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By *olds Couple OP   Couple
11 weeks ago

Louth

We recently went to a midlands club and noticed the large amount of young Asian guys trawling the club. Surely they have wives or girlfriends where were they ? Or is it a case of what's yours is mine but what's mine is my own ? We considered this question before posting it for fear of someone playing the race card against us. However this is just a genuine question and perhaps one or more of the Asian guys on here can reply with an answer.

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By *ove stonesMan
11 weeks ago

Oldham

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By *oebloggs216Man
11 weeks ago

Rugby

A great post but I'll struggle to answer it entirely.

I'm a single Brummie with Indian heritage but very much more English in mindset than Indian.

Firstly there is a large Asian population in the Midlands, so the clubs may represent that with single guys.

This is where I may get shot down in flames and it might not be only be an Asian thing. I believe that some Asian men still consider wives and girlfriends not as equals or partners so therefore would never consider asking them to be involved. This is just one perspective and I am happy to elaborate but it's difficult in written form as this can easily go into many nuances...

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By *allipygousMan
11 weeks ago

Leicester

Because south Asian men, in general, don't believe in sharing their women? Same as black men, in general? 🤷🏾‍♂️

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By *hil most chillMan
11 weeks ago

South East & Europe

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By *hil most chillMan
11 weeks ago

South East & Europe

I'm curious about why OP believes all Asian guys in clubs must have wives or girlfriends at home.

And also why they aren't making the same sweeping generalisation about all the non-Asian guys in clubs.

Like OP, I'm "just asking questions"

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By *atandjayCouple
11 weeks ago

Brighton

I absolutely love sharing

Unfortunately my first wife ( Asian) had very little interest in sex with me never mind others

But have seen several Asian couples on here so lovely to see

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By *allipygousMan
11 weeks ago

Leicester


"I'm curious about why OP believes all Asian guys in clubs must have wives or girlfriends at home.

And also why they aren't making the same sweeping generalisation about all the non-Asian guys in clubs.

Like OP, I'm "just asking questions" "

What is the overwhelming ethnicity of women you see in clubs?

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By *olds Couple OP   Couple
11 weeks ago

Louth


"I'm curious about why OP believes all Asian guys in clubs must have wives or girlfriends at home.

And also why they aren't making the same sweeping generalisation about all the non-Asian guys in clubs.

Like OP, I'm "just asking questions"

What is the overwhelming ethnicity of women you see in clubs? "

Good reply, you answered the question for us.

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By *olds Couple OP   Couple
11 weeks ago

Louth


"A great post but I'll struggle to answer it entirely.

I'm a single Brummie with Indian heritage but very much more English in mindset than Indian.

Firstly there is a large Asian population in the Midlands, so the clubs may represent that with single guys.

This is where I may get shot down in flames and it might not be only be an Asian thing. I believe that some Asian men still consider wives and girlfriends not as equals or partners so therefore would never consider asking them to be involved. This is just one perspective and I am happy to elaborate but it's difficult in written form as this can easily go into many nuances...

"

What you said about some Asian men still considering wives and girlfriends as not being equals is an attitude that hasn't gone unnoticed and doesn't do them any favours at all.

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By *ood manMan
11 weeks ago

wsllsall

I am a white male who’s been swinging for 25 years to most clubs and many private parties you will not see Asian wives or girlfriends clubs and parties because because the husband won’t allow for me personally I think it’s a culture thing Asian men like banging white women but don’t wanna right guy to bang their partner simple as that

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By *aul_j80Man
11 weeks ago

Bloxwich

You do see some Asian couples in clubs, but tbh it's a small world, and some Asian swingers might feel going to a local club is a little to exposed for them.

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By *lowloadandgocoupleCouple
11 weeks ago

ferrybank

Correct

How many black or Asian do you see sharing here on fab?

Most of that enticity happy to share another white man's wife.

And thats it.

Swingers share.

They just fuck what they can

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By *ou only live onceMan
11 weeks ago

London


"We recently went to a midlands club and noticed the large amount of young Asian guys trawling the club. Surely they have wives or girlfriends where were they ? Or is it a case of what's yours is mine but what's mine is my own ? We considered this question before posting it for fear of someone playing the race card against us. However this is just a genuine question and perhaps one or more of the Asian guys on here can reply with an answer."

How does anyone know which 'single' men at clubs - Asian or otherwise - have a wife or girlfriend?

Would all single men "surely" have wives or girlfriends? Or just those of Asian descent?

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By *ood manMan
11 weeks ago

wsllsall

There’s a thing called conversation where you talk that’s how you know by talking and having a Conversation A lot of white married men will take their wedding ring off but as we used to say it takes one to no one and you can spot a married man and mile off so you have the conversation and he gradually comes out I have a girlfriend or that married that’s how I know when you’ve been doing again for 25 years you can spot a married man and 1,000,000 miles away ha ha

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By *lowloadandgocoupleCouple
11 weeks ago

ferrybank

No and yes they probably do but don't sharers much as much.

I could be wrong but the profiles on fab seem to largely out number.

Correct me if I'm wrong.

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By *oeBeansMan
11 weeks ago

Derby


"We recently went to a midlands club and noticed the large amount of young Asian guys trawling the club. Surely they have wives or girlfriends where were they ? Or is it a case of what's yours is mine but what's mine is my own ? We considered this question before posting it for fear of someone playing the race card against us. However this is just a genuine question and perhaps one or more of the Asian guys on here can reply with an answer.

How does anyone know which 'single' men at clubs - Asian or otherwise - have a wife or girlfriend?

Would all single men "surely" have wives or girlfriends? Or just those of Asian descent?

"

Assumptions which turn to rumours which turn to stereotypes which turn to...

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By *ou only live onceMan
11 weeks ago

London


"There’s a thing called conversation where you talk that’s how you know by talking and having a Conversation A lot of white married men will take their wedding ring off but as we used to say it takes one to no one and you can spot a married man and mile off so you have the conversation and he gradually comes out I have a girlfriend or that married that’s how I know when you’ve been doing again for 25 years you can spot a married man and 1,000,000 miles away ha ha"

Ah, right. Got it. So all those married white guys who have taken their rings off but later admit to being married don't like sharing their wives either. Not just the Asian ones.

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By *lowloadandgocoupleCouple
11 weeks ago

ferrybank

Ok Muslim men like sharing there wives in general?

I'll shut up now.

And before i get slated.

I have many of those friends.

And no not something ther can handle.

And yes the conversation was had.

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By *olds Couple OP   Couple
11 weeks ago

Louth


"We recently went to a midlands club and noticed the large amount of young Asian guys trawling the club. Surely they have wives or girlfriends where were they ? Or is it a case of what's yours is mine but what's mine is my own ? We considered this question before posting it for fear of someone playing the race card against us. However this is just a genuine question and perhaps one or more of the Asian guys on here can reply with an answer.

How does anyone know which 'single' men at clubs - Asian or otherwise - have a wife or girlfriend?

Would all single men "surely" have wives or girlfriends? Or just those of Asian descent?

"

Many are young guys in their early 20s, you can't say that some don't have girlfriends or even wives. However, lets say single Asian women in clubs for arguments sake, rare as hens teeth. Then again, I think the previous replies about Asian guys being more than willing to look for sex with caucasian women but not being willing to reciprocate pretty much nails it.

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By *ou only live onceMan
11 weeks ago

London


"We recently went to a midlands club and noticed the large amount of young Asian guys trawling the club. Surely they have wives or girlfriends where were they ? Or is it a case of what's yours is mine but what's mine is my own ? We considered this question before posting it for fear of someone playing the race card against us. However this is just a genuine question and perhaps one or more of the Asian guys on here can reply with an answer.

How does anyone know which 'single' men at clubs - Asian or otherwise - have a wife or girlfriend?

Would all single men "surely" have wives or girlfriends? Or just those of Asian descent?

Many are young guys in their early 20s, you can't say that some don't have girlfriends or even wives. However, lets say single Asian women in clubs for arguments sake, rare as hens teeth. Then again, I think the previous replies about Asian guys being more than willing to look for sex with caucasian women but not being willing to reciprocate pretty much nails it. "

I'm sure some do. In the same way I'm sure some of the non-Asian men will have.

Maybe it's just some men - irrespective of background - that like to have their cake and eat it?

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By *oeBeansMan
11 weeks ago

Derby


"We recently went to a midlands club and noticed the large amount of young Asian guys trawling the club. Surely they have wives or girlfriends where were they ? Or is it a case of what's yours is mine but what's mine is my own ? We considered this question before posting it for fear of someone playing the race card against us. However this is just a genuine question and perhaps one or more of the Asian guys on here can reply with an answer.

How does anyone know which 'single' men at clubs - Asian or otherwise - have a wife or girlfriend?

Would all single men "surely" have wives or girlfriends? Or just those of Asian descent?

Many are young guys in their early 20s, you can't say that some don't have girlfriends or even wives. However, lets say single Asian women in clubs for arguments sake, rare as hens teeth. Then again, I think the previous replies about Asian guys being more than willing to look for sex with caucasian women but not being willing to reciprocate pretty much nails it. "

In your opinion. You have absolutely no evidence to back that up other than saying "there are more Asian men in clubs than Asian women". Who the hell are you to pass that judgement?

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By *ampireLoveMan
11 weeks ago

Essex & Bristol

Loving the generalisation, stereotyping and racism of this thread. Got to love fab for the spectrum of people on here 😂😂

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By *lowloadandgocoupleCouple
11 weeks ago

ferrybank


"Loving the generalisation, stereotyping and racism of this thread. Got to love fab for the spectrum of people on here 😂😂"

Is it racism and why?

Please elaborate.

I believe its more a general consensus that Asian men don't like to share.

What's racist about that?

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By *lowloadandgocoupleCouple
11 weeks ago

ferrybank

It's a fab thread and not the real world.

In saying that it's also reflected on the real world.

Apologies for bursting your bubble

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By *oeBeansMan
11 weeks ago

Derby


"Loving the generalisation, stereotyping and racism of this thread. Got to love fab for the spectrum of people on here 😂😂

Is it racism and why?

Please elaborate.

I believe its more a general consensus that Asian men don't like to share.

What's racist about that?"

A general consensus by whom? And why single out Asian men? Are there not black men and women that don't like to share? Are there not white men and women that don't like to share? I get the OP was based on Asian men, but my point is that it's a narrow-minded thought to have in the first place

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By *ampireLoveMan
11 weeks ago

Essex & Bristol

The belief that different races possess distinct characteristics, abilities, or qualities, especially so as to distinguish them as inferior or superior to one another directly or indirectly.

I have a question for you… if someone generalising a gender, are they sexist? It’s a question I’m just curious about. Maybe I’m wrong. 🤷🏽‍♂️

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By *ood manMan
11 weeks ago

wsllsall

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By *ampireLoveMan
11 weeks ago

Essex & Bristol

To be fair, Asia is the biggest continent in the world. Are we talking all of Asia?!

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By *ood manMan
11 weeks ago

wsllsall

The original question was where are all the Asian wives or girlfriends you tell me if you know the answer then I have my own opinion on it

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By *ood manMan
11 weeks ago

wsllsall

The original question was where are all the Asian wives or girlfriends you tell me if you know the answer then I have my own opinion on it

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By *oeBeansMan
10 weeks ago

Derby


"The original question was where are all the Asian wives or girlfriends you tell me if you know the answer then I have my own opinion on it"

A lot of people are fixated on the sharing aspect of it whereas I looked at it from a cultural aspect. What if it's not a case of not wanting to share, but more that they don't want to be open about it because it's culturally unacceptable to do so and they could face ridicule as a result. But no, let's fixate on the part that makes Asian men in the swinging world look like awful human being yet again.

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By *lowloadandgocoupleCouple
10 weeks ago

ferrybank


"Loving the generalisation, stereotyping and racism of this thread. Got to love fab for the spectrum of people on here 😂😂

Is it racism and why?

Please elaborate.

I believe its more a general consensus that Asian men don't like to share.

What's racist about that?

A general consensus by whom? And why single out Asian men? Are there not black men and women that don't like to share? Are there not white men and women that don't like to share? I get the OP was based on Asian men, but my point is that it's a narrow-minded thought to have in the first place"

Apologies but yes I would include black couples as well, correct me if I'm wrong and I really see no reason for a race card to be pulled here, because there's no reason to.

It's an observation based on the percentage of coloured folk (White) who share more.

Please correct me if I'm wrong.

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By *oeBeansMan
10 weeks ago

Derby


"Loving the generalisation, stereotyping and racism of this thread. Got to love fab for the spectrum of people on here 😂😂

Is it racism and why?

Please elaborate.

I believe its more a general consensus that Asian men don't like to share.

What's racist about that?

A general consensus by whom? And why single out Asian men? Are there not black men and women that don't like to share? Are there not white men and women that don't like to share? I get the OP was based on Asian men, but my point is that it's a narrow-minded thought to have in the first place

Apologies but yes I would include black couples as well, correct me if I'm wrong and I really see no reason for a race card to be pulled here, because there's no reason to.

It's an observation based on the percentage of coloured folk (White) who share more.

Please correct me if I'm wrong."

I'm sorry but the OP can't single out Asian men and moan about a race card being pulled. That's an insane way of thinking.

And I don't need to correct you, there probably are a higher percentage of white couples. Let me just check the race of the majority of the general UK population and see if there's a correlation... 🤔

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By *lowloadandgocoupleCouple
10 weeks ago

ferrybank


"The belief that different races possess distinct characteristics, abilities, or qualities, especially so as to distinguish them as inferior or superior to one another directly or indirectly.

I have a question for you… if someone generalising a gender, are they sexist? It’s a question I’m just curious about. Maybe I’m wrong. 🤷🏽‍♂️"

No body said anything about inferior or superior, I would believe there inferior complex may lie in your head.

And if I could ask you a question and I hate to generalis, would you share a partner?

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By *ou only live onceMan
10 weeks ago

London


"Loving the generalisation, stereotyping and racism of this thread. Got to love fab for the spectrum of people on here 😂😂

Is it racism and why?

Please elaborate.

I believe its more a general consensus that Asian men don't like to share.

What's racist about that?

A general consensus by whom? And why single out Asian men? Are there not black men and women that don't like to share? Are there not white men and women that don't like to share? I get the OP was based on Asian men, but my point is that it's a narrow-minded thought to have in the first place

Apologies but yes I would include black couples as well, correct me if I'm wrong and I really see no reason for a race card to be pulled here, because there's no reason to.

It's an observation based on the percentage of coloured folk (White) who share more.

Please correct me if I'm wrong."

It's not "pulling a race card" to point out that making sweeping generalisations or lumping a whole group together based solely on the colour of their skin is wrong and ill-informed.

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By *naswingdressWoman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yikes 😬

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By *ou only live onceMan
10 weeks ago

London


"Yikes 😬"

Welcome! It's been a ride!

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By *naswingdressWoman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Yikes 😬

Welcome! It's been a ride!

"

Hoo boy

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By *ou only live onceMan
10 weeks ago

London


"Yikes 😬

Welcome! It's been a ride!

Hoo boy"

Buckle up...

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By *olds Couple OP   Couple
10 weeks ago

Louth


"The original question was where are all the Asian wives or girlfriends you tell me if you know the answer then I have my own opinion on it

A lot of people are fixated on the sharing aspect of it whereas I looked at it from a cultural aspect. What if it's not a case of not wanting to share, but more that they don't want to be open about it because it's culturally unacceptable to do so and they could face ridicule as a result. But no, let's fixate on the part that makes Asian men in the swinging world look like awful human being yet again."

Well if "it's culturally unacceptable to do so and they could face ridicule as a result" does the same cultural unacceptability not extend to the men visiting swinging clubs for sex or is it just the women who would be ridiculed ? Also, as swingers are we not all at risk of ridicule from family, friends and society in general ?

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By *aughty Nas xxxMan
10 weeks ago

Birmingham


"The original question was where are all the Asian wives or girlfriends you tell me if you know the answer then I have my own opinion on it

A lot of people are fixated on the sharing aspect of it whereas I looked at it from a cultural aspect. What if it's not a case of not wanting to share, but more that they don't want to be open about it because it's culturally unacceptable to do so and they could face ridicule as a result. But no, let's fixate on the part that makes Asian men in the swinging world look like awful human being yet again."

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By *lowloadandgocoupleCouple
10 weeks ago

ferrybank


"Loving the generalisation, stereotyping and racism of this thread. Got to love fab for the spectrum of people on here 😂😂

Is it racism and why?

Please elaborate.

I believe its more a general consensus that Asian men don't like to share.

What's racist about that?

A general consensus by whom? And why single out Asian men? Are there not black men and women that don't like to share? Are there not white men and women that don't like to share? I get the OP was based on Asian men, but my point is that it's a narrow-minded thought to have in the first place

Apologies but yes I would include black couples as well, correct me if I'm wrong and I really see no reason for a race card to be pulled here, because there's no reason to.

It's an observation based on the percentage of coloured folk (White) who share more.

Please correct me if I'm wrong.

I'm sorry but the OP can't single out Asian men and moan about a race card being pulled. That's an insane way of thinking.

And I don't need to correct you, there probably are a higher percentage of white couples. Let me just check the race of the majority of the general UK population and see if there's a correlation... 🤔"

After spending many years working around the world with so many Asian and African friends, just my opinion and experience.

No not their thing in general

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By *oeBeansMan
10 weeks ago

Derby


"The original question was where are all the Asian wives or girlfriends you tell me if you know the answer then I have my own opinion on it

A lot of people are fixated on the sharing aspect of it whereas I looked at it from a cultural aspect. What if it's not a case of not wanting to share, but more that they don't want to be open about it because it's culturally unacceptable to do so and they could face ridicule as a result. But no, let's fixate on the part that makes Asian men in the swinging world look like awful human being yet again.

Well if "it's culturally unacceptable to do so and they could face ridicule as a result" does the same cultural unacceptability not extend to the men visiting swinging clubs for sex or is it just the women who would be ridiculed ? Also, as swingers are we not all at risk of ridicule from family, friends and society in general ?"

You're not understanding me and you're trying to make this a slight against Asian men. The fact it's not culturally accepted means it's harder to broach the subject to your SO in the first place. You don't know the added pressure or risk because you're not aware of how Asians are raised when it comes to the view of having sex or sexual partners. Your version of ridicule from society is different to ours and is something you will never understand.

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By *oeBeansMan
10 weeks ago

Derby


"Loving the generalisation, stereotyping and racism of this thread. Got to love fab for the spectrum of people on here 😂😂

Is it racism and why?

Please elaborate.

I believe its more a general consensus that Asian men don't like to share.

What's racist about that?

A general consensus by whom? And why single out Asian men? Are there not black men and women that don't like to share? Are there not white men and women that don't like to share? I get the OP was based on Asian men, but my point is that it's a narrow-minded thought to have in the first place

Apologies but yes I would include black couples as well, correct me if I'm wrong and I really see no reason for a race card to be pulled here, because there's no reason to.

It's an observation based on the percentage of coloured folk (White) who share more.

Please correct me if I'm wrong.

I'm sorry but the OP can't single out Asian men and moan about a race card being pulled. That's an insane way of thinking.

And I don't need to correct you, there probably are a higher percentage of white couples. Let me just check the race of the majority of the general UK population and see if there's a correlation... 🤔

After spending many years working around the world with so many Asian and African friends, just my opinion and experience.

No not their thing in general"

As opposed to your white friends who you have mass orgies with?

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By *naswingdressWoman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Loving the generalisation, stereotyping and racism of this thread. Got to love fab for the spectrum of people on here 😂😂

Is it racism and why?

Please elaborate.

I believe its more a general consensus that Asian men don't like to share.

What's racist about that?

A general consensus by whom? And why single out Asian men? Are there not black men and women that don't like to share? Are there not white men and women that don't like to share? I get the OP was based on Asian men, but my point is that it's a narrow-minded thought to have in the first place

Apologies but yes I would include black couples as well, correct me if I'm wrong and I really see no reason for a race card to be pulled here, because there's no reason to.

It's an observation based on the percentage of coloured folk (White) who share more.

Please correct me if I'm wrong.

I'm sorry but the OP can't single out Asian men and moan about a race card being pulled. That's an insane way of thinking.

And I don't need to correct you, there probably are a higher percentage of white couples. Let me just check the race of the majority of the general UK population and see if there's a correlation... 🤔

After spending many years working around the world with so many Asian and African friends, just my opinion and experience.

No not their thing in general

As opposed to your white friends who you have mass orgies with?"

White people are all individuals. Non white people are the Borg. *Nods sagely*

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By *oeBeansMan
10 weeks ago

Derby

You know what, I give up. I'm tired of being Asian on this site and trying to prove to everyone that we're not all bad and that there are "some good ones". Fuck that. People can think what they want and I'll spend my energy on the actual decent human beings I want to associate with on here who don't see a skin colour and see a stereotype. I would say goodnight, but I don't even want it to be that good for some of you.

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By *naswingdressWoman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"You know what, I give up. I'm tired of being Asian on this site and trying to prove to everyone that we're not all bad and that there are "some good ones". Fuck that. People can think what they want and I'll spend my energy on the actual decent human beings I want to associate with on here who don't see a skin colour and see a stereotype. I would say goodnight, but I don't even want it to be that good for some of you."

❤️❤️

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By *lowloadandgocoupleCouple
10 weeks ago

ferrybank


"Loving the generalisation, stereotyping and racism of this thread. Got to love fab for the spectrum of people on here 😂😂

Is it racism and why?

Please elaborate.

I believe its more a general consensus that Asian men don't like to share.

What's racist about that?

A general consensus by whom? And why single out Asian men? Are there not black men and women that don't like to share? Are there not white men and women that don't like to share? I get the OP was based on Asian men, but my point is that it's a narrow-minded thought to have in the first place

Apologies but yes I would include black couples as well, correct me if I'm wrong and I really see no reason for a race card to be pulled here, because there's no reason to.

It's an observation based on the percentage of coloured folk (White) who share more.

Please correct me if I'm wrong.

I'm sorry but the OP can't single out Asian men and moan about a race card being pulled. That's an insane way of thinking.

And I don't need to correct you, there probably are a higher percentage of white couples. Let me just check the race of the majority of the general UK population and see if there's a correlation... 🤔

After spending many years working around the world with so many Asian and African friends, just my opinion and experience.

No not their thing in general

As opposed to your white friends who you have mass orgies with?"

We have obviously lived different lives with different experiences so we'll agree to disagree on that.

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By *lowloadandgocoupleCouple
10 weeks ago

ferrybank


"You know what, I give up. I'm tired of being Asian on this site and trying to prove to everyone that we're not all bad and that there are "some good ones". Fuck that. People can think what they want and I'll spend my energy on the actual decent human beings I want to associate with on here who don't see a skin colour and see a stereotype. I would say goodnight, but I don't even want it to be that good for some of you.

❤️❤️"

Who the fuck said you were bad?

Jesus I was just taking about the ratio of white vrs Asian or coloured willing to share on this site or in general.

Nothing at all racist about that

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

Good grief. My block list is growing exponentially on the back of this thread. 🫤

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By *oeBeansMan
10 weeks ago

Derby


"You know what, I give up. I'm tired of being Asian on this site and trying to prove to everyone that we're not all bad and that there are "some good ones". Fuck that. People can think what they want and I'll spend my energy on the actual decent human beings I want to associate with on here who don't see a skin colour and see a stereotype. I would say goodnight, but I don't even want it to be that good for some of you.

❤️❤️

Who the fuck said you were bad?

Jesus I was just taking about the ratio of white vrs Asian or coloured willing to share on this site or in general.

Nothing at all racist about that "

And yet you have absolutely no evidence to back that up. Knowing "many Asian and black people" doesn't exactly scream qualitative data. You don't know Asian men don't want to share because they're selfish or whether their wives even know they're on here. And even if they don't want to share, why does it matter?

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By *naswingdressWoman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Good grief. My block list is growing exponentially on the back of this thread. 🫤"

Mmhm

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By *ou only live onceMan
10 weeks ago

London


"You know what, I give up. I'm tired of being Asian on this site and trying to prove to everyone that we're not all bad and that there are "some good ones". Fuck that. People can think what they want and I'll spend my energy on the actual decent human beings I want to associate with on here who don't see a skin colour and see a stereotype. I would say goodnight, but I don't even want it to be that good for some of you.

❤️❤️

Who the fuck said you were bad?

Jesus I was just taking about the ratio of white vrs Asian or coloured willing to share on this site or in general.

Nothing at all racist about that "

I'll make this easy: lumping an entire group of people together based on the colour of their skin, as you have done a few times in this thread, is racist. So is the word "coloured" in the context you've just used it.

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By *olds Couple OP   Couple
10 weeks ago

Louth


"The original question was where are all the Asian wives or girlfriends you tell me if you know the answer then I have my own opinion on it

A lot of people are fixated on the sharing aspect of it whereas I looked at it from a cultural aspect. What if it's not a case of not wanting to share, but more that they don't want to be open about it because it's culturally unacceptable to do so and they could face ridicule as a result. But no, let's fixate on the part that makes Asian men in the swinging world look like awful human being yet again.

Well if "it's culturally unacceptable to do so and they could face ridicule as a result" does the same cultural unacceptability not extend to the men visiting swinging clubs for sex or is it just the women who would be ridiculed ? Also, as swingers are we not all at risk of ridicule from family, friends and society in general ?

You're not understanding me and you're trying to make this a slight against Asian men. The fact it's not culturally accepted means it's harder to broach the subject to your SO in the first place. You don't know the added pressure or risk because you're not aware of how Asians are raised when it comes to the view of having sex or sexual partners. Your version of ridicule from society is different to ours and is something you will never understand."

But that doesn't answer the question which was don't those strong cultural views on having sex or sexual partners extend to Asian men or is it only visited on the Asian women ? Also you mentioned grouping them together because of the colour of their skin. It's absolutely nothing to do with skin colour or ethnicity but since you mentioned it it's probably more to do with a culture that seems discriminatory towards women.

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By *ou only live onceMan
10 weeks ago

London


"The original question was where are all the Asian wives or girlfriends you tell me if you know the answer then I have my own opinion on it

A lot of people are fixated on the sharing aspect of it whereas I looked at it from a cultural aspect. What if it's not a case of not wanting to share, but more that they don't want to be open about it because it's culturally unacceptable to do so and they could face ridicule as a result. But no, let's fixate on the part that makes Asian men in the swinging world look like awful human being yet again.

Well if "it's culturally unacceptable to do so and they could face ridicule as a result" does the same cultural unacceptability not extend to the men visiting swinging clubs for sex or is it just the women who would be ridiculed ? Also, as swingers are we not all at risk of ridicule from family, friends and society in general ?

You're not understanding me and you're trying to make this a slight against Asian men. The fact it's not culturally accepted means it's harder to broach the subject to your SO in the first place. You don't know the added pressure or risk because you're not aware of how Asians are raised when it comes to the view of having sex or sexual partners. Your version of ridicule from society is different to ours and is something you will never understand.

But that doesn't answer the question which was don't those strong cultural views on having sex or sexual partners extend to Asian men or is it only visited on the Asian women ? Also you mentioned grouping them together because of the colour of their skin. It's absolutely nothing to do with skin colour or ethnicity but since you mentioned it it's probably more to do with a culture that seems discriminatory towards women. "

No, it was me who mentioned 'grouping them together'. How are you identifying these men as "Asian" (though I dare say a lot will be British) if not the colour of thier skin?

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
10 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Come on now, let's all shake hands and say sorry

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago


"

No, it was me who mentioned 'grouping them together'. How are you identifying these men as "Asian" (though I dare say a lot will be British) if not the colour of thier skin?"

Sometimes it's just not worth engaging with people. Like Nero, I just added them to my block list.

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By *ou only live onceMan
10 weeks ago

London


"

No, it was me who mentioned 'grouping them together'. How are you identifying these men as "Asian" (though I dare say a lot will be British) if not the colour of thier skin?

Sometimes it's just not worth engaging with people. Like Nero, I just added them to my block list."

Sometimes I just like the sport.

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By *naswingdressWoman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Come on now, let's all shake hands and say sorry

Mr "

Eww no. I'm not touching people like that. (To be clear, I'm not talking about the Asians)

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By *oeBeansMan
10 weeks ago

Derby


"The original question was where are all the Asian wives or girlfriends you tell me if you know the answer then I have my own opinion on it

A lot of people are fixated on the sharing aspect of it whereas I looked at it from a cultural aspect. What if it's not a case of not wanting to share, but more that they don't want to be open about it because it's culturally unacceptable to do so and they could face ridicule as a result. But no, let's fixate on the part that makes Asian men in the swinging world look like awful human being yet again.

Well if "it's culturally unacceptable to do so and they could face ridicule as a result" does the same cultural unacceptability not extend to the men visiting swinging clubs for sex or is it just the women who would be ridiculed ? Also, as swingers are we not all at risk of ridicule from family, friends and society in general ?

You're not understanding me and you're trying to make this a slight against Asian men. The fact it's not culturally accepted means it's harder to broach the subject to your SO in the first place. You don't know the added pressure or risk because you're not aware of how Asians are raised when it comes to the view of having sex or sexual partners. Your version of ridicule from society is different to ours and is something you will never understand.

But that doesn't answer the question which was don't those strong cultural views on having sex or sexual partners extend to Asian men or is it only visited on the Asian women ? Also you mentioned grouping them together because of the colour of their skin. It's absolutely nothing to do with skin colour or ethnicity but since you mentioned it it's probably more to do with a culture that seems discriminatory towards women. "

By using the word "Asian" you lumped them together in the first place. As far as the cultural aspect of it, you don't know whether these Asian men are married or not. You're just assuming they are and that a lack of female presence in clubs is something to do with them being controlled with men being unwilling to share. And what are these assumptions based on?

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Come on now, let's all shake hands and say sorry

Mr "

Considering the magnitude of some of the racist remarks on here it's going to take more than a handshake to absolve the perpetrators. If at all.

I suppose what I'm saying is...fuck that.

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By *hil most chillMan
10 weeks ago

South East & Europe


"You know what, I give up. I'm tired of being Asian on this site and trying to prove to everyone that we're not all bad and that there are "some good ones". Fuck that. People can think what they want and I'll spend my energy on the actual decent human beings I want to associate with on here who don't see a skin colour and see a stereotype. I would say goodnight, but I don't even want it to be that good for some of you.

❤️❤️

Who the fuck said you were bad?

Jesus I was just taking about the ratio of white vrs Asian or coloured willing to share on this site or in general.

Nothing at all racist about that "

From the opening post, the suggestion from a lot of you has been that Asian guys in clubs are probably cheaters because you haven't seen any Asian wives. This also suggests you think they must only marry their own kind. And like someone else pointed out, Asia is a huge place so they have also lumped a load of nationalities into one, which is, if not racist then just massively lazy.

You don't have to join the KKK and leave burning crosses on people's lawns to be racist, most of it is subtle stuff that the perpetrators probably don't even believe is racist.

Happy to clear that up for you

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By *eordieJeansCouple
10 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Wow.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
10 weeks ago

somewhere

I know what I want to say and not sure how to word this but I'm going to try.

Is the midlands and the very little knowledge I have of it, is there is a larger community of different cultures to what you might find in a Kent, back of butt fuck no where?

If I go to a club in Kent for example there are lots of white men, there on their own, I never once think "bet their wife is at home and doesn't want to share", same as I see anyone else, we have many different men of all ethnicities attend the clubs down here.

So I'm guessing with the above, it just depends on the area you are in, just like if you visited a club with I dunno, a large population of Amish folk (as an example) you are going to see way more Anish men there on their own then you would someone from south east London, Scotland etc and I would think the same for all of them "they are just there to try and have sex", some are there who have partners, it's not nessecaily not wanting to share, it's probably the thrill etc.

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By *unshine81Man
10 weeks ago

West Midlands


"I know what I want to say and not sure how to word this but I'm going to try.

Is the midlands and the very little knowledge I have of it, is there is a larger community of different cultures to what you might find in a Kent, back of butt fuck no where?

If I go to a club in Kent for example there are lots of white men, there on their own, I never once think "bet their wife is at home and doesn't want to share", same as I see anyone else, we have many different men of all ethnicities attend the clubs down here.

So I'm guessing with the above, it just depends on the area you are in, just like if you visited a club with I dunno, a large population of Amish folk (as an example) you are going to see way more Anish men there on their own then you would someone from south east London, Scotland etc and I would think the same for all of them "they are just there to try and have sex", some are there who have partners, it's not nessecaily not wanting to share, it's probably the thrill etc.

"

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By *bro24Man
10 weeks ago

Middlesbrough


"You know what, I give up. I'm tired of being Asian on this site and trying to prove to everyone that we're not all bad and that there are "some good ones". Fuck that. People can think what they want and I'll spend my energy on the actual decent human beings I want to associate with on here who don't see a skin colour and see a stereotype. I would say goodnight, but I don't even want it to be that good for some of you.

❤️❤️

Who the fuck said you were bad?

Jesus I was just taking about the ratio of white vrs Asian or coloured willing to share on this site or in general.

Nothing at all racist about that

From the opening post, the suggestion from a lot of you has been that Asian guys in clubs are probably cheaters because you haven't seen any Asian wives. This also suggests you think they must only marry their own kind. And like someone else pointed out, Asia is a huge place so they have also lumped a load of nationalities into one, which is, if not racist then just massively lazy.

You don't have to join the KKK and leave burning crosses on people's lawns to be racist, most of it is subtle stuff that the perpetrators probably don't even believe is racist.

Happy to clear that up for you "

Lmao you're a proper gimp

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By *evilswhoDareCouple
10 weeks ago

West yorkshire


"Loving the generalisation, stereotyping and racism of this thread. Got to love fab for the spectrum of people on here 😂😂"

Knew it wouldn’t be long before someone threw the race card . The couple that posted said they were not saying it in a race way ! So get of your high horse

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
10 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Loving the generalisation, stereotyping and racism of this thread. Got to love fab for the spectrum of people on here 😂😂

Knew it wouldn’t be long before someone threw the race card . The couple that posted said they were not saying it in a race way ! So get of your high horse "

People do love a bit of controversy to gallop away with...

Mr

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
10 weeks ago

chichester

Locked up away from all the heathens on here

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By *ajnranMan
10 weeks ago

Cheadle


"The original question was where are all the Asian wives or girlfriends you tell me if you know the answer then I have my own opinion on it

A lot of people are fixated on the sharing aspect of it whereas I looked at it from a cultural aspect. What if it's not a case of not wanting to share, but more that they don't want to be open about it because it's culturally unacceptable to do so and they could face ridicule as a result. But no, let's fixate on the part that makes Asian men in the swinging world look like awful human being yet again.

Well if "it's culturally unacceptable to do so and they could face ridicule as a result" does the same cultural unacceptability not extend to the men visiting swinging clubs for sex or is it just the women who would be ridiculed ? Also, as swingers are we not all at risk of ridicule from family, friends and society in general ?

You're not understanding me and you're trying to make this a slight against Asian men. The fact it's not culturally accepted means it's harder to broach the subject to your SO in the first place. You don't know the added pressure or risk because you're not aware of how Asians are raised when it comes to the view of having sex or sexual partners. Your version of ridicule from society is different to ours and is something you will never understand.

But that doesn't answer the question which was don't those strong cultural views on having sex or sexual partners extend to Asian men or is it only visited on the Asian women ? Also you mentioned grouping them together because of the colour of their skin. It's absolutely nothing to do with skin colour or ethnicity but since you mentioned it it's probably more to do with a culture that seems discriminatory towards women. "

I’m not sure if that was your intent. However, the spirit of your messages from the outset seems to be quite opinionated and stereotyping Asian men as not fully embracing the lifestyle with their other half’s. In our case it’s quite the contrary. In fact it was my wife who has been a swinger for a longer time than me.

We’re totally fine with meeting couples for full swap, and that includes attractive, respectful and open minded white couples. In fact, please feel free to get in touch, as long as it’s not you!

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

When did swinging become 'culturally acceptable' for white people? (hasn't filtered down to these parts yet...)

Maybe there's a question as to why visiting a sex club is seemingly more culturally acceptable for a man and not so for a woman? Despite the price reductions on offer etc.

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By *essTTWoman
10 weeks ago

Birmingham


"You know what, I give up. I'm tired of being Asian on this site and trying to prove to everyone that we're not all bad and that there are "some good ones". Fuck that. People can think what they want and I'll spend my energy on the actual decent human beings I want to associate with on here who don't see a skin colour and see a stereotype. I would say goodnight, but I don't even want it to be that good for some of you."

I bloody love you

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By *essTTWoman
10 weeks ago

Birmingham

"It's absolutely nothing to do with skin colour or ethnicity"

Yet the original post is about Asian men and women

LMAO

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By *essTTWoman
10 weeks ago

Birmingham

Also where does one get a 'race card' and does it give discounts?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
10 weeks ago

chichester


"Also where does one get a 'race card' and does it give discounts? "

Got to watch out for those faux race cards sold on telegram.

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By *essTTWoman
10 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Also where does one get a 'race card' and does it give discounts?

Got to watch out for those faux race cards sold on telegram. "

Can you send me the link please, think I need to get one

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By *siancouplehantsCouple
10 weeks ago

K-PAX

Hi guys! Just like to say we are a Asian couple who loves sharing his wife with non Asian men but we like to keep things private and stay away from the Club scene

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By *naswingdressWoman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Also where does one get a 'race card' and does it give discounts?

Got to watch out for those faux race cards sold on telegram. "

Yes, only I know the source of the real race cards. Hit me up and I'll give you a discount. Don't believe the lamestream media

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By *cLovin2Man
10 weeks ago

Reading

My tuppence worth as an Asian guy;

Asian culture by which I mean especially South Asian culture, is very sexually repressive, in the background guided by religion & family ties. South Asians haven't really challenged the religion chains that have held them back as compared with European compatriots. I would say therefore, we Asians are not as developed as many educated Caucasians in terms of sexually being open. This is a sweeping generalisation of course as many Asians have, just not the majority.

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By *cLovin2Man
10 weeks ago

Reading


"Also where does one get a 'race card' and does it give discounts?

Got to watch out for those faux race cards sold on telegram.

Yes, only I know the source of the real race cards. Hit me up and I'll give you a discount. Don't believe the lamestream media"

Do Australians count as Asians now? Luv you're making this very confusing for us

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By *naswingdressWoman
10 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Also where does one get a 'race card' and does it give discounts?

Got to watch out for those faux race cards sold on telegram.

Yes, only I know the source of the real race cards. Hit me up and I'll give you a discount. Don't believe the lamestream media

Do Australians count as Asians now? Luv you're making this very confusing for us "

I'm doing the standard thing: profiteering off you 😇

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By *essTTWoman
10 weeks ago

Birmingham


"My tuppence worth as an Asian guy;

Asian culture by which I mean especially South Asian culture, is very sexually repressive, in the background guided by religion & family ties. South Asians haven't really challenged the religion chains that have held them back as compared with European compatriots. I would say therefore, we Asians are not as developed as many educated Caucasians in terms of sexually being open. This is a sweeping generalisation of course as many Asians have, just not the majority."

An explanation isn't needed.

People need to mind their own vaginas and stop worrying about others

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I can't believe this thread is still going. Might have to get back to the OP's original question.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago


"Where are all the Asian wives?"

So, I asked ChatGPT, and part of her answer was:

"Asian wives, like individuals from any other background, are found in diverse communities globally and come from various cultural, social, and personal backgrounds."

So, she was not brilliantly happy with the question, and went on to say:

"If you are referring to something specific, such as Asian communities in certain regions, marriage trends, or another context, please clarify so I can provide more relevant information."

I wonder if I refined my question to swingers clubs whether she might be of more assistance.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Ok, so I asked Chat GPT why Asian wives did not attend Swingers clubs and she gave some general answers. I think she might make a good politician. She said (stand by, it's lengthy - though some prefer girth):

"The attendance of Asian individuals, including Asian women, at swingers clubs or similar spaces can be influenced by various cultural, social, and personal factors:

"Cultural and Social Norms: Many Asian cultures are traditionally more conservative regarding topics like sex and relationships. Participation in activities such as swinging may conflict with cultural values or familial expectations, leading to lower representation in these spaces.

"Stigma and Privacy Concerns: Concerns about privacy, judgment, and social stigma can be more pronounced in some Asian communities, where maintaining a certain public image is important. This can make public participation in such activities less appealing.

"Personal Choice and Comfort Levels: As with any group, individual preferences vary widely. People of all backgrounds may or may not feel comfortable engaging in such activities, regardless of cultural background.

"Representation and Inclusivity: Swingers clubs, like many social spaces, may not always feel inclusive or welcoming to people from diverse backgrounds due to perceived or real biases, which can affect attendance.

"These factors don’t apply universally, as individual preferences and experiences vary greatly."

I do love Chat GPT, I think she might be my friend.

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By *heIndianladynEnglishguyCouple
10 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

My Asian partner is here with me. We will be hitting the club scene together soon. Though we are looking for a lady to join her.

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By *ortyairCouple
10 weeks ago

Wallasey

It seems like a proper minefield out there, another reason we don't go to clubs, Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago


"My tuppence worth as an Asian guy;

Asian culture by which I mean especially South Asian culture, is very sexually repressive, in the background guided by religion & family ties. South Asians haven't really challenged the religion chains that have held them back as compared with European compatriots. I would say therefore, we Asians are not as developed as many educated Caucasians in terms of sexually being open. This is a sweeping generalisation of course as many Asians have, just not the majority."

Makes you wonder who were the people reading the Kama Sutra

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By *cLovin2Man
10 weeks ago

Reading


"My tuppence worth as an Asian guy;

Asian culture by which I mean especially South Asian culture, is very sexually repressive, in the background guided by religion & family ties. South Asians haven't really challenged the religion chains that have held them back as compared with European compatriots. I would say therefore, we Asians are not as developed as many educated Caucasians in terms of sexually being open. This is a sweeping generalisation of course as many Asians have, just not the majority.

Makes you wonder who were the people reading the Kama Sutra"

The interesting thing is that in Hinduism, some elements (not all) advocate sexual abstinence even in marriage while at the same time others created the kama sutra. It's a confusing world.

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By *andynecklaceWoman
10 weeks ago

West Brom

They usually do it behind their wives back #sadtruth

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By *arry WindsorMan
10 weeks ago

Heaton Park Manchester

Just a thought!

Has anyone asked the women concerned (regardless of skin colour or belief) if they want to be shared?

As they say, "Just asking for a friend".

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
10 weeks ago

chichester


"My tuppence worth as an Asian guy;

Asian culture by which I mean especially South Asian culture, is very sexually repressive, in the background guided by religion & family ties. South Asians haven't really challenged the religion chains that have held them back as compared with European compatriots. I would say therefore, we Asians are not as developed as many educated Caucasians in terms of sexually being open. This is a sweeping generalisation of course as many Asians have, just not the majority.

An explanation isn't needed.

People need to mind their own vaginas and stop worrying about others "

If anyone needs their vagina minding I’ll do the job as I need the work experience

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By *exxyyDy11Man
10 weeks ago

North West

Asia is a huge continent with so many different ethnic groups and religions. Depends what you mean by Asian. East Asian like Chinese or Japanese? Or South East Asian like Thai or Vietnamese? Then you have the Indian Subcontinent etc.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
10 weeks ago

North West


"To be fair, Asia is the biggest continent in the world. Are we talking all of Asia?! "

Beat me to it. Just made a similar question too.

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By *essTTWoman
10 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Just a thought!

Has anyone asked the women concerned (regardless of skin colour or belief) if they want to be shared?

As they say, "Just asking for a friend". "

Nope

Too busy making assumptions based on skin colour!

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By *arry WindsorMan
10 weeks ago

Heaton Park Manchester


"Just a thought!

Has anyone asked the women concerned (regardless of skin colour or belief) if they want to be shared?

As they say, "Just asking for a friend".

Nope

Too busy making assumptions based on skin colour!"

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago


"Asia is a huge continent with so many different ethnic groups and religions. Depends what you mean by Asian. East Asian like Chinese or Japanese? Or South East Asian like Thai or Vietnamese? Then you have the Indian Subcontinent etc.

"

I expect they're talking about those most likely to frequent clubs in the midlands as explained in the OP.

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By *obinhood31Man
10 weeks ago

manchester

So if you have many of “those friends” why not have a conversation with them about it?

I’m not 1 to play the race card but when certain words/phrases used it’s gives it away.

Instead of making judgmental comments on here try and educate yourself or talk to people at clubs m.

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By *obinhood31Man
10 weeks ago

manchester

A lot of people cheat on their partners on the site, both male and female of all ethnicities #Sadtruth

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By *blasiansCouple
9 weeks ago

Wakefield

Lots to digest but suffice to say we are asian, only ever attend everywhere together, clubs admittedly not often, for reasons stated previously and certainly not local.

Ps can't speak for others as each to their own.

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By *oyeur662Man
9 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'm asian and have a partner. I swing discreetly. But I'd love to watch her get fucked. I doubt she would be open to it though

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By *ove stonesMan
9 weeks ago

Oldham

Nice bro

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By *oe3333Man
9 weeks ago

enniskillen


"We recently went to a midlands club and noticed the large amount of young Asian guys trawling the club. Surely they have wives or girlfriends where were they ? Or is it a case of what's yours is mine but what's mine is my own ? We considered this question before posting it for fear of someone playing the race card against us. However this is just a genuine question and perhaps one or more of the Asian guys on here can reply with an answer."
I'd say what's mine is my own would be spot on

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By *oe3333Man
9 weeks ago

enniskillen


"I absolutely love sharing

Unfortunately my first wife ( Asian) had very little interest in sex with me never mind others

But have seen several Asian couples on here so lovely to see "

but was she a good cook at least

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"Where are all the Asian wives"

Probably a lot of them are in Asia.

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By *ou only live onceMan
9 weeks ago

London


"Where are all the Asian wives

Probably a lot of them are in Asia."

I'd even go so far as to say most?

🤔

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By *vaRose43Woman
9 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Oh wow

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By *-a ronMan
9 weeks ago

London

🤷🏽‍♂️

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By *ustSomeDarkieMan
9 weeks ago

Salford


"Because south Asian men, in general, don't believe in sharing their women? Same as black men, in general? 🤷🏾‍♂️"

True. Wife and gf sharing seems to be more if a white man thing after some negotiation with the white female partner to do it. If she likes them she runs with it and he's the passenger

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By *ustSomeDarkieMan
9 weeks ago

Salford


"I'm curious about why OP believes all Asian guys in clubs must have wives or girlfriends at home.

And also why they aren't making the same sweeping generalisation about all the non-Asian guys in clubs.

Like OP, I'm "just asking questions"

What is the overwhelming ethnicity of women you see in clubs? "

White 🤍

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By *heIndianladynEnglishguyCouple
9 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

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By *heIndianladynEnglishguyCouple
9 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

Does it matter what ethnicity they are?

If you like them great, if you don’t then you pass them by.

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By *vonne5exMan
9 weeks ago

Doncaster


"A great post but I'll struggle to answer it entirely.

I'm a single Brummie with Indian heritage but very much more English in mindset than Indian. I think you've hit the nail on the head

Firstly there is a large Asian population in the Midlands, so the clubs may represent that with single guys.

This is where I may get shot down in flames and it might not be only be an Asian thing. I believe that some Asian men still consider wives and girlfriends not as equals or partners so therefore would never consider asking them to be involved. This is just one perspective and I am happy to elaborate but it's difficult in written form as this can easily go into many nuances...

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By *ove stonesMan
9 weeks ago

Oldham

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By *WCLOVERCouple
9 weeks ago

london

Lol maybe they are all single. Have you asked literally all of them or something for you to know they have wives or girlfriends. Very ridiculous post to make. Purely made assumptions which then leads to other things. If you don't like asian men just say so.

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
9 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

Just here for the comments

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By *ung nine inchMan
9 weeks ago

leeds

Hey we Asian mf

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By *ouple experimentingCouple
9 weeks ago

Leicestershire

My Mrs is here

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