FabSwingers.com forum: Do guys think of sex on the first date?

By *hagTonight OP Man
11 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.

I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date?

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By *he Silver FuxMan
11 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.

I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date?

I’m thinking of sex even before I saw their profile picture..

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By *enfleetMaleMan
11 weeks ago

Hadleigh

Go not expecting sex but prepared for it.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
11 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.

I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date?

Other hormones do exist OP. And some of us ladies also think about sex on a first date. It’s not unique to men 🤷‍♂️

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
11 weeks ago

Ends

I try to avoid sex on the first date. But obviously you go with the flow.

Dates are for getting to know someone. Let’s spend hours getting to know one another. Let’s feel that connection. Let’s feel that growing desire. Let’s hold on to that and enjoy the excitement.

But I’ll be real, whenever I’ve been invited back on a first date I’ve not said no. But I would ideally keep it me PG on a first date.

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By *eliWoman
11 weeks ago

I definitely think about sex on the first date (if I'm attracted to them). There's only been a handful of times (including one on one socials etc) that I've actually done it. I quite like the anticipation, how that chemistry can intensify things.

I don't think it's a male exclusive thing because of testosterone.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
11 weeks ago

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"I definitely think about sex on the first date (if I'm attracted to them). There's only been a handful of times (including one on one socials etc) that I've actually done it. I quite like the anticipation, how that chemistry can intensify things.

I don't think it's a male exclusive thing because of testosterone. "

Socials don’t count as dates

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
11 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Yes.

Yes I do.

I hope those of you that have met me now realise was thinking about your love hole the whole time we spoke.

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By *eliWoman
11 weeks ago

I don't think it's a male exclusive thing because of testosterone.

Socials don’t count as dates"

Date dates that number is a couple of fingers. Two. 😁

And no, socials aren't dates are they? I'm not sure what the exact distinction is but they're definitely different.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
11 weeks ago

Ends

I don't think it's a male exclusive thing because of testosterone.

Socials don’t count as dates

Date dates that number is a couple of fingers. Two. 😁

And no, socials aren't dates are they? I'm not sure what the exact distinction is but they're definitely different."

Exactly. You get it.

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By *aven.Woman
11 weeks ago

Not the North West...

Is this a trick question?

Guys get excited if someone smiles at them, agree to go on a date with them and they've mentally banged you every which way before walking out the door.

#allguys

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By *ittlebirdWoman
11 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Is this a trick question?

Guys get excited if someone smiles at them, agree to go on a date with them and they've mentally banged you every which way before walking out the door.

#allguys

How about tall guys?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
11 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"Is this a trick question?

Guys get excited if someone smiles at them, agree to go on a date with them and they've mentally banged you every which way before walking out the door.

#allguys

How about tall guys? "

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By *hagTonight OP Man
11 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.

I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date?

I’m thinking of sex even before I saw their profile picture.."
That is good

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By *mmaleiaWoman
11 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

I love dates, I need to go on more! Socials are great, but they aren’t old fashioned dates

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By *hagTonight OP Man
11 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.

I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date?

Other hormones do exist OP. And some of us ladies also think about sex on a first date. It’s not unique to men 🤷‍♂️"
Hi little, you are right there, other hormones do exists and yes, some ladies slso think about it too

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
11 weeks ago

Ends

"I love dates, I need to go on more! Socials are great, but they aren’t old fashioned dates "

HMU

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By *aiseiMan
11 weeks ago

Birmingham

"I try to avoid sex on the first date. But obviously you go with the flow.

But I’ll be real, whenever I’ve been invited back on a first date I’ve not said no. But I would ideally keep it me PG on a first date. "

Pretty much this.

I think when you’re younger, it’s a bit better to pace it and give it time due to lack of emotional maturity (for some).

When you’re older, you’ve ’been there enough’ for it to be far less of an issue if things happen straight away.

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By *imply DeeWoman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

I do Shag. If I can’t imagine having sex with them on a first date, I don’t want to date them.

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By *ucka39Man
11 weeks ago

Newcastle

Already discussed prior to the actual date my/our conversation go pretty deep

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By *anceAloneWoman
11 weeks ago

Adjacent to him

"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.

I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date?

Everyone thinks about sex don't they🤷‍♀️

Doesn't mean you are going to do it, but surely if you're not thinking about sex then they are friend zoned??

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By *ay6eeMan
11 weeks ago

Torfaen / South West

Nothing wrong with skipping ahead to finding out if you enjoy the intimate/messy part!

Another vote for 'prepared but not expecting' ... if there's mutual attraction then things can escalate quickly.

And if you can, why would you not.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I think of sex during team meeting in work

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By *entlemanFoxMan
11 weeks ago

North East / London

"Is this a trick question?

Guys get excited if someone smiles at them, agree to go on a date with them and they've mentally banged you every which way before walking out the door.

#allguys

Thought crime is alive and well

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Central

Yes

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By *a LunaWoman
11 weeks ago

South Wales

Don’t men think about sex every 10 minutes or so anyway, or am I making that up?

So my answer is yes.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
11 weeks ago

Coventry

Yes most definitely if there's attraction. That doesn't necessarily mean that sex is my immediate aim, simply that I'm attracted to them and they'd be someone I see my self having sex with. Which is surely a good thing right? That's not to say all I've got on my mind is sex or have no patience for when the time is right (be it 30 minutes later or weeks down the line). The desire and consideration of sex is perfectly normal, what can be problematic is how people handle it or prioritise it.

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By *illy IdolMan
11 weeks ago

Midlands

"Don’t men think about sex every 10 minutes or so anyway, or am I making that up?

So my answer is yes."

Yes, you are making this up. It's much more often than that

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By *hagTonight OP Man
11 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"I do Shag. If I can’t imagine having sex with them on a first date, I don’t want to date them."
Hi simply, that is good you do it, yes, it is good to imagine how sex would be with them too

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By *erfHerder74Man
11 weeks ago

Greenock

Think about sex all day

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By *odgerMooreMan
11 weeks ago

Carlisle

Before I actually meet them I consider if I am attracted to the personality in the messaging and physically from their profile pics - if I can’t picture cumming over their face* in Nandos car park then it’s probably just good friends

* tits is also acceptable

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By *rHotNottsMan
11 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Yeah of course or why would I be going on date! Doesn’t mean I want to have sex with them yet.

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By *inx000Couple
11 weeks ago

Manchester

Of course they do..don't they?

Men think about sex all the time the same as women but that doesn't mean they will have sex on a first date...maybe a snog or something more?

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
11 weeks ago

Cheshire

Does this question really need discussing?

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By *hilloutMan
11 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Of course I do😅😆

I will, however, have no expectations of anything and prefer to see how things play out. It is very satisfying when the interaction is so good that both know where it'll lead without explicitly stating 🔥

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
11 weeks ago

chichester

lol any guy that says no is a liar

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By *2000ManMan
11 weeks ago

Worthing

I want to sense if they are into me first before thinking about anything else.

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By *uteguyhereMan
11 weeks ago

leeds

"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.

I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date?

Yeah I think I would. Then it subsides on the date then the attraction (if any) brings it back

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By *orty and niceMan
11 weeks ago

Nearby to you

Not at all, just like to chat, laugh and enjoy each other’s company. Plenty of time for sex later

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
11 weeks ago

Reading

I think about it often but don't do it. I find is more likely to be better if I wait.

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By *ames250122Man
11 weeks ago

Worcester

"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.

I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date?

Sure it pretty common if your on a date with a woman you like and find attractive to have the thought run through your head at some point even if it just momentary (which for me personally that’s all its ever been) unless your particularly horny or in close contact, like maybe dancing or something. Everyone has different experiences though but I can’t say I’ve ever turned to a date really horny personally. Always figured it wouldn’t be a good mindset to go with or make a very good impression lol. I’d rather go relaxed and open minded and not worry or focus on anything other than getting to know them a bit better lol. Though naturally momentary thought pops into all our heads from time to time lol

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By *hagTonight OP Man
11 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"I try to avoid sex on the first date. But obviously you go with the flow.

But I’ll be real, whenever I’ve been invited back on a first date I’ve not said no. But I would ideally keep it me PG on a first date. "
That is good, yes, it is about to get to know someone too

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By *xstaceyxxTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Ng10 4jl.

Yes always.

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By *alm_one4Man
11 weeks ago

RM16

Not thinking about what I’d like to do to her, but definitely if I’d want to have sex with her. Part of the do I don’t I like her (amongst other things I’ll add).

Never got lucky on a first date.

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
11 weeks ago

the moon

I mean if she’s nice 😘

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By *ensuallover1000Man
11 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I like the sex stuff 👍🏻

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By *olfandtazCouple
11 weeks ago

Bristol

Yep! First date with taz we ended up disappearing down a quite path for some fun.. its not just men that think about it

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By *uicy 2020Woman
11 weeks ago

London

On an actual date with romantic intentions, then, like others have said, if im not thinking about it at least a bit then i know theyre not for me. But i do also enjoy the anticipation and letting the flirting build while getting to know each other

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By *ex HolesMan
11 weeks ago

Up North

Yes

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By *uicy 2020Woman
11 weeks ago

London

I would want someone i was on a date with to think about having sex with me during the date too. There has to be that attraction and some lusting after each other x

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By *hadowtoothMan
11 weeks ago

Glenrothes

The blokes that can't get a date are thinking about sex. The blokes that had sex the night before a date aren't thinking about sex - they are having sex. Thinking about sex isn't having sex. Do blokes (tall blokes included) think about having sex when they are having sex?

The stone that the builder refuse will always be the head corner stone.

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By *urious_CB22Man
11 weeks ago

Cambridge

Within moments of meeting someone you know if they are someone you would want to have sex with, even if it never happens. So yes, within seconds I might be thinking of sex with someone. By the first date I am thinking how I can make that happen.

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By *atandjayCouple
11 weeks ago

Brighton

Yes we found socials frustrating because we wanted sex but not sure how the dates felt

Now we like to just get naked and play

Have a drink after lol

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
11 weeks ago

somewhere

Only ever been on two dates with two potential partners and married both of them, not at the same time obviously.

First time 25 years ago, I don't think we did the deed until about 3rd date in and second time, we met on here but was a view to dating not just shagging, I remember saying to him (romance was not and still not my thing, I just came back from the loo) "I have a hole in the crutch of tights, wanna go into the car and get frisky?"...we tried but it wasn't until a month later we actually had sex.

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By *weetCherryWoman
11 weeks ago

London

Depends on the date, and the communication we’ve had until that day. If we are familiar with each other and meeting face to face for the first time, I will think about sex if I feel chemistry. If it’s a person I’ve barely spoken to beforehand, I will be too nervous to think about sex

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By *hagTonight OP Man
10 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"Depends on the date, and the communication we’ve had until that day. If we are familiar with each other and meeting face to face for the first time, I will think about sex if I feel chemistry. If it’s a person I’ve barely spoken to beforehand, I will be too nervous to think about sex

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Hi sweet, yes, you are right there, it depends on the date too

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By *lder.Woman
10 weeks ago

Not Local

Men think about sex all the time, first date or not don't they.

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By *ersona101Man
10 weeks ago

Letchworth

"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.

I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date?

Yes!

And in other news bears DO shit in the woods.

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By *weetkitten65Woman
10 weeks ago

Halifax

Hmmmm if it happens it happens....

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By *aseylee324Couple
10 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Why would I go on a date with someone I wasn't considering having sex with?

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By *herry delightWoman
10 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I wouldn't be on a date as I would be to busy having sex.

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By *herry delightWoman
10 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

"I wouldn't be on a date as I would be to busy having sex.

Whan did this site become a dating site not a swinging site?

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By *otcplmidsCouple
10 weeks ago

none

When I was single and dating I used to wonder about the cock size, not necessary shagging them in my mind xx

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By *rispyDuckMan
10 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

A fab date: yes I go prepared, high possibility might end up having sex

😈

Vanilla date: No I don’t go with sex on my mind, I go with ‘this is just a social’ mind set, if I’m horny I drop off the kids before I leave the house 😂🤣

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By *arathonfire82Man
10 weeks ago

eversley

What I think about and what actually happens are 2 different things. Of course if I have got to the stage of wanting to meet, the meet is to see how we connect and test the chemistry. This helps both parties to decide if there could be anything sexual. So yes going back to the question, it’s on my mind for sure.

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By *neeyedwillieMan
10 weeks ago

Darlington

So....I'm poly. This will be relevant in a moment.

So yes, I do think about aex in the first date.

I met my wife 28 years ago on a blind date. Had spoken for 4 hours on the phone the night before. No camera phones or photos over the Internet back then.

Litterally spent 4 hours talking to a stranger that night who personality wise I clicked with and I so wanted her to be hot.

Second I saw her...oh yes I wanted to smash. She did too but we waited till the 3rd date. Still happily married to this day and yes, we have a couples account on here as well.

I am however encouraged to date other women and do. Was dating someone earlier this year but disnt work out in the end. Assuming I find someone else who wants to date, yes, I will think about sex on the first date as well. Its an important part of a relationship to me. Why not think about it? I don't date to make platonic freinds.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
10 weeks ago

London

"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.

I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date?

In general yes I would think about it. If I'm meeting someone from fab then very much yes, that's the only reason I'm meeting them.

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By *irthandgirthMan
10 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I try to get most of the 'thinking about sex' out of the way before a date, unless the conversation goes that way.

I'm mostly trying not ignore that little inner voice that's says 'this is a good idea'.. because it usually isn't, Im also moderating my dark sense of humour, probably thinking about holding in a fart, trying not to say anything too stupid, pay attention to what she is saying as well as working out how to get the word floccinaucinihilipilification into a normal conversation.

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By *aomilatteCouple
10 weeks ago

Midlands

"I saw a fun quote about it and I would say that, yes of course we do, because of the testosterone.

I do that, do you and ladies, what do you think about it, do we think about sex on the first date?

Do many of your first dates lead to sex?

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