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"Are you happy with your naked self? No clever angles or lighting, no lingerie covering up bits. Just full on naked and not posed. Confident? Happy? " In a word. YES 😁 Next question? | |||
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"Yep. It's the only body of I've got, so.... I felt the same when I was overweight, too." And dressing up in lingerie feels awkward, like I'm pretending to be something I'm not and that everyone will know. Imposter syndrome, maybe | |||
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"With lingerie on I'm ok but definitely not confident showing myself naked x" I'll hold your hand | |||
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"Mope definitely not Mrs" Nope we don't care if people want to judge us that's there problem tbf It's just a shame there are 2 many judgementals on here And fat haters We are what we all are and don't mean we're not fun but ye | |||
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"Are you happy with your naked self? No clever angles or lighting, no lingerie covering up bits. Just full on naked and not posed. Confident? Happy? " It varies. 80% of the time, I'm confident and mostly happy with how I see myself. The rest of the time, I'm meh. | |||
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"Are you happy with your naked self? No clever angles or lighting, no lingerie covering up bits. Just full on naked and not posed. Confident? Happy? " How about you OP ? | |||
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"Yep aside from a spot on my arse " I have the same spot, it's a pain in the arse. Quite literally. | |||
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"Is how you feel linked to your weight? I've always thought I'd be happy if I lost x amount of weight or toned up certain areas. I may have to accept those things are never gonna happen! " Strangely of late I've put weight on, always seeked that when younger. Now it's happened I'm not especially happy as it's just gone on my waist 😡. | |||
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"Is how you feel linked to your weight? I've always thought I'd be happy if I lost x amount of weight or toned up certain areas. I may have to accept those things are never gonna happen! " I am happier a couple of dress sizes down ..but despite running my thighs are not toned due to the loss . But overall i guess i am happier snd more confident. Others dont seem to mind . I think its human to always pick on bits we arent 100% happy with . | |||
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"I’m more confident in lingerie but that doesn’t stop me getting naked " See I'm not a fan of lingerie, especially the sexy stuff. I feel I'm trying to be something I'm not, why I don't get properly dressed up and wear lots of makeup up. I feel way more confident in a t-shirt and some long socks! 🤣 Sexy at it's finest. | |||
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"Is how you feel linked to your weight? I've always thought I'd be happy if I lost x amount of weight or toned up certain areas. I may have to accept those things are never gonna happen! " Just go on a bulk and lift heavy then you’ve got an excuse | |||
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"Is how you feel linked to your weight? I've always thought I'd be happy if I lost x amount of weight or toned up certain areas. I may have to accept those things are never gonna happen! Just go on a bulk and lift heavy then you’ve got an excuse " I'm on a never ending "bulk"... | |||
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"Are you happy with your naked self? No clever angles or lighting, no lingerie covering up bits. Just full on naked and not posed. Confident? Happy? " Absolutely not! I hate, and have always hated, every single aspect of my face and body. Literally from head to toe. When I was younger I was always very skinny and that totally fucked my self confidence. My legs and arms have stayed that way but I put weight on my torso which makes me look a weird shape and (in my own eyes) far less desirable from a low point anyway. I try to take flattering pictures but they end up being forced. I don’t regard myself as good looking and that’s backed up by never, ever having pulled an totty while out. Like others have said, when I’m doing rudies with someone it’s not really on my mind and I assume they are ok enough with me by then. I have been on nudist beaches and enjoy the feeling of body liberty, but don’t feel good about my body image. By the way this isn’t a pity post. Just me being honest. Right. Off to the bakery. I mean gym | |||
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"Is how you feel linked to your weight? I've always thought I'd be happy if I lost x amount of weight or toned up certain areas. I may have to accept those things are never gonna happen! " For me yes, although I absolutely love finally having tits but the rest feels alien. Mrs | |||
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"Are you happy with your naked self? No clever angles or lighting, no lingerie covering up bits. Just full on naked and not posed. Confident? Happy? " A little more now due to the kindness and tenderness of some of the lady’s I’ve been fortunate to get to know but definitely wasn’t before and hated it. Still not wild about my body but their kind words motivated me to be more pro-active with doing more things that make me feel a bit better about it, if that makes any sense lol x | |||
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"Are you happy with your naked self? No clever angles or lighting, no lingerie covering up bits. Just full on naked and not posed. Confident? Happy? " I dont know many people are really happy in their own skin | |||
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"100% yes. I think for someone who is 53 and has been through many months of chemo I look good even if I do say so myself. " Yes you do, and well done good sir! | |||
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"Is how you feel linked to your weight? I've always thought I'd be happy if I lost x amount of weight or toned up certain areas. I may have to accept those things are never gonna happen! Just go on a bulk and lift heavy then you’ve got an excuse I'm on a never ending "bulk"... " I’m 6 months into a 3 month bulk and it’s not ending anytime soo. | |||
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"Is how you feel linked to your weight? I've always thought I'd be happy if I lost x amount of weight or toned up certain areas. I may have to accept those things are never gonna happen! Just go on a bulk and lift heavy then you’ve got an excuse I'm on a never ending "bulk"... I’m 6 months into a 3 month bulk and it’s not ending anytime soo. " A man after my own heart...sorry, I meant stomach... | |||
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"Played rugby for many years, I learned quite quickly you have what you have and be proud of it! " Yep. If you’re built like Marcus Smith no amount of training will turn you into Andrew Sheridan. Your body is your life machine - don’t cock around with it too much or it will stop working effectively for you. | |||
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"Is how you feel linked to your weight? I've always thought I'd be happy if I lost x amount of weight or toned up certain areas. I may have to accept those things are never gonna happen! " To some extent, yes. As my form has improved over the past couple of months so has my confidence. It's satisfying to see hard work pay dividends 😁 | |||
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"I love to be naked " With a figure like yours I don't blame you | |||
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"No, I'm not. Had a wake up call this weekend, I really didn't like the way I looked. I Gym membership bought, i start tomorrow. I have exercises at home today. Tracking input of food as well. " | |||
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"I love to be naked With a figure like yours I don't blame you " Thanks gorgeous your too kind | |||
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"I’m content but prefer to be covered up at home. I don’t like glancing at my floppy cock. It looks so sad. " Does he need a hug? | |||
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"I’m content but prefer to be covered up at home. I don’t like glancing at my floppy cock. It looks so sad. Does he need a hug?" Bring a defib as well just incase that doesn’t work. | |||
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"I love to be naked With a figure like yours I don't blame you Thanks gorgeous your too kind " 😘😘 | |||
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"If I’ve had a tipple and there’s no mirror… absolutely! I look better in my head than in reality 😂 Hubby has no issues… I love his confidence. " You look fucking gorgeous! | |||
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"If I’ve had a tipple and there’s no mirror… absolutely! I look better in my head than in reality 😂 Hubby has no issues… I love his confidence. You look fucking gorgeous! " Thanks! I’m a little less forgiving of faults… but I act confident when naked in front of others. | |||
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