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"I'm lucky in that I have people I can talk to if I'm unhappy. This is a good thread though ",, this | |||
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"A lovely idea. What kind of things can people bring to this thread or your inbox ?" If anyone wants to talk just send me a message x Happy to listen | |||
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"A lovely idea. What kind of things can people bring to this thread or your inbox ?" Anything and anything … humans are born with 2 ears and 1 mouth which in my book makes it twice as important to listen than it is too talk xx. Hope all is well xx | |||
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It's not a major issue, but it's a recent thing since becoming single again....
Missing hugs/cuddles/snuggles. Whatever term you want to use.
I'm a fairly self-sufficient and solitary person by nature, but every now and then a real hankering for some non-sexual physical intimacy takes me by surprise. I'd forgotten how not having that, or at least the option of it, can impact your wellbeing.
I might fill some pyjamas with upholstery foam and make a snug bud. That won't be creepy AT ALL. | |||
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"Great thread
It's not a major issue, but it's a recent thing since becoming single again....
Missing hugs/cuddles/snuggles. Whatever term you want to use.
I'm a fairly self-sufficient and solitary person by nature, but every now and then a real hankering for some non-sexual physical intimacy takes me by surprise. I'd forgotten how not having that, or at least the option of it, can impact your wellbeing.
I might fill some pyjamas with upholstery foam and make a snug bud. That won't be creepy AT ALL. "Wanna loan of my pyjamas Nelly? ❤️ | |||
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"Great thread
It's not a major issue, but it's a recent thing since becoming single again....
Missing hugs/cuddles/snuggles. Whatever term you want to use.
I'm a fairly self-sufficient and solitary person by nature, but every now and then a real hankering for some non-sexual physical intimacy takes me by surprise. I'd forgotten how not having that, or at least the option of it, can impact your wellbeing.
I might fill some pyjamas with upholstery foam and make a snug bud. That won't be creepy AT ALL.
Wanna loan of my pyjamas Nelly? ❤️"You mean I'd have to return them at some point? I can't deal with that kind of heartbreak, Sam. | |||
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"Great thread
It's not a major issue, but it's a recent thing since becoming single again....
Missing hugs/cuddles/snuggles. Whatever term you want to use.
I'm a fairly self-sufficient and solitary person by nature, but every now and then a real hankering for some non-sexual physical intimacy takes me by surprise. I'd forgotten how not having that, or at least the option of it, can impact your wellbeing.
I might fill some pyjamas with upholstery foam and make a snug bud. That won't be creepy AT ALL. "I love this idea Nell. I get cold on my own in bed, especially in winter. This is a great solution. Thanks for the inspiration  | |||
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"A lovely idea. What kind of things can people bring to this thread or your inbox ? Anything and anything … humans are born with 2 ears and 1 mouth which in my book makes it twice as important to listen than it is too talk xx. Hope all is well xx" All is well with me thanks Slappy. Do you listen or give advice ? Are you just there as another human ? | |||
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"A lovely idea. What kind of things can people bring to this thread or your inbox ? If anyone wants to talk just send me a message x Happy to listen " That's very kind of you also. | |||
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"Great thread
It's not a major issue, but it's a recent thing since becoming single again....
Missing hugs/cuddles/snuggles. Whatever term you want to use.
I'm a fairly self-sufficient and solitary person by nature, but every now and then a real hankering for some non-sexual physical intimacy takes me by surprise. I'd forgotten how not having that, or at least the option of it, can impact your wellbeing.
I might fill some pyjamas with upholstery foam and make a snug bud. That won't be creepy AT ALL.
I love this idea Nell. I get cold on my own in bed, especially in winter. This is a great solution. Thanks for the inspiration "Sam's going to run out of pyjamas very swiftly  | |||
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"Great thread
It's not a major issue, but it's a recent thing since becoming single again....
Missing hugs/cuddles/snuggles. Whatever term you want to use.
I'm a fairly self-sufficient and solitary person by nature, but every now and then a real hankering for some non-sexual physical intimacy takes me by surprise. I'd forgotten how not having that, or at least the option of it, can impact your wellbeing.
I might fill some pyjamas with upholstery foam and make a snug bud. That won't be creepy AT ALL. "Go to build a bear and record some ‘ affectionate’ messages so when you squeeze snug bud they say - awwww you’re the best or something!! | |||
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"Great thread
It's not a major issue, but it's a recent thing since becoming single again....
Missing hugs/cuddles/snuggles. Whatever term you want to use.
I'm a fairly self-sufficient and solitary person by nature, but every now and then a real hankering for some non-sexual physical intimacy takes me by surprise. I'd forgotten how not having that, or at least the option of it, can impact your wellbeing.
I might fill some pyjamas with upholstery foam and make a snug bud. That won't be creepy AT ALL. "I think you can get boyfriend pillows for exactly that reason! It doesn’t really matter if you think of yourself as solitary or not, a bit like socks or oxygen, if you don’t have enough of what you need, it’s a problem. Don’t feel guilty about wanting it, that just makes things worse. Hope you can find what you need, there’s a virtual hug for you right here. | |||
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"Great thread
It's not a major issue, but it's a recent thing since becoming single again....
Missing hugs/cuddles/snuggles. Whatever term you want to use.
I'm a fairly self-sufficient and solitary person by nature, but every now and then a real hankering for some non-sexual physical intimacy takes me by surprise. I'd forgotten how not having that, or at least the option of it, can impact your wellbeing.
I might fill some pyjamas with upholstery foam and make a snug bud. That won't be creepy AT ALL. "Hi nell, first things first, I genuinely am very sorry to hear that you are now single. I totally get where your coming from because I work in a front facing job and I deal with members of the public all day every day and more often than not they are decent and friendly, however, a couple of times recently I gave had incidents where they are anything but friendly ( to say the very least ) and whilst all my colleagues are awesome and management and have a duty of care procedure to carry out, it doesn’t really hit home until I was alone doing my shopping or get home and face a quiet moment and like you say, there’s certainties when all you need is to shout the outside world and just get a cuddle and reassurance from a loved one. Sincerely hope fir better times for you soon xx | |||
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"Great thread
It's not a major issue, but it's a recent thing since becoming single again....
Missing hugs/cuddles/snuggles. Whatever term you want to use.
I'm a fairly self-sufficient and solitary person by nature, but every now and then a real hankering for some non-sexual physical intimacy takes me by surprise. I'd forgotten how not having that, or at least the option of it, can impact your wellbeing.
I might fill some pyjamas with upholstery foam and make a snug bud. That won't be creepy AT ALL.
Go to build a bear and record some ‘ affectionate’ messages so when you squeeze snug bud they say - awwww you’re the best or something!! "Would it work if it's my own voice?
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"Great thread
It's not a major issue, but it's a recent thing since becoming single again....
Missing hugs/cuddles/snuggles. Whatever term you want to use.
I'm a fairly self-sufficient and solitary person by nature, but every now and then a real hankering for some non-sexual physical intimacy takes me by surprise. I'd forgotten how not having that, or at least the option of it, can impact your wellbeing.
I might fill some pyjamas with upholstery foam and make a snug bud. That won't be creepy AT ALL.
Hi nell, first things first, I genuinely am very sorry to hear that you are now single. I totally get where your coming from because I work in a front facing job and I deal with members of the public all day every day and more often than not they are decent and friendly, however, a couple of times recently I gave had incidents where they are anything but friendly ( to say the very least ) and whilst all my colleagues are awesome and management and have a duty of care procedure to carry out, it doesn’t really hit home until I was alone doing my shopping or get home and face a quiet moment and like you say, there’s certainties when all you need is to shout the outside world and just get a cuddle and reassurance from a loved one. Sincerely hope fir better times for you soon xx"Thanks, Slappy. I'm actually very happy in general and not having a bad time. It's just a little thing that pops up occasionally. I'm very lucky to have some wonderful friends and family to listen to me when things are tough and I feel very loved. There are people who aren't so fortunate, so I don't take it for granted. I just thought people on here might be able to identify with the absence of hugs on tap and how that can feel. Maybe even gain something from me bringing the subject up. | |||
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"Great thread
It's not a major issue, but it's a recent thing since becoming single again....
Missing hugs/cuddles/snuggles. Whatever term you want to use.
I'm a fairly self-sufficient and solitary person by nature, but every now and then a real hankering for some non-sexual physical intimacy takes me by surprise. I'd forgotten how not having that, or at least the option of it, can impact your wellbeing.
I might fill some pyjamas with upholstery foam and make a snug bud. That won't be creepy AT ALL.
Go to build a bear and record some ‘ affectionate’ messages so when you squeeze snug bud they say - awwww you’re the best or something!!
Would it work if it's my own voice?
"get a random guy to record the messages but make them hyper sexual - you’ll probably be in a relationship before you leave build a bear!! What man can resist a woman asking ‘ can you. Just say - can we do anal later?’ For my snug buddy?  | |||
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"Great thread
It's not a major issue, but it's a recent thing since becoming single again....
Missing hugs/cuddles/snuggles. Whatever term you want to use.
I'm a fairly self-sufficient and solitary person by nature, but every now and then a real hankering for some non-sexual physical intimacy takes me by surprise. I'd forgotten how not having that, or at least the option of it, can impact your wellbeing.
I might fill some pyjamas with upholstery foam and make a snug bud. That won't be creepy AT ALL.
I love this idea Nell. I get cold on my own in bed, especially in winter. This is a great solution. Thanks for the inspiration
Sam's going to run out of pyjamas very swiftly "Oh don't worry about that, I have some pj's I no longer wear 😊 So, how far are you going with yours? I mean, is yours going to have a face? | |||
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"Oh don't worry about that, I have some pj's I no longer wear 😊 So, how far are you going with yours? I mean, is yours going to have a face?" I'm not sure. I mean, I might get too attached if it's too lifelike and before you know it there'll be a proposal, a short engagement, a wedding, and possibly a divorce. | |||
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"Great thread
It's not a major issue, but it's a recent thing since becoming single again....
Missing hugs/cuddles/snuggles. Whatever term you want to use.
I'm a fairly self-sufficient and solitary person by nature, but every now and then a real hankering for some non-sexual physical intimacy takes me by surprise. I'd forgotten how not having that, or at least the option of it, can impact your wellbeing.
I might fill some pyjamas with upholstery foam and make a snug bud. That won't be creepy AT ALL. "If I was close I’d 100% give you a hug. I can give great cuddles. | |||
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"I think I've recently said a forever goodbye to someone who means a lot to me. That kinda sucks. " That's really tough | |||
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"I think I've recently said a forever goodbye to someone who means a lot to me. That kinda sucks. " Ach Raven. Sorry to read this, it does suck when that happens. x | |||
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"I think I've recently said a forever goodbye to someone who means a lot to me. That kinda sucks. " I’m so sorry to read this raven, just cincdrntrate on the good and happy times that you shared jointly | |||
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"If I was close I’d 100% give you a hug. I can give great cuddles." | |||
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"I think I've recently said a forever goodbye to someone who means a lot to me. That kinda sucks. " It does suck. As above. Inbox is open. Even if you just wanna send me fuck offs 🤣 | |||
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"Oh don't worry about that, I have some pj's I no longer wear 😊 So, how far are you going with yours? I mean, is yours going to have a face? I'm not sure. I mean, I might get too attached if it's too lifelike and before you know it there'll be a proposal, a short engagement, a wedding, and possibly a divorce." Yeah, I can see that might cause some issues. You'd have to kick them out and then you'd be back to square one  I have a similar problem, in that my 'special friend' might get jealous when he comes to visit. Hmmm, what a conundrum 🤔 | |||
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"Oh don't worry about that, I have some pj's I no longer wear 😊 So, how far are you going with yours? I mean, is yours going to have a face? I'm not sure. I mean, I might get too attached if it's too lifelike and before you know it there'll be a proposal, a short engagement, a wedding, and possibly a divorce. Yeah, I can see that might cause some issues. You'd have to kick them out and then you'd be back to square one I have a similar problem, in that my 'special friend' might get jealous when he comes to visit. Hmmm, what a conundrum 🤔"Oh yeah, I hadn't thought of that | |||
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"I think I've recently said a forever goodbye to someone who means a lot to me. That kinda sucks. " Might not be forever x. Keep positive | |||
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