FabSwingers.com forum: Is it just me…

By *enegadeM OP Man
25 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Morning fabber-lous people

I was just wondering if it’s just me that finds yourself down the rabbit hole of veris?

Am I too nosey? I just love reading about the exciting fun people get up to..not with too much detail but to get the imagination going …

But then you find more and more sexy profiles which you may never have found

Just me?

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By *a LunaWoman
25 weeks ago

South Wales

No!

I like to read veries for a number of reasons….

1. I’m a nosey biatch

2. I like to see what body types they seem to have a preference for.

3. For the humour (some veries are very witty)

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Similar to La Lunas reply above…

We also like to read them to see how they got the verifications…

Actual meets, Cam or Club etc.

Helps to know how they play and that they are actual people and not fakes!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
25 weeks ago

Tamworth

I’m similar to Luna, it’s useful to see if I match the kind of people they’ve played with previously to gauge if they might be interested in me.

I also like to see what kind of veris people leave - if they’re very sexualised I find that a bit off putting.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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25 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Reading verification trails can be interesting and a useful tool.

You can sometimes spot things that set off alarm bells as well as getting an insight into someone's preferences and personalities.

Often you learn more about the person leaving the veri than you do the profile owner it's left on.

Always worth remembering though, it's not TripAdvisor and one person's view on someone won't necessarily be the same as another's. Consistency is the thing I look for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I'm not a massive fan of veris. They are useful in terms of knowing that someone is "real" and can/does meet etc

But I've found that they can be incredibly misleading as well

I'm also not a fan of the terribly explicit ones to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I don’t read profiles, what’s the chance of me reading their verifications??….😏

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I do read veris and have been turned off people by following a verification trail. I don't like showing veris but happy to share if I am asked.

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By *eliWoman
25 weeks ago

I've never read a veri and found it sexy.

I quite enjoy veri trails.

I don't display any that hint at sex. People are nosy so and so's. Like me. :D

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By *enegadeM OP Man
25 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Just to be clear ..I don’t read them to make judgment as I believe a veri is specific for the interaction with that one person … so the next meet can be completely different … I just enjoy the tales of what fun people get up to… I guess it’s my intrigue of the ‘world of fab’ and how peoples use is different

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By *ea monkeyMan
25 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

I find it interesting that people seem to assume that a person has ‘a type’ and then ascribe whether or not they would be interested in them according to their self perception.

There are a lot of flaws in this line of thinking

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By *enegadeM OP Man
25 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"I find it interesting that people seem to assume that a person has ‘a type’ and then ascribe whether or not they would be interested in them according to their self perception.

There are a lot of flaws in this line of thinking "

I agree with this…. Meets are varied …unless maybe every veri is same?

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Think this opens your mind and broadens your horizons and makes you want to live life

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By *irthandgirthMan
25 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I pay less attention to the content than the sender. It can help gauge if I am what they are looking for, and therefore if I will make effort to engage.

All veris from gangbangs? No thanks.

Mostly from black guys? Probably won't be interested in me.

All from couples? See above.

All from cams? Unlikely to meet.

There is also a lot more you can infer from who a person chooses to meet, but that will change from person to person depending on their own values and standards.

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By *irthandgirthMan
25 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"I find it interesting that people seem to assume that a person has ‘a type’ and then ascribe whether or not they would be interested in them according to their self perception.

There are a lot of flaws in this line of thinking "

Many people have preferences. If soneone has a sample size of veris then it is possible to make some inferences, especially when you combine it with profile text.

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By *enegadeM OP Man
25 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

I guess my use of them is to see the’fab antics’ …. Rather than judging people from them….

The swinging world and how it operates….

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By *eyond PurityCouple
25 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I always end up about 5 veris deeper reading one and then following trails.

I like to read what they’ve wrote about someone too as that’s important too - too graphic and that can be off putting.

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By *ffervescentMan
25 weeks ago

winfrith

"Morning fabber-lous people

I was just wondering if it’s just me that finds yourself down the rabbit hole of veris?

Am I too nosey? I just love reading about the exciting fun people get up to..not with too much detail but to get the imagination going …

But then you find more and more sexy profiles which you may never have found

Just me?

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Its just you ,sorry

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By *enegadeM OP Man
25 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"Morning fabber-lous people

I was just wondering if it’s just me that finds yourself down the rabbit hole of veris?

Am I too nosey? I just love reading about the exciting fun people get up to..not with too much detail but to get the imagination going …

But then you find more and more sexy profiles which you may never have found

Just me?

Its just you ,sorry"

Damn I must learn to control myself…sorry to have bothered you all

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By *anchesterGuy1Man
25 weeks ago

Manchester

"No!

I like to read veries for a number of reasons….

1. I’m a nosey biatch

2. I like to see what body types they seem to have a preference for.

3. For the humour (some veries are very witty)"

Yeah I very much look because of these reasons too lol

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
25 weeks ago

Tamworth

"I find it interesting that people seem to assume that a person has ‘a type’ and then ascribe whether or not they would be interested in them according to their self perception.

There are a lot of flaws in this line of thinking "

It’s definitely not an exact science and I wouldn’t use it that way if they’ve messaged first. But if I see they’ve got a particular type and I don’t match it, it might discourage me from messaging first.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
25 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Oh I love reading a good verification or two of they are unintentionally funny.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

If I'm not totally committed from their messaging, then I'll check their veries and then message someone that I know on there

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