FabSwingers.com forum: Friends lists

By (user no longer on site) OP
27 weeks ago

As the option is there to show your friends list have you seen anyone that does?

And why don’t we? (Or why do we if we do..do?)

Narrator- Woody is very careful not to ask the age old question - would you shag someone who is friends with someone you don’t like. 😏

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

I've had people contact my friends to message me because they can't get past my filters so I no longer display them.

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By *rHotNottsMan
27 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Personally I’d never do this, same reason I don’t show veri’s.

I’m here to meet females and have great relationships and sex with them, I don’t see how telling everyone else who your doing or meeting or hanging out on here with is constructive to that.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
27 weeks ago

Wales

I have a crazy stalker who keeps making new accounts to get around me blocking him. People on here don't need that drama so I choose to keep my friends to myself.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
27 weeks ago

Leeds

I forgot about that setting on my singles profile and it stayed on however my friends lost wasn't visible anyway, I can't say I've ever seen anyone's friend list on their profile.

Mrs

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
27 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"I have a crazy stalker who keeps making new accounts to get around me blocking him. People on here don't need that drama so I choose to keep my friends to myself."

Oh shit that's awful..hope you're OK xx

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By *ittlebirdWoman
27 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I’ve never noticed if anyone does show theirs but for me, my friends are my friends. I don’t feel the need to advertise 😘

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By *ealitybitesMan
27 weeks ago

Belfast

"I've had people contact my friends to message me because they can't get past my filters so I no longer display them. "

I've had this in the past but the main reason for not displaying my friends list is that's it's nobody's business who I'm chatting to or friendly with.

I've always found public friend lists to be yet another dick measuring tool or a look who I know statement.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

One guy used to show it, I don't think he realises or if he even cared though.

I wouldn't, like the veris thing, people can be weird about who you're friends with.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
27 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I just had to go and check that mine was actually hidden...

No, I wouldn't show it, for the reasons already stated by PP's.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
27 weeks ago

Coventry

Mainly to protect the privacy of our freinds and not the draw the attention of random online weirdos onto our freinds.

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By *oneyBee200Woman
27 weeks ago

Kent

I don't show mine but there aren't that many anyway as I don't add just anyone.

Isn't it only relevant if you use desktop site rather than on a mobile?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
27 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Friends, fab friends

These people be not friends.

They wouldn’t water my hanging baskets whilst I’m away on business!

I certainly wouldn’t wanna know any more about them than the contents of their overnight bag.

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By *eliWoman
27 weeks ago

Yes.

Because... people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
27 weeks ago

"I don't show mine but there aren't that many anyway as I don't add just anyone.

Isn't it only relevant if you use desktop site rather than on a mobile?"

Oh I don’t know?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
27 weeks ago

"I've had people contact my friends to message me because they can't get past my filters so I no longer display them. "

Ah, assholes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
27 weeks ago

East Sussex

I've seen friends lists displayed. We hid ours and our veris when someone contacted us thinking that because we'd met and were friends with someone they'd also met and were friends with we would immediately meet and have sex with him. 🤷‍♀️

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
27 weeks ago

somewhere

I only have a few friends on here anyway, don't see the point of the feature tbh but that's just me. I don't display them, likewise I don't display my FB ones either.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm lucky enough to have lots of friends on here, but as not everyone wants to be seen as being friends with us Tgirls (plenty do) just in case people make assumptions about them, I find it easier just to hide the list

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By *ecky and justCouple
27 weeks ago

Godalming

We’d never display our friends list.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
27 weeks ago

Bliss

The only people in my friends list are the ones I have sexual intimacy with, hence why I'd never show it, or add just anyone else to it

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By * and R cple4Couple
27 weeks ago

swansea

The only people we have on our friends list is people we have met, and it's noone else's business..

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By *erfHerder74Man
27 weeks ago

Inverclyde

Only have 3 or 4 and that’s cause we message and chat. They live distance away sadly

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