FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging mistakes

By *upersonic Sam OP Man
10 weeks ago

wigan

Have you made many? I only recall one in my 10 years on the scene (8 as a couple)

We were full swap and always did everything together. One night at a club celebrating my partners birthday I wanted to treat her. Toward the end of the night I told her to pick a single guy and go play alone in a room together. She picked a really nice guy and off they went. We had never done solo play.

That was the worst hour of my life, sat alone wondering if she was ok, what was going on and when she would be back. The hour felt like an entire nighttime . I found a boundary that I never knew I had but sadly once the wheels were in motion it was unstoppable.

So what mistakes have you made? Did you find a limit or boundary that you never knew existed for you? Did it change your approach to the scene?

By *inAndTonic21Couple
10 weeks ago

Merseyside

Ah I read this and got tears in my eyes - it’s a lovely thing to do but I can feel your worry in the post.

Couples swinging can have such issues for sure. Well done for sharing

My only mistake to date was sending a pic from a meet without checking that hubby was ok to see it and it shocked him

By *rpeggioCouple
10 weeks ago

Baughurst

Would not say mistakes, more like things we learnt not to work for us, like agreeing to a split swap with another couple (one of us full swapped, the other only soft-swapped) in the same room at the same time. We found out that it made the play unbalanced in many ways, left us both unsatisfied and saying "never again".

By *acksparrow99Man
10 weeks ago

London

I expected too much from one partner. She was ok fucking with an MF couple or many guys at once, but she never liked solo women joining us and did not like the women I liked. So I decided to have more than one partner and found another swinging partner who loves FFM, but does not like too many guys (3 at once is her limit).

By *randMrsLPCouple
10 weeks ago

london

I/male have a regret not a mistake - not leving my wife along with more guys as she alsmost got fucked when i did.

We both agree that after a meet, me a Cuk - we had a wonderful day.

The "mistake" i guess is we did not start out soon after awe got married