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 it’s just that the song Too Funky popped in my head and also a friend and I were chatting a couple of days ago about seduction…
Someone once said they wanted to seduce me “for hours”. How does that happen? Who has the attention span for that? Haha!
For me it’s very simple- and that is why I like socials. I smile a lot, but well, that is kinda built in… I make a point of sitting across my date and my killer move is a Sharon Stone like crossing of legs that will show my underwear. I have NEVER done it in public without knickers on- something to work towards! 😂😂
Once we’ve moved on- words, words, lots of deliciously sexy and tender words give me goosebumps. As well as kissing my neck, gently stroking my arms, shoukders, holding my hair while we kiss…. But I am finding seduction is becoming a lost art. 🥲
Do you like being seduced? How?
Do -you- like to seduce? How do you do it?
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"Compliments, kissing, eye contact and attentiveness are a must for me. That's more sexy than anything "It definitely is! 😉 | |||
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"Yes but I’m not gonna give away my game. Friends on the person mostly anyway. Some people I’m more confident in my attraction and I can be more physics teasing. Other people I have to engage their mind more. Just basically about making people want you but not completely giving yourself until they cannot cope unless they have you. " Also the biggest secret- I ask lots of questions about them and I am interested in their reply and ask more. Rather than taking an opportunity to reply about my experiences. Women seem to find that sexy on dates. So imma keep doing that. | |||
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"Misty, you know yourself so well. I can vouch for every one of those techniques." They work 🤷♀️ 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"I’m a consummate seductress. Various techniques are deployed, according to my target. “The excited chipmunk” “The needs a boost to get on the bar stool” “The gets down from the bar stool 4 times quicker than I got up” “The fuck it, I’ll just take my dress off” I’m not sure seducing is my strongest suit. I just engage with who I’m with. There may be flirting. There will probably be touching. There will definitely be a lot of laughing. " I’ll happily lift you up to a bar stool…  | |||
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"Bag of chips and a Vimto." Seems to be the going trend nowadays… 🥲 Some fancier folk pull all the stops and go for Ribena. 🍇 | |||
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"I’m a simple creature. “Wanna shag?” normally works for me. " The norm rather than the exception, yup. | |||
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"I have literally never been properly seduced and it’s one of my fantasies. The funny thing is, if it happened I probably wouldn’t recognise it! And, if I did, I probably wouldn’t know what to do 🤦♂️" I may have been a couple of times- in my 20s. I was so naive and insecure that exactly! I didn’t know what to do or how to react! Hahaha! 😂😂😂 | |||
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"Yes but I’m not gonna give away my game. Friends on the person mostly anyway. Some people I’m more confident in my attraction and I can be more physics teasing. Other people I have to engage their mind more. Just basically about making people want you but not completely giving yourself until they cannot cope unless they have you. " Tell us more, guapo… you say make people want you. How? I feel people get more and more put off the more I blabber! 😂😂😂 come on, share a secret or two… | |||
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"I’m a consummate seductress. Various techniques are deployed, according to my target. “The excited chipmunk” “The needs a boost to get on the bar stool” “The gets down from the bar stool 4 times quicker than I got up” “The fuck it, I’ll just take my dress off” I’m not sure seducing is my strongest suit. I just engage with who I’m with. There may be flirting. There will probably be touching. There will definitely be a lot of laughing. I’ll happily lift you up to a bar stool… "There’s an offer I’m unlikely to refuse | |||
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"Yes but I’m not gonna give away my game. Friends on the person mostly anyway. Some people I’m more confident in my attraction and I can be more physics teasing. Other people I have to engage their mind more. Just basically about making people want you but not completely giving yourself until they cannot cope unless they have you. Tell us more, guapo… you say make people want you. How? I feel people get more and more put off the more I blabber! 😂😂😂 come on, share a secret or two… "I don’t talk much when I want to seduce someone. Usually just listen more. Look into their eyes more intensely so they do that smile and then say ‘what?’ Throw in a compliment. Ask more questions. Just show that I’m interested but also give the eyes of- I would take you right here right now. Dunno. Talking less is my secret. But also I’m only going to seduce people that find me attractive. So it’s easier. | |||
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"I’m way past of my seduction stage but it’s one of my favourite George Michael songs, and the video is 🔥" Ah, Dee- you have good taste, my gorgeous, fellow George fan! 💝💝💝 imagine being seduced by him- looking like he does on the video? 😍 I am now getting visions of being with George and all the girls- I always had a crush on Tyra Banks and Linda Evangelista  | |||
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"I am now getting visions of being with George and all the girls- I always had a crush on Tyra Banks and Linda Evangelista "I think anybody from that video could seduce me with just a glance. Even George. And I say that as a straight man. | |||
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"Would you like me to seduce you? 💋 " How does one entice you into sexual activity OP? | |||
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"I’m a consummate seductress. Various techniques are deployed, according to my target. “The excited chipmunk” “The needs a boost to get on the bar stool” “The gets down from the bar stool 4 times quicker than I got up” “The fuck it, I’ll just take my dress off” I’m not sure seducing is my strongest suit. I just engage with who I’m with. There may be flirting. There will probably be touching. There will definitely be a lot of laughing. " I can see that all of those might work  | |||
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"I’m way past of my seduction stage but it’s one of my favourite George Michael songs, and the video is 🔥 Ah, Dee- you have good taste, my gorgeous, fellow George fan! 💝💝💝 imagine being seduced by him- looking like he does on the video? 😍 I am now getting visions of being with George and all the girls- I always had a crush on Tyra Banks and Linda Evangelista "Now when you put it this way… Tyra Banks is definitely one that makes me question my sexual preference | |||
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"I am now getting visions of being with George and all the girls- I always had a crush on Tyra Banks and Linda Evangelista
I think anybody from that video could seduce me with just a glance. Even George. And I say that as a straight man."He was the most beautiful human that ever set foot on this earth. A true Greek god. 😌😍 | |||
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"Would you like me to seduce you? 💋 How does one entice you into sexual activity OP?" Hmmm… A cute smile gets me going. Someone who is into the same stuff I am, or has a similar outlook of life. I tend to be frivolous and I have a weakness for powerful career-driven men. Think looking for a man in finance, trust fund, 6’5”, blue eyes…(I bet you read it singing haha!) The latter 2 do not always happen and it’s ok… I was getting wet earlier this week by hearing about Solvency II! 😂😂😂 So if I am fascinated, physically and mentally, I am putty in their hands. Still, I love lots of good, good kissing, caressing my hair while it happens, stroking my neck, my shoulders… the inside of my legs like being caressed too. I also like being whispered in my ear how much they desire me… …but as I said, it rarely happens nowadays. And I am keen to learn if there are other ways of seduction. 😎 | |||
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"Dating/meeting via the Internet is killing the art of seduction. It's all dominated by the direct approach which hardly/never works. Best to get to a nice bar and rekindle your flirting technique at the bar. Probably not with the bar staff. " I spend many nights at nice hotels with nice bars. I will try this sometime soon.. maybe in San Diego next week. I will report back.  | |||
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"Not really- I’ve just woken up, and look scary and my voice is hoarse from snoring, most likely. it’s just that the song Too Funky popped in my head and also a friend and I were chatting a couple of days ago about seduction…
Someone once said they wanted to seduce me “for hours”. How does that happen? Who has the attention span for that? Haha!
For me it’s very simple- and that is why I like socials. I smile a lot, but well, that is kinda built in… I make a point of sitting across my date and my killer move is a Sharon Stone like crossing of legs that will show my underwear. I have NEVER done it in public without knickers on- something to work towards! 😂😂
Once we’ve moved on- words, words, lots of deliciously sexy and tender words give me goosebumps. As well as kissing my neck, gently stroking my arms, shoukders, holding my hair while we kiss…. But I am finding seduction is becoming a lost art. 🥲
Do you like being seduced? How?
Do -you- like to seduce? How do you do it?
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" Do you mean in a swinging scenario or a real meet?" Does the swinging scenario not include real meets? Could be both… the way you interpret it. | |||
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"Dating/meeting via the Internet is killing the art of seduction. It's all dominated by the direct approach which hardly/never works. Best to get to a nice bar and rekindle your flirting technique at the bar. Probably not with the bar staff. I spend many nights at nice hotels with nice bars. I will try this sometime soon.. maybe in San Diego next week. I will report back. "There's something very pleasant about talking to a gorgeous lady in a bar | |||
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"Dating/meeting via the Internet is killing the art of seduction. It's all dominated by the direct approach which hardly/never works. Best to get to a nice bar and rekindle your flirting technique at the bar. Probably not with the bar staff. I spend many nights at nice hotels with nice bars. I will try this sometime soon.. maybe in San Diego next week. I will report back.
There's something very pleasant about talking to a gorgeous lady in a bar "Does it happen nowadays though? I find people rarely leave the group they’re with and everyone is on their phones all the time! But I shall try … I am actually going to the Top Gun bar 😎 ✈️ | |||
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"Dating/meeting via the Internet is killing the art of seduction. It's all dominated by the direct approach which hardly/never works. Best to get to a nice bar and rekindle your flirting technique at the bar. Probably not with the bar staff. I spend many nights at nice hotels with nice bars. I will try this sometime soon.. maybe in San Diego next week. I will report back.
There's something very pleasant about talking to a gorgeous lady in a bar
Does it happen nowadays though? I find people rarely leave the group they’re with and everyone is on their phones all the time! But I shall try … I am actually going to the Top Gun bar 😎 ✈️ "I totally agree. Mobile devices are killers. I'll have to join you at a social again. It's been a while since we tested our seduction skills on one another. | |||
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"Dating/meeting via the Internet is killing the art of seduction. It's all dominated by the direct approach which hardly/never works. Best to get to a nice bar and rekindle your flirting technique at the bar. Probably not with the bar staff. I spend many nights at nice hotels with nice bars. I will try this sometime soon.. maybe in San Diego next week. I will report back.
There's something very pleasant about talking to a gorgeous lady in a bar
Does it happen nowadays though? I find people rarely leave the group they’re with and everyone is on their phones all the time! But I shall try … I am actually going to the Top Gun bar 😎 ✈️ "I spend a lot of time in hotels. In my experience, if I’m in a hotel bar and not looking at my mobile or reading a book, men will most definitely approach me. It doesn’t mean it always leads somewhere. | |||
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"Dating/meeting via the Internet is killing the art of seduction. It's all dominated by the direct approach which hardly/never works. Best to get to a nice bar and rekindle your flirting technique at the bar. Probably not with the bar staff. I spend many nights at nice hotels with nice bars. I will try this sometime soon.. maybe in San Diego next week. I will report back.
There's something very pleasant about talking to a gorgeous lady in a bar
Does it happen nowadays though? I find people rarely leave the group they’re with and everyone is on their phones all the time! But I shall try … I am actually going to the Top Gun bar 😎 ✈️
I spend a lot of time in hotels. In my experience, if I’m in a hotel bar and not looking at my mobile or reading a book, men will most definitely approach me. It doesn’t mean it always leads somewhere. "You are leaving yourself open to being approached which is good and hopefully the guys are using their seduction skills. But most importantly respecting your decision not to take things further. | |||
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"Not really- I’ve just woken up, and look scary and my voice is hoarse from snoring, most likely. it’s just that the song Too Funky popped in my head and also a friend and I were chatting a couple of days ago about seduction…
Someone once said they wanted to seduce me “for hours”. How does that happen? Who has the attention span for that? Haha!
For me it’s very simple- and that is why I like socials. I smile a lot, but well, that is kinda built in… I make a point of sitting across my date and my killer move is a Sharon Stone like crossing of legs that will show my underwear. I have NEVER done it in public without knickers on- something to work towards! 😂😂
Once we’ve moved on- words, words, lots of deliciously sexy and tender words give me goosebumps. As well as kissing my neck, gently stroking my arms, shoukders, holding my hair while we kiss…. But I am finding seduction is becoming a lost art. 🥲
Do you like being seduced? How?
Do -you- like to seduce? How do you do it?
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" Do you like being seduced? How? Do -you- like to seduce? How do you do it? " Just bring me tea, toast and thick cut marmalade (Reduced Sugar), and I'm yours. No sex until after I've have the tea, etc, though. | |||
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