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"So how often do you spot someone from Fab and think should I say hello… or is that a weird thing to do ? Maybe it’s even weirder as they currently have clothes on and seem to be married " We don’t normally say anything, it’s not the etiquette. | |||
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"Number one Fab rule: don’t say anything in public. " This. Not cool to approach people when they’re living their lives away from fab. We all deserve privacy and space. Filth can be scheduled. | |||
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"Number one Fab rule: don’t say anything in public. This. Not cool to approach people when they’re living their lives away from fab. We all deserve privacy and space. Filth can be scheduled." Yep. | |||
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"Don’t think I ever seen another fab member out and about, if I did I wouldn’t say anything" I have once. A guy who I'd met at a big social suddenly turned up at my gym. I decided not to chat to him about arranging a threesome at the squat rack. | |||
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"Don’t think I ever seen another fab member out and about, if I did I wouldn’t say anything I have once. A guy who I'd met at a big social suddenly turned up at my gym. I decided not to chat to him about arranging a threesome at the squat rack." Omg weird | |||
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"So just to ask the etiquette, you’ve met them before and they fucked your partner and now you see them around town ? Knowing smile or completely ignored ? " Maybe as much as a smile, but something they can deny. Maybe you're just friendly. | |||
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"Don’t think I ever seen another fab member out and about, if I did I wouldn’t say anything I have once. A guy who I'd met at a big social suddenly turned up at my gym. I decided not to chat to him about arranging a threesome at the squat rack. Omg weird " He didn't see me, which was a relief! I just steered well clear in case he *was* one of those "oh I met you at the Fab social" types... 😂 | |||
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"Don’t think I ever seen another fab member out and about, if I did I wouldn’t say anything I have once. A guy who I'd met at a big social suddenly turned up at my gym. I decided not to chat to him about arranging a threesome at the squat rack." So you didn’t pump his iron? | |||
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"What happens on fab stays on fab " Or gets chatted about in the Telegram groups, or at the quarterly meetings of Platinum Members. | |||
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"Well I got jumped on legs wrapped around a hog n a kiss on the lips in a petrol station ffs " Bit harsh refering to them as a hog. | |||
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"Don’t think I ever seen another fab member out and about, if I did I wouldn’t say anything I have once. A guy who I'd met at a big social suddenly turned up at my gym. I decided not to chat to him about arranging a threesome at the squat rack. Omg weird He didn't see me, which was a relief! I just steered well clear in case he *was* one of those "oh I met you at the Fab social" types... 😂" I imagined he'd come up to you and loudly started talking about whether you wanted to go spit roast or DP on DebbieDoesDorchester | |||
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"Totally agree with most of the sentiments on here: my Fab life is extraneous to my real life. Unless, however, it was someone I recognised from either the SADF or the French Foreign Legion. There's a code of conduct that I must adhere to....I would say hello." You forgot to mention the cub scouts, the Mormon Tabernacle, the Masons and the National Socialists - all have a special form of greeting that you must give. It would be quite remiss not to do so, but do make sure you get it right, no point "dib, dib, dibbing" to a Mormon, it just confuses them | |||
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"Our local post lady is on here, seriously! And goodness she is hot! I messaged her and she was flattered but said “please don’t answer the door naked or anything like that when I’m working!” Lol" Pmsl that would be funny though | |||
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"Never spotted anyone from fab but seen Ashley from emmerdale walking his dog " What happens in the woolpack stays in the woolpack… | |||
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"My wife was spotted in Sainsburys by a local guy. It was hot him telling me, but he disappeared afterwards." So you were not in the frozen aisle then? | |||
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"Spotted someone, but didn’t say anything. I think, if you really want to say something it may be better to write a message rather than approaching them in public: you never know which can of worms you may open Even if I saw Rebecca and Joe, unless I was sure it was them and that nobody could hear our conversation, I think I’d rather send them a message saying “I just spotted you “" We have had you’re a few “did I just see you at….” And are always flattered to be recognised. Seems like we are alone in the fab world… we aren’t about to fuck in the street but a polite hello and are you Joe wouldn’t be the end of the world | |||
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"So how often do you spot someone from Fab and think should I say hello… or is that a weird thing to do ? Maybe it’s even weirder as they currently have clothes on and seem to be married " I've been spotted in the past and people have said hi doesn't bother me really but I guess most women would hate this but I've spotted a couple of women one in particular who loved that I recognised her we smiled rather than spoke though and went on our way. | |||
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"So. You go to a club, party or meet. You spend a few hours having a ‘social’ drink then having sex with someone but the next day you ignore them in the supermarket? How childish! We are all consenting ADULTS. I say hello to people I have never met before" That’s the point, I was with my child. It made me very uncomfortable | |||
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"So. You go to a club, party or meet. You spend a few hours having a ‘social’ drink then having sex with someone but the next day you ignore them in the supermarket? How childish! We are all consenting ADULTS. I say hello to people I have never met before That’s the point, I was with my child. It made me very uncomfortable " Over 10 years ago I was walking through the car park at the supermarket with my young son and a woman from Fab who I had met socially on a number of occasions came out of the supermarket heading to her car. We were both somewhat startled and hurried on our way with no words exchanged (might now do a username search to see if she is still here!) | |||
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"So. You go to a club, party or meet. You spend a few hours having a ‘social’ drink then having sex with someone but the next day you ignore them in the supermarket? How childish! We are all consenting ADULTS. I say hello to people I have never met before" Not so sure it's childish. More about being respectful and context sensitive. If someones with their friends, children, parents, work colleagues, siblings or even in their own and just choose to segment vanilla and fab worlds, that's their choice. | |||
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"So. You go to a club, party or meet. You spend a few hours having a ‘social’ drink then having sex with someone but the next day you ignore them in the supermarket? How childish! We are all consenting ADULTS. I say hello to people I have never met before Not so sure it's childish. More about being respectful and context sensitive. If someones with their friends, children, parents, work colleagues, siblings or even in their own and just choose to segment vanilla and fab worlds, that's their choice. " They are just people though and as long as you didn't highlight where you met them ,why can't you say hi ,I wouldn't from my end but wouldn't have a problem saying hi to me , I don't see the problem it's just being neighbourly surely ? | |||
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"Spotted someone, but didn’t say anything. I think, if you really want to say something it may be better to write a message rather than approaching them in public: you never know which can of worms you may open Even if I saw Rebecca and Joe, unless I was sure it was them and that nobody could hear our conversation, I think I’d rather send them a message saying “I just spotted you “ We have had you’re a few “did I just see you at….” And are always flattered to be recognised. Seems like we are alone in the fab world… we aren’t about to fuck in the street but a polite hello and are you Joe wouldn’t be the end of the world " No I'm with you on this one ,a polite hello seems fine to me but guess if you're cheating on your significant other then that may cause pangs of guilt . | |||
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"So. You go to a club, party or meet. You spend a few hours having a ‘social’ drink then having sex with someone but the next day you ignore them in the supermarket? How childish! We are all consenting ADULTS. I say hello to people I have never met before" I don't know if they're with anyone, where they'd have to explain how they'd know me. I've been outed without my consent - much more directly than this. It's awful. Far more awful than being ignored. | |||
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"There's a few folks saying they know someone is on here... How do you know? Have they got face pics up or something.? " I just recognise knobs in person. | |||
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"Would never want to be approach in public, but a nice hello message on here is fab . " Hello! | |||
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"Seen a few people from here 'in the wild' as it were! And maybe a few have seen us,who knows!" Love idea of ‘strangers in the wild’ You ever in Snowdonia? | |||
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"Never recognised anyone my self as alot don't have face pics here! But I'm often recognised from here! Some will say hiya but most will message later to say they saw me! Especially whilst I was at work! Or out on my bycicle! X" Definitely passed you in a certain supermarket. I wouldn't say anything in public because I'm just too shy, lol | |||
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"So. You go to a club, party or meet. You spend a few hours having a ‘social’ drink then having sex with someone but the next day you ignore them in the supermarket? How childish! We are all consenting ADULTS. I say hello to people I have never met before Not so sure it's childish. More about being respectful and context sensitive. If someones with their friends, children, parents, work colleagues, siblings or even in their own and just choose to segment vanilla and fab worlds, that's their choice. They are just people though and as long as you didn't highlight where you met them ,why can't you say hi ,I wouldn't from my end but wouldn't have a problem saying hi to me , I don't see the problem it's just being neighbourly surely ?" That I’d have no issue with, using my online name or talking fab in front of my children is another thing entirely. Generally a nod and smile is more than enough, we are British! | |||
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"Out of curiousity,has anyone seen us? " No but god would I love to bump into you | |||
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"Out of curiousity,has anyone seen us? " Not yet, but I'm keeping my eyes open, lol | |||
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"The funny thing is that because we are British anyone saying hi or smiling towards us would automatically signify that they know us from Fab and that’s enough fun for most first random meets. Offering to get their cock out and play isn’t very British at all lol" **Quickly pops winkie back in trousers and saunters out of the library whistling** | |||
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"Never recognised anyone my self as alot don't have face pics here! But I'm often recognised from here! Some will say hiya but most will message later to say they saw me! Especially whilst I was at work! Or out on my bycicle! X Definitely passed you in a certain supermarket. I wouldn't say anything in public because I'm just too shy, lol" Must been when I worked in sainsburys? Shd have said hiya! X | |||
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"So how often do you spot someone from Fab and think should I say hello… or is that a weird thing to do ? Maybe it’s even weirder as they currently have clothes on and seem to be married " If it's people we know well and have moved into a general friendship with and thats our agreement with them, not a problem...otherwise would never intrude on anyone's real life at all... | |||
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"Never recognised anyone my self as alot don't have face pics here! But I'm often recognised from here! Some will say hiya but most will message later to say they saw me! Especially whilst I was at work! Or out on my bycicle! X Definitely passed you in a certain supermarket. I wouldn't say anything in public because I'm just too shy, lol Must been when I worked in sainsburys? Shd have said hiya! X" Yes! I will next time | |||
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