FabSwingers.com forum: Hot topic

By *entleman Caller 89 OP Man
11 weeks ago

Belfast

Do we prefer to sleep with someone that you have a connection with or just bang and leave. Open up to both Men and Women this question.

I prefer a connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Depends on the situation, my current inclination, and the other person. Even with the same person, I might want different things on different occasions.

I can't say I have a definitive preference, really.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
11 weeks ago

somewhere

I've done both in the past, I met at the spur of the moment back in the day.

I've had the same experience with both in the sense of how the sex felt, I prefer quickies over long drawn out sessions and mostly the people I have met and built a connection with offered that.

Rubik is entirely different of course

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
11 weeks ago

Wolvo

Connection. Seems taboo on here though with single guys.

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By *akedMMan
11 weeks ago

Witney

I would prefure a connection

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By *ndyp81Man
11 weeks ago

essex

"Connection. Seems taboo on here though with single guys. "

I think you need to have a connection, and I’m single

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By *elix SightedMan
11 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I turned up for my first shag and never left. Not what she was expecting and we’ve had quite the battle of wills but I think I just wanted it more.

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By *entleman Caller 89 OP Man
11 weeks ago

Belfast

"Connection. Seems taboo on here though with single guys. "

Not with me

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Just fuck and go. Sometimes I find someone I can chill with but usually what I find hot to look at I don't find hot to listen to.

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By *eliWoman
11 weeks ago

My days of fuck and go are behind me. I like connection but it doesn't mean I want to date every person who enters me.

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By *aven.Woman
11 weeks ago

Not the North West...

Somewhere in the middle.

My idea of a connection is just someone with a sense of humour that I can talk rubbish with.

I don't want to get to know them and I don't want to go on dates and do all that cuddling crap.

Just be funny, bang me, then don't hound me.

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By *entleman Caller 89 OP Man
11 weeks ago

Belfast

"Somewhere in the middle.

My idea of a connection is just someone with a sense of humour that I can talk rubbish with.

I don't want to get to know them and I don't want to go on dates and do all that cuddling crap.

Just be funny, bang me, then don't hound me. "

And do you feel you find that on Fab?

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By *entleman Caller 89 OP Man
11 weeks ago

Belfast

"Just fuck and go. Sometimes I find someone I can chill with but usually what I find hot to look at I don't find hot to listen to."

Lmao

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By *inxy777Woman
11 weeks ago

essex

Definitely a connection. Don’t think I have confidence to do fuck and go!

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By *irty-pairCouple
11 weeks ago

South Essex

It depends on our mood and the circumstances. Most (but not all) of our club meets have been one-off, fuck and go kind of arrangements. We also like the build up of establishing a connection outside of clubs, too.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
11 weeks ago

Castlebar

Always has to be a connection and a kiss or nothings happening

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

I know of no other way to sleep with someone. A deep-rooted connection with chemistry is intrinsic for me to engage in naked entwinement.

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By *entleman Caller 89 OP Man
11 weeks ago

Belfast

Definitely a nice mix of peoples thoughts

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By *aven.Woman
11 weeks ago

Not the North West...

"Somewhere in the middle.

My idea of a connection is just someone with a sense of humour that I can talk rubbish with.

I don't want to get to know them and I don't want to go on dates and do all that cuddling crap.

Just be funny, bang me, then don't hound me.

And do you feel you find that on Fab?"

A guy that just wants sex? Shockingly yes.

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By *imply DeeWoman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

I like a connection but always assume it will be one off anyway, and it usually is.

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By *oo..Woman
11 weeks ago

Boo's World

I don't "bang and leave" ever! 😊

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By *ndyp81Man
11 weeks ago

essex

"Always has to be a connection and a kiss or nothings happening

You can tell a lot from a kiss

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By *ndyp81Man
11 weeks ago

essex

"I don't "bang and leave" ever! 😊"

Why do I get the feeling that this is not so true lol

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
11 weeks ago

Norwich

I’ve done both. A lot of times I just didn’t want to go back for seconds, for various reasons. But if you hit it off with someone, half a dozen times perhaps before boredom sets in.

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By *entleman Caller 89 OP Man
11 weeks ago

Belfast

"Somewhere in the middle.

My idea of a connection is just someone with a sense of humour that I can talk rubbish with.

I don't want to get to know them and I don't want to go on dates and do all that cuddling crap.

Just be funny, bang me, then don't hound me.

And do you feel you find that on Fab?

A guy that just wants sex? Shockingly yes. "

Lol

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By *oo..Woman
11 weeks ago

Boo's World

"I don't "bang and leave" ever! 😊

Why do I get the feeling that this is not so true lol "

No idea but it's completely true! 🫣

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By *B69Woman
11 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Always has to be a connection

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By *ndyp81Man
11 weeks ago

essex

"I don't "bang and leave" ever! 😊

Why do I get the feeling that this is not so true lol

No idea but it's completely true! 🫣"

Did you say that when you was sitting on Pinocchio face lol

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By *oo..Woman
11 weeks ago

Boo's World

"I don't "bang and leave" ever! 😊

Why do I get the feeling that this is not so true lol

No idea but it's completely true! 🫣

Did you say that when you was sitting on Pinocchio face lol "

No, but I'd totally ride Pinocchio and lie to him!

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By *andT2023Couple
11 weeks ago

in the middle

Always a connection for me....anything else seems mechanical and unfulfilling

Txx

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By *ndyp81Man
11 weeks ago

essex

"I don't "bang and leave" ever! 😊

Why do I get the feeling that this is not so true lol

No idea but it's completely true! 🫣

Did you say that when you was sitting on Pinocchio face lol

No, but I'd totally ride Pinocchio and lie to him! "

lol just let me watch when you do lol

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By *inochioMan
11 weeks ago

Derbyshire

"I don't "bang and leave" ever! 😊

Why do I get the feeling that this is not so true lol

No idea but it's completely true! 🫣

Did you say that when you was sitting on Pinocchio face lol

No, but I'd totally ride Pinocchio and lie to him! "

Well challenge accepted.

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By *ndyp81Man
11 weeks ago

essex

"I don't "bang and leave" ever! 😊

Why do I get the feeling that this is not so true lol

No idea but it's completely true! 🫣

Did you say that when you was sitting on Pinocchio face lol

No, but I'd totally ride Pinocchio and lie to him!

Well challenge accepted.

Holly shit that’s epic

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By *oo..Woman
11 weeks ago

Boo's World

"I don't "bang and leave" ever! 😊

Why do I get the feeling that this is not so true lol

No idea but it's completely true! 🫣

Did you say that when you was sitting on Pinocchio face lol

No, but I'd totally ride Pinocchio and lie to him!

Well challenge accepted.

fuck sake 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *oo..Woman
11 weeks ago

Boo's World

"I don't "bang and leave" ever! 😊

Why do I get the feeling that this is not so true lol

No idea but it's completely true! 🫣

Did you say that when you was sitting on Pinocchio face lol

No, but I'd totally ride Pinocchio and lie to him!

Well challenge accepted.

You literally appeared from no where 🫣

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By *ndyp81Man
11 weeks ago

essex

"I don't "bang and leave" ever! 😊

Why do I get the feeling that this is not so true lol

No idea but it's completely true! 🫣

Did you say that when you was sitting on Pinocchio face lol

No, but I'd totally ride Pinocchio and lie to him!

Well challenge accepted.

You literally appeared from no where 🫣"

Great timing, is what that’s called lol

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By *hrista BellendWoman
11 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Both

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By *inochioMan
11 weeks ago

Derbyshire

"I don't "bang and leave" ever! 😊

Why do I get the feeling that this is not so true lol

No idea but it's completely true! 🫣

Did you say that when you was sitting on Pinocchio face lol

No, but I'd totally ride Pinocchio and lie to him!

Well challenge accepted.

You literally appeared from no where 🫣"

Be careful what you wish for but to be honest ive seen your profile and you wouldnt need to lie to me.

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By *punk n gushCouple
11 weeks ago

new milton

"My days of fuck and go are behind me. I like connection but it doesn't mean I want to date every person who enters me."

Mr would like to enter you

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By *econdtimelucky101Man
11 weeks ago

Oldbury

I think it depends on your mood, both have their merits.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
11 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Bang and leave. We have each other for a “connection”.

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By *ake_or_deathMan
11 weeks ago

Manchester

I only want to be intimate with people I like. Doesn't mean I want anything serious from them but if I don't like a person enough to want to talk to them then I don't particularly want to bang them.

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By *lirtyfun123Woman
11 weeks ago

essex

Definately needs to be a connection for me fuck and goes feel empty and unfulfilling.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
11 weeks ago

Next Door

I've done both but I much prefer a connection.

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