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By *oxerjoshlee OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hi all this is my first post here, my name is Josh

I joined this site a few days ago and as a newbie it is difficult to get anyone to talk to you without verification.. which is fair enough as I can imagine there are the usual time wasters out there. But I did the next best thing and got photo verified.

Anyway... just been browsing the new members, and when I say new I mean they've been on here for literally 5 minutes and already they've got meet verifications. .. how?? Well dodgy!!! Just goes to show that the big green tick means nothing.

Give us newbies a break

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

No, not always Dodgy....

I joined at someone elses recommendation who I had met several times and he verified me. As he had met me and could testify I was genuine there was nothing dodgy about it.

Try getting in the chat rooms on cam...x

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Some "new" members aren't new....So easy to get verified....

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Some "new" members aren't new....So easy to get verified....

"

But within 5 minutes would have my alarm bells ringing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed that too.

Also, who verified the first users of the site. It's a conspiracy I tell you!!

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By *oxerjoshlee OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Maybe I just have a suspicious mind.

Still think it sucks that some wont talk to you because you haven't slept with half of the site..... think positive. .. I'm fresh meat lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Some "new" members aren't new....So easy to get verified....

But within 5 minutes would have my alarm bells ringing!"

If veri hidden....yes, I would question it..

If veri "met today" I would question it...

But otherwise.......Could be genuine...

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Maybe I just have a suspicious mind.

Still think it sucks that some wont talk to you because you haven't slept with half of the site..... think positive. .. I'm fresh meat lol"

Give it time....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Might be a cam veri and welcome to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all this is my first post here, my name is Josh

I joined this site a few days ago and as a newbie it is difficult to get anyone to talk to you without verification.. which is fair enough as I can imagine there are the usual time wasters out there. But I did the next best thing and got photo verified.

Anyway... just been browsing the new members, and when I say new I mean they've been on here for literally 5 minutes and already they've got meet verifications. .. how?? Well dodgy!!! Just goes to show that the big green tick means nothing.

Give us newbies a break "

Mate, it's hard on here for men verified or not. Some people get verified by people they've met elsewhere or during previous stints on the site.

Relax and be patient you might get lucky

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have verified men and women that I have recommended to the site.

Get to a club, a social and onto camera in the chat rooms. It's not impossible to get verified.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I forgot to say, welcome to the site and the forum. Have a good time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome and enjoy

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By *oxerjoshlee OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Maybe it just is my suspicious mind after all

Can't believe how quick this forum is. You lot don't mess about do you???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oxerjoshlee OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

And thanks for the welcomes everyone

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Some ladies want someone who has had lots of action, some certainly don't.

read the profiles, make your messages count....

Good luck and welcome to the forums, a fantastic place to lurk...lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of people I meet in clubs that tell me they plan on doing a profile on here

Does it matter if I verify a new profile 2,3 or 4 days after having fucked them senseless? I don't leave veri's instantly, I like to think about what Im going to put first.

Also many people return to the scene and have friends on the scene, so again get verified easily and quickly.

I wouldn't count either of the above categories as time wasters but genuine swingers. So I don't see the connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another thing to do is to go on cam and get a verification that way....I don't mind talking to newbies as everyone starts somewhere but some people have had people mess about so prefer verified users...hit n miss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found the photo verification thing a pain in the ass. I did various naked body shots(neck to toes) straight and lotus positions without my face and they all failed. So in the end I had to use a face shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im relatively new myself am photo veri & have been lucky enough to have two meets but alas the ladies werent veri'd either so no meet veri's.if it puts women off so be it.im having the time of my life.crack on & goodluck to you mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im relatively new myself am photo veri & have been lucky enough to have two meets but alas the ladies werent veri'd either so no meet veri's.if it puts women off so be it.im having the time of my life.crack on & goodluck to you mate."

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

If I may offer a piece of advice as well - don't worry about what everybody else is doing. Concentrate on representing yourself as positively as possible.

(And go to a social event as soon as you can)

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Welcome

Not always dodgy as we got verified on our first day of joining by those we knew well and had met several times from another site.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Welcome to the forums and the site! I agree it can look a little suss, but I'd also say it depended on the wording of the veri - were I to verify a newbie I'd recommended onto the site, I'd make sure my veri reflected that. On the other hand, I was verified the day after I joined but that's probably cos I'm a complete tart and managed a meet within hours of joining!

Enjoy!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Hi all this is my first post here, my name is Josh

I joined this site a few days ago and as a newbie it is difficult to get anyone to talk to you without verification.. which is fair enough as I can imagine there are the usual time wasters out there. But I did the next best thing and got photo verified.

Anyway... just been browsing the new members, and when I say new I mean they've been on here for literally 5 minutes and already they've got meet verifications. .. how?? Well dodgy!!! Just goes to show that the big green tick means nothing.

Give us newbies a break "

I want to know how as a newbie you are already aware of timewasters lol...only kidding!

Best of luck on here

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By *oxerjoshlee OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Hi all this is my first post here, my name is Josh

I joined this site a few days ago and as a newbie it is difficult to get anyone to talk to you without verification.. which is fair enough as I can imagine there are the usual time wasters out there. But I did the next best thing and got photo verified.

Anyway... just been browsing the new members, and when I say new I mean they've been on here for literally 5 minutes and already they've got meet verifications. .. how?? Well dodgy!!! Just goes to show that the big green tick means nothing.

Give us newbies a break

I want to know how as a newbie you are already aware of timewasters lol...only kidding!

Best of luck on here "

Lol you're not the first to say that. I read each profile very carefully and it is apparent that timewasters and men not reading a profile is people's top peeves so much SO THEY GET ALL ANGRY AND RANT IN BLOCK CAPITALS

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