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By *_Mr.K_x OP   Man
10 weeks ago

North Worcestershire

Hi,

Has anyone done this or know in what context I might be referring to?

How did it make you feel? How did you approach the subject of doing it or does it just happen naturally?

If you have a partner/sub/fwb... whatever your dynamic... have you openly given them the 'green light' to see other people and then how do you feel about it afterwards?

Hence... 're-claiming' being a thing.

Just curious to know

Happy fabbing all!

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By *_Mr.K_x OP   Man
10 weeks ago

North Worcestershire

And also, has this gone wrong for anyone in the past?

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By *ea monkeyMan
10 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

I dislike the term and thought behind reclaiming someone as it denotes ownership. Reunion though, the act of you both returning to each other and expressing your desire for each other, that’s very erotic

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
10 weeks ago

manchester


"I dislike the term and thought behind reclaiming someone as it denotes ownership. Reunion though, the act of you both returning to each other and expressing your desire for each other, that’s very erotic"

Not thought about this. You make a great point

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By *orkshirecouple69 returnCouple
10 weeks ago

doncaster

It’s a electric feeling, the best sex ever reclaiming your wife

Especially if he’s come in or on her face

Something we’d only do with a trusted regular

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

We use the term "reconnecting" since reclaiming indicates we lost each other at some point.

It's always very intimate.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I’ll brand her again when she comes home. 😏

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago


"We use the term "reconnecting" since reclaiming indicates we lost each other at some point.

It's always very intimate."

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By *ackandsashaCouple
10 weeks ago

West Dublin

On the rare occasion Sasha has fun without me, as soon as possible we jump into bed and fuck. She will wait until I am inside her, before she tells me everything she did. I always cum so hard.

I dont know if it's "reclaiming", but it's amazing for both of us.

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By *_Mr.K_x OP   Man
10 weeks ago

North Worcestershire


"I dislike the term and thought behind reclaiming someone as it denotes ownership. Reunion though, the act of you both returning to each other and expressing your desire for each other, that’s very erotic"

Hence the ' - ' air quotes over the title 'Re-Claiming' but I understand your response.

I think I'm the Dom/sub sense, reclaiming of ownership is perhaps more understandable.

For a couple, yes.. I agree entirely with what you're saying as there's no sense of ownership.

All depends on the dynamic I suppose

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By *_Mr.K_x OP   Man
10 weeks ago

North Worcestershire

*In

Not I'm... my phone has a habit of really weird typos

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By *herry delightWoman
10 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I have a FWB that really enjoys taking me to a club so he can watch and then reclaim me. The sex after is fantastic as the more of a slut I am the more he enjoys reclaim me. X

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By *ea monkeyMan
10 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I dislike the term and thought behind reclaiming someone as it denotes ownership. Reunion though, the act of you both returning to each other and expressing your desire for each other, that’s very erotic

Hence the ' - ' air quotes over the title 'Re-Claiming' but I understand your response.

I think I'm the Dom/sub sense, reclaiming of ownership is perhaps more understandable.

For a couple, yes.. I agree entirely with what you're saying as there's no sense of ownership.

All depends on the dynamic I suppose"

I got you. It’s the term in general that I feel has connotations, not your use of it in this context

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By *_Mr.K_x OP   Man
10 weeks ago

North Worcestershire

Nah I get that bud. The dynamic I'm involved with I think would benefit from this element of 're-claiming'

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By *iker JackMan
10 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

When I have been in a swinging relationship re claiming for me is huge.

It’s part of it and can be quite carnal or slower and more passionate

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Mmm we love it 😀

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By *ellhungvweMan
10 weeks ago

Cheltenham

It’s not a term I have heard recently but it used to be used a lot in the past. From what I have been told by couples it is incredibly intense and is often the thing that drives them to play more.

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By *aTina HeadTurnerWoman
10 weeks ago

Travelling


"Nah I get that bud. The dynamic I'm involved with I think would benefit from this element of 're-claiming'"

What does your partner think?

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By *odgerMooreMan
10 weeks ago

Carlisle

Available for the ‘cumming on the face’ part of many of these scenarios… inbox is open…. Covered in cobwebs and a variety of insects and vegetation - but pm me anyway

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By *_Mr.K_x OP   Man
10 weeks ago

North Worcestershire


"Nah I get that bud. The dynamic I'm involved with I think would benefit from this element of 're-claiming'

What does your partner think?"

She's of the same mentality. The flexibility to play together and with others, but also the freedom to play away.. AS LONG as at the earliest available opportunity we 're-claim' each other and reassure each other that the best times are with each other.

That's the sort of thing that has recently made it into our conversations

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By *usty kayWoman
10 weeks ago

Burnham

Reclaiming or reconnecting is the most important part of our swinging life.

There is something amazing about being back in each others arm being intimate while sharing everything one or the other of us has been up to. It's why I let my husband be with other women.

I have recently been surprised to find this dynamic with a second playmate so am now having to process the impact of that. Its always just been something between my husband and myself so this is a little strange for me atm.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
10 weeks ago

Stoke

We reclaimed each other on Sunday morning after our meet on Saturday night.

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