FabSwingers.com forum: All or nothing

By *exy Pretty Feet OP Couple
15 weeks ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

What does it take for someone to be struck off your 'list' of those you positively know you want to meet?

For me, if I've agreed to meet someone who then doesn't follow thru on finalising arrangements then it's usually one chance and they're out.

How ruthless or not are you?

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By *aven.Woman
15 weeks ago

Not the North West...

I'm not bothered if we have to rearrange, life happens.

I can be put off for good with them doing certain things beforehand, but I'm not saying what.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
15 weeks ago

Newmill

"I'm not bothered if we have to rearrange, life happens.

I can be put off for good with them doing certain things beforehand, but I'm not saying what. "

I'm going to make an educated guess that kicking a puppy in the face would probably do it.

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By *aven.Woman
15 weeks ago

Not the North West...

"I'm not bothered if we have to rearrange, life happens.

I can be put off for good with them doing certain things beforehand, but I'm not saying what.

I'm going to make an educated guess that kicking a puppy in the face would probably do it."

Nah

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By *asterMeliodasMan
15 weeks ago

Newmill

"I'm not bothered if we have to rearrange, life happens.

I can be put off for good with them doing certain things beforehand, but I'm not saying what.

I'm going to make an educated guess that kicking a puppy in the face would probably do it.

Nah"

Wait, someone kicking a puppy in the face wouldn't necessarily rule them out for you? Damn. XD

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By *batMan
15 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Kicking a puppy would do it, but not pushing a cyclist in a ditch!!!

Gbat

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By *illy IdolMan
15 weeks ago

Midlands

I'm pretty easy going but if they block me then there's no return. I can be quite stubborn

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By *olfandtazCouple
15 weeks ago

Bristol

Txt speak in a first message

Speak only to taz, I check the mails more often than not

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By *elix SightedMan
15 weeks ago

Cloud 8

People only get 8 or 9 chances with me. After that they’re on the list of people who only get another few chances. But if they breach that - wow. Big steps. They get ignored until they message again.

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By *eliWoman
15 weeks ago

I'd say I'm fairly easy going but simple things can put me off easily. Like certain words being used, unironically.

Or behaviour. Forum posts.

I'm really easy going though.

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By *affron40Woman
15 weeks ago

manchester

It takes about 2 years to get on a list so it’s then quite a lot to then be removed

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By *asterMeliodasMan
15 weeks ago

Newmill

It generally takes a lot, but there are certain world views that would immediately put someone on my no-way list.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Over familiarity and constant messaging turn me off pretty quickly

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By *aven.Woman
15 weeks ago

Not the North West...

"Over familiarity and constant messaging turn me off pretty quickly "

Neediness! God I hate that.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"Over familiarity and constant messaging turn me off pretty quickly

Neediness! God I hate that. "

Yeah, so cringe

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

For me, it's if they go overboard on the compliments. I don't receive them well and not a massive fan of constant love-bombing before we've even met.

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By *ickle-Lilly-WillyMan
15 weeks ago

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They say some problematic shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

"They say some problematic shit.

Yeah, like saying they've never seen Rocky before

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By *ake_or_deathMan
15 weeks ago

Manchester

"What does it take for someone to be struck off your 'list' of those you positively know you want to meet?

For me, if I've agreed to meet someone who then doesn't follow thru on finalising arrangements then it's usually one chance and they're out.

How ruthless or not are you? "

I'm usually quite forgiving on stuff like that, partly because I'm rubbish at myself. I think it's actually the opposite feeling for me - people being a bit *too* keen too quickly. Also if someone says something that I find quite objectionable.

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By *eroLondonMan
15 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Quite simply: I don't take prisoners.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
15 weeks ago

Staffordshire

If they mention crocs or I spot crocs in the background of a picture or they type something that reminds me of crocs.

Gone.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
15 weeks ago

Southampton

"They say some problematic shit.

Yeah, like saying they've never seen Rocky before"

🤣🤣

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
15 weeks ago

Essex

Sometimes I just go off the idea 🤷‍♀️

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By *ickle-Lilly-WillyMan
15 weeks ago

Ends

"They say some problematic shit.

Yeah, like saying they've never seen Rocky before"
worse

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
15 weeks ago

Reading

Not returning the same level of enthusiasm- so too little or too much can both put me off.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
15 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"What does it take for someone to be struck off your 'list' of those you positively know you want to meet?

For me, if I've agreed to meet someone who then doesn't follow thru on finalising arrangements then it's usually one chance and they're out.

How ruthless or not are you? "

Definitely this. Super keen at the weekend, arrange a day in the week, not heard anything since Monday... Struck off.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
15 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"They say some problematic shit.

Like they don't like beards...

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
15 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"They say some problematic shit.

Agree here, sometimes posts show you that the person is not someone you would enjoy spending time with, and they wouldn’t enjoy you either.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
15 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"Over familiarity and constant messaging turn me off pretty quickly "

Yep, I've got one guy having a conversation with himself in my DMs 😂

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By *aven.Woman
15 weeks ago

Not the North West...

"If they mention crocs or I spot crocs in the background of a picture or they type something that reminds me of crocs.

Gone."

Well I have a picture idea

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Things come up for people, stuff happens. However, if stuff continues to happen or come up, I lose confidence in them and might leave it a few months before seeing how things are with them. If they still prove problematical, then that's it.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
15 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"If they mention crocs or I spot crocs in the background of a picture or they type something that reminds me of crocs.

Gone.

Well I have a picture idea"

Please don’t let it be your dad in crocs.

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By *ickle-Lilly-WillyMan
15 weeks ago

Ends

"They say some problematic shit.

Like they don't like beards..."

About that yeah.

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By *ickle-Lilly-WillyMan
15 weeks ago

Ends

"They say some problematic shit.

Agree here, sometimes posts show you that the person is not someone you would enjoy spending time with, and they wouldn’t enjoy you either. "

You get me.

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By *ucka39Man
15 weeks ago

Newcastle

Nothing the door is always open 😂 but I don't I have a lovely circle and one day there's possibilities, I'm in no rush and neither are they

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By *batMan
15 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"If they mention crocs or I spot crocs in the background of a picture or they type something that reminds me of crocs.

Gone."

I just viewed all your pics. Guess what I put on to do it??

Gbat

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