FabSwingers.com forum: STOP MEN

By *AURUS 85 OP Man
10 weeks ago

CHESHIRE, BIRMINGHAM & MANCHESTER

Does anyone know how I get men to stop looking at my profile & messaging me ?

Am not gay & have no interest in men

Sick of the messages

Does anyone know how to do it from settings etc

I have tried but with no luck

Any help would be appreciated

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
10 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Messages. Menu. Message filters 💜

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By *parkle1974Woman
10 weeks ago

Leeds

What prey just said

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By *aomilatteCouple
10 weeks ago

Midlands

Go to

Account

Message settings

Male - block them

Easily done

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By *irthandgirthMan
10 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"Messages. Menu. Message filters 💜"

Beat me to it.

I will add that you can't stop who views you or fabs your pics.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
10 weeks ago

East Sussex

You will need to block the ones who have already messaged you individually.

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By *ex HolesMan
10 weeks ago

Up North

Go to the cams room mate, press settings, then show your japs eye into the camera then press block men.

It worked for me recently

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

Send them over to me OP. I have far too much Gin and few menfolk with whom to imbibe with.

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By *partharmonyCouple
10 weeks ago

Ruislip

Why do you care if they look at your profile? Surely it's only the messages that are a problem to you?

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
10 weeks ago

Always on the move

You get views AND messages! Show off

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By *naswingdressWoman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

You can stop messages from men by going to your profile settings and set up who you want messages from.

You can stop men Fabbing your pictures by turning off Fabs

You can stop men looking at your profile by hiding it or deleting it.

You can learn to ignore some of these things if they bother you.

I am not advocating for or against any of these positions, but these are the options you have.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
10 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Go unlos 🤣🤣

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By *oneyDukesCouple
10 weeks ago

The Pleasure Dome

Why does having men look at you bother you?

Woody.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I've had to block women from messaging me. All I get is fanny pics... gets so annoying!

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By *ongAndThick123Man
10 weeks ago

Leeds

"You will need to block the ones who have already messaged you individually. "

Yes but only if he has replied to them. If he’s never replied then the filter will work.

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By *hrek101Man
10 weeks ago

Herts

"Why do you care if they look at your profile? Surely it's only the messages that are a problem to you?"

Don't you know that's how you catch the ghey... 🤦🏽‍♂️

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Wibble

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By *s-two-75Couple
10 weeks ago

Rugeley

"Does anyone know how I get men to stop looking at my profile & messaging me ?

Am not gay & have no interest in men

Sick of the messages

Does anyone know how to do it from settings etc

I have tried but with no luck

Any help would be appreciated

Must be the Lnyx Africa effect

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By *AURUS 85 OP Man
10 weeks ago

CHESHIRE, BIRMINGHAM & MANCHESTER

Yes it’s the messages

Cock pics with messages like can I suck you off etc

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By *r John WickMan
10 weeks ago

The Continental

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By *r John WickMan
10 weeks ago

The Continental

Block them, use the filters available.

It’s really simple.

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By *AURUS 85 OP Man
10 weeks ago

CHESHIRE, BIRMINGHAM & MANCHESTER

They can look all they want

It’s the daft messages

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
10 weeks ago

East Sussex

"They can look all they want

It’s the daft messages "

You just need to set your mail filters then as recommended above

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By *uckingFutzMan
10 weeks ago

Plymouth

But you're tempted tho aren't you pmsl!! Just ignore it and don't let it bother you! Delete and block if needed

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By *oneyDukesCouple
10 weeks ago

The Pleasure Dome

"Block them, use the filters available.

It’s really simple."

But that doesn’t stop guys from looking at you though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
10 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Block them, use the filters available.

It’s really simple.

But that doesn’t stop guys from looking at you though.

He doesn't mind them looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"You get views AND messages! Show off"

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By *r John WickMan
10 weeks ago

The Continental

"Block them, use the filters available.

It’s really simple.

But that doesn’t stop guys from looking at you though.

True, but then I’m not bothered by that.

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By *uckingFutzMan
10 weeks ago

Plymouth

"You get views AND messages! Show off

And this is why I don't turn mine off pmsl - if I see a view it makes me happy lol

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By *AURUS 85 OP Man
10 weeks ago

CHESHIRE, BIRMINGHAM & MANCHESTER

I have Changed the settings on message filters

Hopefully that’s the end of it

Thanks to all your help was much appreciated

Happy fabbing everyone

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By *r John WickMan
10 weeks ago

The Continental

"I have Changed the settings on message filters

Hopefully that’s the end of it

Thanks to all your help was much appreciated

Happy fabbing everyone "

Nah too late, I already had a look at you.

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By *AURUS 85 OP Man
10 weeks ago

CHESHIRE, BIRMINGHAM & MANCHESTER

Have done , Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"Send them over to me OP. I have far too much Gin and few menfolk with whom to imbibe with."

I like gin!

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By *imply DeeWoman
10 weeks ago

Wherever

You don’t need to meet them all, you know.

Chill.

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By *r John WickMan
10 weeks ago

The Continental

Aww no, I can’t look at the blank profile again.

I’m wounded.

Or maybe I can just use the many other profiles I have to check you out instead

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
10 weeks ago

South West London

Regarding stopping men from looking at your profile and fabbing your pictures, you probably have to block every single men which maybe time consuming but I do it anyways. As for messages from men that you want to stop there's filters for that

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By *odgerMooreMan
10 weeks ago

Carlisle

I think Rex is on the right track above - i went on cam - showed me rusty sheriffs badge and presto - everyone blocked me!!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
10 weeks ago

Leeds

"Yes it’s the messages

Cock pics with messages like can I suck you off etc "

Men are gross OP (#notallmen) just use your filters as said above it'll stop them messaging.

Welcome to the life of a woman on fab!

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
10 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Have done , Thanks"

Good!

Women are advised to do this all the time

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
10 weeks ago

Reading

"I've had to block women from messaging me. All I get is fanny pics... gets so annoying!"

Sorry i thought you like it

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By *8on33Man
10 weeks ago

winfrith

He is now fab straight

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By *elix SightedMan
10 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"Does anyone know how I get men to stop looking at my profile & messaging me ?

Am not gay & have no interest in men

Sick of the messages

Does anyone know how to do it from settings etc

I have tried but with no luck

Any help would be appreciated

OP it’s also worth checking your “looking for” tile in your account. If you have accidentally ticked the M box you’ll be appearing in their searches and on their local updates. Uncheck that and you’re highly unlikely to get views as well.

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By *urry BlokeMan
10 weeks ago

Stalybridge

There's nothing to look at

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By *erfHerder74Man
10 weeks ago

Greenock

Tbh you sound homophobic

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
10 weeks ago

the moon

ignore …. But you my friend may have just opened a can of worms 😂 …..I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s raining men for you right now .. 😃

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Herts

Just don’t say fill in later on your profile. Men see that as an instruction.

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By *issmorganWoman
10 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"Just don’t say fill in later on your profile. Men see that as an instruction. "

This made me smile.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
10 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"Does anyone know how I get men to stop looking at my profile & messaging me ?

Am not gay & have no interest in men

Sick of the messages

Does anyone know how to do it from settings etc

I have tried but with no luck

Any help would be appreciated

How strange 🤔

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By *issmorganWoman
10 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Op there's not much for anyone to see on your profile anyway.

You can't stop men from looking, just block them.

I'm not interested in couples and they still look, but I have them blocked. To be fair they won't know that you're straight untill they look at your profile though.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
10 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"There's nothing to look at "

Exactly 😑

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
10 weeks ago

Lincoln

We are... inevitable 😎

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Men are where most of my fabs come from, I’m not biting the hand that feeds me

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By *ryton 123TV/TS
10 weeks ago

Chatham

To be honest the profile pretty useless.

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By *inceIlkestonMan
10 weeks ago

Ilkeston

read the flipping manual!

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By *AURUS 85 OP Man
10 weeks ago

CHESHIRE, BIRMINGHAM & MANCHESTER

That’s why you keep messaging you fool !!

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By *AURUS 85 OP Man
10 weeks ago

CHESHIRE, BIRMINGHAM & MANCHESTER

First read what I have written

It’s not the seeing it’s the messages

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
10 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"First read what I have written

It’s not the seeing it’s the messages "

Taurus - click on the Quote in the Reply+Quote link to show who you are responding to.

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By *AURUS 85 OP Man
10 weeks ago

CHESHIRE, BIRMINGHAM & MANCHESTER

All sorted, thanks for the help

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By *arksidedMan
10 weeks ago

Gwent

Im just going to look at your profile now

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
10 weeks ago

Essex

"Im just going to look at your profile now

I did

There’s 15 seconds of my life I’m never getting back (that’s what she said 🤣)

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By *appy easy goingMan
10 weeks ago

Durham

I’m not gay but often look at men for my girlfriend and then try to message them. She likes them big so I then try and message. It isn’t always what you think it is.

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By *HUSH-Man
10 weeks ago

London

Just use filters to stop unwanted messages. As for fabs you can turn off the ability for people to fab your photos but it applies to everyone.

Personally I don’t care who fabs my pictures. Sometimes it’s nice to be appreciated

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
10 weeks ago

chichester

"Messages. Menu. Message filters 💜"

This

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
10 weeks ago

District 13

"Messages. Menu. Message filters 💜"

This 🤷🏽‍♂️

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By *ascaIMan
10 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

Resisted attempting to message you but had a very thorough look at your profile.

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