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By *isslush OP Woman
12 weeks ago

wolverhampton

Can you say chronically single and lonely how do I go about not being either those things please be nice

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By *ayFieldsMan
12 weeks ago

Leixlip

Better than being attached and chronically lonely lol

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By *ake_or_deathMan
12 weeks ago

Manchester

Maybe you could start by thinking about your interests and finding groups related to those interests to attend where you could meet like-minded people?

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By *ndyp81Man
12 weeks ago

essex

"Can you say chronically single and lonely how do I go about not being either those things please be nice "

This is why I rented out two rooms to keep me company

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By *ake_or_deathMan
12 weeks ago

Manchester

"Better than being attached and chronically lonely lol "

She said 'Please be nice.' I guess that was beyond you.

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By *elloIntrigueMan
12 weeks ago

North West UK

"Maybe you could start by thinking about your interests and finding groups related to those interests to attend where you could meet like-minded people?"

I'm not sure I could have said it better myself!

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By *isslush OP Woman
12 weeks ago

wolverhampton

"Can you say chronically single and lonely how do I go about not being either those things please be nice

This is why I rented out two rooms to keep me company "
oh cool and is it keep you company

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By *urry BlokeMan
12 weeks ago

Stalybridge

The solution starts with you, no one else

You need to get your head into a situation where you start to make small changes

I can tell you one thing, as horny as it can be, fucking people to feel wanted or is damaging

It doesn't offer long term self worth or validation

Been there

Got a whole rack of t-shirts

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"Can you say chronically single and lonely how do I go about not being either those things please be nice "

I'm so sorry to hear someone feeling like that. I'd like to reply with something meaningful and uplifting, but I feel I need to ask more questions first.

In what respect do you feel the most lonely? Physical? Emotional? Connection?

How's your social life?

Aside for feeling lonely, how happy are you with your life right now?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Central

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Central

If you can become less lonely, without needing to be in a relationship, then that might be the easier challenge. For many, it's a bigger challenge to find someone who is physically and mentally right for them.

Volunteering is something that many here do and typically find it extremely rewarding. You have control over what you might volunteer to do and some types involve good social contact with others, either other volunteers or people who you may help out. You may find a lot of people who are lonely and who would cherish your compassion, understanding and company. Often there's training and supervisionz so you'd not be on your own

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By *ayFieldsMan
12 weeks ago

Leixlip

"Better than being attached and chronically lonely lol

She said 'Please be nice.' I guess that was beyond you. "

I was being honest ,maybe tongue in cheek way , apologies

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By *alandNitaCouple
12 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Make the most of any social situations that are on offer. Joining clubs, teams, classes, etc... they are great ways to expand your social circles.

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