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By *orkshiretights2022 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

sheffield

Can anyone give ne any tips on where I’m going wrong with my profile?!

Any feedback would be appreciated!

Thanks

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
48 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Hi OP.

Where do you think you're going right on your profile?

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By *nesCouple
48 weeks ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams

What’s your USP? Besides being one of 28475839 billion men on here?

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
48 weeks ago

North West

Your kink is not my kink and would put me off.

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By *orkshiretights2022 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

sheffield


"Hi OP.

Where do you think you're going right on your profile?"

Lol!….well nowhere evidently!

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By *elix SightedMan
48 weeks ago

Cloud 8

The one thing I’d say is that your love of tights is probably quite a niche thing, even on fab. Chances are you’re narrowing your pool of available people. I’m not kink shaming or saying don’t be into it / advertise it, but you might not appeal to a broad spectrum of fabbers.

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By *orkshiretights2022 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

sheffield


"What’s your USP? Besides being one of 28475839 billion men on here? "

I can touch my nose with my tongue and name all 50 US states pretty quickly….

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

I find your profile confusing OP.

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By *oralltherightreasonsCouple
48 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

I can't imagine the tights are doing you any favours

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By *asterMeliodasMan
48 weeks ago

Newmill


"What’s your USP? Besides being one of 28475839 billion men on here?

I can touch my nose with my tongue and name all 50 US states pretty quickly…."

Yeah well I can touch someone else's nose with my tongue and give all 50 US states names really rapidly, so you've gotta up your game.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
48 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Hi OP.

Where do you think you're going right on your profile?

Lol!….well nowhere evidently! "

Oh.

Well. Good luck then 💜

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By *YDB75Man
48 weeks ago

Beverley

TBF your profile pic dosnt help as you already put yaself in a bracket that will put people off.

Try to put a bit of about yaself content in and a description.

Dont try to appeal to the type you want just because you think thats what people want be honest to yaself aswell.

Your little quirks and maybe fetish’s can be discussed if ya chat with someone.

Its a hard place to stand out and keep changing things to make it fresh.

Rotate ya pics around private and public and keep ya public pics to a minimum.

Things can always be edited

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By *d mirerMan
48 weeks ago

lost


"What’s your USP? Besides being one of 28475839 billion men on here?

I can touch my nose with my tongue and name all 50 US states pretty quickly….

Yeah well I can touch someone else's nose with my tongue and give all 50 US states names really rapidly, so you've gotta up your game."

I can get in a helluva state trying to touch my nose with my tongue !

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By *r TriomanMan
48 weeks ago

Malmesbury

It's 28475839 billion and 1 you forgot me, honestly, I'm just invisible on this site.

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By *orkshiretights2022 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

sheffield


"I can't imagine the tights are doing you any favours"

Thanks. Yes, maybe I thought there was more tights/nylons fans out there than there is

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By *orkshiretights2022 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

sheffield


"TBF your profile pic dosnt help as you already put yaself in a bracket that will put people off.

Try to put a bit of about yaself content in and a description.

Dont try to appeal to the type you want just because you think thats what people want be honest to yaself aswell.

Your little quirks and maybe fetish’s can be discussed if ya chat with someone.

Its a hard place to stand out and keep changing things to make it fresh.

Rotate ya pics around private and public and keep ya public pics to a minimum.

Things can always be edited "

Appreciated. Thanks 👍

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By *hat.coupleCouple
48 weeks ago

Kent

You are a single man so sadly you all get tarred with the same brush as the creepy shit single men that ruin it for everyone else. Sad but true I'm afraid. Your best bet is to got to some clubs and put your face out there. We've found this works best for us. We are only interested in having fun with the lesser spotted unicorn so we struggle too. Also you can get some veris from people you chat with too, some people are dubious about veris on profiles via webcam as most fake accounts tend to have webcam veris.

More pictures of you wearing some smart boxers and something smart too would be good, something other than you wearing nylons. People will think you are a bit of a one trick pony if thats the only pic you have. Also, add a bit more to your profile saying what you are looking for and what you like. We all know this is ultimately a place to meet people for sex but people like to know a bit about you before they chat.

I can be a little blunt and to the point, I hope I haven't offended you in anyway. When someone asks for help i always try to be as honest as possible otherwise what's the point?

Mrs x

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By *illy IdolMan
48 weeks ago

Midlands


"What’s your USP? Besides being one of 28475839 billion men on here?

I can touch my nose with my tongue and name all 50 US states pretty quickly….

Yeah well I can touch someone else's nose with my tongue and give all 50 US states names really rapidly, so you've gotta up your game."

I can do cartwheels. You both need to up your games.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Hey OP. My best suggestions...

Make all penis pics private and share if asked.

Take photos that are suggestive and indicate you would be able to turn them on in person as well.

Finally... get yourself along to a party or club and meet some people and get some genuine verifications.

Although that may all be BS and everyone else suggests something different lol

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By *orkshiretights2022 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

sheffield


"You are a single man so sadly you all get tarred with the same brush as the creepy shit single men that ruin it for everyone else. Sad but true I'm afraid. Your best bet is to got to some clubs and put your face out there. We've found this works best for us. We are only interested in having fun with the lesser spotted unicorn so we struggle too. Also you can get some veris from people you chat with too, some people are dubious about veris on profiles via webcam as most fake accounts tend to have webcam veris.

More pictures of you wearing some smart boxers and something smart too would be good, something other than you wearing nylons. People will think you are a bit of a one trick pony if thats the only pic you have. Also, add a bit more to your profile saying what you are looking for and what you like. We all know this is ultimately a place to meet people for sex but people like to know a bit about you before they chat.

I can be a little blunt and to the point, I hope I haven't offended you in anyway. When someone asks for help i always try to be as honest as possible otherwise what's the point?

Mrs x"

That’s great. Thank you! I will get some new photos uploaded this week! Thanks

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By *ir tootMan
48 weeks ago

Raccoon city


"What’s your USP? Besides being one of 28475839 billion men on here?

I can touch my nose with my tongue and name all 50 US states pretty quickly….

Yeah well I can touch someone else's nose with my tongue and give all 50 US states names really rapidly, so you've gotta up your game."

Oh yeah well I can simultaneously trip over and break my nose at the same time. Haha

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London


"What’s your USP? Besides being one of 28475839 billion men on here?

I can touch my nose with my tongue and name all 50 US states pretty quickly….

Yeah well I can touch someone else's nose with my tongue and give all 50 US states names really rapidly, so you've gotta up your game.

I can do cartwheels. You both need to up your games."

I can do all this while also perusing the IKEA side table range online.

You three need to up your game(s).

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
48 weeks ago

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You have no profile picture, no public pictures, bland bio and no explanation as to why you can’t accommodate. I imagine the tights/nylon kink and interest in cross dressing will put quite a lot of people off, too. Not kink shaming, just being honest.

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By *orkshiretights2022 OP   Man
48 weeks ago

sheffield


"You have no profile picture, no public pictures, bland bio and no explanation as to why you can’t accommodate. I imagine the tights/nylon kink and interest in cross dressing will put quite a lot of people off, too. Not kink shaming, just being honest. "

Tough love.

But thanks. I take your points!

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
48 weeks ago

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"You have no profile picture, no public pictures, bland bio and no explanation as to why you can’t accommodate. I imagine the tights/nylon kink and interest in cross dressing will put quite a lot of people off, too. Not kink shaming, just being honest.

Tough love.

But thanks. I take your points! "

Best of luck - be honest, have fun, remember your profile is your shop window

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By *issmorganWoman
48 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

The no pics would be an instant delete for me op.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Central

People look at the profile of the message sender, before reading the message. This it's best policy to get your profile as best as you think it can be, before they send a message.

But, if others aren't right for the sender, the best outcome is no thanks, or no reply, which means no thanks. Far better to have certainty

The vast majority of people will never, ever be mutually matched with most people. That's why it's essential to have realistic expectations.

Everything may be 100% right for you OP. But you won't be right for most people. The more pics someone has, the easier it is for others to imagine being in physical contact with someone.

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By *electableicecreamMan
48 weeks ago

The West

Do you look at other guys profiles? There's no better way to see what works.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
48 weeks ago

Stoke

When people with no pictures ask why they're not getting any responses! 🤦‍♂️

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