FabSwingers.com forum: Life of a single man on fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol right most profiles are like no single males!!!!!! Or must be 9 foot tall have a 15 inch cock perfect body and teeth wouldn't mind but the people posting this are lucky anyone would meet them lol and some are blinded by the fact they get 2,000 mails a day but stop and think how many are real!? How many have had meet how many have pics?? It's so funny I did a test ages ago set up a profile for this girl I no.

Put no pics on cos she didn't want any and wowww just a female with no pics over 200 messeges funny place this fab

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

There ya go, a perfect filter for you

Or do you contact people that would be "lucky anyone would meet them"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you see my verifications all good looking couples and singles I'm just saying its really hard for most men even me to get meets on here that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol right most profiles are like no single males!!!!!! Or must be 9 foot tall have a 15 inch cock perfect body and teeth wouldn't mind but the people posting this are lucky anyone would meet them lol and some are blinded by the fact they get 2,000 mails a day but stop and think how many are real!? How many have had meet how many have pics?? It's so funny I did a test ages ago set up a profile for this girl I no.

Put no pics on cos she didn't want any and wowww just a female with no pics over 200 messeges funny place this fab "
I joined a year ago nearly, got the same thing as your friend. fresh meat springs to mind - now im old meat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nat, if you market yourself ok its a piece of piss. I think its better being a single guy, would you rather have to comb through 15 messages a day? Or 500, most of them inane shit?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if they join with an expectation that most on here are sex crazed and it is all orgy, orgy, orgy... they may find themselves disillusioned very quickly.

A lot find themselves so.

If they are mindful that 'one size does not fit all', take it at their pace, hold onto their self respect first, show others respect, select wisely, accept a NO thanks with dignity and ENJOY.

and still meet people outside of the swinging world, as it is truly not the be and end all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nat, if you market yourself ok its a piece of piss. I think its better being a single guy, would you rather have to comb through 15 messages a day? Or 500, most of them inane shit?

* Nah. Bloody predictive text! Unless your name is Nathan mate in which case yes, I'm psychic..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a wink from a guy early hours, I was lurking so winked back, and asked why was he awake at stupid o clock,.replied, asked why I was,.so told him. Next message, so next your gonna tell me your horney and want to tease me then, my reply, oh no im not,.and dont do smutty talk. To which he replied, yeh but im special...bet he is lol. I love the block button.

No wonder you poor guys get a hard time,.eith cock rots like him.

Jules xx

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

I think the statement "lucky anyone would meet them" is rather rude!

We all have very different taste in partners and all find different qualities attractive, there is someone on here for everyone.

Personally I find the sort of arrogance in that comment is a huge turn off

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

Bemused of Devon here.....

All those meet verifications yet still finds time to moan about the site, is there no pleasing some people on here?

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By *uteguy06Man
over a year ago

Swindon

It is difficult for us, I have been on here for over a year, totally genuine nice guy and still not had a meet yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put no pics on cos she didn't want any and wowww just a female with no pics over 200 messeges funny place this fab "

" It's so funny I did a test ages ago set up a profile for this girl I no. "

Hahahaha that old chestnut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single male don't take this site too seriously, people on here have their own agendas, and issues don't let it bother you..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Put no pics on cos she didn't want any and wowww just a female with no pics over 200 messeges funny place this fab

" It's so funny I did a test ages ago set up a profile for this girl I no. "

Hahahaha that old chestnut

xx"
you need to sort them poor tatts out before having a pop at anyone xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is difficult for us, I have been on here for over a year, totally genuine nice guy and still not had a meet yet!"
think I no were you are going wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the statement "lucky anyone would meet them" is rather rude!

We all have very different taste in partners and all find different qualities attractive, there is someone on here for everyone.

Personally I find the sort of arrogance in that comment is a huge turn off"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose someone with plenty of meets moaning about life as a single male makes a change from someone with no meets doing the same!

Not necessarily a refreshing change - just a change!

Being a single guy has never been a problem for me - as I'm sure being a couple/single fem hasn't been for most of them either. If anyone's not happy with their life on Fab or how things are going - there's always two choices!

Adapt and change your approach and expectancy levels - or move on. No one HAS to be here if they're not enjoying it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the statement "lucky anyone would meet them" is rather rude!

We all have very different taste in partners and all find different qualities attractive, there is someone on here for everyone.

Personally I find the sort of arrogance in that comment is a huge turn off

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i agree if you look at my meets some on here would die to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put no pics on cos she didn't want any and wowww just a female with no pics over 200 messeges funny place this fab

" It's so funny I did a test ages ago set up a profile for this girl I no. "

Hahahaha that old chestnut

xxyou need to sort them poor tatts out before having a pop at anyone xxx"

Hahahaha

genius x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's not a problem for me it's a problem for fab and things like this make me chuckle like a lady clearly out of shape wants a fit gym fit male with a ten inch cock and looks like brad Pitt a reality check is sometimes in order lol

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

Oh I get it......it's a thread designed to be rude about other members.

Why would you go out of your way to start a thread just to do that?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I think the statement "lucky anyone would meet them" is rather rude!

We all have very different taste in partners and all find different qualities attractive, there is someone on here for everyone.

Personally I find the sort of arrogance in that comment is a huge turn off

i agree if you look at my meets some on here would die to meet them "

I think that might be going a bit far!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"It's not a problem for me it's a problem for fab and things like this make me chuckle like a lady clearly out of shape wants a fit gym fit male with a ten inch cock and looks like brad Pitt a reality check is sometimes in order lol "

And yet they get them!! Maybe some prefer a good personality over arrogance

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

And sometimes those gym fit males with 10" cocks really fancy bbw's. Just because they aren't your preference, doesn't make it wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't want to meet such people - your choice. Must be great knowing everyone else on sites tastes and preferences!

I initially thought this was yet another moan about life as a single guy but from another angle - i.e. one that actually gets meets.

Kind of suspecting it may be nothing more than a thinly veiled "look at me" thread and a chance to have a pop at other site members.

Neither of which makes for a great thread or portrays the OP of such in a particularly pleasant or positive way.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Luckily for me there are lots of gym fit males with ten inch cocks who want older out of shape ladies like me.

Thank goodness.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why would it be a look at me in not that type of man ??? Maybe a little gel of me it happens but get over it

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

If you don't want to meet such people - your choice. Must be great knowing everyone else on sites tastes and preferences!

I initially thought this was yet another moan about life as a single guy but from another angle - i.e. one that actually gets meets.

Kind of suspecting it may be nothing more than a thinly veiled "look at me" thread and a chance to have a pop at other site members.

Neither of which makes for a great thread or portrays the OP of such in a particularly pleasant or positive way."

Exactly. If the OP is getting plenty of meets with people that other users would die to meet then why does he care who else is meeting who?

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Ahhh its a peacock thread.

You could have just asked people to look at your profile nicely if you felt the need to brag.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And sometimes those gym fit males with 10" cocks really fancy bbw's. Just because they aren't your preference, doesn't make it wrong."
i didn't say they wasn't my preference ??? Then it goes from wanting that to must be 9 foot tall and smell like cherrys it's not a dig at anyone it's just funny cos these people that put this are the ones with no verifications or pics but demand that the males have pics and verifications I find it funny

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ahhh its a peacock thread.

You could have just asked people to look at your profile nicely if you felt the need to brag."
brag about what ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you don't want to meet such people - your choice. Must be great knowing everyone else on sites tastes and preferences!

I initially thought this was yet another moan about life as a single guy but from another angle - i.e. one that actually gets meets.

Kind of suspecting it may be nothing more than a thinly veiled "look at me" thread and a chance to have a pop at other site members.

Neither of which makes for a great thread or portrays the OP of such in a particularly pleasant or positive way.

Exactly. If the OP is getting plenty of meets with people that other users would die to meet then why does he care who else is meeting who? "
when did I say I cared who people meet got this post all wrong I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily for me there are lots of gym fit males with ten inch cocks who want older out of shape ladies like me.

Thank goodness."

i dont even ask for gym fit men but they still message me and they arent all arrogant either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nat, if you market yourself ok its a piece of piss. I think its better being a single guy, would you rather have to comb through 15 messages a day? Or 500, most of them inane shit?

15 messages a day ???

I don't think I've had 15 messages in my whole time here lol

Jesus must be doing something seriously wrong haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Luckily for me there are lots of gym fit males with ten inch cocks who want older out of shape ladies like me.

Thank goodness."
people are taking this all wrong ad usual on here !! I don't have a problem with bbw or older women if met all types

) I'm saying for a single man it's hard now I've messeged many a single man to help them on here.

It's a pop at the fakes that make the place a nightmear for anyone

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

"Nat, if you market yourself ok its a piece of piss. I think its better being a single guy, would you rather have to comb through 15 messages a day? Or 500, most of them inane shit?

15 messages a day ???

I don't think I've had 15 messages in my whole time here lol

Jesus must be doing something seriously wrong haha

It's ok....the Op is planning to start a Single Guys Swinging Workshop, he might even undertake a national tour if there is sufficient demand for his expertice.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol i think it maybe the op that needs a reality check

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh I get it......it's a thread designed to be rude about other members.

Why would you go out of your way to start a thread just to do that?"
ive not been rude about anyone at all???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"lol i think it maybe the op that needs a reality check

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whys that???

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

"Oh I get it......it's a thread designed to be rude about other members.

Why would you go out of your way to start a thread just to do that?ive not been rude about anyone at all???"

I think you need to look back at a couple of your posts, you know exactly what you are doing.

What I don't understand is why?.....you clearly have plenty of success on the site, but you feel the need to have a pop at other members.....shame really.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

Luckily for me there are lots of gym fit males with ten inch cocks who want older out of shape ladies like me.

Thank goodness."

Lucky for me there seem to be quite a few who like short fat women too

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Don't think this thread is going how the op expected it..... Just as well he doesn't have a problem meeting the beautiful people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh I get it......it's a thread designed to be rude about other members.

Why would you go out of your way to start a thread just to do that?ive not been rude about anyone at all???

I think you need to look back at a couple of your posts, you know exactly what you are doing.

What I don't understand is why?.....you clearly have plenty of success on the site, but you feel the need to have a pop at other members.....shame really."
dont be so silly I've not had a pop at anyone I'm not that type so jump of the bandwagon and speak to the lads that have asked for my advice!

I don't need to big myself up I'm just a normal lad simple as that

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

There you go then....you are missing a great commercial prospect, open an advice website for struggling single males and make your self a dot com millionaire!

Maybe take the idea on Dragons Den?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Where is this mentioning fakes? Or your OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol,, think its rather pathetic really, all this I been here for a year and no meets,, learn and adapt, u must be doing something wrong! fab is what it is! I'm really quite happy with it, suits my needs really well! If u don't like it move on! Just let us happy ones enjoy it! X winge over lol c

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't think this thread is going how the op expected it..... Just as well he doesn't have a problem meeting the beautiful people

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rather boring me now this people who have issues with themselfs always jump up!

I didn't say anything bad about anyone just that it's hard for the lads when on profiles not one single man in the world looks like brad Pitt but is taller than him fitter than him has a 20 inch ock and 9 inch wide has 150 snap shots and 90 verifications has whiter teeth tha. Simon cowell and muscles like Tyson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily for me there are lots of gym fit males with ten inch cocks who want older out of shape ladies like me.

Thank goodness."

and meeeee

must be my great tea making skills lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Where is this mentioning fakes? Or your OP? "
its tongue in cheek ffs you take this all to serious get a hobby or something you are boring me now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There you go then....you are missing a great commercial prospect, open an advice website for struggling single males and make your self a dot com millionaire!

Maybe take the idea on Dragons Den?"
rather boring now

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Don't think this thread is going how the op expected it..... Just as well he doesn't have a problem meeting the beautiful people

rather boring me now this people who have issues with themselfs always jump up!

Oh I've no issues with myself..... Love my life ..... And brad Pitt does nothing for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Luckily for me there are lots of gym fit males with ten inch cocks who want older out of shape ladies like me.

Thank goodness.

and meeeee

must be my great tea making skills lol "
lol no just sex that's what it is that's the harsh reality

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

"There you go then....you are missing a great commercial prospect, open an advice website for struggling single males and make your self a dot com millionaire!

Maybe take the idea on Dragons Den?rather boring now "

Why waste such a skill?

All those poor struggling single males are crying out for a tutorage helpline...I'll make you an offer, £20,000 for 30% of the business.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

The shovel in your hands......

Just stop digging. Seriously.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Ahhh its a peacock thread.

You could have just asked people to look at your profile nicely if you felt the need to brag.brag about what ???? "

I think you ll find you said something like meets others would die for,,,,

With those verifications, party invites etc, yep fab can be tough for single guys, as it can for any demographic, just because theres lots of people to choose from, doesnt necessarily make it easier; , ,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put no pics on cos she didn't want any and wowww just a female with no pics over 200 messeges funny place this fab "

is this just a rant, or is there some question in this?? Because, if it is a rant, then you have to expect people to "have a pop" back, or debate over what you said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha, this thread is funny,,

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

offering people advice will endear you to some, irritate others leading them to think the person offering the advice is an arrogant dick/dickess ( not directed at the OP )

win some, lose some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand this thread at all, even after reading it 3 times, OP have you got a problem meeting or a problem meeting "beautiful" people or are you saying the people that have met you have had to sacrifice their preference of wanting to meet Brad Pitt for the sake of a shag?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

People miss the point not having a pop at anyone people can request whatever they want doesn't mean they will get it I've been looking on here for a Cheryl cole lookalike not happend.

It's tongue in cheek we all no most men that sleep with women on here don't even fancy the women it's just sex for some not all but for some that's what is is .

And some women then think they are some supermodel cos they get 100 mails a day makes me chuckle that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily for me there are lots of gym fit males with ten inch cocks who want older out of shape ladies like me.

Thank goodness.

and meeeee

must be my great tea making skills lol lol no just sex that's what it is that's the harsh reality"

it can't be the sex, surely? dammit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People miss the point not having a pop at anyone people can request whatever they want doesn't mean they will get it I've been looking on here for a Cheryl cole lookalike not happend.

It's tongue in cheek we all no most men that sleep with women on here don't even fancy the women it's just sex for some not all but for some that's what is is .

And some women then think they are some supermodel cos they get 100 mails a day makes me chuckle that's all "

I love a good sweeping generalisation!!

Bet your meets will feel great about themselves knowing they were just a mercy shag.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

It's tongue in cheek we all no most men that sleep with women on here don't even fancy the women it's just sex for some not all but for some that's what is is .

And some women then think they are some supermodel cos they get 100 mails a day makes me chuckle that's all "

but the same, sometimes happens in the reverse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bemused of Devon here.....

All those meet verifications yet still finds time to moan about the site, is there no pleasing some people on here?"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't understand this thread at all, even after reading it 3 times, OP have you got a problem meeting or a problem meeting "beautiful" people or are you saying the people that have met you have had to sacrifice their preference of wanting to meet Brad Pitt for the sake of a shag?"
do I look like a have a problem?? I'm hot I no this not been funny about anyone just saying some things on here make us men chuckle

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

ps: it's their choice, what they do, how they portray themselves, who they meet and what they believe about themselves.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

popcorn.gif

This thread......oh this thread!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People miss the point not having a pop at anyone people can request whatever they want doesn't mean they will get it I've been looking on here for a Cheryl cole lookalike not happend.

It's tongue in cheek we all no most men that sleep with women on here don't even fancy the women it's just sex for some not all but for some that's what is is .

And some women then think they are some supermodel cos they get 100 mails a day makes me chuckle that's all

I love a good sweeping generalisation!!

Bet your meets will feel great about themselves knowing they were just a mercy shag.

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did I say that??? Again totally got it wrong get a life n grow up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100 mails a day,, that's life! Men just usually think about sex for fun,, ladies find it more emotional (don't think that's the right word) there will always be more men on here to choose from,, and u ladies have every right to be picky, just like us men,, don't like it? Shape up or ship out

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

pps...... it's Friday, people may even get a meet for the weekend out it

so win win

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"ps: it's their choice, what they do, how they portray themselves, who they meet and what they believe about themselves.

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i get that if its not a fake profile!!!! Hmmm missed point again thick on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't understand this thread at all, even after reading it 3 times, OP have you got a problem meeting or a problem meeting "beautiful" people or are you saying the people that have met you have had to sacrifice their preference of wanting to meet Brad Pitt for the sake of a shag?do I look like a have a problem?? I'm hot I no this not been funny about anyone just saying some things on here make us men chuckle "

Please can I just say it is "know" I know I will get accused of being the spelling police but seeing as I know I am gorgeous I shall take it on the chin

Women also chuckle at the ridiculous statements some men come out with, eg I can lick for hours and prefer to please a lady blah blah

So it's horses for courses.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"ps: it's their choice, what they do, how they portray themselves, who they meet and what they believe about themselves.

i get that if its not a fake profile!!!! Hmmm missed point again thick on here "

thick

I was actually agreeing in certain parts with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People miss the point not having a pop at anyone people can request whatever they want doesn't mean they will get it I've been looking on here for a Cheryl cole lookalike not happend.

It's tongue in cheek we all no most men that sleep with women on here don't even fancy the women it's just sex for some not all but for some that's what is is .

And some women then think they are some supermodel cos they get 100 mails a day makes me chuckle that's all

I love a good sweeping generalisation!!

Bet your meets will feel great about themselves knowing they were just a mercy shag.

did I say that??? Again totally got it wrong get a life n grow up"

Oh dear..when the chips are down resort to petty childish comments.

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

'Dear Hilary Devey, have seen you on Dragons Den, and although you are a real minger of a bird who couldn't get a shag on Fab Swingers, I have this fantastic business idea.

Being a lovely looking bloke, and a resounding success on Fab Swingers, I think I have what it takes to offer advice to other single guys on how to get a shag.

I only want £20,000 to get my idea off the ground, for that I am offering a 30% stake in my business, which cannot possibly fail, coz I is gorgeous darling'

Yours....

Successful Shagger of Sheffield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's tongue in cheek we all no most men that sleep with women on here don't even fancy the women it's just sex for some not all but for some that's what is is .

And some women then think they are some supermodel cos they get 100 mails a day makes me chuckle that's all "

We all know? I don't presume to know anyone's motivation for being on here and why they meet - and I don't care either. The only person who's motives I give a monkeys about ate my own!

And using the words 'most' and 'some ' in the same sentence? That's not too contradictory is it?

Why do you assume women assume they're supermodels based on the number of messages they get? Is this based on actual research - with those you've met or with those you haven't? Stating so called 'facts' about how others behave and interact on site will always leave you open to criticism, debates and arguments from those you choose to label.

And then justifying accusing them of misreading your posts, not getting your 'point' or being thick - will get harder the more people re-read what's been written.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

hmmm interesting points on here lol makes a good read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck it look at my profile I've not got the best body and I havnt got a monster cock but aleast I'm honest unlike op and I just want people to give me compliments lol

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

From this post you come across with an incredible degree of arrogance and seemingly a lot of anger/contempt to the focus of your ire.

Underneath the above there might be a good point hidden away but when its hidden behind walls of narcissism its hard to get to it, if you toned it down a bit I'm sure the responses on here would be better.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Nat, if you market yourself ok its a piece of piss. I think its better being a single guy, would you rather have to comb through 15 messages a day? Or 500, most of them inane shit?

15 messages a day ???

I don't think I've had 15 messages in my whole time here lol

Jesus must be doing something seriously wrong haha

lol Don't think we have either..at least not from 15 different people.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Thats better,,, theres enough angst in the world with north Korea, lets be like bonobo chimps who settle there differences with sex,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have rather high demands for a women i`d like to meet so i cant talk really

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

"i have rather high demands for a women i`d like to meet so i cant talk really

What! she must have a pussy AND a pulse?

Fussy git

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

" If anyone's not happy with their life on Fab or how things are going - there's always two choices!

Adapt and change your approach and expectancy levels - or move on. No one HAS to be here if they're not enjoying it."

Yes folks, it really is that simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its more of a societal problem I reckon, not just this site - no matter where you go you will find droves of single males all clamouring after a rather small number of women, even in the animal kingdom.

Of course, they have the benefit of being able to kill their competition

, we don't, so have to focus on simply being more charming instead, and of course, that takes a lot of time, effort and patience, and I can understand your frustration as you're clearly a pretty successful guy by single male standards, but still frustrated by all the hard work you have to put in.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"ps: it's their choice, what they do, how they portray themselves, who they meet and what they believe about themselves.

i get that if its not a fake profile!!!! Hmmm missed point again thick on here

thick

I was actually agreeing in certain parts with you"

I nearly swallowed my dentures at someone calling you thick View...sorry, tickled me no end!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of understand what op is trying to say.as a swinger for many years i joined fab thinking it was the natural thing to do to meet likeminded people.Yet thus far have encountered timewasters & fantasists & find it very untrusting & hostile.never had a problem with people or meets in the REAL word or various other sites.yet this is a swingers site.?!

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

We hoped a site would be a better option than clubs. More privacy etc but realistically the times we've looked for a meet has been wasted more often than not. A trip to a club we had a great time at must be done when we can get a passout. A bi night preferably but the issue there is they're often Sunday's & Mondays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nat, if you market yourself ok its a piece of piss. I think its better being a single guy, would you rather have to comb through 15 messages a day? Or 500, most of them inane shit?

15 messages a day ???

I don't think I've had 15 messages in my whole time here lol

Jesus must be doing something seriously wrong haha

lol Don't think we have either..at least not from 15 different people.

To be fair I don't want that misunderstood as Im getting 15 offers of decent snags lol.

For a start about a third are off gay men. There are some I either think are fakes or undesirable to me. There's probably only four or five that I think ok you're genuine, not stupid, in my demographics and I wouldn't mind sharing sexual bliss with you one bit....

But even out of these there's the time and availability factors that knock most on the head, usually if they want a meet there and then and Im at the other end of the country lol!

But its all good fun and the sex that results is usually highly delicious...

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Mate I can see some of the points you are trying to get across, although it wasn't the best opening post.

Because of the mix and large number of members on here, people can be fussy about who they choose. To be fair, why shouldn't they be ? If Someone offered a gift and you had a choice of a sparkly or battered one, which would you go for?

Yes there are fake profiles on here, the same as every site but they are easy to avoid with your filters. Just enjoy it for what it is.

Unfortunately you have attracted professional baiting attraction so you will only be digging a hole for yourself by keep responding. You are doing well for your short time here. You will learn a lot more over the next few months. Good luck

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

"If you see my verifications all good looking couples and singles I'm just saying its really hard for most men even me to get meets on here that's all "

Nothing like self promotion is there... a true legend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kind of get what the OP is getting at. This is kind of hard to get politically correct, so here it goes. It's basically some plain Jane's demanding male sex gods and if you don't fit the bill, don't even bother mailing.

I can also see why they can get away with this as the male/female ratio is in the girls favour.

Since the woman gets what she wants her ego will grow and grow...

Well that's how I interpreted it.

For the record, i'm no male god, just an average Joe.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I kind of get what the OP is getting at. This is kind of hard to get politically correct, so here it goes. It's basically some plain Jane's demanding male sex gods and if you don't fit the bill, don't even bother mailing.

I can also see why they can get away with this as the male/female ratio is in the girls favour.

Since the woman gets what she wants her ego will grow and grow...

Well that's how I interpreted it.

For the record, i'm no male god, just an average Joe.

Who is to blame for the inflated egos of the plain Jane's and Bessie Bunters?!!

Single...men (in the main)!

If some single men weren't so desperate to jump through hoops to empty their sacs the women would soon get a reality check!

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

I can also see why they can get away with this as the male/female ratio is in the girls favour.

Since the woman gets what she wants her ego will grow and grow...

Well that's how I interpreted it.

For the record, i'm no male god, just an average Joe.

Who is to blame for the inflated egos of the plain Jane's and Bessie Bunters?!!

Single...men (in the main)!

If some single men weren't so desperate to jump through hoops to empty their sacs the women would soon get a reality check!

So true....it's like a self fulfilling prophecy, they help create the beast....then moan about the beast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So true....it's like a self fulfilling prophecy, they help create the beast....then moan about the beast."

Not really no.

Many of us have decent standards and try ourselves to meet them, our gripe is that we too have to tolerate the problems the single males with no standards whatsoever create.

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

"So true....it's like a self fulfilling prophecy, they help create the beast....then moan about the beast.

Not really no.

Many of us have decent standards and try ourselves to meet them, our gripe is that we too have to tolerate the problems the single males with no standards whatsoever create."

That is why the comment was about 'some men'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a plain Jane who wants gorgeous sex gods.

No I don't have an ego and no I don't think I'm gods gift to manhood.

I am here to fulfill my fantasies, one of which is having sex with gorgeous men. It's not real, not real life. I know that and accept that.

But to say I and others like me get their heads turned by all the mail we get and the flattering shite many men spout to get a shag implies we are more naive than a day old newborn.

Heads up, we know certain men spout shite and will say anything to get a shag, but for the sake of one with a sex god we are willing to filter through all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So true....it's like a self fulfilling prophecy, they help create the beast....then moan about the beast.

Not really no.

Many of us have decent standards and try ourselves to meet them, our gripe is that we too have to tolerate the problems the single males with no standards whatsoever create.

That is why the comment was about 'some men'"

You implied that the ones responsible for the problem were the ones first to complain about it.

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

"So true....it's like a self fulfilling prophecy, they help create the beast....then moan about the beast.

Not really no.

Many of us have decent standards and try ourselves to meet them, our gripe is that we too have to tolerate the problems the single males with no standards whatsoever create.

That is why the comment was about 'some men'

You implied that the ones responsible for the problem were the ones first to complain about it."

Look....I quoted the post from Miss Tress who stated 'Some Men'....

I implied that 'some men' help create the monster....then moan about the power of the monster.

Hope that clears it up for you

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"I'm a plain Jane "

Yeah right

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm a plain Jane who wants gorgeous sex gods.

No I don't have an ego and no I don't think I'm gods gift to manhood.

I am here to fulfill my fantasies, one of which is having sex with gorgeous men. It's not real, not real life. I know that and accept that.

But to say I and others like me get their heads turned by all the mail we get and the flattering shite many men spout to get a shag implies we are more naive than a day old newborn.

Heads up, we know certain men spout shite and will say anything to get a shag, but for the sake of one with a sex god we are willing to filter through all that.

I omitted "some" women, as being Bessie Bunter type I don't think I'm the fairest of them all and employ a town crier to read my shopping list of demands before meeting...I get one of my subs to read it for free!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

" but it's not about meets its about the attitude of some people that gets me down with fab "

do we detect a hint of irony in that statement..

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Single males struggling to get meets should consider clubs (though they can be pricy some are more single male friendly than others, check re_iews from other guys) social and the camping trips.

There are at least two camping weekends being planned. One in Norfolk and one in Wales. Keep an eye on meets and UK and Wales forums for details of socials and trips. It works because you are meeting and chatting face to face.

Op may o just say that Im fully aware that Im a fat bitch who is definitely not a supermodel. But i meet and i play and i have other things going for me. Reverse the situation: if you were getting interest from fit, shapely, playboy bunny types eager to meet and shaggy your brains out would you be saying no?

So i am in a situation where i can stipulate tall, muscular gym bunnies and they are more than eager to meet me, who wouldn't exploit that?

The ironic part is that those are the guys i target on a nilla night out and i get them then too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I don't get the whole "woe is the single male" gripe that frequently tears its head.

Every demographic has some chew on ire other, the single male has to make an effort with his profile and put some seductive imagery and wit into his messages. The single femme has to spend 2 hours a day combing through and mass deleting shite. The couples have the same problem to a lesser extent as the single femme PLUS some of the single guy problems as more single femmes want to meet single guys than couples. Boo hoo.

I know which of the three demographics has a solution to their problem which is actually enjoyable and which Im glad I fit into!

Be honest, can any single woman say that she wouldn't rather there were equal amounts of men as women on here? Everyone would have someone for them and no chew on trawling through a bulging net of blocks messages. Id be surprised if many women didn't long for this.

Single guys probably have the easiest problem of the lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and yet thats exactly the sort fo guys ive met.. humm yup very real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People miss the point not having a pop at anyone people can request whatever they want doesn't mean they will get it I've been looking on here for a Cheryl cole lookalike not happend.

It's tongue in cheek we all no most men that sleep with women on here don't even fancy the women it's just sex for some not all but for some that's what is is .

And some women then think they are some supermodel cos they get 100 mails a day makes me chuckle that's all "

so if someone wants sex just cos its there and they dont fancy them.. so what

by your theory supermodel types are only allowed to find other supermodel types attractive.. why do you think everyone thinks the same way as you?

these woman who seem to have demands do because they can.. because they have so much demand and choice they can settle for what they want to..

whats the problem?

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

He's been gone for ages.....btw

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"He's been gone for ages.....btw"

I suspect he won't be back either.

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