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By *iker Jack OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Does this ever happen to you?

How do you deal with it, do you deal with it?

Time for a total re-evaluation of my life and work and who I allow in to it on a personal level

Time for a break

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By *YDB75Man
9 weeks ago

East Yorkie

Yep every few weeks when something/someone else takes a kick at me.

On a meh today.

Deal with it with sleep and work or another distraction.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
9 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Yep, it's been a meh day. Just accepting it works for me, knowing that it'll pass soon enough.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
9 weeks ago

Lincoln

Yes, I was like that for most of this year to be honest. It wasn't great, healthy, or particularly pleasant for anyone around me.

Some life changes, routine, and getting back into exercising have massively helped though.

LvM 🖤

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By *YDB75Man
9 weeks ago

East Yorkie


"Yes, I was like that for most of this year to be honest. It wasn't great, healthy, or particularly pleasant for anyone around me.

Some life changes, routine, and getting back into exercising have massively helped though.

LvM 🖤"

Last year i was terrible to live with and pushed everyone away and thats when my own head jumped in and took over

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Central

I get it from time to time, partly a reflection of the world we have around us as well as how I'm living

. I try to stop engagement with the wrong people for me at that time, get extensive rest and good exercise. And monitor things, in case further changes are needed, including potentially bringing something new into my life. Rest, healthy eating and exercising largely help me to recover

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes often unfortunately, the past couple of weeks have been very meh....

I don't have any solutions as mine probably aren't healthy but I stress clean (least I have something to show from my mehness).

Play music that makes me smile.

Get out as much as possible.

Hope you feel less meh soon op.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Thank god someone else has those times... I thought it was just me.

I've been feeling like it for about a week now and finding it hard to shit this time. Usually, I just tell myself to get a grip and carry on but it's not working atm

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

This is me today 😕

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By *elix SightedMan
6 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I’m feeling like I’m a spider at the bottom of a meh bath. Every time I get a few steps up I slide back down. But I’m going to keep looking for the shower hose and I shall summit this plastic bastard!

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By *haneleviMan
6 weeks ago

Kidderminster

Had a meh weekend tbf. Kept to myself, thought way too much.

But feeling better today. Just takes a little you time sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

We all have ups n downs

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By *oo..Woman
6 weeks ago

Boo's World

Put the music on

Get in the car and drive somewhere new for the day or weekend.

Soon changes a low into a high 😊

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By *ellinever70Woman
6 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Occasionally I get a bit meh

But I'm pretty good at making a conscious effort to do stuff I enjoy to lift my spirits

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Herts

I guess we all have a tendency to want to withdraw and retreat when life gets meh. But we need to be enforcing our boundaries for the things which make life meh, and that means not retreating. We need to patrol our fences. Mend our boundaries and keep out the meh.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
6 weeks ago

St Leonards

I'm generally on top and "not-meh", but a couple of very severe things have put me into "meh" the last two months.

I've had to use a lot of my wit to get the "meh" into its rightful place, but that brought a bit of its own "meh" in the process - sense of duty and friendship, so very conflicted.

But....the "meh" was someone else's rubbish dumped on me, so I've kicked it into touch and been clear about boundaries with them.

It's not over yet - it's the sort of thing that has successive waves - but I suspect the friendship may have run most of its 7 year course, now the line between supportive friendship and toxicity has been crossed.

So "meh" is uninvited chez Nick, after a very "meh" two months.

Short version - boundaries.

Give to those you care for, which does fuck boundaries, but get the boundaries back and let those who've crossed them know what they did.

If they can't deal with their responsibility towards you, put your efforts elsewhere.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
6 weeks ago

North West

I'm very variably meh and not meh at the moment. It's all due to my reduced mobility options and the fact I'm so reliant on others. I feel like a burden. But I'm trying to remain positive.

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By *erfHerder74Man
6 weeks ago

Greenock

I do but I have depression, on medication for it and diabetes.

I love sex and company but it doesn’t always bring a remove of the meh

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By *hilloutMan
6 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Doesn't happen often. I focus on remaining productive to keep my mind focused. Listening to music always helps for me

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
6 weeks ago

ashford

Not like me but yeah! Last couple weeks or so! Allways bit down when summer comes to end plus my younger brother died end August his funeral in 3 weeks! First of us siblings to pass! Totally out of the blue! But will bounce back! Have 2 ! X

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By *inkygentkentMan
6 weeks ago

Maidstone


"Not like me but yeah! Last couple weeks or so! Allways bit down when summer comes to end plus my younger brother died end August his funeral in 3 weeks! First of us siblings to pass! Totally out of the blue! But will bounce back! Have 2 ! X"

So sorry for your loss x

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By *andT2023Couple
6 weeks ago

in the middle

Ooo i am feeling a lot meh lately ... more work to be fair ..guess its a difficult problem to solve.

Music ..chilling and trying to switch off but that has generally lead to withdrawl from life this weekend. It will pass .

Tx

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By *ee69Man
6 weeks ago

glasgow

lol usually beer am no good at the whole talk thing lol ,interesting to read folk on here tho some insightful folk who are put together , deffo no me lol

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By *ad NannaWoman
6 weeks ago

East London


"Not like me but yeah! Last couple weeks or so! Allways bit down when summer comes to end plus my younger brother died end August his funeral in 3 weeks! First of us siblings to pass! Totally out of the blue! But will bounce back! Have 2 ! X"

So sorry to hear that. My condolences.

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By *idssissyTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Not like me but yeah! Last couple weeks or so! Allways bit down when summer comes to end plus my younger brother died end August his funeral in 3 weeks! First of us siblings to pass! Totally out of the blue! But will bounce back! Have 2 ! X"

Sorry for your loss

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago


"Not like me but yeah! Last couple weeks or so! Allways bit down when summer comes to end plus my younger brother died end August his funeral in 3 weeks! First of us siblings to pass! Totally out of the blue! But will bounce back! Have 2 ! X"

🙏🌹...so so sorry to hear that .

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