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"I’ve always wondered… " why people are so happy to use/own derogatory terms, such as cum dump?  | |||
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"I’ve always wondered… " why my  has to be dragged around the park when I take him for his walks, and yet as soon as he gets back to the house he flies around performing his zoomies? | |||
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"I’ve always wondered… why people are so happy to use/own derogatory terms, such as cum dump? "Because it takes power away from those that use the term in a derogatory way. | |||
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"Why do people put "will fill out later" on their profile, then never do?" Because it’s not late enough yet | |||
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"I’ve always wondered… why people are so happy to use/own derogatory terms, such as cum dump? "Honestly, this is something I’ve mused over a lot. Because in the right situation, with the right person, it’s something I enjoy and find exciting. On the flip side, I’m a feminist. I guess the difference lies in welcoming it rather than having it thrust on you. On a simpler level, if you like it and nobody is being harmed, why not? Mrs TMN x | |||
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"Why do people discriminate on age grounds? It's a protected characteristic just as race , disability, religion etc .. and yet people overlook it and make ageist assumptions, ageist jokes, show assumptive ageist bias, work on ageist stereotypes. e.g. disliking someone can't be helped but making a reference to age each time they take a cowardly swipe is a deliberate prejudice." I agree with this. I'd add why is 'menopausal' often used to insult women? | |||
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"I frequently wonder why people get so annoyed/triggered/upset when we say we don't kiss our casual partners on the mouth. Why they feel they need to make unkind comparisons and infer things about our relationship. I don't particularly care that they do this, I just wonder why. I also wonder what people mean when they say 'like minded' and 'open minded'" I respect if a couple have that rule but probably wouldn't meet them because I love kissing. But there is never an excuse to be unkind. | |||
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"Why people think bi guys can't restrain themselves during a meet. "Yeah this is a weird one to me. Ingrained stereotypes I guess. | |||
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"Why do I always lose single socks when washing them" Ah the great sock abyss. It's a well known phenomenon | |||
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"Why people think bi guys can't restrain themselves during a meet.
Yeah this is a weird one to me. Ingrained stereotypes I guess."It's like when you tell a child not to touch something. You know full well they want to touch it even more as soon as you turn your back on them. | |||
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"Why do I always lose single socks when washing them" It's not that you loose them, more that someone adds an extra sock to the load just to confuse you | |||
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"With no judgement, I’d love to understand why those who play away from home without their partners knowledge, do so. I’m sure it’s not the same reason for all but I’d be curious as to honest answers from those who do and are happy to give insight" I can think of a lot of reasons, such as: Boredom. Having made a connection with someone else. Excitement. Risk factor. D*unken mistake. Opportunity. Enjoyment. Punishment. | |||
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"Is a hotdog a sandwich? Why do blokes have a fascination with women swallowing cum? Do people find me attractive or interested in me from my profile? That's mainly what's on my mind today....love this thread though so big up the OP! " If the sausage is in bread, it’s a sandwich. If it’s in a hotdog roll, it’s a hotdog  | |||
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"Why people think bi guys can't restrain themselves during a meet.
Yeah this is a weird one to me. Ingrained stereotypes I guess.
It's like when you tell a child not to touch something. You know full well they want to touch it even more as soon as you turn your back on them."Oh ha ha. | |||
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"I’ve always wondered… " what is the average amount of time that individuals spend on Fab in a day? | |||
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"Why do people send a message asking if they can ask a question? 🤔🤔" In my experience, they’re either trying to be polite, or get your consent to ask something inappropriate. | |||
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"I’ve always wondered… " when the "Official Best Boobs on Fab Thread" was running between Monday and Wednesday, what did people put on their work timesheets for the periods during the day that they were on Fab? (I think much of Tuesday morning was a right off for me, I may have been compiling a spread sheet of all the participants from Pages 1 and 2 of the thread in order to assess the boobage!) | |||
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"I’ve always wondered… why people are so happy to use/own derogatory terms, such as cum dump? "It's a term I've used before ...as a term of endearment and genuine affection and love I appreciate it's not for everyone...and obviously done with consent and them understanding what's behind it..so to speak. | |||
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"Why do I always lose single socks when washing them" They climb into your wardrobe and pupate into wire coat hangers, this is known | |||
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"Whatever happened to the rag and bone men? " They either retired or did something else. Once something becomes unprofitable, voilà? That type of person still exists and I've met a few, their sheds are fascinating. | |||
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"Why do people discriminate on age grounds? It's a protected characteristic just as race , disability, religion etc .. and yet people overlook it and make ageist assumptions, ageist jokes, show assumptive ageist bias, work on ageist stereotypes. e.g. disliking someone can't be helped but making a reference to age each time they take a cowardly swipe is a deliberate prejudice. I agree with this. I'd add why is 'menopausal' often used to insult women?" I gave an honest and open opinion to a good friend in response to something he said about something I am involved in ..... His response ..... I can see you are hysterical I was as cool as a cucumber. But words like menopausal, time of the month and hysteria are still used to keep women in an inferior subservient position | |||
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"Why are people so upset by the word 'professional'?" Simple Amateurs ? It does baffle me also | |||
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"Oh !!!! And why do folk get all excited about Brie and cranberry then go all ‘ohhhh I don’t know ‘ about cheese and jam ! Nice couple excluded because I know they will give in to temptation. "I will one day for sure. I eat cheese and apple, cheese and pineapple why not cheese and jam? | |||
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"Oh !!!! And why do folk get all excited about Brie and cranberry then go all ‘ohhhh I don’t know ‘ about cheese and jam ! Nice couple excluded because I know they will give in to temptation.
I will one day for sure.
I eat cheese and apple, cheese and pineapple why not cheese and jam? "I’m good with all of those to be fair | |||
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"With the word play being used so much in reference to sex Why do folk ask ‘fancy a fuck’ instead of ‘Are you coming out to play ?’ ? " I may adopt this | |||
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"Oh !!!! And why do folk get all excited about Brie and cranberry then go all ‘ohhhh I don’t know ‘ about cheese and jam ! Nice couple excluded because I know they will give in to temptation.
I will one day for sure.
I eat cheese and apple, cheese and pineapple why not cheese and jam? "Cheese and jam is a treat. Emmenthal and strawberry  | |||
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"Oh !!!! And why do folk get all excited about Brie and cranberry then go all ‘ohhhh I don’t know ‘ about cheese and jam ! Nice couple excluded because I know they will give in to temptation.
I will one day for sure.
I eat cheese and apple, cheese and pineapple why not cheese and jam?
Cheese and jam is a treat. Emmenthal and strawberry "I’m more a raspberry kind of guy but strawberry is acceptable | |||
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"I’ve always wondered… why people are so happy to use/own derogatory terms, such as cum dump? "From now on im a ‘ cum donor’. I bet within minutes my inbox is full of cum dumps telling me im just what they’re looking for!!  | |||
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"Why do people have sex to music? Why do they have sex playlists? " It's womantic  | |||
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"Oh !!!! And why do folk get all excited about Brie and cranberry then go all ‘ohhhh I don’t know ‘ about cheese and jam ! Nice couple excluded because I know they will give in to temptation.
I will one day for sure.
I eat cheese and apple, cheese and pineapple why not cheese and jam?
Cheese and jam is a treat. Emmenthal and strawberry "A previous neighbour of ours made us some tomato jam once. I didn't try it with cheese but I should have. We used to belong to a coffee tasting club that experimented with pairing different coffee with various foods. No coffee went well with tomato jam  | |||
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"Why do people send a message asking if they can ask a question? 🤔🤔" Because they want to ask something grim, usually. | |||
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"Oh !!!! And why do folk get all excited about Brie and cranberry then go all ‘ohhhh I don’t know ‘ about cheese and jam ! Nice couple excluded because I know they will give in to temptation.
I will one day for sure.
I eat cheese and apple, cheese and pineapple why not cheese and jam?
Cheese and jam is a treat. Emmenthal and strawberry
I’m more a raspberry kind of guy but strawberry is acceptable "Proper raspberry jam and tart cheese is just delicious  | |||
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"John buys a massive bag of thirty Granny Smiths apples. If he scoffs the lot in one go, how long until he shits himself? " 20 minutes after Dave who bought the figs | |||
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"John buys a massive bag of thirty Granny Smiths apples. If he scoffs the lot in one go, how long until he shits himself? 20 minutes after Dave who bought the figs "😂😂😂 | |||
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"Why do people have sex to music? Why do they have sex playlists? " Why has JaneDoe changed her name to Raven and when will Elf on a Shelf or Coyote Ugly come out to play? | |||
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"John buys a massive bag of thirty Granny Smiths apples. If he scoffs the lot in one go, how long until he shits himself? " Granny Shit
The Crumpster won't be impressed! | |||
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"Why are people so upset by the word 'professional'?" Possibly because it's a little derogatory! | |||
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"Why are people so upset by the word 'professional'? Possibly because it's a little derogatory! " Is it? In what way? | |||
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And I know women must get lots of requests how about a no thank you instead of you will be blocked  | |||
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"Why are people so upset by the word 'professional'? Possibly because it's a little derogatory! Is it? In what way?" Well, we're all professionals in our own field whatever we do, just makes them sound a little critical of others, like they're better! Just our take on it. | |||
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"...why French people have such a relaxed attitude to extramarital sex, but we don't..." 🤷♀️ | |||
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"Why some men post loads of pictures of their cock from different angles… Do they really think this is what the majority of women want to see? 🤔" Apparently so. One guy near me uploads about 6 or 7 at a time. He has perhaps 200 cock pics. Shame, as his face actually isn't that bad (saw it in a chat group we used to be in) | |||
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"John buys a massive bag of thirty Granny Smiths apples. If he scoffs the lot in one go, how long until he shits himself? 20 minutes after Dave who bought the figs
😂😂😂 "HAHAHAHAH BRILLIANT! | |||
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"What does solo poly mean" One of many???? | |||
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"Is it best to have a face pic, body pic or cock pic as your profile pic?" Anything but a cock pic. Imo | |||
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"What does solo poly mean One of many???? "👍 | |||
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"I was actually wondering today what the difference is between having several friends with benefits and having poly partners? Is there a difference aside from the partner label? Many thanks "Well for me poly partners mean I'm actively dating them. There's generally a deeper emotional connection and a greater level of intimacy than I'd have with a fwb. With fwbs, I perhaps wouldn't know quite as much. Plan romantic dates for them. Develop stronger feelings for. Amory is an important of poly. If you've just got several friends and there's not that love, that potential for it etc... it's not quite polyamory. You can have both at the same time! | |||
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"I've been pondering the difference between platonic and romantic love. I can feel the difference but I'm struggling to pin it down with words. " If you figure it out please let me know. I gave up a long time ago. | |||
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"I was actually wondering today what the difference is between having several friends with benefits and having poly partners? Is there a difference aside from the partner label? Many thanks
Well for me poly partners mean I'm actively dating them. There's generally a deeper emotional connection and a greater level of intimacy than I'd have with a fwb.
With fwbs, I perhaps wouldn't know quite as much. Plan romantic dates for them. Develop stronger feelings for. Amory is an important of poly. If you've just got several friends and there's not that love, that potential for it etc... it's not quite polyamory. You can have both at the same time! "That makes sense Thankyou | |||
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"Why can I never run away from monsters in my dreams, I mean whats that all about?" Yeah I hate that. Or I’m running but they’re always nearly catching me. | |||
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"I frequently wonder why people get so annoyed/triggered/upset when we say we don't kiss our casual partners on the mouth. Why they feel they need to make unkind comparisons and infer things about our relationship. I don't particularly care that they do this, I just wonder why. I also wonder what people mean when they say 'like minded' and 'open minded' I respect if a couple have that rule but probably wouldn't meet them because I love kissing. But there is never an excuse to be unkind." Oh I so much like kissing and it's so long since I've had an opportunity  | |||
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"I've been pondering the difference between platonic and romantic love. I can feel the difference but I'm struggling to pin it down with words. " Lordy, this is a pondering for the ages! Hopefully someone more eloquent than me will have a stab at it x | |||
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"I’d like to know what makes the grey whiskers spread across my beard these days. How can it be so thick and dark for 30 years and then just change in what feels like a few months?" Those hairs are tired, Sam. So tired. | |||
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"What does solo poly mean" I’m guessing, but is it when you don’t currently have a partner but consider yourself poly? | |||
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"I’ve always wondered… " why if the earth is spinning at 1,000 miles per hour, when I jump in the air why do I not land 1/3 of a mile away when I land? | |||
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"Why do I always lose single socks when washing them" Because you don’t pair them together with a safety pin when you put them in the laundry bag. I have been doing this for years, no more missing socks in the wash. | |||
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"What happens if I twist your nipples?" Nobody has ever asked this before | |||
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"I’ve always wondered about the correlation between dreams and a waking boner ?? For example , last night I dreamt that I met an old mate from a lifetime ago , we ended up sailing a barge over to Ireland then got turned away from the docks by a guy with a cannon and an elephant . Yet I still woke up with a stonker ?? 🤷🏻♂️" Cannon? Massive elephant trunk? The phallic implications are striking | |||
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"I’ve always wondered about the correlation between dreams and a waking boner ?? For example , last night I dreamt that I met an old mate from a lifetime ago , we ended up sailing a barge over to Ireland then got turned away from the docks by a guy with a cannon and an elephant . Yet I still woke up with a stonker ?? 🤷🏻♂️ Cannon? Massive elephant trunk? The phallic implications are striking "Oh aye …… so all that confusing barging just to tell me I need to fire a ball from my trunk . ! My brain is an asshole 😂 | |||
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