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By (user no longer on site) OP   
19 weeks ago

What sort of maximum and minimum age rules do people go with for partners/fun? I know there’s no catch all or rule as such and it will depend on your age and what your into.

I’m 40 and would go upto 50 and down to 18, that’s a big difference isn’t it? However I couldn’t see me having a relationship with an 18 year old. Does that make me bad?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
19 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
19 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

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By *eliWoman
19 weeks ago

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I couldn't see an 18 year old wanting to have a relationship with a 40 year old so no, it doesn't.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
19 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Bugger it ...... I'd read that wrong and thought you were 50.

My answer was NO you are not bad , but good luck finding an 18 year old who is looking for a 40 year old.

Interesting that you will go 22 years younger but only 10 years older....... why don't you want a 62 year old ?

And if you say cos she's too old - would you consider it when you are 52?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
19 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I don't particularly care for engaging with people below 25 at all. Below 30 in most cases. I hate to feel like I'm taking advantage.

Older I don't really care as long as I find them attractive. Everyone involved is old enough to have enough life experience for me to feel fine about it. I usually end up with a handful of years older than me 💜

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
19 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"I couldn't see an 18 year old wanting to have a relationship with a 40 year old so no, it doesn't."

But he doesn't want a relationship Meli - just a roll in the sack..

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By *ake_or_deathMan
19 weeks ago

Manchester

It doesn't but 18 year olds look incredibly young to me now so I can't imagine wanting casual fun with someone of that age either.

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By *hePleasurerMan
19 weeks ago

Cheshire

When I was 50ish I had several meets with a 24 year old woman, and that worked well for both of us. She was mature enough to know what she wanted (and to make sure she got the right kind of guy to deliver it!) The age difference is less important than the mindset.

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By *eliWoman
19 weeks ago

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As for me...

Thirties or so plus I'm fine with. Mid twenties, it's rare but it happens. That's in terms of women.

Men I tend to prefer older, I thought exclusively 10yrs+ at first. Now I've realised it's more based on the man.

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By *eliWoman
19 weeks ago

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"I couldn't see an 18 year old wanting to have a relationship with a 40 year old so no, it doesn't.

But he doesn't want a relationship Meli - just a roll in the sack.. "

Maybe some really horny 18 year old has strong daddy issues and wants to meet an older man for casual sex... could happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
19 weeks ago

Ok yeah maybe 20 then

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By *9alMan
19 weeks ago

Bridgend


"I couldn't see an 18 year old wanting to have a relationship with a 40 year old so no, it doesn't.

But he doesn't want a relationship Meli - just a roll in the sack.. "

that sums it up as long as they are legal & still breathing why worry

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By *ake_or_deathMan
19 weeks ago

Manchester

I think for me I'm at a stage and age where lower than mid-30s seems highly unlikely for either a relationship or casual fun, and I'm fine with that. I did not long ago go on a date with someone a few years younger than that and felt very odd about it (yes, they knew how old I was). If I'm being honest it's flattering to be attractive to someone well over a decade younger than me, but they'd have to be either very mature for anything more than fun.

But mid-30s upwards is fine - I'd definitely meet someone over 50 on here if I found them attractive.

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By *agic.MMan
19 weeks ago

Orpington


"Bugger it ...... I'd read that wrong and thought you were 50.

My answer was NO you are not bad , but good luck finding an 18 year old who is looking for a 40 year old.

Interesting that you will go 22 years younger but only 10 years older....... why don't you want a 62 year old ?

And if you say cos she's too old - would you consider it when you are 52?

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Why not just accept it as his preference and not look too much into it...

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By *en_Dover79Man
19 weeks ago

Oswaldtwistle

I'm nearly 45 so 15 years either way works for me... I have 18 to 55 on my profile but rarely meet anyone under 30

18-21 I wouldn't have much in common with...plus I like experience

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
19 weeks ago

Next Door

Lower/mid 40s to late 50s for me.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
19 weeks ago

Newcastle

I wouldn’t consider anyone younger but would go about 12-15 years older

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By *ripfillMan
19 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Sorry it’s a big no for me any ladies under 40 and a half years old.

I have my reasons …

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By *punk n gushCouple
19 weeks ago

deal

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By *punk n gushCouple
19 weeks ago

deal

Over 40s is prefence for us any lower would be nearer our kids age so would find that very weird upper age is more flexible

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By *issmorganWoman
19 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Now I'm 50,

Lowest I'd go is 36 ish, I just wouldn't have much in common with someone in their 20s and deffo not an 18 yo.

I set my higher limit at 57/58.

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By *ffervescentMan
19 weeks ago

winfrith

I go fairly close to my age a wee bit either side .

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Wouldn't go below 40, but to be honest I do prefer 60 plus. But it is so hard finding a mature lady, who just wants fwb or just sex.

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By *elix SightedMan
19 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Still searching for a 99 year old.

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By *uperSalopian7Man
19 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Isn't the general rule for a relationship "Half your age plus 7 years" or "Double your age minus 14 years"

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By *uperSalopian7Man
19 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

I'm 34 so lower would be 24 and higher would be 54.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
19 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Bugger it ...... I'd read that wrong and thought you were 50.

My answer was NO you are not bad , but good luck finding an 18 year old who is looking for a 40 year old.

Interesting that you will go 22 years younger but only 10 years older....... why don't you want a 62 year old ?

And if you say cos she's too old - would you consider it when you are 52?

Why not just accept it as his preference and not look too much into it..."

Why vet my contribution ? Vet your own.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
19 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Oh .. you didn't make one

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

An ex from a few years back was 15 years older then me 25 at the time she was 40 now I would go up to 60

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
19 weeks ago

Leeds

I wouldn't meet anyone who could be my child or parent.

I have mor in common with people my own age.

Mrs

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By *.hrisMan
19 weeks ago

Bath

I'm not sure what the oldest I would sleep with would be. If they were still attractive, I wouldn't rule anyone out.

But if I were to be in a relationship with someone, maybe a couple of years older than me and 7 years younger than me.

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Nowhere

I now seem to be out of everyone's range .

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By *acey_RedWoman
19 weeks ago

Liverpool

I'm very unlikely to go lower than mid 20s and with men I prefer them to be at least late 20s. Older my limit is generally if they could be my parent.

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By *ssexfun69Couple
19 weeks ago

Southend

My partner is 20 years younger than me and it works each to their own I say

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By *oxy jWoman
19 weeks ago

somerset

those looking at the 18/19 year olds needs to give their heads a wobble there is no age check process on this site so no proof ...

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
19 weeks ago

chichester


"those looking at the 18/19 year olds needs to give their heads a wobble there is no age check process on this site so no proof ...

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why , 18/19year olds visit clubs for those that aren't over 21s entry ..

I have met some pretty cool 19 year olds in clubs/ events / socials

all clubs check ages with ID as far as I am aware

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By *ealitybitesMan
19 weeks ago

Belfast

I don't have maximum upper age limit because I've never been with a woman older than me at any stage in my life.

My lower age limit is flexible only in that I raise it every single year in line with my eldest child's age. There will always be a 10 gap and I will never meet anyone below that limit.

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By *oxy jWoman
19 weeks ago

somerset


"those looking at the 18/19 year olds needs to give their heads a wobble there is no age check process on this site so no proof ...

why , 18/19year olds visit clubs for those that aren't over 21s entry ..

I have met some pretty cool 19 year olds in clubs/ events / socials

all clubs check ages with ID as far as I am aware

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and as i said no age check on fab ..i said nothing about clubs / socials

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
19 weeks ago

chichester


"those looking at the 18/19 year olds needs to give their heads a wobble there is no age check process on this site so no proof ...

why , 18/19year olds visit clubs for those that aren't over 21s entry ..

I have met some pretty cool 19 year olds in clubs/ events / socials

all clubs check ages with ID as far as I am aware

and as i said no age check on fab ..i said nothing about clubs / socials "

you can just ask to see ID at a social / meet before hand ..

mean on fab anyone and everyone can lie about ages older . younger regardless .. we base things visually generally .

if someone looked very young I would ask for ID . . fab does remove people that look very young I have noticed over the years though .

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By *WANDTGCouple
19 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

We always stipulate no one younger than our children. I don't think it's right, but that's our opinion, each to there own.

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
19 weeks ago

Bromley

I've always preferred older women, however as I edge towards my mid 50's on Thursday, I've lowered the lower age to 25, but thinking about putting that up to 30.

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By *yesgreenMan
19 weeks ago

north and south


"I've always preferred older women, however as I edge towards my mid 50's on Thursday, I've lowered the lower age to 25, but thinking about putting that up to 30."
When your Perusing on here and checking out profile and the pictures stop you and you say wow wow it’s about what we find attractive and age don’t make much difference but would they be thinking the same ? That’s the million euros question probably not but we can all get lucky a few Times in life , Nice accent by the way

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By *issmorganWoman
19 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

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By *issmorganWoman
19 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

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By *issmorganWoman
19 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"Isn't the general rule for a relationship "Half your age plus 7 years" or "Double your age minus 14 years" "

Try again lol

I'm not down to meet 86 year old though

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By *lfa RomeoMan
19 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

I'm in my 50s, so my minimum age is 40, max age 60. , but I wouldn't rule out someone younger or older

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
19 weeks ago

Well this seems to be a popular topic

Each to their own I guess.

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By *allipygousMan
19 weeks ago

Leicester

This century I've preferred women my age or older, especially now. I'd have no issues regularly seeing a woman in her 70s. Having said that, I currently have a FWB who is 25 years younger than me. I really don't understand what is going on in my head 🤷🏾‍♂️

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By *erfHerder74Man
19 weeks ago

Inverclyde

35 - 60

However I’ve seen a few lovely men I’ve liked outside these age ranges but it’s rare

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