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By *ayronfeet OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Cardiff

So this will divide the group I know 😂👊 but what is the deal with ppl on here who stress the point with seeing a face pic ... you know the ones I mean 😆 to then send one and have no reply ? It drives me fukin nuts .... anyway.....curious to hear what you fantastic fabbers think 😘

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By *egDaySkipperMan
20 weeks ago

Liverpool

You're not their type. Take the L

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By *P994Man
20 weeks ago

Travelling

You need to send a face pic to see if there is attraction on their side, unfortunately they may not like your face. I’ve had that happen a fair few times, you just have to bite the bullet and move on. Some will like your face and some won’t

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
20 weeks ago

Sunderland

What happens if the person messaging is soke sort of terrifying faceless slender man type person? It seems like a basic paranormal defense position

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By *riar BelisseWoman
20 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

Lots don't want to send a I'm not attracted to you, response to a face pic message, as it can evoke a nasty response from the sender. Rejection makes people angry sometimes

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By *avidbanksMan
20 weeks ago

leeds

I am in

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By *exxyyDy11Man
20 weeks ago

Darwen

Means you're not their type. It is fine, it is what it is. I've sent numerous face pics and sometimes I get no reply. You just move on.

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By *r MzchiefMan
20 weeks ago

Derbyshire

I have a face for radio anyway so not bothered about being rejected. What gets my goat is they never reciprocate like my opinion of them doesnt matter.

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By *egDaySkipperMan
20 weeks ago

Liverpool


"I have a face for radio anyway so not bothered about being rejected. What gets my goat is they never reciprocate like my opinion of them doesnt matter. "

Why would your opinion matter to them if they don't find you attractive though? It's not a tit for tat.

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By *ayronfeet OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Cardiff

I completely understand if I'm or whoever isn't their type ... my gripe is the fact that there not a thanks for the pic but your not my type? Or something? It doesn't take 2 seconds and it's polite. You wouldn't in a bar say have a woman example say oh hi there I'm jane. I saw you across the bar and thought I'd say hi ..... and then you just ignore her and walk away ? No you wouldn't!!! Well I wouldn't

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By *exxyyDy11Man
20 weeks ago

Darwen


"I completely understand if I'm or whoever isn't their type ... my gripe is the fact that there not a thanks for the pic but your not my type? Or something? It doesn't take 2 seconds and it's polite. You wouldn't in a bar say have a woman example say oh hi there I'm jane. I saw you across the bar and thought I'd say hi ..... and then you just ignore her and walk away ? No you wouldn't!!! Well I wouldn't "

That is true. But online and this site is like a smokescreen to people. And people can be a lot nastier on here than in person. So I understand why people don't reply, maybe in their mind, it saves them getting abuse

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By *ife NinjaMan
20 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I send one. Cuts to the chase if they think I'm hideous

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By *egDaySkipperMan
20 weeks ago

Liverpool


"I completely understand if I'm or whoever isn't their type ... my gripe is the fact that there not a thanks for the pic but your not my type? Or something? It doesn't take 2 seconds and it's polite. You wouldn't in a bar say have a woman example say oh hi there I'm jane. I saw you across the bar and thought I'd say hi ..... and then you just ignore her and walk away ? No you wouldn't!!! Well I wouldn't "

Bullshit mate.

If you were a woman in a bar and had a guy come up to you every 2 minutes, you would leave the bar.

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By *parkle1974Woman
20 weeks ago

Leeds

I send one just to scare the 💩 out of people 🤣

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By *exxyyDy11Man
20 weeks ago

Darwen


"I completely understand if I'm or whoever isn't their type ... my gripe is the fact that there not a thanks for the pic but your not my type? Or something? It doesn't take 2 seconds and it's polite. You wouldn't in a bar say have a woman example say oh hi there I'm jane. I saw you across the bar and thought I'd say hi ..... and then you just ignore her and walk away ? No you wouldn't!!! Well I wouldn't

Bullshit mate.

If you were a woman in a bar and had a guy come up to you every 2 minutes, you would leave the bar."

Or call the police for harassment

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By *r MzchiefMan
20 weeks ago

Derbyshire


"I have a face for radio anyway so not bothered about being rejected. What gets my goat is they never reciprocate like my opinion of them doesnt matter.

Why would your opinion matter to them if they don't find you attractive though? It's not a tit for tat. "

You have a point. Ill get my coat.

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By *egDaySkipperMan
20 weeks ago

Liverpool


"I completely understand if I'm or whoever isn't their type ... my gripe is the fact that there not a thanks for the pic but your not my type? Or something? It doesn't take 2 seconds and it's polite. You wouldn't in a bar say have a woman example say oh hi there I'm jane. I saw you across the bar and thought I'd say hi ..... and then you just ignore her and walk away ? No you wouldn't!!! Well I wouldn't

Bullshit mate.

If you were a woman in a bar and had a guy come up to you every 2 minutes, you would leave the bar.

Or call the police for harassment "

So why are you guys expecting a reply here if they don't find you attractive?

Who on earth has time to respond to 100s messages a day saying no thanks?

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By *exxyyDy11Man
20 weeks ago

Darwen


"I completely understand if I'm or whoever isn't their type ... my gripe is the fact that there not a thanks for the pic but your not my type? Or something? It doesn't take 2 seconds and it's polite. You wouldn't in a bar say have a woman example say oh hi there I'm jane. I saw you across the bar and thought I'd say hi ..... and then you just ignore her and walk away ? No you wouldn't!!! Well I wouldn't

Bullshit mate.

If you were a woman in a bar and had a guy come up to you every 2 minutes, you would leave the bar.

Or call the police for harassment

So why are you guys expecting a reply here if they don't find you attractive?

Who on earth has time to respond to 100s messages a day saying no thanks?"

I'm guessing you mean generally right, because I personally don't expect a reply off everyone. And I won't reply back to everyone.

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
20 weeks ago

In the clouds


"I completely understand if I'm or whoever isn't their type ... my gripe is the fact that there not a thanks for the pic but your not my type? Or something? It doesn't take 2 seconds and it's polite. You wouldn't in a bar say have a woman example say oh hi there I'm jane. I saw you across the bar and thought I'd say hi ..... and then you just ignore her and walk away ? No you wouldn't!!! Well I wouldn't

Bullshit mate.

If you were a woman in a bar and had a guy come up to you every 2 minutes, you would leave the bar.

Or call the police for harassment

So why are you guys expecting a reply here if they don't find you attractive?

Who on earth has time to respond to 100s messages a day saying no thanks?"

This guy knows what he's talking about!

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By *oppet22TV/TS
20 weeks ago

huddersfield

Am no oil painting but send face pic when asked just get sorry not for us there choice at the end of the day they know what there looking for thats all

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By *ayronfeet OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Cardiff


"I completely understand if I'm or whoever isn't their type ... my gripe is the fact that there not a thanks for the pic but your not my type? Or something? It doesn't take 2 seconds and it's polite. You wouldn't in a bar say have a woman example say oh hi there I'm jane. I saw you across the bar and thought I'd say hi ..... and then you just ignore her and walk away ? No you wouldn't!!! Well I wouldn't

Bullshit mate.

If you were a woman in a bar and had a guy come up to you every 2 minutes, you would leave the bar.

Or call the police for harassment

So why are you guys expecting a reply here if they don't find you attractive?

Who on earth has time to respond to 100s messages a day saying no thanks?"
like I said it will divide opinions but just the way you replied with anger and all high and mighty attitude.... that's exactly what I'm on about. Don't put yourself out there with a stingers profile looking for attention and meets to be rude and have an attitude 😂 fukin sad

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By *egDaySkipperMan
20 weeks ago

Liverpool


"I completely understand if I'm or whoever isn't their type ... my gripe is the fact that there not a thanks for the pic but your not my type? Or something? It doesn't take 2 seconds and it's polite. You wouldn't in a bar say have a woman example say oh hi there I'm jane. I saw you across the bar and thought I'd say hi ..... and then you just ignore her and walk away ? No you wouldn't!!! Well I wouldn't

Bullshit mate.

If you were a woman in a bar and had a guy come up to you every 2 minutes, you would leave the bar.

Or call the police for harassment

So why are you guys expecting a reply here if they don't find you attractive?

Who on earth has time to respond to 100s messages a day saying no thanks? like I said it will divide opinions but just the way you replied with anger and all high and mighty attitude.... that's exactly what I'm on about. Don't put yourself out there with a stingers profile looking for attention and meets to be rude and have an attitude 😂 fukin sad"

Dude you have an entitlement issue, how am I the one with attitude

I'm sat in my pjs watching trash TV, I'm far from angry

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By *entlemanH666Man
20 weeks ago

South


"I send one just to scare the 💩 out of people 🤣"

I bet you couldn’t scare me

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By *parkle1974Woman
20 weeks ago

Leeds


"I send one just to scare the 💩 out of people 🤣

I bet you couldn’t scare me "

Oh I could

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By *ayronfeet OP   Man
20 weeks ago

Cardiff


"I completely understand if I'm or whoever isn't their type ... my gripe is the fact that there not a thanks for the pic but your not my type? Or something? It doesn't take 2 seconds and it's polite. You wouldn't in a bar say have a woman example say oh hi there I'm jane. I saw you across the bar and thought I'd say hi ..... and then you just ignore her and walk away ? No you wouldn't!!! Well I wouldn't

Bullshit mate.

If you were a woman in a bar and had a guy come up to you every 2 minutes, you would leave the bar.

Or call the police for harassment

So why are you guys expecting a reply here if they don't find you attractive?

Who on earth has time to respond to 100s messages a day saying no thanks? like I said it will divide opinions but just the way you replied with anger and all high and mighty attitude.... that's exactly what I'm on about. Don't put yourself out there with a stingers profile looking for attention and meets to be rude and have an attitude 😂 fukin sad

Dude you have an entitlement issue, how am I the one with attitude

I'm sat in my pjs watching trash TV, I'm far from angry "
I'm.not bothered or interested if someone doesn't like me mate 😂 it is what it is. I just think a simple reply after chatting for however long is not much to ask . But I'm probably wrong i usually are 😂 have a good night mate

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I sent a woman a face pic and she responded with you are not my type. I blocked so as not the keep seeing her in my feed. A year or so later she sees me in a club and starts flirting. I made excuses and walked away. It would have been easy to say "I'm not your type".

I guess my face isn't designed for photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Send face pic? it's not problem for me.

Who wants ?

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By *issmorganWoman
20 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

People can ask for a face pic first message, but you don't have to send one op.

Some ladies get so many messages though and they do it so they can see who they are and are not attracted to quickly.

I don't ask for one as I'm not currently meeting, but when I am, I want to see one sooner rather than later. Otherwise you could chat for ages and then find there's no attraction.

If I'm not attracted to someone I'd always tell them that, politely through.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
20 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I sent a woman a face pic and she responded with you are not my type. I blocked so as not the keep seeing her in my feed. A year or so later she sees me in a club and starts flirting. I made excuses and walked away. It would have been easy to say "I'm not your type".

I guess my face isn't designed for photos. "

It may have just been the photo. Some people take better selfies and face shots than others and its not always easy to get a good one that people will like.

Out of interest.....why reject someone in a club that you'd previously been interested in enough to send a face pic to?

Over the years I've met people that never read messages I sent, read and deleted, and even a couple that had for some reason chosen to block me. They only noticed when Tring to leave a veri.

There's a big difference in online and in person behaviour sometimes. Likewise perceptions of looks.

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By *ex HolesMan
20 weeks ago

Up North


"So this will divide the group I know 😂👊 but what is the deal with ppl on here who stress the point with seeing a face pic ... you know the ones I mean 😆 to then send one and have no reply ? It drives me fukin nuts .... anyway.....curious to hear what you fantastic fabbers think 😘"

I usually send one of Nicolas Gage with his wide nostrils

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By *entlemanH666Man
20 weeks ago

South


"I send one just to scare the 💩 out of people 🤣

I bet you couldn’t scare me

Oh I could "

I’d appreciate you trying

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
20 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We only mention sending face pics on our profile as we’re creating a face picture wallpaper to be mass produced by Aldi for their middle isle.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
20 weeks ago

North West


"We only mention sending face pics on our profile as we’re creating a face picture wallpaper to be mass produced by Aldi for their middle isle.

"

I think the Isle of Aldi would be a popular tourist destination

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