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By (user no longer on site) OP   
42 weeks ago

Knowing the world is not ideal for many but let’s assume it is for now

In an ideal world how many meets would you have a week or a month, would they all be sexual?

Knowing that we all have to do “life”, work, extended family or family, friends or anything else how often is often enough to meet someone

For those that say daily or a few times a week could you really manage that within the time that you have?

For those that say once a month or so is that because you don’t have time or don’t need more?

Remember it’s an ideal world

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By *issBehavexxxWoman
42 weeks ago

essex

In an ideal world once every 2-3 weeks would suit me but I’d want regular contact too. My life is hectic with work, kids and other family members but I do need that occasional bit of fun for me time.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Ideal world, may 1-2 times month or a club meet, with the odd spontaneous social thrown in.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
42 weeks ago

London

Considering I don’t have too much time left before I’ll be out of everyone’s preferred age range, as many times as possible. My current availability is every weekend and weekdays during daytime so not bad but finding the compatible people is what I find difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"Knowing the world is not ideal for many but let’s assume it is for now

In an ideal world how many meets would you have a week or a month, would they all be sexual?

Knowing that we all have to do “life”, work, extended family or family, friends or anything else how often is often enough to meet someone

For those that say daily or a few times a week could you really manage that within the time that you have?

For those that say once a month or so is that because you don’t have time or don’t need more?

Remember it’s an ideal world "

Probably once-twice a month, with my current circumstances. Reasons:

-I work very long hours which basically make meeting during the week really difficult.

-Social life: friends (some of which with benefits), events, hobbies, leisure. I do a lot of stuff in what little spare time I have.

-Life: chores, errands, all that jazz.

So, ideally/realistically, it would be once or twice a month for fab meets. Due exceptions apply.

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By *ripfillMan
42 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

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By *ellinever70Woman
42 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Is the question in relation to meeting new people or the same person?

That would make a difference to my answer

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By *ornucopiaMan
42 weeks ago

Bexley

Has to be no more often than fortnightly if you are seeing more than seven people.

Unless you can manage more than one per day!

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

If it's meeting the same person, once a week.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
42 weeks ago

Holibobs

Pretty much the same as what I have now, weekends free to go on adventures, (sexual and nonsexual)

With a variety of friends

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By *usty kayWoman
42 weeks ago

Burnham on Sea

In an ideal world I would meet my fab 'bf' at least once a week and another once a week. Plus hubby the rest of the time. I can be a little insatiable

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
42 weeks ago

Tamworth

Ideally, thinking of both socials and play, I’d say once a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

A quick fix daily would be nice or two.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
42 weeks ago

Next Door

Ideally once a week if possible, and then maybe the odd club visit and weekend away on top.

The way this year is going, it's twice a year 🤷‍♀️

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By *urbo TedMan
42 weeks ago

Stansted

My ideal world varies depending on my mood. Sometimes it's just me on a beach enjoying the sound of waves and birds in the tree without a care in the world, other times it could be akin to the kind of thing Jay from the Inbetweeners claims he got up to on holiday!

As a comprising scenario I think once a week to allow time with friends and family plus time for me to enjoy my own company and do what I want when I want.

Where do we sign up?

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By *hilloutMan
42 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Once a week would be good. Add to this the occasional organised social or club visit and a very happy _hillout I'd be 😊😈

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Central

A couple of times a week or so

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

In the hour every hour.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex

In an ideal world probably monthly. They wouldn't all have to be sexual but it would be nice to have a few friends who we knew wouldn't burst in to flames if we talked about sex

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
42 weeks ago

somewhere

None for me, well maybe a meet with Rubiklongsword and a lady once in a while but we aren't actively looking.

When I was active on my own, every couple of weeks but that seems like a very distant memory x

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By *ealitybitesMan
42 weeks ago

Belfast

I've never needed sex at any stage of my life so a week, a month, a year or 10 years as it has been at one stage wouldn't really make a great pile of difference although in an ideal world I'd prefer to measure it in weeks or months.

I can't remember the last time I had sex twice in the same week but I don't like going for long periods of time without meeting socially.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I don't need sex, I don't crave sex, I occasionally crave a person. But so many people are just fucking dicks so probably about once or twice a year.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
42 weeks ago

Reading

2 to 3 a month may is ideal for me. Though I'll be retired in a November so my answer will probably change.

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