FabSwingers.com forum: Local

By *addy bare OP Man
13 weeks ago

lakeside

Why are most people on here looking for local? I'm happy to travel for something regular,anyone else got this problem?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
13 weeks ago

Lincoln

Because it's easier. No need to travel for hours if you are from the same area.

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By *herry delightWoman
13 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I have found that the further away a person is the last I'd like me they are to meet. After 20 miles no shows goes up considerably.

I don't care how many times you say you are ok to travel but come the day it's amazing how fast it can turn into a no show without any notification.

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By *addy bare OP Man
13 weeks ago

lakeside

I get that,but im free most weekends and happy to travel.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I don't trust anyone who needs to leave their county to get laid. It demonstrates, at best, poor choice of county.

And I have no interest in the pressure. Or in being the only one who hosts. Or in me travelling. Seperate corner shops, but still within walking distance, is ideal.

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By *addy bare OP Man
13 weeks ago

lakeside

But I would get a hotel,have social a drink and something to eat,it's nice to get out of my local area meet people I don't know and I'm a suckered for a accent.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I would love to have someone local and reliable, and I'm willing to stretch the meaning of "local".

But realistically, especially for short-notice meetings, the further the distance, the harder it is to make it work, for me.

Add to this that during the week I work around 11h a day, so it'd actually be quite impractical to meet someone far away, after work, even just for a drink, unless they were truly local.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
13 weeks ago

Lincoln

You could try various clubs then.

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By *had_ThunderCockMan
13 weeks ago

a place somewhat adjacent to you…

I find immense joy in embarking and driving myself upon extensive journeys to rendezvous.

It is a precious opportunity to reflect upon the dialogue and its subtle nuances. The allure of gentle flirtation intertwined with captivating individuals is decidedly enriched by an air of adventure and mystery, all while weaving our own narratives and sharing confidences.

Alas, it is regrettable that my passengers aboard my bus often exhibit discontent regarding this unscheduled experience!

🌹🤣😂

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By *bi HaiveMan
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13 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'm not sure most people are specifically looking for local.

Have people been telling you this when you've been messaging them?

Because it could just be an easy way for them to say no thanks.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
13 weeks ago

Sherwood Forest

We are willing to travel but finding people local or relatively locally is definitely more appealing to us especially when our free time can be limited

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By *naswingdressWoman
13 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Travelling adds additional barriers, it needs to be planned, it costs more, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Nope. I don’t have a problem. If I like someone I will travel as long as it takes to meet up.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

It totally depends on where you live , if it's a populated place then you might have plenty of choices but if there's no one around you for miles you may not have any choice but to travel, it all depends on your situation, l'm not a swinger per say but the amount of ladies around local where l live that are looking for Sex is approx 1% & l'm not in their age requirements , so like l said a person may not have things they way they would like them & have no choice but to travel.

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By *an1978Woman
13 weeks ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

If someone from London messaged me, first thoughts would be timewaster.

You have millions on your doorstep.

I've travelled myself, but

I don't want the pressure of someone travelling that far for me.

Having had many furious reaction to a thanks no thanks to even a message, I wouldn't want that in person if we didn't click.

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By *imply DeeWoman
13 weeks ago

Wherever

I can’t plan anything in advance and I can’t travel far so I prefer local but it’s difficult to find anyway.

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