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By (user no longer on site) OP   
50 weeks ago

You have had someone on your hotlist but never met them or let them know.

We were just thinking this as we have a meet arranged for tomorrow night with a single guy who has been on our hot list for 6 years, we just never seemed to sync availability .

We were just wondering if anyone has someone on theirs for longer because this seems like a really long time.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

I don’t have a hot list 👌

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By *mmaleiaWoman
50 weeks ago

Trowbridge

2 1/2 weeks he was on mine, then out of the blue he messaged me, he’s now on my friends list & farcebook & meet when we can

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By *bi HaiveMan
50 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Years and years and years.

My hotlist isn't just a 'hot' list.

There's been people on there I know I'll never meet pretty much since day one, just because I admire their creative photos.

There's been mods on there since the start in case of emergency, long before I became one.

There's some on there that are simply there because their status updates are bloody hilarious.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

I have one that's been on snd off ot for over 3 years. Had a few near misses over the years but never actually met yet. I think he's the prettiest thing on here.

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By *ffervescentMan
50 weeks ago

winfrith

5 months am I bad ?

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By *ames250122Man
50 weeks ago

Worcester

Probably some have been on mine for a while as I don’t tend to check my hotlist and forget to who I added. To be honest I’ve not really made good use of it as I should x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
50 weeks ago


"5 months am I bad ?"

Dunno why not ask them, it might be the necessary ingredient

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By *iscean_dreamMan
50 weeks ago

Llanelli

Had people on mine since I joined in 2019 and I don't tend to message many people unless I've met them at socials or parties.

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By *ffervescentMan
50 weeks ago

winfrith


"5 months am I bad ?

Dunno why not ask them, it might be the necessary ingredient "
guess I haven't got the confidence to ask ,scared of the answer .

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

I've added the same people to mine each time I rejoin. I'll never message them and we'll never meet as it just wouldn't work.

But I'll perv for years.

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By *ffervescentMan
50 weeks ago

winfrith


"5 months am I bad ?

Dunno why not ask them, it might be the necessary ingredient "
Very nice pics maybe I will ask .

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By *lint25Man
50 weeks ago

newport

I've had people on my hotlist for years, I found though if you don't manage it profiles dissappear from view so have to limit it now and regularly review mine. There's only a few that I've not messaged, either 1. Don't have the confidence, 2. Their profile states I am not what they want so just admire from a far!

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By *aytime78Man
50 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I have one but I think im going to remove her after this thread I once text her and got no reply and I very much doubt im on anyones hotlist just the way it is on here 99% of the time ive also given up on the idea of ever meeting someone im atracted to let alone playtime with anyone and that I could be alone for the rest of my life not through choice its just how it is

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
50 weeks ago

London

I don’t put people on hotlist to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
50 weeks ago


"5 months am I bad ?

Dunno why not ask them, it might be the necessary ingredient Very nice pics maybe I will ask ."

If there's one thing we have just learnt, until you ask it's effectively already a no, so what more do you have to lose apart from the doubt.

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By *vaRoseWoman
50 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Running into a couple of months now, but plans are in place

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By *ffervescentMan
50 weeks ago

winfrith


"5 months am I bad ?

Dunno why not ask them, it might be the necessary ingredient Very nice pics maybe I will ask .

If there's one thing we have just learnt, until you ask it's effectively already a no, so what more do you have to lose apart from the doubt.

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agreed but I don't like the no part .

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By *aytime78Man
50 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"You have had someone on your hotlist but never met them or let them know.

We were just thinking this as we have a meet arranged for tomorrow night with a single guy who has been on our hot list for 6 years, we just never seemed to sync availability .

We were just wondering if anyone has someone on theirs for longer because this seems like a really long time."

some guys get all the luck probably made his weekend that fair play

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By *nnCeeWoman
50 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

Got quite a lot of people on my hotlist. I doubt I'll ever meet anybody anybody in that way.

But they're pretty to look at.

*shrug*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
50 weeks ago


"You have had someone on your hotlist but never met them or let them know.

We were just thinking this as we have a meet arranged for tomorrow night with a single guy who has been on our hot list for 6 years, we just never seemed to sync availability .

We were just wondering if anyone has someone on theirs for longer because this seems like a really long time.

some guys get all the luck probably made his weekend that fair play "

Doubt it, we just got to the front of the queue first, from their verifications they won't be short of offers, we were just lucky this time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
50 weeks ago


"Running into a couple of months now, but plans are in place"

Hope it turns out as you'd imagined x

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By *eyond PurityCouple
50 weeks ago

Haydock

Most on our hotlist are party or social planners.

We do have one or two on our hotlist but we usually message them and either try and get them to friends level or move off the hotlist through realising they aren’t for us.

Don’t see the point in keeping people on our hotlist to just look at.

K

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By *entleman JayMan
50 weeks ago

Wakefield

I would never tell them. Most are couples who don’t meet single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Most on my hotlist are social organisers/stuff.

Then some are people ive maybe started to chat to but not quite friends yet.

Others are there just cause I like there thighs and live quite far away.

And then they are some just because they take the type of photos I enjoy looking at.

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By *d mirerMan
50 weeks ago

lost

Most on mine know they are , I just recently told the longest suffering . We chat and share a giggle , reckon it’ll never be more than that but that doesn’t matter .

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

Probably a year. Maybe 2 years.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
50 weeks ago

Ooh almost posted someone from our list has popped in here, but it's not that kind of thread

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By *elix SightedMan
50 weeks ago

Cloud 8

People on my hotlist are those I want to chat with, whether or not that’s with a view to meeting.

I delete people if they haven’t been online for more than two weeks. The rest I message when I’m in a chatty mood which is sporadic at best.

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