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"Well it's for me. The moment I buy something for myself an unexpected bill arrives through the door." Is it unexpected if you know you bought it though? | |||
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"Dooo it, dooo it. I am incredibly indecisive. Can spend hours online shopping, putting things in my basket and then not actually buying anything because I realise they are not a necessity 😂 K" I need someone to say I'm allowed so I feel better 
I get being indecisive, although I hope you know you're driving the website cart analysts insane 😂 | |||
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"An excuse to spend that sort of money, aka Xmas "But that's so far away!!!  | |||
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"Dooo it, dooo it. I am incredibly indecisive. Can spend hours online shopping, putting things in my basket and then not actually buying anything because I realise they are not a necessity 😂 K I need someone to say I'm allowed so I feel better
I get being indecisive, although I hope you know you're driving the website cart analysts insane 😂"Sounds like their problem 🤣 K | |||
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"I'd absolutely love a vintage motorbike. I've saved up enough cash to buy one but I've never ridden one and I would probably die within a week if I did. I use my weight issues as a reason to not get one yet. " That sounds like an incredible thing to save up for! You won't know you'll die unless you buy it  | |||
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"Hey Joe. Yes Joe. One is a lingerie set. Another is a flight. I'm renewing my passport next month and I'm hoping that motivates me to actually go. I umm and ahh something rotten at times. "What's stopping you buying that lingerie set? Someone to wear it for?   | |||
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"I'd absolutely love a vintage motorbike. I've saved up enough cash to buy one but I've never ridden one and I would probably die within a week if I did. I use my weight issues as a reason to not get one yet. That sounds like an incredible thing to save up for! You won't know you'll die unless you buy it "I'm on board with that logic | |||
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"Have you considered buying something for a while but not pulled the trigger yet for one reason or another? What's stopping you?" I’m terrible Joe. If I see it and I want it I’ll just buy it and work out how to pay for it later… It’s not very sensible really and does cause the odd stern word from my wife . | |||
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"Hey Joe. Yes Joe. One is a lingerie set. Another is a flight. I'm renewing my passport next month and I'm hoping that motivates me to actually go. I umm and ahh something rotten at times.
What's stopping you buying that lingerie set? Someone to wear it for? "Nope, that's not an issue. I keep telling myself when I lose x amount of weight. And it always shifts. They're probably going to stop making it before I'm truly happy with myself. | |||
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"Hey Joe. Yes Joe. One is a lingerie set. Another is a flight. I'm renewing my passport next month and I'm hoping that motivates me to actually go. I umm and ahh something rotten at times.
What's stopping you buying that lingerie set? Someone to wear it for?
Nope, that's not an issue. I keep telling myself when I lose x amount of weight. And it always shifts. They're probably going to stop making it before I'm truly happy with myself. "Is it still the same set you wanted at the beginning of the year? 😱 you should treat yourself, it's almost your birthday 😉 K | |||
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"I went to buy a new mitre saw and bench as it was on offer. Looked at it, the box and all the necessary information, went for a coffee, came back, sold. What a dopey cow I am !! The lovely assistant trawled around all the other branches and found another, drove there and now I'm the proud owner of a new shiny saw and bench. Didn't make the same mistake with a chainsaw, bought on the spot. If anything isn't fixed down, it gets a piece of chainsaw action. Girls and their toys eh... "Sounds like a good lesson! Buy it before you think or else it'll sell out | |||
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"Yes I am. There's a brush hairdryer I'm contemplating to add to my collection of hair drying gadgets. " How many gadgets does one need for drying their hair? I only use a towel | |||
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"No, either do it or don’t. If I’ve got the brass I’ll buy it if I haven’t I’ll save. The mr " That sounds very sensible! I mainly overthink the big purchases though, even if I know it'll be useful something still stops me. | |||
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"Have you considered buying something for a while but not pulled the trigger yet for one reason or another? What's stopping you? I’m terrible Joe. If I see it and I want it I’ll just buy it and work out how to pay for it later… It’s not very sensible really and does cause the odd stern word from my wife ." You need to spin it in a way that it's useful for you both! That'll make things better, surely | |||
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"Hey Joe. Yes Joe. One is a lingerie set. Another is a flight. I'm renewing my passport next month and I'm hoping that motivates me to actually go. I umm and ahh something rotten at times.
What's stopping you buying that lingerie set? Someone to wear it for?
Nope, that's not an issue. I keep telling myself when I lose x amount of weight. And it always shifts. They're probably going to stop making it before I'm truly happy with myself.
Is it still the same set you wanted at the beginning of the year? 😱 you should treat yourself, it's almost your birthday 😉
K"Yes, I chickened out last minute. It's currently a perma-open tab. Has been for some time. 😁 Don't remind me! 35 will mean five years before I'm middle aged. Five years of being able to describe myself as the younger girlfriend/arm candy. Sad times. 🥺 | |||
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"Hey Joe. Yes Joe. One is a lingerie set. Another is a flight. I'm renewing my passport next month and I'm hoping that motivates me to actually go. I umm and ahh something rotten at times.
What's stopping you buying that lingerie set? Someone to wear it for?
Nope, that's not an issue. I keep telling myself when I lose x amount of weight. And it always shifts. They're probably going to stop making it before I'm truly happy with myself. "Oh Meli ❤️ I get what you mean and it's easy to move the goalposts when you have a set target. I would say buy it anyway and own how sexy you'll look in it 🔥 | |||
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"Currently, not having a functioning bank card is stopping me. Before that, it was because I spent payday starting to book up tickets for things over spooky season and don't want to leave myself short for the month. Before that, nothing, I was going hog wild on buying up fun things for spooky season. Next month is definitely new shoes month though 💜" You do seem the type to put everything into the spooky season so can imagine as soon as your bank car is functioning, it will be quite busy! I hope you manage to treat yourself to those new shoes ❤️ | |||
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"we need new double glazing... saved the money but the guy doing it seems too busy... difficult not to spend the money in the meantime! Thinking I might only get a bit of it done now, save up again to get the rest done later. But chances are it will remain undone " Ahhh that's annoying, especially with the temptation to spend it when you know it's for a certain thing you need. It's a tough conundrum 🤔 | |||
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"No im Amazon right now buying a new tellybox, in my basket it goes, if you want it, save for it, get it, your soul will be happier " Oh I've saved enough for what I want, but it's an uncharacteristic luxury purchase that has me indecisive about it. | |||
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"No im Amazon right now buying a new tellybox, in my basket it goes, if you want it, save for it, get it, your soul will be happier Oh I've saved enough for what I want, but it's an uncharacteristic luxury purchase that has me indecisive about it." I am an enabler. Both, you and Meli, should get what you want 😁 K | |||
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"No im Amazon right now buying a new tellybox, in my basket it goes, if you want it, save for it, get it, your soul will be happier Oh I've saved enough for what I want, but it's an uncharacteristic luxury purchase that has me indecisive about it." Do it Joe, we only live once so we should embrace that ☺️ | |||
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"Dooo it, dooo it. I am incredibly indecisive. Can spend hours online shopping, putting things in my basket and then not actually buying anything because I realise they are not a necessity 😂 K I need someone to say I'm allowed so I feel better
I get being indecisive, although I hope you know you're driving the website cart analysts insane 😂"It's a 40 series isn't it? 😁 LvM | |||
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"I can procrastinate when there are many variations of what I want available. For example I know I want to buy a Ninja Air Frier but which model ? There are about 8 on the market. " Buy one , go on , I bought a ninja 2 years ago, love it, main cooker oven only been used about twice since 🥷 | |||
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"I can procrastinate when there are many variations of what I want available. For example I know I want to buy a Ninja Air Frier but which model ? There are about 8 on the market. " Do it. Rarely use my oven anymore. | |||
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"You do seem the type to put everything into the spooky season so can imagine as soon as your bank car is functioning, it will be quite busy! I hope you manage to treat yourself to those new shoes ❤️" I will do. Wearing older shoes because I've been trying to be good and not keep buying new shoes is exactly how I lost my phone and now don't have a functioning bank card. This can not stand. New shoes soon. But yes. Horror events at abandoned theme parks. Dressing up and getting rowdy to terrible Halloween music. Too much sugar and pumpkin spiced everything. I fucking love spooky season 💜 | |||
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"I've got a coat I'd like open on a tab on my phone. I actually need a new coat but it's pretty and it has a hood, so it is practical. There's also a dress I want just cause it's pretty, and currently can't justify it to myself boo. " Why can't you justify it to yourself? Price? How it looks? Occasion? | |||
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"No im Amazon right now buying a new tellybox, in my basket it goes, if you want it, save for it, get it, your soul will be happier Oh I've saved enough for what I want, but it's an uncharacteristic luxury purchase that has me indecisive about it. I am an enabler. Both, you and Meli, should get what you want 😁 K" I do have the page of it open... | |||
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"A Barbour jacket The amount of money I have spent on jackets that aren’t Barbour I may as well have just brought the jacket " Ahhh there's always the case of buying cheaper things to build up to the thing you do. You're absolutely right! | |||
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"I can procrastinate when there are many variations of what I want available. For example I know I want to buy a Ninja Air Frier but which model ? There are about 8 on the market. " Whenever I have that issue, I look at YouTube reviews and that steers me right  | |||
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"I was very recently browsing in the fragrance section for a new scent and I discovered the most amazing scent. It's for women though, and I only realised after trying it. It's definitely made me stop and think if I should buy it. That and the fact it's over €250. " | |||
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"Priorities for me, got far too much to pay out for right now, luxuries are on the back burner " That makes sense, it's always a case where you put something off until you know you have the disposable income to buy it. | |||
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"I do that with almost everything I buy haha, I recently bought a pointing gun for jointing up our patios we install after putting off for 3 years due to it being 350 quid. Had I actually bought it 3 years ago it would have paid for itself several times over as it’s so fast lesson learned sometimes being a tight cunt isn’t good haha" Good point! And probably because of inflation, it may have been cheaper at the time too | |||
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"Yarp. I fancy buying some more DMs but struggling to justify the cost. I just like them, don't actually NEED them. " The old battle between want and need. Sometimes it's good to buy something just because you want it though | |||
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"You do seem the type to put everything into the spooky season so can imagine as soon as your bank car is functioning, it will be quite busy! I hope you manage to treat yourself to those new shoes ❤️ I will do. Wearing older shoes because I've been trying to be good and not keep buying new shoes is exactly how I lost my phone and now don't have a functioning bank card. This can not stand. New shoes soon. But yes. Horror events at abandoned theme parks. Dressing up and getting rowdy to terrible Halloween music. Too much sugar and pumpkin spiced everything. I fucking love spooky season 💜" Sounds like had you just bought the shoes, you wouldn't have been in this fine mess! | |||
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"I went to buy a new mitre saw and bench as it was on offer. Looked at it, the box and all the necessary information, went for a coffee, came back, sold. What a dopey cow I am !! The lovely assistant trawled around all the other branches and found another, drove there and now I'm the proud owner of a new shiny saw and bench. Didn't make the same mistake with a chainsaw, bought on the spot. If anything isn't fixed down, it gets a piece of chainsaw action. Girls and their toys eh... "I would love a lady to root around in my toolbox. It’s pretty decently stocked, if I do say so myself! | |||
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"Joe Beeeeeeaaaaaannnnssssss!! What is it you’re stalling over old thing? I have two things. First, I want to rip out my bath and put in a huge walk in shower. Keep feeling I should pay off the mortgage first. Second, I want a new wardrobe. I haven’t bought any new clothes I really like for a few years but I’m making myself get back in shape first. Might do both next year." Ok, so they're weightlifting shoes. The ones I want are £150 and I'll definitely use them a lot. It's a bit about cost and a lot about whether I can justify wearing them for the weight I lift
I would say the mortgage will be there for a while so why not treat yourself to those changes in your home? It makes sense about the clothes too. You could buy them now and they can motivate you for when you can wear them | |||
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"Joe. I’m d*unk and I’m logged in on Temu (other popular online cheap purchasing of products apps are available!) .. I will more likely ‘what and why tomorrow than uhm and ahhh tonight! " Yes. But not tomorrow. In a couple of weeks when you get a surprise package of holy fuck how d*unk was I. I love those ones 💜 | |||
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"Having an unreliable doorbell puts me off buying anything which needs to be delivered. This has saved me quite a lot of money." That's certainly one way to curb the spending! The irony of you possibly buying a new doorbell though... | |||
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"I'd like a new kitchen counter. Then I remember I can't just spend money just because I have it right now "Spending money when you have it is pretty damn fun though! | |||
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"Joe. I’m d*unk and I’m logged in on Temu (other popular online cheap purchasing of products apps are available!) .. I will more likely ‘what and why tomorrow than uhm and ahhh tonight! " Dr*nk spending sounds dangerous! I'm sure you'll definitely use them all though when they arrive | |||
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"I'd like a new kitchen counter. Then I remember I can't just spend money just because I have it right now
Spending money when you have it is pretty damn fun though!"I'm not sure "fun" and "kitchen renovation" belong together | |||
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"Joe Beeeeeeaaaaaannnnssssss!! What is it you’re stalling over old thing? I have two things. First, I want to rip out my bath and put in a huge walk in shower. Keep feeling I should pay off the mortgage first. Second, I want a new wardrobe. I haven’t bought any new clothes I really like for a few years but I’m making myself get back in shape first. Might do both next year. Ok, so they're weightlifting shoes. The ones I want are £150 and I'll definitely use them a lot. It's a bit about cost and a lot about whether I can justify wearing them for the weight I lift
I would say the mortgage will be there for a while so why not treat yourself to those changes in your home? It makes sense about the clothes too. You could buy them now and they can motivate you for when you can wear them "Excellent points! I love how you’ve spent the evening talking everyone into spending their dorrar but haven’t yet spent yours hahaha. Could you maybe save half this month then buy them next month? That’ll give you a couple of weeks to consider how much you want them while lifting at the gym. Then, when you get them, you’ll know you need them and didn’t blow all the money in one pay packet. | |||
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"Excellent points! I love how you’ve spent the evening talking everyone into spending their dorrar but haven’t yet spent yours hahaha. Could you maybe save half this month then buy them next month? That’ll give you a couple of weeks to consider how much you want them while lifting at the gym. Then, when you get them, you’ll know you need them and didn’t blow all the money in one pay packet." I probably trying deflect onto others what I want them to say to me
I usually get paid on the 15th of every month so tempted to let all my bills come out on Tue 1st and then see where I am 🤔 | |||
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"Buying things makes me happier. The more expensive, the happier I am. Whoever said money doesn't buy happiness, lied. " Exactly! Money can buy you jet-skis. Have you ever seen a sad person on a jet-ski? | |||
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"Buying things makes me happier. The more expensive, the happier I am. Whoever said money doesn't buy happiness, lied. Exactly! Money can buy you jet-skis. Have you ever seen a sad person on a jet-ski?" | |||
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"Buying things makes me happier. The more expensive, the happier I am. Whoever said money doesn't buy happiness, lied. Exactly! Money can buy you jet-skis. Have you ever seen a sad person on a jet-ski?" This is very true. I was very sad when I flew off the back of a jet-ski. I was happy while I was on the jet-ski. | |||
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"Having an unreliable doorbell puts me off buying anything which needs to be delivered. This has saved me quite a lot of money. That's certainly one way to curb the spending! The irony of you possibly buying a new doorbell though... "Don't need a new one, just an occasional spray with switch cleaner but haven't done it recently! | |||
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"This is what I hate about those cookies. I resist at first, but they always find me when I'm feeling weak. It's usually clothes or trainers I don't need" Not even the cookies! Just talking about it can make the ads appear now | |||
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"Buying things makes me happier. The more expensive, the happier I am. Whoever said money doesn't buy happiness, lied. Exactly! Money can buy you jet-skis. Have you ever seen a sad person on a jet-ski? This is very true. I was very sad when I flew off the back of a jet-ski. I was happy while I was on the jet-ski." Exactly, not the jet-ski's fault at all! | |||
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"" Ok, so they're weightlifting shoes. The ones I want are £150 and I'll definitely use them a lot. It's a bit about cost and a lot about whether I can justify wearing them for the weight I lift " Buy the weightlifting shoes, very much worth it IMO, weight lifted is irrelevant. For me I do this regularly over watches. I already have 9, I've bought 1 this year but very nearly pulled the trigger on 2 others." I think the raised heel would be an absolute game changer and just been using small plates in the meantime which are a bit awkward. Watch collecting is an interesting hobby! Finding the right occasion to wear them for might be a bind though! | |||
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"" Ok, so they're weightlifting shoes. The ones I want are £150 and I'll definitely use them a lot. It's a bit about cost and a lot about whether I can justify wearing them for the weight I lift " Buy the weightlifting shoes, very much worth it IMO, weight lifted is irrelevant. For me I do this regularly over watches. I already have 9, I've bought 1 this year but very nearly pulled the trigger on 2 others." Bit of advice Joe beans - don’t buy an odd number of shoes. Watches: Ok Shoes: Not ok | |||
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"" Ok, so they're weightlifting shoes. The ones I want are £150 and I'll definitely use them a lot. It's a bit about cost and a lot about whether I can justify wearing them for the weight I lift " Buy the weightlifting shoes, very much worth it IMO, weight lifted is irrelevant. For me I do this regularly over watches. I already have 9, I've bought 1 this year but very nearly pulled the trigger on 2 others. I think the raised heel would be an absolute game changer and just been using small plates in the meantime which are a bit awkward. Watch collecting is an interesting hobby! Finding the right occasion to wear them for might be a bind though!" Yeah, difference between using plates and shoes is huge. Adipower 2s I have, can pick them up for ~£80. 1 of the watches I don't wear, it's an investment piece. The others I just rotate. | |||
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"I’m really tempted to get Invisalign treatment. I also want a new sofa and another holiday "I've thought about getting Invisalign in the past but with the cost, I felt very vain if I did but seems like a great investment if it helps the confidence in your own smile | |||
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"Yeah, difference between using plates and shoes is huge. Adipower 2s I have, can pick them up for ~£80. 1 of the watches I don't wear, it's an investment piece. The others I just rotate." I've been looking at Nike Romaleos but the Adipowers seem like a good idea as it's more for comfort in lifts than doing serious powerlifting. That makes sense, always good to match the watch with the outfit too | |||
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"I’d really like an IQMS362 dustless masonry saw for work too been debating a while but 3 and a half grand is a considerable outlay for something that won’t offer any money making benefit other than comfort of use " I would normally say that comfort of use is important if you're using it often but do agree that 3 and a half grand for anything is rather steep | |||
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"Not having any money" Yeah, I think that's the big one right that | |||
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"I’d really like an IQMS362 dustless masonry saw for work too been debating a while but 3 and a half grand is a considerable outlay for something that won’t offer any money making benefit other than comfort of use I would normally say that comfort of use is important if you're using it often but do agree that 3 and a half grand for anything is rather steep "Haha exactly mate plus the blades are a Q drive so instead of being 50 quid a pop they 400 plus | |||
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