FabSwingers.com forum: Emotional

By *parkle1974 OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

Are you an "emotional thinker"??

By that I mean are you the type of person who makes decisions based on your "gut feeling".. the type who listens to your heart over what your mind is telling you?? x

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By *iker JackMan
13 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I am an emotional thinker.

I am trying not to be.

My whole work life is very process driven so I think that in some ways my emotions all come out when away from work and can be a big jumble which is confusing for me and others

I don’t want to be emotionless. Just understand that sometimes it’s better to wait before acting

I was told something recently

“Write the email, write the letter, write the text, save it, if you still feel the same way 24 hours later then send it”

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By *he Gentleman 4uMan
13 weeks ago

Aston

Have learnt over the years to follow the gut feeling so far has been on the money

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By *ngel-ishandtheswingersCouple
13 weeks ago

Colchester

Definitely emotional thinker and decisions based on a feeling.

Life is a constant surprise so personally me and planning have parted ways!

Whatever the result, better to be all in I reckon.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
13 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm very much an emotional thinker but my gut feeling generally hasn't been wrong.

Mrs

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By *ealitybitesMan
13 weeks ago

Belfast

As someone who suffers from anhedonia it's ironic that I make so many decisions based on gut feeling but the vast majority of those have been correct.

Work related decisions are rarely emotional choices.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

"I am an emotional thinker.

I am trying not to be.

My whole work life is very process driven so I think that in some ways my emotions all come out when away from work and can be a big jumble which is confusing for me and others

I don’t want to be emotionless. Just understand that sometimes it’s better to wait before acting

I was told something recently

“Write the email, write the letter, write the text, save it, if you still feel the same way 24 hours later then send it”"

Why try not to be?

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

"Have learnt over the years to follow the gut feeling so far has been on the money"

I think most tens to go with their gut feeling.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

"Definitely emotional thinker and decisions based on a feeling.

Life is a constant surprise so personally me and planning have parted ways!

Whatever the result, better to be all in I reckon.

I like your thinking

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By *ndyp81Man
13 weeks ago

essex

I try to go with what feels right, I try to find the balance

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

"As someone who suffers from anhedonia it's ironic that I make so many decisions based on gut feeling but the vast majority of those have been correct.

Work related decisions are rarely emotional choices."

I'm the same, I separate work and personal decisions x

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By *tYourPleasure_80Man
13 weeks ago

Newcastle

Work in the world of healthcare, I tend to operate on heuristics and gut feeling.

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By *ngel-ishandtheswingersCouple
13 weeks ago

Colchester

"Definitely emotional thinker and decisions based on a feeling.

Life is a constant surprise so personally me and planning have parted ways!

Whatever the result, better to be all in I reckon.

I like your thinking

Thank OP xx Angel-ish

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By *8on33Man
13 weeks ago

winfrith

I'm emotional but wouldn't say I base decisions on it ,I just go with the flow.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

"I try to go with what feels right, I try to find the balance "

And do you find it sometimes?

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

"Work in the world of healthcare, I tend to operate on heuristics and gut feeling."

I'm in the health sector to so understand where you're coming from x

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By *iker JackMan
13 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"I am an emotional thinker.

I am trying not to be.

My whole work life is very process driven so I think that in some ways my emotions all come out when away from work and can be a big jumble which is confusing for me and others

I don’t want to be emotionless. Just understand that sometimes it’s better to wait before acting

I was told something recently

“Write the email, write the letter, write the text, save it, if you still feel the same way 24 hours later then send it”

Why try not to be?"

Because for me it doesn’t always lead to the right decision

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

"I'm emotional but wouldn't say I base decisions on it ,I just go with the flow."

So you are a bit of both then x

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By *8on33Man
13 weeks ago

winfrith

"I'm emotional but wouldn't say I base decisions on it ,I just go with the flow.

So you are a bit of both then x

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I find I get more emotional as I get older .

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

"I am an emotional thinker.

I am trying not to be.

My whole work life is very process driven so I think that in some ways my emotions all come out when away from work and can be a big jumble which is confusing for me and others

I don’t want to be emotionless. Just understand that sometimes it’s better to wait before acting

I was told something recently

“Write the email, write the letter, write the text, save it, if you still feel the same way 24 hours later then send it”

Why try not to be?

Because for me it doesn’t always lead to the right decision "

I get you x

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By *ell GwynnWoman
13 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

A bit of both. I've regretted decisions when I've ignored my gut, but then I've also regretted ones made just with logic.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

"A bit of both. I've regretted decisions when I've ignored my gut, but then I've also regretted ones made just with logic. "

Been there and done that x

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

Which decision do you find is quicker to make? The gut one or mind one?

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By *ell GwynnWoman
13 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

"Which decision do you find is quicker to make? The gut one or mind one?"

Neither. I question everything extensively

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

"Which decision do you find is quicker to make? The gut one or mind one?

Neither. I question everything extensively

My brain seems to make snap decisions

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By *tsMattyHMan
13 weeks ago

Inverurie

I do go by guy instinct and feeling. It's saved me from a few experiences that I was quite happy to dodge.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

"I do go by guy instinct and feeling. It's saved me from a few experiences that I was quite happy to dodge. "

Seems more people trust their gut x

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By *obilebottomMan
13 weeks ago

All over

I's a balancing act for sure and lots of what ifs modelling and risk assessments

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
13 weeks ago

Cumbria

It seems that whatever way people make decisions they have convinced themselves that this is the right way.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
13 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I'm a cold logical mind thinker, not as bad as spock, but close.

I do listen to my gut feelings, but when working with the animals on the farm, feelings are compartmentalised as they need me, to always stand up and take action in an instant, when something happens

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By *imply DeeWoman
13 weeks ago

Wherever

I’m unable to make any logical decisions but my gut feeling is usually eerily right.

Sometimes I wish it wasn’t that complicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I follow my intuition, but do emotions over rise that at times yes , but everything is for a reason x

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
13 weeks ago

chichester

No I follow math/ logic driven thought processes

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I think things through, then over think, then get to the point where I say "fuck this shit" and then I'm gone.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
13 weeks ago

somewhere

I used to go head first into everything, then regret most of it, even if my gut was telling me if was a bad idea, now I listen to the gut lol.

We need a new washing machine, we have the money but I still don't know what my wage is for this month, I know it's going to be higher as it was a 5 week month but I also need brakes on my car and my eyes tested, in the past I would have got the machine and just hoped I'd get what I thought I was getting but being sensible until I know x

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"Are you an "emotional thinker"??

By that I mean are you the type of person who makes decisions based on your "gut feeling".. the type who listens to your heart over what your mind is telling you?? x"

I'm too overactive in the head. I have a chimp that constantly whispers crap in my ear and sends me into moments of hieghtened anxiety. I hate it

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
13 weeks ago

London

I'm the complete opposite, total logical thinker.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
13 weeks ago

North Angus

I’m an over thinker 🤷🏻‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I try to think logically most of the time and for the majority, I do make decisions with my head rather than my heart, but there occasions where I can't shift that gut feeling and find it can eventually make it's way out in some way or another.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Central

I can be but really know that I'm better deciding on rational thoughts, though I can take my gut instincts into account.

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By *evil-AngelWoman
13 weeks ago

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I haven't been, I often analyse a situation and make what I think is the right decision given all the data I have.

With hindsight, my life would have been different if I had paid attention to my gut so I'm trying to do that more now.

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By *mf123Man
13 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

If thats instinct i used to be

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"Are you an "emotional mess"??

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Yes I am. Probably.

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