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By *mmaleia OP   Woman
25 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Would you still meet them?

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
25 weeks ago

somewhere

Nope, they can keep their germs to themselves thank you very much, if it's a sex date it can wait and if it's a date, date, same applies.

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By *929Man
25 weeks ago

bedlington

I’d still meet to hang out as believe if it’s going around your going to get it anyways but wouldn’t fancy doing owt more with someone full of cauld like haha

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By *ake_or_deathMan
25 weeks ago

Manchester

No. Especially if they'd not done a Covid test to confirm whether it was actually a cold.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I have zero patience for ill people, they can just stay away.

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By *dam1971Man
25 weeks ago

Bedford

Depends, if it was a social and outside, I probably would.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
25 weeks ago

Tamworth

No I’d reschedule.

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By *layisbetterwithLaughterMan
25 weeks ago

Stourbridge

No. I'd be sympathetic and be happy to rearrange, but no. Keep your mank to yourself, I get enough colds off my own back thanks.

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By *idlandiaMan
25 weeks ago

Birmingham

Many years ago off a different site, I had a meet that was date specific, literally couldn't be put off a few days.

Was warned she was ill but wanted to go ahead.

We chose doggy so she wasn't breathing and coughing in my face...

All worked out well but under other circumstances I'd rearrange.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
25 weeks ago

Southampton


"Would you still meet them?"

Absolutely not !

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By *hunky GentMan
25 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Do they have a hazmat suit?

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By *ozzybear1981Man
25 weeks ago

preston

Anything can be rearranged if needed to but if they had or I was sick then no absolutely not

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
25 weeks ago

Cumbria


"Would you still meet them?"

No, we'd reschedule.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
25 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

Nope but would make arrangements for when they were better

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

25 weeks ago

East Sussex

Nope.

I used to get annoyed at the people who dragged themselves in to work with heavy colds and martyred their way through the day. We got sick pay, they weren't indispensible just flaming stay at home for 48 hours

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By *ittlebirdWoman
25 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I would see them another time 👍🏻

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By *oneyBee200Woman
25 weeks ago

Kent

Have enough with customers spreading germs so won't meet if someone is full of cold. Postpone, it's not the end of the world

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By *oodlepotMan
25 weeks ago

cheltenham

Nope, I'd wait until their feeling better

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By *izandpaulCouple
25 weeks ago

merseyside

If they had made an effort to meet, arranged babysitters etc would happily meet for a social but not play.

Someone with a dribbly, snotty nose isn't exactly a turn on.

But for a social, fine, its a cold not Ebola.

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By *olfandtazCouple
25 weeks ago

Bristol

Nope, we would put it off for another time

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By *host63Man
25 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

If they still wa tex to meet yes

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By * WillisMan
25 weeks ago

London

Nope

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By *host63Man
25 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

If they still wanted to meet yes. But only socially

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By *icecouple561Couple
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25 weeks ago

East Sussex

Now I'm getting flash backs to the woman who would come to work streaming, insist on making tea, sneeze and cough into her hand then pick my mug up by the rim instead of the handle🤮.

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By *rispyDuckMan
25 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Nope 🙂‍↔️

Just reschedule

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

The biggest reason I wouldn't meet them is if they thought it was a date, second no I wouldn't meet them if they were unwell.

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By *orphia2003Woman
25 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Reschedule.

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By *ymClassDropoutMan
25 weeks ago

Berkshire

If I am unwell the last thing on my mind is sex so I would probably be the one who suggests a rearrangement anyway.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
25 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"Would you still meet them?"

I’d reschedule. I’m worth waiting for.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
25 weeks ago

Wales


"Would you still meet them?

I’d reschedule. I’m worth waiting for."

Spoken like a true winner of the best cock comp

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"Would you still meet them?"

Yes… in thirteen weeks time. (The usual time it takes to meet up in here…) 😏

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
25 weeks ago

Ends

If it was a first date? No way. If it was a partner or someone I’m dating? Maybe to look after them but unlikely tbh.

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
25 weeks ago

London

Only if their husbands name was Cold

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Central

No. I prefer to stay home if I'm ill and infectious and I'd like others to do the same.

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By *imples24Man
25 weeks ago

tamworth

No one ain’t sexy with a full on cold. Eyes and nose running, coughing and spluttering everywhere.

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By *onkeynutWoman
25 weeks ago

somewhere

Depends, if it’s someone I know well then I’d tell them I was sick and give them the choice and they do the same.

I’ve met a fwb when I wasn’t well, I’d lost my voice totally. Made for some ‘interesting’ noises

I also met him when I had covid, l just thought it was a cold.

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By *issmorganWoman
25 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

No, I'm asthmatic and I wouldn't want to risk it.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Nah, couldn’t be arsed listening to them sniffing constantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"Would you still meet them?"

Surfing all year round in cold water, eating a wholesome diet of organic vegetarian food and refusing to take the “covid” jab I have an immune system like a steel clad Land Rover.. so yes of course, haven’t had a cold in over 10 years!

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By *ira2024Woman
25 weeks ago

SW

I would reschedule it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
25 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

No.

Certainly not for sex.

Who saliva swaps with someone who can't breath through their nose and is harbouring thousands if not millions of cold viruseseses waiting to invade your body and make you feel like shite.

Even if you weren't going to catch anything you still have to put up with them snotting and snorting everywhere and whining and nose blowing and talking like you are doing them up the notrils

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By *oubleswing2019Man
25 weeks ago

Colchester

Good grief no. I would want them laid up and recovering and getting better. That's the priority there. My needs are not that important in that context.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
25 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I would postpone. Don't want anyone snotting all over me

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By *naswingdressWoman
25 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If it was a first date? No way. If it was a partner or someone I’m dating? Maybe to look after them but unlikely tbh. "

This.

And only after I confirmed it wasn't Covid

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By *r lotharioMan
25 weeks ago

newcastle-under-lyme

full of cold what?

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By *he Silver FuxMan
25 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"Would you still meet them?"

I’d bring decongestants, N95’s for both of us and it’s doggy style only. The box of tissues at your end.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

At my age just having a cold is the least concerning illness.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"Depends, if it’s someone I know well then I’d tell them I was sick and give them the choice and they do the same.

I’ve met a fwb when I wasn’t well, I’d lost my voice totally. Made for some ‘interesting’ noises

I also met him when I had covid, l just thought it was a cold."

I wonder what it would be like to have a meal opposite someone on a date and not have to say a single word to eachother. Just looking into someone's eyes whilst eating. Would it form a connection?

I remember when an artist did this where she sat at a table and people sat opposite her and looked directly into her eyes for 10 minutes. Some of them ended up crying.

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By *iker JackMan
25 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

It depends what the date involved doing

It depends if they said they were too unwell to make it or thought they shouldn’t or they didn’t want to pass anything on

I would ask them what they wanted to do and talk to them about it. Can always be cancelled and re made

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By *oiluvfunMan
25 weeks ago

Penrith


"Would you still meet them?"

Would be better to reschedule. I’m a tactile guy, and like to kiss, so……

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
25 weeks ago

Wherever

I wouldn’t but I’d appreciate their honesty for telling me in advance. Nothing worse than turning up for a date to find out in person. Awkward.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No. Whilst I'd probably just shrug off a cold, I have plenty of friends who would be wiped out if I passed it on to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

An easy No

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By *allipygousMan
25 weeks ago

Leicester


"Nope.

I used to get annoyed at the people who dragged themselves in to work with heavy colds and martyred their way through the day. We got sick pay, they weren't indispensible just flaming stay at home for 48 hours "

"Why the hell have you come in?!"

"I get bored at home *cough, sneeze, splutter*"

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By *allipygousMan
25 weeks ago

Leicester

No, had similar with a FB three weeks ago. Messaged saying she was a little unwell but could still meet. I declined and said I wanted to meet when she was 100%.

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By *obilebottomMan
25 weeks ago

All over

Absolutely not and anyone with any sign of it should tell the other.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Chichester


"Would you still meet them?"

No as I am a carer for a very chronically unwell parent with barely an immune system left

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By *agatoXXXMan
25 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

Why not, I've got an old NATO NBC suit lying about somewhere.

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By *rishman75Man
25 weeks ago

Chessington/epsom

wouldn't bother me at all .

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By *eliWoman
25 weeks ago

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A first date? No. Probably not a second or third either? A partner? Yes. But I'd change the date slightly so I'm cooking for them.

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By *ad NannaWoman
25 weeks ago

East London

Not if we're going to kiss.

A cold could floor me for weeks and I don't need that in my life.

Last cold I had lasted weeks and I still had sinus and throat troubles when I picked up Covid.

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By *ad NannaWoman
25 weeks ago

East London


"A first date? No. Probably not a second or third either? A partner? Yes. But I'd change the date slightly so I'm cooking for them."

If it was a partner I'd run them a bath, bathe them, warm the towels, massage their aching muscles, make soup and give medication to.

Cherry Lucozade on tap

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