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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Anyone else (particularly women) get repeatedly asked 'what are you going to wear' for a meet?

My usual response is 'snorkel and flippers'!

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Would love to be a fly on the wall on one of your meets...lol

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Would love to be a fly on the wall on one of your meets...lol"

The clown costume goes down quite well, actually, especially the honking horn!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

To me it is a complete turn off, too. In fact I have said to people that I am not going to tell them about what I might wear, nor will I engage in what I might do to them or even what I like or dislike.

It completely ruins any spontaneity and kills the excitement.

Well, for me anyway

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"To me it is a complete turn off, too. In fact I have said to people that I am not going to tell them about what I might wear, nor will I engage in what I might do to them or even what I like or dislike.

It completely ruins any spontaneity and kills the excitement.

Well, for me anyway "

Could not agree more! Which is why I say 'snorkel and flippers'. Mostly they take the hint.

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

Listen carefully, I shal say this only once. Has to be the whisk, stick of celery and the flying helmet.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Yeah!

Hate it! Puts me off people...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no panties

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"To me it is a complete turn off, too. In fact I have said to people that I am not going to tell them about what I might wear, nor will I engage in what I might do to them or even what I like or dislike.

It completely ruins any spontaneity and kills the excitement.

Well, for me anyway

Could not agree more! Which is why I say 'snorkel and flippers'. Mostly they take the hint."
Has anybody ever come back with a question relating to watersports? Just curious.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Yep!!

Told one guy I was gonna wear my pajamas! He said he wouldn't care. So I did. Lol. X

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"To me it is a complete turn off, too. In fact I have said to people that I am not going to tell them about what I might wear, nor will I engage in what I might do to them or even what I like or dislike.

It completely ruins any spontaneity and kills the excitement.

Well, for me anyway

Could not agree more! Which is why I say 'snorkel and flippers'. Mostly they take the hint.Has anybody ever come back with a question relating to watersports? Just curious."

LOL not yet - but then I would have to ask them to bring a canoe!

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"no panties "

Ah, but the peeling of layers is very sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep!!

Told one guy I was gonna wear my pajamas! He said he wouldn't care. So I did. Lol. X "

Have you got a pic of you in your pyjamas? There would be a lot of people wanting to see you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else (particularly women) get repeatedly asked 'what are you going to wear' for a meet?

My usual response is 'snorkel and flippers'! "

Oh Yes and normally by the guys who cancel lol

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Anyone else (particularly women) get repeatedly asked 'what are you going to wear' for a meet?

My usual response is 'snorkel and flippers'!

Oh Yes and normally by the guys who cancel lol"

Sometimes - but not always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get asked this on many occasions, in fact most of the people I meet ask it. But I put this down to the fact that its obvious I like to dress up and I think people are just wondering what outfit I will turn up in

I never tell them, mainly because I decide a few hours before.

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I get asked this on many occasions, in fact most of the people I meet ask it. But I put this down to the fact that its obvious I like to dress up and I think people are just wondering what outfit I will turn up in

I never tell them, mainly because I decide a few hours before. "

I just like to dress classy in what I feel good in. I loathe the idea of someone telling me what to wear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we are meeting someone in a club I will ask what the dress code is.

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"If we are meeting someone in a club I will ask what the dress code is. "

That's a different matter. I tend to meet at mine or sometimes a coffee meet. I don't like some guy insisting on what I wear. And if it is at mine then I don't want to be in skimpies when he arrives and then I feel he's not for me. Harder to say no wearing crotchless panties and little else! Fully clothed and I have the edge - if you like.

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By *leasurexxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

like it!!! standing there in skimpy knicks and see through top.."oh im sorry your not my type"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we are meeting someone in a club I will ask what the dress code is.

That's a different matter. I tend to meet at mine or sometimes a coffee meet. I don't like some guy insisting on what I wear. And if it is at mine then I don't want to be in skimpies when he arrives and then I feel he's not for me. Harder to say no wearing crotchless panties and little else! Fully clothed and I have the edge - if you like."

Makes complete sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once, when asked to arrive naked except for a coat. I did - she did too. Was fun in the pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else (particularly women) get repeatedly asked 'what are you going to wear' for a meet?

My usual response is 'snorkel and flippers'! "

So you are into water sports lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Yep!!

Told one guy I was gonna wear my pajamas! He said he wouldn't care. So I did. Lol. X

Have you got a pic of you in your pyjamas? There would be a lot of people wanting to see you.

"

Nope!! No photos I'm afraid x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually let the gent choose from the available options.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just normally say clothes, x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Now I feel like a right social inept....I've asked ladies what they are going to be wearing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never let others dictate what I wear. I have my own certain style and I wear what I like. Most of the time it's just conversation. I'll get guys saying "will you wear ......... You look gorgeous in that", and I just say thanks and leave it at that. What I turn up in will be what I feel like on the night.

The one thing I can assure anyone is that I'll never be naked. I don't like being that exposed.

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I never let others dictate what I wear. I have my own certain style and I wear what I like. Most of the time it's just conversation. I'll get guys saying "will you wear ......... You look gorgeous in that", and I just say thanks and leave it at that. What I turn up in will be what I feel like on the night.

The one thing I can assure anyone is that I'll never be naked. I don't like being that exposed. "

Quite how I feel. My ex-hubby never managed to get me to wear what he wanted, why would I for a stranger?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive never had someone im going to meet ask me that. Maybe cause if they say something like that i dont carry on chatting.

I have had people say to me what would i like to see them in and my favourite response is a bodybag

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one thing I can assure anyone is that I'll never be naked. I don't like being that exposed. "

Saves a bit of time and fuss though.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Why they think I know what I'm going wear tomorrow, let alone next week, is beyond me.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why they think I know what I'm going wear tomorrow, let alone next week, is beyond me. "

Caveat; I do not have a meet next week as I am still missing my libido. I must have really pissed it off for it to have buggered off.

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Why they think I know what I'm going wear tomorrow, let alone next week, is beyond me. "

I usually get that question as I am getting ready for the meet! By then I know exactly what I am wearing and nothing would make me change my mind.

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