FabSwingers.com forum: At what point are you committed to a meet ?

By *evergiveup OP Man
3 weeks ago

derbyshire

If I agree to a date,time and place I always feel committed.

When do you.

If I have met before I feel more flexible but always 100% if a first meet

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
3 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

Best way to be, if i have made room in my busy schedule for a meet and have a time and date only a family emergency would change it.

If you have met before perhaps a little more flexibility can be done.

A good attitude to have OP

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By *naswingdressWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

When I've agreed (except if emergencies happen*)

* In the many years I've been here I've no-showed on zero meets because of emergencies. I've cancelled one meet with discussion/ consent because of an emergency. I've had one no show because of an emergency (someone I was already friends with, I believed him and we rescheduled)

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By *agnar73Man
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

When it’s agreed.

If I can, I do.

I don’t get a lot of free time so I’m not gonna mess someone else about.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

When a time and place has been agreed

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By *ampireLoveMan
3 weeks ago

Essex & Bristol

Surely if you’ve agreed a time a place you’re committed?

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By *entlemanH666Man
3 weeks ago

Bath

The moment a date is set then I am committed.

Pending any undesired behaviours or previously undisclosed info that doesn’t match what I’m looking for that may come up between setting a date and it actually happening.

Life has got in the way a few times but rarely.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
3 weeks ago

somewhere

"The moment a date is set then I am committed.

Pending any undesired behaviours or previously undisclosed info that doesn’t match what I’m looking for that may come up between setting a date and it actually happening.

Life has got in the way a few times but rarely."

Absolutely this. I'll always turn up unless I get a feeling that something isn't right

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By *urious couple22Couple
3 weeks ago

Derby

As soon as we've agreed to time place

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By *imply DeeWoman
3 weeks ago

Wherever

I’m always committed, I don’t like to let people down.

That of course if I was meeting.

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By *neeyedwillieMan
3 weeks ago

Darlington

If a time and date is set, I'm commited. I am quite flexible with my time.

If get vague times ,"ill be out in town on saturday night, we can meet for a drink" or "I'll let you know" I already know its not going anywhere. I don't even put faith in "I'll be at the club on x date if youre there" messages either. Often is someone fishing so they have attention or youre a back up plan.

If someone really wants wants to meet me,they will.

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By *imples24Man
3 weeks ago

tamworth

"I’m always committed, I don’t like to let people down.

That of course if I was meeting."

Have to say the same. Don’t like to let people down and I’m not all talk lol

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
3 weeks ago

Solihull

When I’m on my way …

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
3 weeks ago

London

When a time and place has been arranged. I wouldn't agree to it if I wasn't committed to a meet.

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By *oeSurreyMan
3 weeks ago

Woking

If you have agreed to meet, and no extenuating circumstances, then you should honour that.

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

I'm genuinely struggling to grasp the question. If I've agreed to the time, the place, the date and the intent...then I've committed.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
3 weeks ago

London

"I'm genuinely struggling to grasp the question. If I've agreed to the time, the place, the date and the intent...then I've committed."

Some people are flaky and don't respect other people's time.

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I'm genuinely struggling to grasp the question. If I've agreed to the time, the place, the date and the intent...then I've committed.

Some people are flaky and don't respect other people's time. "

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Ah, I see. In that case when I've commenced the act of intromission then she can assume I'm commited. ✅

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By *exxyyDy11Man
3 weeks ago

North West

When I agree to a time and a place. I'm very committed to it.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
3 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

The day after the fact 🤣🤣🤣

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By *annersandrespectMan
3 weeks ago

Here and there

When you say you are .👍

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By *ripfillMan
3 weeks ago

havant

When you give your word

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
3 weeks ago

Maidstone

When I say "yes let's meet" it's not something that's open for negotiation and also doesn't depend who it is.

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By *ife NinjaMan
3 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"When I say "yes let's meet" it's not something that's open for negotiation and also doesn't depend who it is.

Ah, some dream this would be

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
3 weeks ago

King's Crustacean

I don't feel committed or obliged to meet someone although i'm very reliable and mean what I say and make great efforts to keep to my word but i'm not in any way bound fast by a simple agreement to meet a stranger

If I make arrangements to meet then I do stick by them but if I simply didn't feel like 'going out' or 'meeting' then I wouldn't. Of course I'd let the person know that i'd backed out.

I don't let people down but who goes to a meet if they don't want to ?

Also .. if the goalposts were changed after arrangements were made it's perfectly in order to decline.

It's not paid employment

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By *punk n gushCouple
3 weeks ago

walmer

"When I've agreed (except if emergencies happen*)

Agreed bit childish to just block but it happens sometimes

We're all adults just some don't act it do they

Don't just stand there applause 👏

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Central

If I want to meet agreeing the time and place is the 200% commitment to it

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
3 weeks ago

Leeds

This thread sound a little contradictory, given you name.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"As soon as we've agreed to time place "

Yep. I’d accept that as mine and their commitment, befor that it might not happen, and after that, someone has got to cancel if plans change.

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By *ellhungvweMan
3 weeks ago

Cheltenham

If I say I am going to turn up then I will turn up - I am committed at that point. If I haven’t agreed then I haven’t agreed.

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