FabSwingers.com forum: Change of plans… I’m staying in-in

By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

So you’ve got a date/social/getogether/plans organised and something b changes and you need to come up with a plan b for yourself, what’s your normal go to. ?

A night in, or do have a friend who’s always available? 🌈

I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.

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By *laytime_13Woman
20 weeks ago

Lincs

Had this happen a couple of times recently, just life cropping up and getting in the way. Hoping we’ll re-schedule so no dramas.

I wouldn’t want to be someone’s second choice so I wouldn’t do it to someone else, I’m selective about who I meet so it’s that person/people I was hoping to see, not just someone for the sake of it, so if it’s cancelled it’s a quiet night in for me instead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"Had this happen a couple of times recently, just life cropping up and getting in the way. Hoping we’ll re-schedule so no dramas.

I was actually thinking about taking myself out and doing something but it’s a little dull when you’re looking forward to letting your hair down. 🙁

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By *riar BelisseWoman
20 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

Id be throwing a bag in the car and taking off for an adventure somewhere else, my free time is very limited and sacred to me. Staying at home is a weekday thing, weekends are for fun in it's various guises

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

^with that post in mind.

Has anyone gone wild camping?

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By *laytime_13Woman
20 weeks ago

Lincs

In which case do it, do something nice you enjoy and might not otherwise have done

It’s rare I have a night at home so I tend to take it and enjoy vegging on the sofa

but if it was cancelled with a bit more notice or I vegged on the sofa more often then I would make alternative non-sexy plans absolutely

Sorry your plans got cancelled Woody

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
20 weeks ago

Wherever

Plan B usually. I’d hate to be someone’s always available person and I wouldn’t want anyone to be mine so I don’t have one and never will. It’s either spontaneity or early night for me.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
20 weeks ago

your head

I'd reach out and see what people's plans were, if I'm free unexpectedly or not, it's nice to use that time to spend with people. It would be friends / family though, not fab. If no one was free I'd treat myself to a takeaway and watch a film. Probably enjoy the fact I don't have to put make up on or kill my feet in a pair of heels for the night.

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By *obilebottomMan
20 weeks ago

All over

Stick the kettle on, get some cake and will be over shortly

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By *opeyXWoman
20 weeks ago

Dun Dee

"So you’ve got a date/social/getogether/plans organised and something b changes and you need to come up with a plan b for yourself, what’s your normal go to. ?

A night in, or do have a friend who’s always available? 🌈

I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.

Depends on my mood, though had someone leave the site so I'm guessing we're not doing coffee tonight 😂

I'll be staying in mostly I've got plans Saturday and Sunday.

So comfy clothes on, some snacks and Netflix.

And cuddles with the dog.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I never go out, I like staying in. And people just annoy me.

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By *ussle SproutMan
20 weeks ago

the middle

"So you’ve got a date/social/getogether/plans organised and something b changes and you need to come up with a plan b for yourself, what’s your normal go to. ?

A night in, or do have a friend who’s always available? 🌈

I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.

Thinly veiled brag that someone wanted to meet you. I like it Woody

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By *r TriomanMan
20 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

In the daytime, I'll go for a bicycle ride; nighttime, a walk or I'll watch a film at home.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
20 weeks ago

Reading

A night in usually

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

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I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.

Thinly veiled brag that someone wanted to meet you. I like it Woody

A thinly bailed woe is me … cries alone on a Friday night.

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By *rHotNottsMan
20 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I don’t have that friend who is always available but there are 1 or 2 people where we have the kind of relationship where either of us can say hey I’ve been cancelled on, or whatever, movie? FAF? And it’s absolutely fine for either of us to say no , fuck you, I have a hot date!

But sometimes I don’t wanna Plan B. Unexpected adventures , even in your own home , can often be the best

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By *affron40Woman
20 weeks ago

manchester

You know the answer from me 🤣 but I genuinely like my own company and staying in. I have lots of things to do or not do and being with my dogs just makes me happy.

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
20 weeks ago

In the clouds

I'm always home..so makes no odds for me

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By *ocothumpaMan
20 weeks ago

Herts

Chalk it up to ‘what it is’ and charge the night to watching Fraiser and sinking a Malbec.

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By *inx000Couple
20 weeks ago

Manchester

"So you’ve got a date/social/getogether/plans organised and something b changes and you need to come up with a plan b for yourself, what’s your normal go to. ?

A night in, or do have a friend who’s always available? 🌈

I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.

I'd buy a bottle of wine and enjoy my own company with some tunes and maybe a takeaway ☺️

Or maybe ask a friend if they want to go out out.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
20 weeks ago

North West

We're staying in-in tonight. Too much going on in the city this weekend. We're on Dad wrangling duty so it's off to the other end of the M62 instead.

I need to make plans for next week, Tues and Weds.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"We're staying in-in tonight. Too much going on in the city this weekend. We're on Dad wrangling duty so it's off to the other end of the M62 instead.

I need to make plans for next week, Tues and Weds. "

Oh crap. It’s pride weekend isn’t it!?!?

Who’s going?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"…..

I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.

I'd buy a bottle of wine and enjoy my own company with some tunes and maybe a takeaway ☺️

…."

Sounds like my plans. .. with added tears and tissues….

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"…..

I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.

I'd buy a bottle of wine and enjoy my own company with some tunes and maybe a takeaway ☺️

….

Sounds like my plans. .. with added tears and tissues…."

Haha. That sounds like I’m wanking. Also could happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"Chalk it up to ‘what it is’ and charge the night to watching Fraiser and sinking a Malbec.

Merlot! I invited Merlot to my party for 1

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By *usty kayCouple
20 weeks ago

Burnham

"^with that post in mind.

Has anyone gone wild camping?

Last night's camping was pretty wild

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By *inx000Couple
20 weeks ago

Manchester

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I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.

I'd buy a bottle of wine and enjoy my own company with some tunes and maybe a takeaway ☺️

….

Sounds like my plans. .. with added tears and tissues…."

Oh Woody 😘 sending positive vibes your way and I'm sure you have plenty of things to look forward to even if today didn't go as planned.

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By *inx000Couple
20 weeks ago

Manchester

"…..

I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.

I'd buy a bottle of wine and enjoy my own company with some tunes and maybe a takeaway ☺️

….

Sounds like my plans. .. with added tears and tissues….

Haha. That sounds like I’m wanking. Also could happen.

😏😉

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By *ozzybear1981Man
20 weeks ago

preston

"^with that post in mind.

Has anyone gone wild camping?

Wild camping is always an amazing plan b, being out in nature is always a win for me pal.

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By *ozzybear1981Man
20 weeks ago

preston

I have no plans but I’m not dog sitting and rather than having the dog sit there watching me have self gratification…. I held off

I’ll probably make up for that tonight instead 😂

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
20 weeks ago

North West

"We're staying in-in tonight. Too much going on in the city this weekend. We're on Dad wrangling duty so it's off to the other end of the M62 instead.

I need to make plans for next week, Tues and Weds.

Oh crap. It’s pride weekend isn’t it!?!?

Who’s going?

It IS Pride this weekend, yup.

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By *andynecklaceWoman
20 weeks ago

Someplace

Stay in but I do have a friend who's always willing to go for a drink

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By *ansoffateMan
20 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I usually call a friend and we bitch the welcher out for a bit it's quite cathartic.

Kebab and alcohol tend to materialise at some point.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
20 weeks ago

Southampton

"So you’ve got a date/social/getogether/plans organised and something b changes and you need to come up with a plan b for yourself, what’s your normal go to. ?

A night in, or do have a friend who’s always available? 🌈

I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.

Party for one at mine too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"So you’ve got a date/social/getogether/plans organised and something b changes and you need to come up with a plan b for yourself, what’s your normal go to. ?

A night in, or do have a friend who’s always available? 🌈

I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.

Party for one at mine too

I might try it on with myself.

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By *parkle1974Woman
20 weeks ago

Leeds

Staying in tonight but an all day session is on the cards tomorrow...could get very messy 🍾🍷🍸🍹🍺🥂🥃

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By *ookie46Woman
20 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I was having a quiet weekend in but I’ve had an invite out tomorrow night with a girlfriend

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By *HUSH-Man
20 weeks ago

London

Stay in.

I’ll put on my headphones 🎧 and listen to music for hours. Dream wave instrumentals if it’s late at night.

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By *parkle1974Woman
20 weeks ago

Leeds

"Stay in.

I’ll put on my headphones 🎧 and listen to music for hours. Dream wave instrumentals if it’s late at night."

Any good recommendations for helping aid sleep? 😴😴

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Never any plans. Always a night in.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
20 weeks ago

Dartford

Luckily I married my best friend, so it's party for two, sex toys at hand, vodie and and the boys on the tele. Night in sorted x

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By *HUSH-Man
20 weeks ago

London

"Stay in.

I’ll put on my headphones 🎧 and listen to music for hours. Dream wave instrumentals if it’s late at night.

Any good recommendations for helping aid sleep? 😴😴"

https://youtu.be/PTZrOq7VpzY?si=-IjdzNUj-Kqy1HcS

This is the kind of thing I listen to. If I’m going through a bout of insomnia I’ll close my eyes and just relax. My mind eventually stops running and I drift off.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
20 weeks ago

Southampton

"So you’ve got a date/social/getogether/plans organised and something b changes and you need to come up with a plan b for yourself, what’s your normal go to. ?

A night in, or do have a friend who’s always available? 🌈

I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.

Party for one at mine too

I might try it on with myself. "

Ooh let me know if you pull 😉😉🤣

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By *elix SightedMan
20 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I just stay in and have a biiiiiiiiiiig wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

"I just stay in and have a biiiiiiiiiiig wank."

What's the difference between a normal one and a big wank?

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I put plan B into operation when I was stood up on Thursday.

Sat on the sofa in my stocking and a t-shirt and ate a packet of biscuits.

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By *elix SightedMan
20 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"I just stay in and have a biiiiiiiiiiig wank.

What's the difference between a normal one and a big wank? "

I could claim the size of the appendage but that’s got no credibility. Probably the scale of commitment to the cause.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"I just stay in and have a biiiiiiiiiiig wank.

What's the difference between a normal one and a big wank?

I could claim the size of the appendage but that’s got no credibility. Probably the scale of commitment to the cause."

I agree, it’s definitely effort made. I get candles out and everything!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"So you’ve got a date/social/getogether/plans organised and something b changes and you need to come up with a plan b for yourself, what’s your normal go to. ?

A night in, or do have a friend who’s always available? 🌈

I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.

Party for one at mine too

I might try it on with myself.

Ooh let me know if you pull 😉😉🤣"

I fell asleep on me.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
20 weeks ago

Southampton

"So you’ve got a date/social/getogether/plans organised and something b changes and you need to come up with a plan b for yourself, what’s your normal go to. ?

A night in, or do have a friend who’s always available? 🌈

I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.

Party for one at mine too

I might try it on with myself.

Ooh let me know if you pull 😉😉🤣

I fell asleep on me.

Oh dear , I did the same 😍😁🤣

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By *eliWoman
20 weeks ago

Oh Woody, I hope you had a good night regardless.

It depends on how I'm feeling about it. Really meh? Hibernate, film, picky bits. A fuck it attitude? Go and fuck it out of my system. If I'm not fussed just a standard night in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"Oh Woody, I hope you had a good night regardless.

It depends on how I'm feeling about it. Really meh? Hibernate, film, picky bits. A fuck it attitude? Go and fuck it out of my system. If I'm not fussed just a standard night in."

I planned on staying in. Phoned a few people I know to see if they wanted to go out.

- too busy woody. (Bullshit)

Phoned kids - both busy.. then one said they’d come and watch a film with me… then cancelled.

The other is at a party…. ‘Can you pick me up at 1am? taxi dad stays up sober finally getting a call at 3am…. Ffs.

Life eh?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
20 weeks ago

Southampton

"Oh Woody, I hope you had a good night regardless.

It depends on how I'm feeling about it. Really meh? Hibernate, film, picky bits. A fuck it attitude? Go and fuck it out of my system. If I'm not fussed just a standard night in.

I planned on staying in. Phoned a few people I know to see if they wanted to go out.

- too busy woody. (Bullshit)

Phoned kids - both busy.. then one said they’d come and watch a film with me… then cancelled.

The other is at a party…. ‘Can you pick me up at 1am? taxi dad stays up sober finally getting a call at 3am…. Ffs.

Life eh? "

Aah I'd have come and watched a film with you 😘😘

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"Oh Woody, I hope you had a good night regardless.

It depends on how I'm feeling about it. Really meh? Hibernate, film, picky bits. A fuck it attitude? Go and fuck it out of my system. If I'm not fussed just a standard night in.

I planned on staying in. Phoned a few people I know to see if they wanted to go out.

- too busy woody. (Bullshit)

Phoned kids - both busy.. then one said they’d come and watch a film with me… then cancelled.

The other is at a party…. ‘Can you pick me up at 1am? taxi dad stays up sober finally getting a call at 3am…. Ffs.

Life eh?

Aah I'd have come and watched a film with you 😘😘"

What film? … also I fell asleep.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
20 weeks ago

Stockport

Happened to us last night. So quiet night in was had….. hair and body ready, luckily I hadn’t got as far as putting makeup on!

Mrs J

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