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"Could it be the way a person looks at you a certain way? The way they speak to you/request things from you? A certain language that can sound incredibly sexy? What they are wearing? Do tell.." All of the above and much more 😁 | |||
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"Oddly enough - if I can’t have them, for whatever reasons." For me it's if they don't want me. I'm turned on by aloof dickheads that don't like me. | |||
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"Could it be the way a person looks at you a certain way? The way they speak to you/request things from you? A certain language that can sound incredibly sexy? What they are wearing? Do tell.." All of the above, sometimes it just takes one thing, others it's a combination of them | |||
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"Oddly enough - if I can’t have them, for whatever reasons." Oh, the unattainable?? …I move on. | |||
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"Definitely how someone is dressed tight fitting clothes so you see the outline of a thong 😉😉😉😉" Ooh that's sexy 😉 | |||
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"I'm very visual. They way someone looks turns me on right away. Hair colour, style of dress, body art all get my blood flowing. " Body art absolutely 💯 | |||
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"Oddly enough - if I can’t have them, for whatever reasons." We always want what we cant have 😏 | |||
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"Them as a package, as a person. A gorgeous knobhead or a lovely person I don't find attractive - neither will get me into bed. " Tell me..what attracts you enough to let them take you to bed?😉 | |||
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"Clavicles." Heard this quite a lot lately..is it really an attraction?Does it turn you on enough to make you want to take them to bed? | |||
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"Dare I say it.... Blue underwear "How did I guess you were going to say that 😂 found anyone to satisfy your urges yet?😉 | |||
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"Dare I say it.... Blue underwear
How did I guess you were going to say that 😂 found anyone to satisfy your urges yet?😉"Nope. My inbox is very low on the colour blue.  | |||
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"If her mouth is wrapped around my cock, that normally turns me on. Also, cooking my favourite dish, maybe something as simple as stroking her hand. I dunno, I’m a raging sex pest. "Sometimes the simple things bring the biggest turn ons...doesn't always have to be about touch either.You can turn someone on so much or even bring them to orgasm with even touching them.  | |||
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"Naked and sat on my face usually works "🔥  | |||
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"Dare I say it.... Blue underwear
How did I guess you were going to say that 😂 found anyone to satisfy your urges yet?😉
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My inbox is very low on the colour blue. "😂 Good luck on your search  | |||
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"Intimacy . A connection and the feeling of want from the other person " Exactly this 💯 | |||
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"Them as a package, as a person. A gorgeous knobhead or a lovely person I don't find attractive - neither will get me into bed. Tell me..what attracts you enough to let them take you to bed?😉" I don't know, it depends on the person. I don't have a "type". I like attractive (to me), intelligent people. I need to click with them and they need to be able to understand my physical limitations without being condescending. | |||
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"But also a great butt  "You will love my profile pics then 😉 | |||
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"Mutual desire. That feedback loop is everything. " Absolutely 💯 | |||
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"Their eyes, love deep eye contact before my eyes trace over her body. The taste of her lips the feel of her skin underneath my fingertips. Her mouth muttering words and moans uncontrollably…I’ll take that please "Wow that's sexy..especially when they are moaning into your mouth whilst kissing passionately | |||
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"Their eyes, love deep eye contact before my eyes trace over her body. The taste of her lips the feel of her skin underneath my fingertips. Her mouth muttering words and moans uncontrollably…I’ll take that please
Wow that's sexy..especially when they are moaning into your mouth whilst kissing passionately "Exactly!!! The vibrations of her moans rippling through my lips would be a delight | |||
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"Oddly enough - if I can’t have them, for whatever reasons. For me it's if they don't want me. I'm turned on by aloof dickheads that don't like me. " That's true fir a lot of women. I always here that they don't like guys who are too nice. Yet it's ironic when they say they can't find a nice guy. Maybe it's the age old game wanting what you cannot have. | |||
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"Oddly enough - if I can’t have them, for whatever reasons. For me it's if they don't want me. I'm turned on by aloof dickheads that don't like me. That's true fir a lot of women. I always here that they don't like guys who are too nice. Yet it's ironic when they say they can't find a nice guy. Maybe it's the age old game wanting what you cannot have." I'm not looking for a nice guy | |||
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"The smell of cocoa body butter! My ex was one of the most sexual people I've ever met and I associate that moisturiser with wild no holds barred sex" It really does smell divine | |||
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"The smell of cocoa body butter! My ex was one of the most sexual people I've ever met and I associate that moisturiser with wild no holds barred sex It really does smell divine "Yip, it does 'things' to me | |||
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"Oddly enough - if I can’t have them, for whatever reasons. For me it's if they don't want me. I'm turned on by aloof dickheads that don't like me. That's true fir a lot of women. I always here that they don't like guys who are too nice. Yet it's ironic when they say they can't find a nice guy. Maybe it's the age old game wanting what you cannot have." I like nice, and I'm good at finding nice. But it's a bare minimum. And I'm pretty clued into to telling those who are actually nice and those who use 'nice' as an entitlement. | |||
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"I tend to be drawn to a certain sense of humour. Being laughed into bed is just the best ❤️ It goes without saying that physical attraction has to be there as well (another clavicle fan, here!), as well as mutual desire, a feeling of being at ease in their company, conversation that flits effortlessly between the frivolous and the more serious. Oh, and the scent of their skin, how they kiss, a shared appreciation of post-fuck cuddles and intimacy. TL:DR It's the whole package, the complete person, not just one individual thing, that that turns me on." Same as what she said^^😇 | |||
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"I tend to be drawn to a certain sense of humour. Being laughed into bed is just the best ❤️ It goes without saying that physical attraction has to be there as well (another clavicle fan, here!), as well as mutual desire, a feeling of being at ease in their company, conversation that flits effortlessly between the frivolous and the more serious. Oh, and the scent of their skin, how they kiss, a shared appreciation of post-fuck cuddles and intimacy. TL:DR It's the whole package, the complete person, not just one individual thing, that that turns me on. Same as what she said^^😇" Get a room already | |||
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"If her mouth is wrapped around my cock, that normally turns me on. Also, cooking my favourite dish, maybe something as simple as stroking her hand. I dunno, I’m a raging sex pest.
Sometimes the simple things bring the biggest turn ons...doesn't always have to be about touch either.You can turn someone on so much or even bring them to orgasm with even touching them. "What about touching her clit? | |||
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"I tend to be drawn to a certain sense of humour. Being laughed into bed is just the best ❤️ It goes without saying that physical attraction has to be there as well (another clavicle fan, here!), as well as mutual desire, a feeling of being at ease in their company, conversation that flits effortlessly between the frivolous and the more serious. Oh, and the scent of their skin, how they kiss, a shared appreciation of post-fuck cuddles and intimacy. TL:DR It's the whole package, the complete person, not just one individual thing, that that turns me on. Same as what she said^^😇 Get a room already" Don't be jealous 😎 | |||
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"…. I adore men who are sexually filthy in bed. " Sometimes I don’t shower after work. | |||
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"Could it be the way a person looks at you a certain way? The way they speak to you/request things from you? A certain language that can sound incredibly sexy? What they are wearing? Do tell.." I agree so many things apply being comfortable in each others company ,laughing ,smiling ,touching ,kissing it all plays a part ,I guess some would disagree because they want to fulfill a bodily need so as long as the person looked aesthetically pleasing that's all that's required and as soon as they are finished boot them out the front door ,fortunately most of us require more . | |||
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"I tend to be drawn to a certain sense of humour. Being laughed into bed is just the best ❤️ It goes without saying that physical attraction has to be there as well (another clavicle fan, here!), as well as mutual desire, a feeling of being at ease in their company, conversation that flits effortlessly between the frivolous and the more serious. Oh, and the scent of their skin, how they kiss, a shared appreciation of post-fuck cuddles and intimacy. TL:DR It's the whole package, the complete person, not just one individual thing, that that turns me on. Same as what she said^^😇 Get a room already Don't be jealous 😎"  | |||
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"I tend to be drawn to a certain sense of humour. Being laughed into bed is just the best ❤️ It goes without saying that physical attraction has to be there as well (another clavicle fan, here!), as well as mutual desire, a feeling of being at ease in their company, conversation that flits effortlessly between the frivolous and the more serious. Oh, and the scent of their skin, how they kiss, a shared appreciation of post-fuck cuddles and intimacy. TL:DR It's the whole package, the complete person, not just one individual thing, that that turns me on. Same as what she said^^😇 Get a room already Don't be jealous 😎" Yes willy. I am totally jealous. Sorry. | |||
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"I tend to be drawn to a certain sense of humour. Being laughed into bed is just the best ❤️ It goes without saying that physical attraction has to be there as well (another clavicle fan, here!), as well as mutual desire, a feeling of being at ease in their company, conversation that flits effortlessly between the frivolous and the more serious. Oh, and the scent of their skin, how they kiss, a shared appreciation of post-fuck cuddles and intimacy. TL:DR It's the whole package, the complete person, not just one individual thing, that that turns me on." I agree a good sense of humour is a must and the feeling of mutual desire and lust for one and another is a big turn on along with intimacy and long passionate kisses that give you goosebumps. | |||
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"Like many here the feedback loop of desiring and being desired is a virtuous circle for me Honesty, communication, vulnerability, laughter all feed into that " Absolutely 💯 | |||
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"Ladies wearing glasses" | |||
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"Ladies wearing glasses "With blue underwear. Ooft | |||
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"Could it be the way a person looks at you a certain way? The way they speak to you/request things from you? A certain language that can sound incredibly sexy? What they are wearing? Do tell.." What they're wearing and the look definitely, some women have they 'take me to bed eyes' or 'hungry eyes' that's a big turn on, them knowing how to use it? The way a women smells as well. Can walk past someone and be instantly more attracted to them just by the perfume they wear?? I also like women who are full force ahead? They want to fuck and make no excuses, grab the bull by the horns and take what they want. I LOVE that. I love women that know they can have you at any point, and play with it? Giving you just enough to not lose interest, but notntoo much to keep the power dynamic in their court. Older women, voluptuous women, vulnerable women, who need a cuddle and 'looked after'. | |||
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"Ladies wearing glasses "100% this as well. Looking over the top of them at you like you've been a naughty boy 🥵 | |||
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"Could it be the way a person looks at you a certain way? The way they speak to you/request things from you? A certain language that can sound incredibly sexy? What they are wearing? Do tell.." All of the above + lots more. | |||
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"I tend to be drawn to a certain sense of humour. Being laughed into bed is just the best ❤️ It goes without saying that physical attraction has to be there as well (another clavicle fan, here!), as well as mutual desire, a feeling of being at ease in their company, conversation that flits effortlessly between the frivolous and the more serious. Oh, and the scent of their skin, how they kiss, a shared appreciation of post-fuck cuddles and intimacy. TL:DR It's the whole package, the complete person, not just one individual thing, that that turns me on. Same as what she said^^😇 Get a room already Don't be jealous 😎 Yes willy. I am totally jealous. Sorry." Don't be sorry, Nell is delectable! | |||
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"Having my hair pulled whilst kissing. Instant fanny flutters." Oh hell yes | |||
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"Attitude, people can have the looks and the tools of the trade but if they don't have the right attitude (therefore connection) then there is no point "💯 agree 👍 | |||
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"Ladies wearing glasses
100% this as well. Looking over the top of them at you like you've been a naughty boy 🥵"Yes to this ^ ready to take you over their knee and give you a good spanking | |||
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With blue underwear. Ooft"😅😏 | |||
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"Ladies wearing glasses
100% this as well. Looking over the top of them at you like you've been a naughty boy 🥵
Yes to this ^ ready to take you over their knee and give you a good spanking "You over my knee or me over yours? | |||
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"If her mouth is wrapped around my cock, that normally turns me on. Also, cooking my favourite dish, maybe something as simple as stroking her hand. I dunno, I’m a raging sex pest.
Sometimes the simple things bring the biggest turn ons...doesn't always have to be about touch either.You can turn someone on so much or even bring them to orgasm with even touching them.
What about touching her clit?
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"Ladies wearing glasses
100% this as well. Looking over the top of them at you like you've been a naughty boy 🥵
Yes to this ^ ready to take you over their knee and give you a good spanking "Yes please, Ms | |||
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"Could it be the way a person looks at you a certain way? The way they speak to you/request things from you? A certain language that can sound incredibly sexy? What they are wearing? Do tell.." A larger lady who knows how to wear clothes that make her body look amazing (with a bit of bounce) | |||
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