FabSwingers.com forum: Any guys been conned

By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

Had someone from this site … I might name later was coming to meet me today …asked me to pay for their train fare, kept saying I’m on the way I’m on the way and then has gone cold. I think I’ve been used just to buy a train ticket I may have to share the details because I don’t think it’s fair if it happens to other guys on here too.

Anyone had at the same?

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
20 weeks ago

The Continental

Haven’t had that happen.

I certainly wouldn’t allow it to happen.

Report them.

Job done.

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By *hunky GentMan
20 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Don't name them in public.

Report it to admin is your best option.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

"Had someone from this site … I might name later was coming to meet me today …asked me to pay for their train fare, kept saying I’m on the way I’m on the way and then has gone cold. I think I’ve been used just to buy a train ticket I may have to share the details because I don’t think it’s fair if it happens to other guys on here too.

Anyone had at the same?"

Just report to admin

If you share here you will be in breach of Fab rules and face a ban.

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By *naswingdressWoman
20 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

You can't share details, it's against site rules.

Don't give strangers money.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"Haven’t had that happen.

I certainly wouldn’t allow it to happen.

Report them.

Job done. "

Ok will do thanks

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By *iker JackMan
20 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

You cannot name and shame or you’ll get a ban

Yes it’s super frustrating for you

But naming and shaming can lead to vindictive people saying “don’t meet x they don’t turn up”

Sorry this happened to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"You can't share details, it's against site rules.

Don't give strangers money."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"You cannot name and shame or you’ll get a ban

Yes it’s super frustrating for you

But naming and shaming can lead to vindictive people saying “don’t meet x they don’t turn up”

Sorry this happened to you "

Ok thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

Yea just seemed very trustworthy ..

Live and learn !!!!!

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By *vaRose43Woman
20 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Sounds like a scammer, I’m sorry it happened to you.

Report the profile to admin and chalk it up to experience xx

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
20 weeks ago

Leeds

As if you’d give someone money you’ve never met 😂😂🤦🏻‍♂️

The mr

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By *hawn ScottMan
20 weeks ago

london Brixton

How did you pay for the train ticket?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"As if you’d give someone money you’ve never met 😂😂🤦🏻‍♂️

The mr "

They showed me a ticket they bought their trip down and asked me to pay for the trip back. Their ticket looked real so I thought fair enough. I’ll pay for the ticket back.

I don’t mind a bit of feedback, but there’s no need to laugh at me

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
20 weeks ago

Stoke

We wouldn't pay anyone a penny from this site, we don't even chat off the site unless we've met you!

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By *ex HolesMan
20 weeks ago

Up North

I wouldn’t trust anyone on a shagging site

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By *hawn ScottMan
20 weeks ago

london Brixton

"As if you’d give someone money you’ve never met 😂😂🤦🏻‍♂️

The mr

They showed me a ticket they bought their trip down and asked me to pay for the trip back. Their ticket looked real so I thought fair enough. I’ll pay for the ticket back.

I don’t mind a bit of feedback, but there’s no need to laugh at me"

Again what method did you use to pay for it, very important!

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By *uger n Spice78Couple
20 weeks ago

South East Coast

It's a lesson learnt unfortunately, never send money to someone you don't know. If she said I can't afford it then go to her!

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
20 weeks ago

SouthEast

"As if you’d give someone money you’ve never met 😂😂🤦🏻‍♂️

The mr

They showed me a ticket they bought their trip down and asked me to pay for the trip back. Their ticket looked real so I thought fair enough. I’ll pay for the ticket back.

I don’t mind a bit of feedback, but there’s no need to laugh at me"

Not a chance I'd agree. It's not about the money, but why taken for a fool?

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By *olfandtazCouple
20 weeks ago

Bristol

If they ask for money chances are it's a scam, especially on here.

We certainly wouldn't pay for a meet

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By *tticusukMan
20 weeks ago

Formby

Anyone had at the same?"

Not sure why anyone would pay a stranger

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

They showed me they bought a ticket to London so I thought it was fair to pay the ticket back home again silly me Wright I didn’t give

Them money I just bought a train ticket for them

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By *hawn ScottMan
20 weeks ago

london Brixton

Ok OP

Please answer

Do they know you Real name?

Dob?

Address

Phone number

Email address

How did you send them money

It's unlikely someone would scam you fir a train fare. Don't brush it up.to experience. Prepare for what might come next

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
20 weeks ago

ashford

That's not nice! It's a pity u can't name and shame! But that's the rules! X

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By *hawn ScottMan
20 weeks ago

london Brixton

Bought them.a ticket through where???? Details are important

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"Bought them.a ticket through where???? Details are important "

I bought the ticket on Trainline and then sent them a screenshot of the QR code

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
20 weeks ago

Reading

I've heard stories like this. Usually it's a con.

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By *hawn ScottMan
20 weeks ago

london Brixton

Ok it is possible to get your card details from QR code but they would need to be very good! I will also assume they have your number, email? How did you send it?

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By * and R cple4Couple
20 weeks ago

swansea

A little naive to buy some random person a ticket their probably not even a woman..

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By *uckurcumMan
20 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

I had a lad the other was chatty at first then very freely admitted he was available for an exchange of money ...

Also guys ..mature ones beware there are quite a few guys from Ukraine appearing on here that will ask you to go off site onto private email and then after a decent amount of time the request for money comes ..usually at present the aim is to avoid being forced to join up and needing to pay a bribe ...

Its fun playing them along if you are savvy but incan easily see some guys paying money over ...

I have forwarded details to admin when they have appeared and they swiftly remove them ...

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By *uga40Man
20 weeks ago

Hemel Hempstead

Report to admin

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
20 weeks ago

East Sussex

Asking for expenses is against site rules. You've done the right thing by reporting.

You aren't the first to be caught out like this and won't be the last, people can seem very plausible.

It's a lesson learned the hard way and you're a little wiser now

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