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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Profile states no couples etc, but have just had a lovely message asking me if I would like 2 guys? wtf. have now added to profile no mmf. its just not for me and block list is getting bigger again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile states no couples etc, but have just had a lovely message asking me if I would like 2 guys? wtf. have now added to profile no mmf. its just not for me and block list is getting bigger again"

Not sure what the rant is?

Two males does not equate a couple to me even if they have a MM profile, so not surprised they didn't realise they weren't "allowed" to message you!

And you say they sent a lovely message...

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Doesnt say you are looking for "single" men though

It says MEN........Plural

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Profile states no couples etc, but have just had a lovely message asking me if I would like 2 guys? wtf. have now added to profile no mmf. its just not for me and block list is getting bigger again"

Shouldn't worry about it. I got a right rant earlier today because I said 'No thank you' - quite abusive. Now I could have reported and blocked but decided to put on my best 'mummy is very angry' voice and tell him off.

He apologised. Then I gave him advice about the best ways to, perhaps, get a response which he was grateful for. I like to think I may have saved some other random woman his bile due to the frustration of getting nowhere!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Profile states no couples etc, but have just had a lovely message asking me if I would like 2 guys? wtf. have now added to profile no mmf. its just not for me and block list is getting bigger again

Not sure what the rant is?

Two males does not equate a couple to me even if they have a MM profile, so not surprised they didn't realise they weren't "allowed" to message you!

And you say they sent a lovely message... "
I dont know if they got a mm profile because I didnt look but name does say 2 guys, single guys can message me thats how they or he did so. "lovely message" was meant to sound sarcastic, obviously not sarcastic enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Profile states no couples etc, but have just had a lovely message asking me if I would like 2 guys? wtf. have now added to profile no mmf. its just not for me and block list is getting bigger again

Shouldn't worry about it. I got a right rant earlier today because I said 'No thank you' - quite abusive. Now I could have reported and blocked but decided to put on my best 'mummy is very angry' voice and tell him off.

He apologised. Then I gave him advice about the best ways to, perhaps, get a response which he was grateful for. I like to think I may have saved some other random woman his bile due to the frustration of getting nowhere! "
I admit to not replying to these guys because there wasnt even a face pic or my password so they didnt read profile, I usually do say polite no thank you if I get a decent message and they arent for me. Not worried about it but thank you for replying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doesnt say you are looking for "single" men though

It says MEN........Plural "
My profile is stating single men, doesnt mean I want 2 at once

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Now I could have reported and blocked but decided to put on my best 'mummy is very angry' voice and tell him off"

I have been known to be naughty on the odd occasion

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Is it really a big deal and worth a rant?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it really a big deal and worth a rant?

"
I dont care no and i guess not but thought i could say it in here - ive seen other similar posts. Wont be posting any more

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Is it really a big deal and worth a rant?

I dont care no and i guess not but thought i could say it in here - ive seen other similar posts. Wont be posting any more"

Don't be scared away - you go ahead and rant!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"Is it really a big deal and worth a rant?

I dont care no and i guess not but thought i could say it in here - ive seen other similar posts. Wont be posting any more"

Wow, wasn't a suggestion that you stop posting....

I only asked if it's really such a big deal in the grand scheme of things, it's only one message and not looking like an offensive message by your description.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I expect they thought if they were both straight guys and you are searching for men that you might be up for a 3some.

At least they sent a lovely message, not sure I'd of blocked them if it were me but it wasn't so that's your choice.

Situation should be avoided now you've added it to your profile! Assuming people bother to read it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it really a big deal and worth a rant?

I dont care no and i guess not but thought i could say it in here - ive seen other similar posts. Wont be posting any more

Wow, wasn't a suggestion that you stop posting....

I only asked if it's really such a big deal in the grand scheme of things, it's only one message and not looking like an offensive message by your description.

"
I was attempting sarcasm but failed miserably as usual. they didnt read profile, not much to ask is it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I expect they thought if they were both straight guys and you are searching for men that you might be up for a 3some.

At least they sent a lovely message, not sure I'd of blocked them if it were me but it wasn't so that's your choice.

Situation should be avoided now you've added it to your profile! Assuming people bother to read it.

"
wish id not put lovely message now because it asked "want 2 guys"? nothing else

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I expect they thought if they were both straight guys and you are searching for men that you might be up for a 3some.

At least they sent a lovely message, not sure I'd of blocked them if it were me but it wasn't so that's your choice.

Situation should be avoided now you've added it to your profile! Assuming people bother to read it.

wish id not put lovely message now because it asked "want 2 guys"? nothing else"

Lol. I see. Short and to the point. Haha!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I expect they thought if they were both straight guys and you are searching for men that you might be up for a 3some.

At least they sent a lovely message, not sure I'd of blocked them if it were me but it wasn't so that's your choice.

Situation should be avoided now you've added it to your profile! Assuming people bother to read it.

wish id not put lovely message now because it asked "want 2 guys"? nothing else"

Next time say yes - one to do the garden and another to clean my windows. I will provide the bucket and cloth!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I expect they thought if they were both straight guys and you are searching for men that you might be up for a 3some.

At least they sent a lovely message, not sure I'd of blocked them if it were me but it wasn't so that's your choice.

Situation should be avoided now you've added it to your profile! Assuming people bother to read it.

wish id not put lovely message now because it asked "want 2 guys"? nothing else

Next time say yes - one to do the garden and another to clean my windows. I will provide the bucket and cloth! "
yes lol only problem they were on isle of wight

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I expect they thought if they were both straight guys and you are searching for men that you might be up for a 3some.

At least they sent a lovely message, not sure I'd of blocked them if it were me but it wasn't so that's your choice.

Situation should be avoided now you've added it to your profile! Assuming people bother to read it.

wish id not put lovely message now because it asked "want 2 guys"? nothing else

Next time say yes - one to do the garden and another to clean my windows. I will provide the bucket and cloth! yes lol only problem they were on isle of wight "

Well, just add that they would have to pay their own travelling expenses and accommodation! I'm sure they will be panting to get to you, especially when you say you want to meet them for a social meet first! LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect they thought if they were both straight guys and you are searching for men that you might be up for a 3some.

At least they sent a lovely message, not sure I'd of blocked them if it were me but it wasn't so that's your choice.

Situation should be avoided now you've added it to your profile! Assuming people bother to read it.

wish id not put lovely message now because it asked "want 2 guys"? nothing else"

I'd be careful discussing the content of the message as it is against forum rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile states no couples etc, but have just had a lovely message asking me if I would like 2 guys? wtf. have now added to profile no mmf. its just not for me and block list is getting bigger again

Shouldn't worry about it. I got a right rant earlier today because I said 'No thank you' - quite abusive. Now I could have reported and blocked but decided to put on my best 'mummy is very angry' voice and tell him off.

He apologised. Then I gave him advice about the best ways to, perhaps, get a response which he was grateful for. I like to think I may have saved some other random woman his bile due to the frustration of getting nowhere! I admit to not replying to these guys because there wasnt even a face pic or my password so they didnt read profile, I usually do say polite no thank you if I get a decent message and they arent for me. Not worried about it but thank you for replying "

To be fair, i had to read your profile twice before i found your password.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Profile states no couples etc, but have just had a lovely message asking me if I would like 2 guys? wtf. have now added to profile no mmf. its just not for me and block list is getting bigger again

Shouldn't worry about it. I got a right rant earlier today because I said 'No thank you' - quite abusive. Now I could have reported and blocked but decided to put on my best 'mummy is very angry' voice and tell him off.

He apologised. Then I gave him advice about the best ways to, perhaps, get a response which he was grateful for. I like to think I may have saved some other random woman his bile due to the frustration of getting nowhere! I admit to not replying to these guys because there wasnt even a face pic or my password so they didnt read profile, I usually do say polite no thank you if I get a decent message and they arent for me. Not worried about it but thank you for replying

To be fair, i had to read your profile twice before i found your password."
well at least you bothered to go and find it. perhaps ill move it to a easier place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile states no couples etc, but have just had a lovely message asking me if I would like 2 guys? wtf. have now added to profile no mmf. its just not for me and block list is getting bigger again

Shouldn't worry about it. I got a right rant earlier today because I said 'No thank you' - quite abusive. Now I could have reported and blocked but decided to put on my best 'mummy is very angry' voice and tell him off.

He apologised. Then I gave him advice about the best ways to, perhaps, get a response which he was grateful for. I like to think I may have saved some other random woman his bile due to the frustration of getting nowhere! I admit to not replying to these guys because there wasnt even a face pic or my password so they didnt read profile, I usually do say polite no thank you if I get a decent message and they arent for me. Not worried about it but thank you for replying

To be fair, i had to read your profile twice before i found your password.well at least you bothered to go and find it. perhaps ill move it to a easier place"

But i'm probably wrong about it anyway. Lol.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"lol only problem they were on isle of wight "

Haven't you heard of that well known classic Ferry 'Cross The Solent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it really a big deal and worth a rant?

I dont care no and i guess not but thought i could say it in here - ive seen other similar posts. Wont be posting any more

Wow, wasn't a suggestion that you stop posting....

I only asked if it's really such a big deal in the grand scheme of things, it's only one message and not looking like an offensive message by your description.

I was attempting sarcasm but failed miserably as usual. they didnt read profile, not much to ask is it?"

Yes it is as you should know by now that not everyone reads profiles

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Is it really a big deal and worth a rant?

I dont care no and i guess not but thought i could say it in here - ive seen other similar posts. Wont be posting any more

Wow, wasn't a suggestion that you stop posting....

I only asked if it's really such a big deal in the grand scheme of things, it's only one message and not looking like an offensive message by your description.

I was attempting sarcasm but failed miserably as usual. they didnt read profile, not much to ask is it?

Yes it is as you should know by now that not everyone reads profiles"

I don't think it is too much to ask. Since I removed a lot of pics from public I actually get more messages actually responding to the text and, for that reason, a much better chance of them being actually what I am looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it really a big deal and worth a rant?

I dont care no and i guess not but thought i could say it in here - ive seen other similar posts. Wont be posting any more

Wow, wasn't a suggestion that you stop posting....

I only asked if it's really such a big deal in the grand scheme of things, it's only one message and not looking like an offensive message by your description.

I was attempting sarcasm but failed miserably as usual. they didnt read profile, not much to ask is it?

Yes it is as you should know by now that not everyone reads profiles

I don't think it is too much to ask. Since I removed a lot of pics from public I actually get more messages actually responding to the text and, for that reason, a much better chance of them being actually what I am looking for."
That sounds like a good idea but ive just put some back on public view because i wasnt getting any messages and thought it might help. unfortunately i cant put face pics on public but do have them for sending with a message. I think I just dont do it for guys. I get a fair few looking daily and the ones that could message me dont, so they are perving but that is fine by me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile states no couples etc, but have just had a lovely message asking me if I would like 2 guys? wtf. have now added to profile no mmf. its just not for me and block list is getting bigger again

Not sure what the rant is?

Two males does not equate a couple to me even if they have a MM profile, so not surprised they didn't realise they weren't "allowed" to message you!

And you say they sent a lovely message... "

I've sent you loads of lovely messages but I still ain't shagged ya ... yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile states no couples etc, but have just had a lovely message asking me if I would like 2 guys? wtf. have now added to profile no mmf. its just not for me and block list is getting bigger again

Not sure what the rant is?

Two males does not equate a couple to me even if they have a MM profile, so not surprised they didn't realise they weren't "allowed" to message you!

And you say they sent a lovely message...

I've sent you loads of lovely messages but I still ain't shagged ya ... yet. "

You can only if you bring along another M

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