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By (user no longer on site) OP   
3 weeks ago

Hi,

I’m new to all this and curious as to what’s the best way to get verified and meet up with people.

I’ve often thought about going to clubs aswell but as never been a little nervous.

Any tips and advice greatly welcomed

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
3 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

Your profile needs a bit of work, some more photos and the bio should reflect your personality and what you have to offer a potential meet.

See if you can get cam verified and socials are a good way to meet people and also get an live verification.

Personally i would hold off on messaging until you get a verification or two.

Read the profiles and see if they are actually what you are looking for and don’t just tailor a message to suit.

Be true to yourself, the forums are a great way to socialise and pick up tips.

Be patient as people need to get a feel for you and keep your expectations realistic.

Good luck OP and i hope you enjoy the experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
3 weeks ago

Thank you pal, appreciate the advice

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By *restonguy1981Man
3 weeks ago

preston

Also perhaps attend a club, they are fun even if you don’t play.

The social side is just as fun as the naughty side and also let people see you for you and not just some words on a screen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
3 weeks ago

Yeah I’m a very sociable person so I think I’d enjoy the social side to it. Just never been before so just abit shy at first haha

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By *restonguy1981Man
3 weeks ago

preston


"Yeah I’m a very sociable person so I think I’d enjoy the social side to it. Just never been before so just abit shy at first haha"

Honestly the hosts are very welcoming and will show you around, even if you stand at the bar people generally will say hi.

You’ll loose that shyness in no time pal, it’s a really relaxed atmosphere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
3 weeks ago

I have had a little look online about them. Need to just bite the bullet and go.

Thanks for the advice pal

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By *restonguy1981Man
3 weeks ago

preston


"I have had a little look online about them. Need to just bite the bullet and go.

Thanks for the advice pal"

You have nothing to loose and potentially you’ll make some great friends and have some great fun too.

Enjoy OP

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By *exxyyDy11Man
3 weeks ago

North West

Either attend a club or go to a big social gathering. They have a lot of social gatherings for people

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Can I be the 1,000th person to suggest a club?

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By *vaRose43Woman
3 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Check the forums for an organised group social

Get on the cam rooms for a cam verification

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By *ymClassDropoutMan
3 weeks ago

Berkshire


"Can I be the 1,000th person to suggest a club? "

I will be the 1001st.

People will tell you to work on your profile and that is of course is what you need to do. But I think we are all so much more than a few pics and a bio.

I always feel I represent myself much better in person. I feel I am better looking in real. Very personable and affable and that just doesn’t come across in my profile. So for me clubs and meets are the way to go. I feel I stand out much more in person rather than on my profile which is probably the same as thousands of others to the majority of readers on here.

You say you are a sociable person and that could be a string to your bow. So clubs should be a consideration to get your proverbial foot in the door.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Local clubs and organised socials are the easiest way to meet people and get verified.

As for meets on here it's hard especially when we can't see you (you don't stand out in your pics) that would stop me messaging/replying as I can't guage the initial attraction.

Your pics and bio are your shop window show the best of you, make yourself stand out.

Take a look at some other verified blokes profiles and get some inspiration.

Mrs

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Central

Using their profile to give a crystal clear understanding of who he is, what he gives and how he looks is the simple staple basics for a single man. He can then go to socials and clubs to get friendly with more people.

Excel at the basics, so anyone can see if they'd be able to be with him in close proximity, is that essential start for unknown men.

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