMan
19 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Blokes in nappies WTF is that all about … ??????

Being kicked in the balls … why ????????

Needle play …. Omg …. Run a mile …..no thank you in a million Sundays

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By *rettCoolMan
19 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Woman in tights or stockings .. just love nylons .. a know shocking kink to have ..lol.

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By *ellroseWoman
19 weeks ago

Brum

The 3 p’s 🤮

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
19 weeks ago

Beverley

I don't consider scat, nappies etc kinks. It just a bunch of dirty twats doing horrible stuff

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

"My problem with the whole "getting thing" is that it's a trope for acceptability and othering. Kink/Fetish/BDSM are not for other people to get.

Maybe instead if get I should have used the word "understand"

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By *ex HolesMan
19 weeks ago

Up North

"The 3 p’s 🤮"

Piss poor performance??

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By *ex HolesMan
19 weeks ago

Up North

"I don't consider scat, nappies etc kinks. It just a bunch of dirty twats doing horrible stuff "

^^ that’s kink shaming if ever I’ve read it

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By *ellroseWoman
19 weeks ago

Brum

"The 3 p’s 🤮

Piss poor performance?? "

Nah that’s most men in general 🤣🤣

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By *hunky GentMan
19 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"The 3 p’s 🤮

Piss poor performance?? "

That's why I don't like them.

You see - I'm a stud.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Pony play

Claustrophilia

Klismaphilia

Katoptronophilia

Objectum Sexuality

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By *tticusukMan
19 weeks ago

Formby

Swinging

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By *ugh JerectionMan
19 weeks ago

Bolton

Antics that belong in the toilet and soley... the toilet. 😫

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By *ellroseWoman
19 weeks ago

Brum

"The 3 p’s 🤮

Piss poor performance??

That's why I don't like them.

You see - I'm a stud.

You are indeed CG ⭐️

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By *hunky GentMan
19 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"The 3 p’s 🤮

Piss poor performance??

That's why I don't like them.

You see - I'm a stud.

You are indeed CG ⭐️"

One does one's best

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By *untobehadMan
19 weeks ago

Wellingborough

I don’t get Daddy Daughter kink it’s wrong !

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By *appyhumper123Man
19 weeks ago

hull

Ass licking, I mean WTF

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By *eordieJeansCouple
19 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Being restrained. Like what do you mean we’re going to have sex and you’re going to tie me up so I can’t touch your boobs.

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
19 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

"What kink don't you "get"?"

Scat... Just doing it on each other or eating it.. Nope I'll never get that..

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Tentacle stuff

Quirofilia

Figging

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By *iddle ManMan
19 weeks ago

Walsall

Quite a few.

For me, pain. I don't mind a bit of spanking, but some people I had seen. My days, drawing blood. I just don't get it.

Should be about pleasure, not pain.

I guess it is a big world and we are all different.

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By *izzymonkeyMan
18 weeks ago

Hiding In A Bush

"What kink don't you "get"?"

The one where people dress as and want to pretend they are babies

wtaf

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By *oubleswing2019Man
18 weeks ago

Colchester

I don't think there is any kink I "don't get". Because a kink is a desire, and in some cases also a need. And I understand that people desire things and sometimes need them.

Everything is underpinned. It has a driver.

I find the "why" educational and informative and it helps me grow.

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By *hilmeup85Man
18 weeks ago

Glasgow

Poop and blood

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Scat

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By *oubleswing2019Man
18 weeks ago

Colchester

"Quite a few.

For me, pain. I don't mind a bit of spanking, but some people I had seen. My days, drawing blood. I just don't get it.

Should be about pleasure, not pain.

I guess it is a big world and we are all different. "

There's a very deep and well understood reason behind this.

When the human body is subjected to pain, it releases endorphins to quell the pain.

We all have a little bit stored on "standby", ready in case we hurt ourselves.

As soon as that is used, the body will slowly make more endorphins to replenish its supply.

If the body encounters more duress very shortly in this period, the brain thinks "Uh Oh, better more more endorphins quickly"

We can then stimulate the brain to release this larger pool once it accumulates. More feel good chemicals are released, and the tolerance threshold is raised.

Keep doing this over say 30-60 mins and the person will be so flooded with endorphins they will enter an altered state, approaching euphoria.

There's a lot more it than that, but essentially the pain is a means unto an end. It gets a person from A to B, and B is what they are after.

It just needs considerable skill and care to do safely.

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By *agatoXXXMan
18 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

"The 3 Ps.

Not for me. "

Pies, pancakes & pastries?🤔

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