FabSwingers.com forum: How long do you like to have a chat with someone before meeting them in person?

By *exxyyDy11 OP Man
10 weeks ago

North West

Interested in what you all have to say. Genuinely I don't put a time on it, I understand life gets in the way and I don't like rushing. So I like things to go smooth instead of rushed.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
10 weeks ago

chichester

I try to budget around 2 weeks with a social meet .. after that I find the interesting fizzles out usually .. unless something really has in way like a holiday etc

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

There’s no set time is ther

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By *exxyyDy11 OP Man
10 weeks ago

North West

"I try to budget around 2 weeks with a social meet .. after that I find the interesting fizzles out usually .. unless something really has in way like a holiday etc "

Yeah I understand, there is only so much you can talk about, then it gets a bit repetitive

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By *laytime_13Woman
10 weeks ago

Lincs

Ideally a couple of weeks tops. That said, I tend to end up travelling and usually that can take longer to arrange… it has been a couple of months before

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By *eordieJeansCouple
10 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Around 3-6 minutes depending on how fast the reply.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
10 weeks ago

chichester

"I try to budget around 2 weeks with a social meet .. after that I find the interesting fizzles out usually .. unless something really has in way like a holiday etc

Yeah I understand, there is only so much you can talk about, then it gets a bit repetitive "

I am not a huge one for talking day on day in messages , it's all rather pointless .. ultimately I am on this site to meet and have sex with like minded people . I get that you need some minor banter to feel comfortable / relax/maybe some flirt perhaps .. but I am not really one for spilling my life story to randoms .. that I will probably only meet the once anyway .

I just find momentum dies off after a couple of weeks historically .... I have around 11 women on my fab phone WhatsApp over the last year that wanted to arrange to meet . but it's never happened and pretty much no messages anymore ...I find this 2 week window a fairly accurate threshold ..

outside of that I will just say cool message me when you nearer time of wanting to arrange something

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

I have no set timeframe. Some of my first socials were on the back of chatting for months and even a year and a half.

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By *r John WickMan
10 weeks ago

The Continental

I’ve had varying experience from 15 minutes to a couple of years.

I don’t put any value in how long it might take for the stars to align.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
10 weeks ago

Stratford

No time frame. With work and other life priorities I find in most instances I end up meeting people at larger socials first and then having follow ups based off those interactions

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By *ealitybitesMan
10 weeks ago

Belfast

It could be anything from a few weeks to many months depending on how invested the other person is in chatting

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By *avid for comfortMan
10 weeks ago

belfast

Wish I was near you

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By *obilebottomMan
10 weeks ago

All over

But about the 'Free now?' ?

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By *a LunaWoman
10 weeks ago

South Wales

Ages. It’s a wonder I ever met anyone to be honest the length of time it took

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By *eliWoman
10 weeks ago

It varies. It's taken me years before. Sometimes it's been a few weeks. I'm something of a slow burner unless I meet them at socials.

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By *viatrixWoman
10 weeks ago

Redhill

With my last FWB, it was like 90 mins of chat before we met in person. We saw each other for 4 years and he is one of the most delightful people I’ve met and a great friend.

With other people, I’ve been chatting for years and never met in person. 🤷‍♀️

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By *r SproutMan
10 weeks ago

the middle

As most have said, no time frame.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
10 weeks ago

Leeds

Im not interested in your life story, I just want to get my dick wet.

The mr

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By *oo..Woman
10 weeks ago

Boo's World

I'll meet people when I can be bothered too, as simple as that really 🤣

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By *vilgasamWoman
10 weeks ago

The dot in the i

No time frame but not until I feel both comfortable and safe

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By *upersonic SamMan
10 weeks ago

wigan

I’ve had one that was about an hour, I’ve had others that we didn’t meet up for over a year, timeframes don’t matter as much as chemistry and connection

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
10 weeks ago

the moon

However long it takes …

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By *exxyyDy11 OP Man
10 weeks ago

North West

"No time frame. With work and other life priorities I find in most instances I end up meeting people at larger socials first and then having follow ups based off those interactions

Ah seems like the most sensible way to be honest. Been wanting to attend a large social gathering for a bit

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By *erfHerder74Man
10 weeks ago

Greenock

No set time, very rarely meet the same day or week, sometimes it can take months if they have no free time or make an effort

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

42mins.

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