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By *ust want fun 888 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

nearby

Just wondering, I am blind and am on my second guide dog. My first, lived to a healthy 17 years and I’m now on my second which I’ve had for 8 1/2 years, he is approaching 10.

My question is, has anyone lost a pet to cancer as unfortunately my second has cancer now and probably a couple of weeks to live, his harness has been hung up and left to enjoy what time he has left. What were your feelings when they died as this is the first that I may have to put down?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
10 weeks ago

Reading

I have put 2 elderly cats down. In both cases I stayed with them as the died so they wouldn't go alone. I felt I owed to them. You are doing a great kindness which not every owner is brave enough to do.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
10 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'm very sorry to hear about your dog. You're doing the best thing for him and I hope the two of you can spend some quality time together in the next few weeks.

We've had to take two of our cats on their final journey. It's sad, extremely so. We talk about them a lot still and have good memories.

Best wishes to you both

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By *ust want fun 888 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

nearby


"I have put 2 elderly cats down. In both cases I stayed with them as the died so they wouldn't go alone. I felt I owed to them. You are doing a great kindness which not every owner is brave enough to do. "

Thank you for that, both of them were great to me and for me and I feel this is the right thing to do, not let him suffer

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Feel your loss, I lost my two dogs last April due to old age, had to have them put to sleep and the vet asked me which one first I was heart broken, but unfortunately, no one ever feels the same way as you do about your own dog.

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By *ust want fun 888 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

nearby


"I'm very sorry to hear about your dog. You're doing the best thing for him and I hope the two of you can spend some quality time together in the next few weeks.

We've had to take two of our cats on their final journey. It's sad, extremely so. We talk about them a lot still and have good memories.

Best wishes to you both "

Thank you

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By *aleforfun22Man
10 weeks ago

Lancashire

I no where your coming from op i had a Rottweiler she was my best friend she had trouble walking in her back leg.took her to the vet he said she had cancer in her leg.he said he could amputate her leg after the weekend.took her in on the monday morning and the cancer had spread.he said we could take her home but she might not live over a week or he could put her to sleep there and then.the hardest decision ive had to make was ten years ago and still upsets me now.i hope your ok op thinking of you

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By *ust want fun 888 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

nearby


"I no where your coming from op i had a Rottweiler she was my best friend she had trouble walking in her back leg.took her to the vet he said she had cancer in her leg.he said he could amputate her leg after the weekend.took her in on the monday morning and the cancer had spread.he said we could take her home but she might not live over a week or he could put her to sleep there and then.the hardest decision ive had to make was ten years ago and still upsets me now.i hope your ok op thinking of you "

That’s exactly the same type of thing, he was perfectly okay a couple of weeks ago and now tumours are popping up left right and centre, thanks for that anyway

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By *929Man
10 weeks ago

newcastle

Sorry about your dog mate it’s one of the worst thing anyone can go through

Lost a few over the years (6 if include family dogs as a child) never to cancer though most were put to sleep due to poor mobility causing them pain in old age, all hurt but worst was the Jack Russell I got for Christmas when I was 9 and the springer we had

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By *obilebottomMan
10 weeks ago

All over

So sad and hard to bear. Any of us that had beloved pets can understand that. For you being a vonstant companion and supporting you can only be quote horrendous but the right thing to do not to let them suffer. You take good care of both of you

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By *ust want fun 888 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

nearby


"Sorry about your dog mate it’s one of the worst thing anyone can go through

Lost a few over the years (6 if include family dogs as a child) never to cancer though most were put to sleep due to poor mobility causing them pain in old age, all hurt but worst was the Jack Russell I got for Christmas when I was 9 and the springer we had "

Thank you

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By *ust want fun 888 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

nearby


"So sad and hard to bear. Any of us that had beloved pets can understand that. For you being a vonstant companion and supporting you can only be quote horrendous but the right thing to do not to let them suffer. You take good care of both of you "

Thanks for that, at my age I dare say, my next dog will be probably the last anyway

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By *aleforfun22Man
10 weeks ago

Lancashire


"I no where your coming from op i had a Rottweiler she was my best friend she had trouble walking in her back leg.took her to the vet he said she had cancer in her leg.he said he could amputate her leg after the weekend.took her in on the monday morning and the cancer had spread.he said we could take her home but she might not live over a week or he could put her to sleep there and then.the hardest decision ive had to make was ten years ago and still upsets me now.i hope your ok op thinking of you

That’s exactly the same type of thing, he was perfectly okay a couple of weeks ago and now tumours are popping up left right and centre, thanks for that anyway"
it seams to spread a lot quicker with a dog for some reason hope you get some more memories with yours op stay strong and if you ever want a chat op your not alone il chat with you.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
10 weeks ago

North West

Yes lost my dog called Ben 2 years ago. Still hurts to be honest

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By *issmorganWoman
10 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm so sorry to hear this op.

Yes a cat I had a few years ago who had a tumour in her throat.

I had her pts when her quality of life started to reduce,it was the kindest thing for her.

I was really sad when I did it, as I'd had her from being v young.

I was glad she wasn't suffering though. You will know when the time is right.

Sending you a big hug op🫂it's so hard to let our furry friends go.

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By *ust want fun 888 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

nearby

As I’m only popping in and out of the site at the moment, just want to say thanks to all who have left kind messages, thank you all

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By *exxyyDy11Man
10 weeks ago

North West

My condolences and my love. Pets are part of the family.

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By *dam1971Man
10 weeks ago

Bedford

Really sorry to hear this. When someone at work lost their pet he took compassionate leave just as if it were a family member.

In fact they’ve often closer than some of the family and won’t let you down like some people do.

I hope you can enjoy your time together.

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By *ark n kimCouple
10 weeks ago

Durham

I am 6,3 18 stone and really not a soft man, but cried like a 12 year old girl when our dog died. We had him for 16 years.

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By *rBobbMan
10 weeks ago

Birmingham

So sorry to hear your news Op. I recently lost my 16 year old Springer. It still breaks my heart now.

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By *endalshaggersCouple
10 weeks ago

Kendal

Yes, we lost our first rabbit who had to be put down on boxing day. Only discovered he had cancer/tumour right in his airway a week or so before at a routine checkup. No point in operating as they said chances of death on the table were extremely high due to his age and where the tumour was. Had to have him put down on boxing day as he was genuinely struggling to breathe. It was so sad and it's taken us months to get to a point we felt we could house another. We've now got two rabbits, one who is half deaf and blind in one eye, and hope he would approve of them although we still miss him so much.

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By *oodmessMan
10 weeks ago

yumsville

As it happens, today OP. Mine was diagnosed 5 months ago, given 1-6 months or 141 days, he lasted 152 I think. You know when it's time, though I don't think it was the cancer that had him, as he had other issues. One week ago he was walking fine, 3 days ago, he was wobbly falling unable to find his feet, to the next being straight legged, not knowing which way was forward. His fight was over.

Radio/Chemotherapy would have stole his energy and any good months he had left, he wouldn't have been the same dog. Money wasn't the concern it's the fact mri's are needed before and after, meaning anaesthetics, which when you are needing minimum 6 high doses is quite a lot, any no guaranteed outcome. You'll know when he needs your help. My best.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
10 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Humongous feelings of guilt OP. The "what if" question still plays heavily on my mind. I know I did the right thing for him, but it will always feel like the wrong thing for me. Its been a few years now and as each year passes, the pain dulls a little more. Being loved unconditionally and having that love taken away from me, by me, Is the hardest thing I've ever been through.

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By *appytochatMan
10 weeks ago

Deep in the New Forest

It's the worst feeling ever. Had a 14yr old Labrador that had bladder cancer. Because of the cancer he constantly felt like he needed to go for a wee. There was no way I was walking him into the vets to be put down. So had the vet come to my house. Less stress on the dog and just felt a nicer way for him to pass. Hardest decision to make but also the kindest.

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By *ust want fun 888 OP   Man
10 weeks ago

nearby

again, thank you for all your replies, at least I have an idea of what to expect.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
10 weeks ago

Bedworth

Last year we had to help three of our elderly cats on their final journey, all in the space of 6 months. I can tell you, it was awful!

When you have any sentient being in your life for a long time, they become more than pets, they become part of your family. We grieve for them the same way as we do our human family members. But when that time comes to say goodbye, it really is the final act of love that you can give them

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By *arker secrets 321Man
10 weeks ago

West Bromwich

Op my heart gos out 2 u my friend .it never gets any easier my dog died in April he was only 7years old .iv also ad the heartbreak of avin 2 av my orther dog put 2 sleep on my birthday few years ago..only conserlation is uv loved each dog and they've loved u x

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