FabSwingers.com forum: One or two word messages

By *arialoue OP Woman
13 weeks ago

bradford

Is it just me that ignores /deletes the one or two word messages that scream out I couldn't be bothered to read ya profile

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13 weeks ago

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By *till gameMan
13 weeks ago

two doors down

"Is it just me that ignores /deletes the one or two word messages that scream out I couldn't be bothered to read ya profile"

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By *vaRose43Woman
13 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Not just you

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By *issmorganWoman
13 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's not just you op.

If I get a hi or how's you, from a profile with barely any text, it's a delete.

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By *hunky GentMan
13 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Nooooooooo.

Lots of people just delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

On the rare occasions I get a reply that's what I get!

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By *eroLondonMan
13 weeks ago

Covent Garden

I ignore them. If they're vacuous enough for sending terse opening remarks then I'm not going to entertain them.

Occasionally I •will• entertain them, for my amusement, and just paste them a copy of the Red Hat Enterprise Linux administrator's guide.

(I can do this because it's open source and all ©®™ are acknowledged)

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
13 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

I don’t mind getting a very short first message, it’s a tester to see if I’m interested in replying.

I actually prefer an honest “hi how are you” to a long copy and paste talking about “you guys” (I’m not a couple), offering me their gf (my profile is clear that I’m straight) or demanding I Domme them (again, if they read my profile they’d see I’m sub)

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
13 weeks ago

Birmingham

Ignore & delete or block, depending on how we feel.

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By *WANDTGCouple
13 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

"I don’t mind getting a very short first message, it’s a tester to see if I’m interested in replying.

We've had a few copy and paste messages, I normally ask how they've got on with them so far ?

As it's failing with us .

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By *imply DeeWoman
13 weeks ago

Wherever

Apart from friends, I ignore all messages

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

One or two word messages are the best ones! Right up there with profiles that only have close up pics of genitalia.

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By *aizyWoman
13 weeks ago

west midlands

I got one all it said was, Hi Lazy, still trying to work out if it was a typo or if they knew me?! 🤔

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By *apinMan
13 weeks ago

London

"I got one all it said was, Hi Lazy, still trying to work out if it was a typo or if they knew me?! 🤔"

🤣

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Central

I'm generally reading the situation, including that they will probably put the same interest and commitment to me, that their messages have invested in them. It's more than likely that I'll ignore the almost 0 effort contact types. Potentially, as a hypocrite, I'm more likely to respond to a wink than a two words message. Though experience shows that many of them aren't followed through with a good message.

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By *ir-March-a-lotMan
13 weeks ago

london

Most messages I get are one word ‘hi’ messages.

The last ‘hi’ message I received I entertained them and replied back with ‘hi’, I then got a response of ‘hey’

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
13 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"I got one all it said was, Hi Lazy, still trying to work out if it was a typo or if they knew me?! 🤔"

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By *riciaWoman
13 weeks ago

Blaydon

"I don’t mind getting a very short first message, it’s a tester to see if I’m interested in replying.

We've had a few copy and paste messages, I normally ask how they've got on with them so far ?

As it's failing with us . "

it is Einsteins theory of insanity:- “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.”

I have on occasions asked whether they have had any success with a "hi" or cut and paste message, just out of interest. So far no one has come back and said they have been succesful!

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By *oralltherightreasonsCouple
13 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

Bugs me

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By *r John WickMan
13 weeks ago

The Continental

One of my longest standing friends here, became so after a 3 word, one line message. So it’s not all doom n gloom eh?

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By *ourDiscreetDILFMan
13 weeks ago

Village outside Norwich

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By *ourDiscreetDILFMan
13 weeks ago

Village outside Norwich

Usually only messages I get are men just saying hi...

I try to send few lines long initial messages but they get ignored as well.

Fab is looking like a flop!

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By *immyinreadingMan
13 weeks ago

henley on thames

"Is it just me that ignores /deletes the one or two word messages that scream out I couldn't be bothered to read ya profile"

Sometimes

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By *WANDTGCouple
13 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

"Most messages I get are one word ‘hi’ messages.

The last ‘hi’ message I received I entertained them and replied back with ‘hi’, I then got a response of ‘hey’"

Next time respond with " Ho"

You may get a song out of it 😁

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By *immyinreadingMan
13 weeks ago

henley on thames

"Is it just me that ignores /deletes the one or two word messages that scream out I couldn't be bothered to read ya profile"

Depends

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By *inochioMan
13 weeks ago

Derbyshire

I dont get unsolicited messages but i am guessing that is because they have read my profile.

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By *oomlMan
13 weeks ago

Fareham

I just got one with more than a couple of words.

"We wild old soe photos to be take"

Anyone want to take a guess at what it means?

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By *had_ThunderCockMan
13 weeks ago

a place somewhat adjacent to you…

Mmm….

What are these ‘messages’ ya’ll are referring to?

I’m still trying to figure out the swipe function?

🤔🤨🧐💭

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By *adyKarmennTVTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Dublin

If someone messages "Hi" usually i will reply, not all the time

BUT if it contiunes or i get that ridiclous text speak i delete straight away! No intrest speaking in one words

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
13 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

"Is it just me that ignores /deletes the one or two word messages that scream out I couldn't be bothered to read ya profile"

I think it’s going to be a landslide result that you’re not alone with this.

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By *had_ThunderCockMan
13 weeks ago

a place somewhat adjacent to you…

"I just got one with more than a couple of words.

"We wild old soe photos to be take"

Anyone want to take a guess at what it means?"

Now I would surmise that the message potentially was to say ‘ We shall take some splendid photographs of our exuberant activities’?

But most likely..

‘We Would like some photos to be taken’!

Regards from your Jibberish Translator

Chad ThunderCock

👌🍺👍

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
13 weeks ago

Birmingham

Sometimes you take the time and effort for a long message but it’s still gets ignored deleted or read but no reply so you just can’t win

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By *ndyp81Man
13 weeks ago

essex

I never just send a message say hi or how are you, I do try to put some effort in to what I’m saying

At least I hope I am lol

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By *herrybakewellCouple
13 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We always take one or two word answers as a not interested.

Conversation ends and they're blocked so we don't bother them again.

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By *oomlMan
13 weeks ago

Fareham

"I just got one with more than a couple of words.

"We wild old soe photos to be take"

Anyone want to take a guess at what it means?

Now I would surmise that the message potentially was to say ‘ We shall take some splendid photographs of our exuberant activities’?

But most likely..

‘We Would like some photos to be taken’!

Regards from your Jibberish Translator

Chad ThunderCock

👌🍺👍

Thanks. I was thinking it was something like that myself. It made me giggle but I won't be replying.

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By *orningcoffee9Man
13 weeks ago

Manchester

I think everyone here has there own response to a 1 or two word message If you choose to have a profile with nothing to show then your chances of getting a reply back is very slim.

Same can apply though if you have pics and a bio written. Myself I don't particularly see anything wrong with a "hey how are you" message.

I understand not everyone here is always confident enough at delivering an opening message, so a simple message may be the best way for them to start one.

If they send a face pic, I say that's a bonus at least they are willing to show, so you know what they look like at least.

It does however help to have something written on the profile at least enough to capture the viewers attention.

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By *ames 13Man
13 weeks ago

Cronton

I find I get most responses from a single sentence message. Usually commenting on her/their pics.

Paragraph messages with a few comments about their profile, and what I'm looking for usually get ignored.

Maybe longer messages give off the copy/paste vibe

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By *r TriomanMan
13 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

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By *r TriomanMan
13 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"Is it just me that ignores /deletes the one or two word messages that scream out I couldn't be bothered to read ya profile"

Why would you make an effort when it's obvious they haven't 🙄🙄

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

We delete them and if they message a second time(which they usually do again with no effort) block them. Its so lazy. We have enough info on our profile about what we're after. We wouldn't dream of reaching out to anyone and not putting some effort in.

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By *ark n kimCouple
13 weeks ago

Durham

We have had a guy message us for 3 our 4 times a week for 3 weeks. incidentally that's how long he has been on the site.

Message consists of hi,wanna meet,can accommodate now,do you reply,and other 2 to 3 word shite.

Obviously in 3 weeks he has never had the decency to read our profile.

Single male profile with a couples profile name.also not one pic either on his profile or sent.

So yep we just delete but don't block unless they get abusive.

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By *weetCherryWoman
13 weeks ago

London

Not just you, no. I delete them and block the suspect that send them

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By *ozzybear1981Man
13 weeks ago

preston

So an “alright luv” message wouldn’t go down well 🤷‍♂️😂

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By *hunky GentMan
13 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"So an “alright luv” message wouldn’t go down well 🤷‍♂️😂"

'Get em out for the lads'

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By *had_ThunderCockMan
13 weeks ago

a place somewhat adjacent to you…

"So an “alright luv” message wouldn’t go down well 🤷‍♂️😂"

Not wiv me Sunshine!!

We are not at ‘luv’ yet… few more messages first! 😂🍺

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By *cLovin2Man
13 weeks ago

Reading

"Is it just me that ignores /deletes the one or two word messages that scream out I couldn't be bothered to read ya profile"

I guess it's the equivalent of applying for a job, without bothering to read which skillset is required or what the job is. Then moaning it's not what you wanted

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By *ensuallover1000Man
13 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

‘Ow do?’

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By *ell GwynnWoman
13 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

"‘Ow do?’ "

That would definitely get an instant delete as it's how my dad greets everyone

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