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Depends on my mood, my available time, the thread topic. If it’s a photo challenge I try to acknowledge everyone who’s done a pic cos I know that takes effort and I appreciate it, it’s so fun seeing people’s ideas.
Trolls mostly I steer clear unless I’m grumpy. Then I’m annoyed with myself for biting.
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"Is it depends a total cop out answer?
Depends on my mood, my available time, the thread topic. If it’s a photo challenge I try to acknowledge everyone who’s done a pic cos I know that takes effort and I appreciate it, it’s so fun seeing people’s ideas.
Trolls mostly I steer clear unless I’m grumpy. Then I’m annoyed with myself for biting.
What about you, OP?
Mrs TMN x"I try and reply to everyone. Sometimes if someone gives an answer that is similar to a previous reply I'll Emoji it. If someone has genuinely made an effort I like them to know it's appreciated but try not to made it seem like a shameful post self bump. | |||
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"Is it depends a total cop out answer?
Depends on my mood, my available time, the thread topic. If it’s a photo challenge I try to acknowledge everyone who’s done a pic cos I know that takes effort and I appreciate it, it’s so fun seeing people’s ideas.
Trolls mostly I steer clear unless I’m grumpy. Then I’m annoyed with myself for biting.
What about you, OP?
Mrs TMN x
I try and reply to everyone. Sometimes if someone gives an answer that is similar to a previous reply I'll Emoji it. If someone has genuinely made an effort I like them to know it's appreciated but try not to made it seem like a shameful post self bump."Why is that shameful? X | |||
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"How much time and effort to you put into replies on your posts. Do you answer everyone that contributes and make it personalised. Do you give an acknowledging thumbs up or other Emoji or do you instantly forget about it and move on to your next thread? What about those determined to cause fuckery. Do you feed or starve the trolls? Do you purposely ignore all comments posted by your fab nemesis? Spill the beans x " I'm here for a good time so no I'm not interested in the trouble makers ,so try not to comment on the popcorn threads. | |||
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"It depends. Some require a cursory nod or a fire-and-forget response. For the Nocturnal Threads I used to reply to •each• and •every• post because that was the nature of the thread. I think I've understood your query." I don't think I've been on a nocturnal thread. Usually I'm working at night and think it's strange to add to a nocturnal thread during the day. My brain works in mysterious ways. Thanks for the input x | |||
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"Is it depends a total cop out answer?
Depends on my mood, my available time, the thread topic. If it’s a photo challenge I try to acknowledge everyone who’s done a pic cos I know that takes effort and I appreciate it, it’s so fun seeing people’s ideas.
Trolls mostly I steer clear unless I’m grumpy. Then I’m annoyed with myself for biting.
What about you, OP?
Mrs TMN x
I try and reply to everyone. Sometimes if someone gives an answer that is similar to a previous reply I'll Emoji it. If someone has genuinely made an effort I like them to know it's appreciated but try not to made it seem like a shameful post self bump.
Why is that shameful? X"I did type shameless but my phone switched it but it also works I guess. Sometimes I feel like I'm doing the "hey I'm over here guys, be interested in me" thing by bumping. | |||
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"How much time and effort to you put into replies on your posts. Do you answer everyone that contributes and make it personalised. Do you give an acknowledging thumbs up or other Emoji or do you instantly forget about it and move on to your next thread? What about those determined to cause fuckery. Do you feed or starve the trolls? Do you purposely ignore all comments posted by your fab nemesis? Spill the beans x I'm here for a good time so no I'm not interested in the trouble makers ,so try not to comment on the popcorn threads. " Do you read them or avoid like they plague when you sense they are taking the wrong turn? | |||
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"Is it depends a total cop out answer?
Depends on my mood, my available time, the thread topic. If it’s a photo challenge I try to acknowledge everyone who’s done a pic cos I know that takes effort and I appreciate it, it’s so fun seeing people’s ideas.
Trolls mostly I steer clear unless I’m grumpy. Then I’m annoyed with myself for biting.
What about you, OP?
Mrs TMN x
I try and reply to everyone. Sometimes if someone gives an answer that is similar to a previous reply I'll Emoji it. If someone has genuinely made an effort I like them to know it's appreciated but try not to made it seem like a shameful post self bump.
Why is that shameful? X
I did type shameless but my phone switched it but it also works I guess. Sometimes I feel like I'm doing the "hey I'm over here guys, be interested in me" thing by bumping.
"Is that a bad thing? I kinda figure interaction is what the forum’s all about. X | |||
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"How much time and effort to you put into replies on your posts. Do you answer everyone that contributes and make it personalised. Do you give an acknowledging thumbs up or other Emoji or do you instantly forget about it and move on to your next thread? What about those determined to cause fuckery. Do you feed or starve the trolls? Do you purposely ignore all comments posted by your fab nemesis? Spill the beans x I'm here for a good time so no I'm not interested in the trouble makers ,so try not to comment on the popcorn threads. Do you read them or avoid like they plague when you sense they are taking the wrong turn?" I do read some of it but when certain people get involved it degenerates very quickly . | |||
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"How much time and effort to you put into replies on your posts. Do you answer everyone that contributes and make it personalised. Do you give an acknowledging thumbs up or other Emoji or do you instantly forget about it and move on to your next thread? What about those determined to cause fuckery. Do you feed or starve the trolls? Do you purposely ignore all comments posted by your fab nemesis? Spill the beans x I'm here for a good time so no I'm not interested in the trouble makers ,so try not to comment on the popcorn threads. Do you read them or avoid like they plague when you sense they are taking the wrong turn?I do read some of it but when certain people get involved it degenerates very quickly ." And from what I can see it's always the same people and oddly enough women . | |||
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"Is it depends a total cop out answer?
Depends on my mood, my available time, the thread topic. If it’s a photo challenge I try to acknowledge everyone who’s done a pic cos I know that takes effort and I appreciate it, it’s so fun seeing people’s ideas.
Trolls mostly I steer clear unless I’m grumpy. Then I’m annoyed with myself for biting.
What about you, OP?
Mrs TMN x
I try and reply to everyone. Sometimes if someone gives an answer that is similar to a previous reply I'll Emoji it. If someone has genuinely made an effort I like them to know it's appreciated but try not to made it seem like a shameful post self bump.
Why is that shameful? X
I did type shameless but my phone switched it but it also works I guess. Sometimes I feel like I'm doing the "hey I'm over here guys, be interested in me" thing by bumping.
Is that a bad thing? I kinda figure interaction is what the forum’s all about. X"I think ot depends on the poster. For some people on here this interaction is the only interaction they might have. I think one of the positives of the fab forums is that you get what you want out of it | |||
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"How much time and effort to you put into replies on your posts. Do you answer everyone that contributes and make it personalised. Do you give an acknowledging thumbs up or other Emoji or do you instantly forget about it and move on to your next thread? What about those determined to cause fuckery. Do you feed or starve the trolls? Do you purposely ignore all comments posted by your fab nemesis? Spill the beans x I'm here for a good time so no I'm not interested in the trouble makers ,so try not to comment on the popcorn threads. Do you read them or avoid like they plague when you sense they are taking the wrong turn?I do read some of it but when certain people get involved it degenerates very quickly .And from what I can see it's always the same people and oddly enough women ." Trying to start conflict or just sharing in jokes? | |||
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"Is it depends a total cop out answer?
Depends on my mood, my available time, the thread topic. If it’s a photo challenge I try to acknowledge everyone who’s done a pic cos I know that takes effort and I appreciate it, it’s so fun seeing people’s ideas.
Trolls mostly I steer clear unless I’m grumpy. Then I’m annoyed with myself for biting.
What about you, OP?
Mrs TMN x
I try and reply to everyone. Sometimes if someone gives an answer that is similar to a previous reply I'll Emoji it. If someone has genuinely made an effort I like them to know it's appreciated but try not to made it seem like a shameful post self bump.
Why is that shameful? X
I did type shameless but my phone switched it but it also works I guess. Sometimes I feel like I'm doing the "hey I'm over here guys, be interested in me" thing by bumping.
Is that a bad thing? I kinda figure interaction is what the forum’s all about. X
I think ot depends on the poster. For some people on here this interaction is the only interaction they might have. I think one of the positives of the fab forums is that you get what you want out of it "That makes sense x | |||
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"How much time and effort to you put into replies on your posts. Do you answer everyone that contributes and make it personalised. Do you give an acknowledging thumbs up or other Emoji or do you instantly forget about it and move on to your next thread? What about those determined to cause fuckery. Do you feed or starve the trolls? Do you purposely ignore all comments posted by your fab nemesis? Spill the beans x " I try to engage with all  | |||
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"How much time and effort to you put into replies on your posts. Do you answer everyone that contributes and make it personalised. Do you give an acknowledging thumbs up or other Emoji or do you instantly forget about it and move on to your next thread? What about those determined to cause fuckery. Do you feed or starve the trolls? Do you purposely ignore all comments posted by your fab nemesis? Spill the beans x I try to engage with all "You are rather engaging x | |||
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"It depends. Some require a cursory nod or a fire-and-forget response. For the Nocturnal Threads I used to reply to •each• and •every• post because that was the nature of the thread. I think I've understood your query. · I don't think I've been on a nocturnal thread. Usually I'm working at night and think it's strange to add to a nocturnal thread during the day. My brain works in mysterious ways. Thanks for the input x " • The Nocturnal Thread usually commenced at 10pm. I really need to kick start this again. I'm currently recruiting for one or two hosts. | |||
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"I’ve noticed some OP’s are mindful and make an effort to reach out to all contributors to their thread. Others seem to be more selective and tend to only reach out to only to whose they want to. That’s often women and couples (from the single guys) or someone they may be more familiar/friendly with. " Ahhh starting threads to engage with the ladies. Now that's slick. I didn't thinkof that. Do you start threads often and if so how do you reply? | |||
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"It depends. Some require a cursory nod or a fire-and-forget response. For the Nocturnal Threads I used to reply to •each• and •every• post because that was the nature of the thread. I think I've understood your query. · I don't think I've been on a nocturnal thread. Usually I'm working at night and think it's strange to add to a nocturnal thread during the day. My brain works in mysterious ways. Thanks for the input x • The Nocturnal Thread usually commenced at 10pm. I really need to kick start this again. I'm currently recruiting for one or two hosts." Ah you mean making a 10pm thread I'm always up at that time so I wouldn't mind helping out. | |||
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Nope, don't like the thought of that.
I do tend to just switch off my phone after I've posted and then reply hours later. Honestly, I think I may have a problem | |||
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"I’ve noticed some OP’s are mindful and make an effort to reach out to all contributors to their thread. Others seem to be more selective and tend to only reach out to only to whose they want to. That’s often women and couples (from the single guys) or someone they may be more familiar/friendly with. Ahhh starting threads to engage with the ladies. Now that's slick. I didn't thinkof that. Do you start threads often and if so how do you reply?" Not a frequent thread starter. In my fortnight or so on the forums I’ve started maybe 3. Two garnered a lot of traction but the other went down like a lead balloon. I think subject matter and time of posting are large factors in determining how a thread often goes. My threads tend to be more of a light hearted nature. The one of a slightly sexual nature crashed and burned. | |||
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"It varies. Sometimes I'll post a thread and start off replying but then I'll have to work. Or I get dickstracted. If it's a more thinky thread or a... deeper one I'll try and make sure I reply to as many as possible... it's difficult if they've given a very brief answer. I don't reply to all posts because I know how much I dislike receiving lacklustre out of obligation replies - I'd rather someone didn't bother than give me a brief emote and give others a decent reply. I'm also cautious because I know those who'll understand my sense of humour and those who won't get it. " I love your threads and the effort you put into them however even with my dicklexia I noticed your under the radar smut missy!!! | |||
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"It depends. Some require a cursory nod or a fire-and-forget response. For the Nocturnal Threads I used to reply to •each• and •every• post because that was the nature of the thread. I think I've understood your query. · I don't think I've been on a nocturnal thread. Usually I'm working at night and think it's strange to add to a nocturnal thread during the day. My brain works in mysterious ways. Thanks for the input x • The Nocturnal Thread usually commenced at 10pm. I really need to kick start this again. I'm currently recruiting for one or two hosts. Ah you mean making a 10pm thread I'm always up at that time so I wouldn't mind helping out." • Yes https://m.fabswingers.com/forum-search/Late%2bLate%2bNocturnal%2bThread%25c2%25a9%25e2%2584%25a2 | |||
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"I’ve noticed some OP’s are mindful and make an effort to reach out to all contributors to their thread. Others seem to be more selective and tend to only reach out to only to whose they want to. That’s often women and couples (from the single guys) or someone they may be more familiar/friendly with. Ahhh starting threads to engage with the ladies. Now that's slick. I didn't thinkof that. Do you start threads often and if so how do you reply? Not a frequent thread starter. In my fortnight or so on the forums I’ve started maybe 3. Two garnered a lot of traction but the other went down like a lead balloon. I think subject matter and time of posting are large factors in determining how a thread often goes. My threads tend to be more of a light hearted nature. The one of a slightly sexual nature crashed and burned. " Wait until you get a no reply thread. That how you know you've truly arrived on the forums. | |||
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"It varies. Sometimes I'll post a thread and start off replying but then I'll have to work. Or I get dickstracted. If it's a more thinky thread or a... deeper one I'll try and make sure I reply to as many as possible... it's difficult if they've given a very brief answer. I don't reply to all posts because I know how much I dislike receiving lacklustre out of obligation replies - I'd rather someone didn't bother than give me a brief emote and give others a decent reply. I'm also cautious because I know those who'll understand my sense of humour and those who won't get it. I love your threads and the effort you put into them however even with my dicklexia I noticed your under the radar smut missy!!!" Ha, I'm going to start one soon that's not even slightly under the radar smut. I've been trying to dial it down some what as it leads to daydreaming and me falling in dicksand. | |||
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"I've rarely started threads that require a lot of further input from me. If it gains any traction I might keep it flowing with a few humourous or relevant replies. I accept that some thread topics do require the op to respond but how often have we seen kiss/fuck threads where more than half the replies are getting the op themselves and it just becomes laughable. I can be selective in who I choose to respond to but that's based simply on whether or not I respect their forum opinions on other subjects and if they are trying to get a reaction from me or not. I've probably started 200 threads over the years and I can count on one hand the number of those with more than 30 replies and just one that reached the max 175 responses so I don't bump my own threads or try to curry favour in my replies. " I think id prefer a thread that had genuine replies from people that had an opinion on the mater but fizzled out at 30 then one that was banal and reached the 175 goal. | |||
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"It varies. Sometimes I'll post a thread and start off replying but then I'll have to work. Or I get dickstracted. If it's a more thinky thread or a... deeper one I'll try and make sure I reply to as many as possible... it's difficult if they've given a very brief answer. I don't reply to all posts because I know how much I dislike receiving lacklustre out of obligation replies - I'd rather someone didn't bother than give me a brief emote and give others a decent reply. I'm also cautious because I know those who'll understand my sense of humour and those who won't get it. I love your threads and the effort you put into them however even with my dicklexia I noticed your under the radar smut missy!!! Ha, I'm going to start one soon that's not even slightly under the radar smut. I've been trying to dial it down some what as it leads to daydreaming and me falling in dicksand. "I'm sure a few on here will have something for you to grab hold off as they pull you out. | |||
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"Everyone knows that guys are only allowed to reply to the hot ladies!" *rapidly scrolls through replies to tally the male response* | |||
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"It depends. Some require a cursory nod or a fire-and-forget response. For the Nocturnal Threads I used to reply to •each• and •every• post because that was the nature of the thread. I think I've understood your query. · I don't think I've been on a nocturnal thread. Usually I'm working at night and think it's strange to add to a nocturnal thread during the day. My brain works in mysterious ways. Thanks for the input x • The Nocturnal Thread usually commenced at 10pm. I really need to kick start this again. I'm currently recruiting for one or two hosts. Ah you mean making a 10pm thread I'm always up at that time so I wouldn't mind helping out. • Yes https://m.fabswingers.com/forum-search/Late%2bLate%2bNocturnal%2bThread%25c2%25a9%25e2%2584%25a2" Then I'd definitely help out if you'd like I practicly don't sleep. | |||
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"I’ve noticed some OP’s are mindful and make an effort to reach out to all contributors to their thread. Others seem to be more selective and tend to only reach out to only to whose they want to. That’s often women and couples (from the single guys) or someone they may be more familiar/friendly with. Ahhh starting threads to engage with the ladies. Now that's slick. I didn't thinkof that. Do you start threads often and if so how do you reply? Not a frequent thread starter. In my fortnight or so on the forums I’ve started maybe 3. Two garnered a lot of traction but the other went down like a lead balloon. I think subject matter and time of posting are large factors in determining how a thread often goes. My threads tend to be more of a light hearted nature. The one of a slightly sexual nature crashed and burned. Wait until you get a no reply thread. That how you know you've truly arrived on the forums. " We’ve all been there. When that’s happened to me mr likes to bump it to mock me  | |||
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"I try to engage in the ones I make up and I tend to stay away from the troll baity ones. Get a bit annoyed when a post goes down like a lead balloon 😄" We've all had lead ballooners. Once I posted a typo in the title and then the post was full of snide digs about it. Had a few that didn't get any replies whatsoever. | |||
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"I'll always reply if someone quotes me, feels a little rude not to but then I'm a terrible people pleaser. Maybe I'll try to ignore a few
Nope, don't like the thought of that.
I do tend to just switch off my phone after I've posted and then reply hours later. Honestly, I think I may have a problem "I've done the return hours later and seen dozens of messages and thought fuckkkkkkkk!!!!! Sometimes some slip by me like yours did so sorry for the tardy reply. | |||
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"I used to reply to everyone and give personalised responses but I come on fab these days when I’m bored or when I am playful. So I don’t have time always to reply to everyone. " I've seen those days when you've got 3 or 4 on the go at once, Holy moley!!! | |||
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"I used to reply to everyone and give personalised responses but I come on fab these days when I’m bored or when I am playful. So I don’t have time always to reply to everyone. I've seen those days when you've got 3 or 4 on the go at once, Holy moley!!!" You should hear the inside of my brain. | |||
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"I always say to myself i won't reply to all, but then i feel guilty for 'skipping' people, so inevitably i end up replying to all, but at some stage my real life kicks in and then I forget about the thread
Sometimes i don't post a thread because I know i don't have time to monitor /reply "Same here with the monitor/replies. I remember days when I felt like I'd been ignored on thread but some are way too epic to reply to everyone, not mine obviously  | |||
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"I used to reply to everyone and give personalised responses but I come on fab these days when I’m bored or when I am playful. So I don’t have time always to reply to everyone. I've seen those days when you've got 3 or 4 on the go at once, Holy moley!!! You should hear the inside of my brain. " I always get great thread ideas when I can't use the forums. I should write them down like a saddo next time I've got the boot of unlos'd myself. | |||
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"In terms of people that I don’t like or don’t like me- I ignore most of them. Because otherwise it gets all their pals come in and make comments and it’s just like 🥱 I don’t have a nemesis. Just some people that I wouldn’t get on with in person. " I've got one. Then sometimes I'm like "wellllll she's not that bad" fortunately she always releases her natural bitch streak on me. Funny thing is that most of my best friends started off as my nemesises. | |||
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"Depends whatbl kind of thread I put up. If it's a conversation one I try to answer everyone but I get tired. If it's just a general one I will just add to it" So what happens to a thread when tbe question has been answered (ie your appointment time) | |||
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"Depends whatbl kind of thread I put up. If it's a conversation one I try to answer everyone but I get tired. If it's just a general one I will just add to it So what happens to a thread when tbe question has been answered (ie your appointment time) " Guess it just dies | |||
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"If it's a thread that interests me or I can resonate with, I will reply with all the information I can that is relevant (or I think it is). I rarely join in with FAF type threads anymore as it's pointless as I don't meet sexually anymore and more often that not get over looked, which is absolutely fine as I'm a very fine cup of tea, not everyone likes my flavour and I'm cool with that lol x" I tend not to do faf ones or any that require me to be messaged in private. | |||
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"In terms of people that I don’t like or don’t like me- I ignore most of them. Because otherwise it gets all their pals come in and make comments and it’s just like 🥱 I don’t have a nemesis. Just some people that I wouldn’t get on with in person. I've got one. Then sometimes I'm like "wellllll she's not that bad" fortunately she always releases her natural bitch streak on me. Funny thing is that most of my best friends started off as my nemesises. " no I’ve never had da enemies to lovers story | |||
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"In terms of people that I don’t like or don’t like me- I ignore most of them. Because otherwise it gets all their pals come in and make comments and it’s just like 🥱 I don’t have a nemesis. Just some people that I wouldn’t get on with in person. " How many of those people that you think you don’t get on with have you actually met? | |||
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"In terms of people that I don’t like or don’t like me- I ignore most of them. Because otherwise it gets all their pals come in and make comments and it’s just like 🥱 I don’t have a nemesis. Just some people that I wouldn’t get on with in person. How many of those people that you think you don’t get on with have you actually met? "3
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"In terms of people that I don’t like or don’t like me- I ignore most of them. Because otherwise it gets all their pals come in and make comments and it’s just like 🥱 I don’t have a nemesis. Just some people that I wouldn’t get on with in person. How many of those people that you think you don’t get on with have you actually met?
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"In terms of people that I don’t like or don’t like me- I ignore most of them. Because otherwise it gets all their pals come in and make comments and it’s just like 🥱 I don’t have a nemesis. Just some people that I wouldn’t get on with in person. How many of those people that you think you don’t get on with have you actually met?
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"In terms of people that I don’t like or don’t like me- I ignore most of them. Because otherwise it gets all their pals come in and make comments and it’s just like 🥱 I don’t have a nemesis. Just some people that I wouldn’t get on with in person. How many of those people that you think you don’t get on with have you actually met?
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"How much time and effort to you put into replies on your posts. Do you answer everyone that contributes and make it personalised. Do you give an acknowledging thumbs up or other Emoji or do you instantly forget about it and move on to your next thread? What about those determined to cause fuckery. Do you feed or starve the trolls? Do you purposely ignore all comments posted by your fab nemesis? Spill the beans x I'm here for a good time so no I'm not interested in the trouble makers ,so try not to comment on the popcorn threads. Do you read them or avoid like they plague when you sense they are taking the wrong turn?I do read some of it but when certain people get involved it degenerates very quickly .And from what I can see it's always the same people and oddly enough women . Trying to start conflict or just sharing in jokes? " Oh definitely starting conflict ,putting a great argument mind but always heated. | |||
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"How much time and effort to you put into replies on your posts. Do you answer everyone that contributes and make it personalised. Do you give an acknowledging thumbs up or other Emoji or do you instantly forget about it and move on to your next thread? What about those determined to cause fuckery. Do you feed or starve the trolls? Do you purposely ignore all comments posted by your fab nemesis? Spill the beans x " In regards to a fab nemesis, there are lots of people I'm comfortable ignoring and not just because of their forum behaviour. I ignore people including some very prolific posters who seem to think the world revolves around them and their experiences which is fine and well if they were capable of accepting that not everyone has had those experiences or may see things from a very different angle. I ignore posters that many others seem to like and wag their tail on the 10 threads a day they start. I don't find their productivity levels annoying but I struggle to understand how they can be so snidey, demeaning and entrenched but still win the popular vote. There are others I ignore because of their actions away from fab and the vastly different personas they have in private. | |||
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"Depends on the replies. If they’re interesting or pose questions. Also depends on how much effort I put into the post in the first place and if it’s something that means something to me, plus how busy I am with normal shiz… "Yep, I get that. If people are giving you something to bounce back off. | |||
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