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By *unTimes172 OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Chester/York

Do people just randomly get culled from fab in a wave of deletion?

You get talking to a newbie and then randomly their account isn’t here anymore. What’s that about?

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By *ex HolesMan
22 weeks ago

Up North

Probably weren’t looking for fun times after all

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By *unTimes172 OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Chester/York


"Probably weren’t looking for fun times after all "

Reply of the day

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
22 weeks ago

The Continental

They’ve cum, are now full of regret, and delete in shame.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
22 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Do people just randomly get culled from fab in a wave of deletion?

You get talking to a newbie and then randomly their account isn’t here anymore. What’s that about?"

No.

It seems random to you not to them.

They either left or they have hidden their profile.

They are here for them. No one else.

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By *unTimes172 OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Chester/York


"Do people just randomly get culled from fab in a wave of deletion?

You get talking to a newbie and then randomly their account isn’t here anymore. What’s that about?

No.

It seems random to you not to them.

They either left or they have hidden their profile.

They are here for them. No one else.

"

It can’t just be random to me I’m not the centre of the universe.

Do a search for newbies. Within 12 hours I’d say 50% of them don’t exist anymore.

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By *ucka39Man
22 weeks ago

Newcastle

They've been inundated with messages and we're just exploring the site

Some do just to see what it is all about the lifestyle, truth or just myth

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
22 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

It SEEMS random to YOU

But the owner of the account made a deliberate action.

It is NOT random to them.

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By *unTimes172 OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Chester/York


"It SEEMS random to YOU

But the owner of the account made a deliberate action.

It is NOT random to them. "

Rewind, back on track. I guess what I asking is do these people join up and just leave within a day or is there a system that culls people for some reason.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
22 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"It SEEMS random to YOU

But the owner of the account made a deliberate action.

It is NOT random to them.

Rewind, back on track. I guess what I asking is do these people join up and just leave within a day or is there a system that culls people for some reason."

There isn't a system that culls people that are using active profiles.

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By *unTimes172 OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Chester/York


"It SEEMS random to YOU

But the owner of the account made a deliberate action.

It is NOT random to them.

Rewind, back on track. I guess what I asking is do these people join up and just leave within a day or is there a system that culls people for some reason.

There isn't a system that culls people that are using active profiles.

"

Thank you

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

This seems to be more of a thing at the weekend, with someone joining late at night and then waking up sober

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By *he Silver FuxMan
22 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"Do people just randomly get culled from fab in a wave of deletion?

You get talking to a newbie and then randomly their account isn’t here anymore. What’s that about?

No.

It seems random to you not to them.

They either left or they have hidden their profile.

They are here for them. No one else.

It can’t just be random to me I’m not the centre of the universe.

Do a search for newbies. Within 12 hours I’d say 50% of them don’t exist anymore.

"

They’re all blokes creating junk accounts for fun - posing as single women or couples to bait the naive. They go UNLOS as soon as it gets too much or scared off.

Don’t waste your time, set your filters for Fab subscribers (I.e. have made some commitment by paying) who have been photo verified and have profile photos otherwise you are going get really pissed off

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By *unTimes172 OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Chester/York


"Do people just randomly get culled from fab in a wave of deletion?

You get talking to a newbie and then randomly their account isn’t here anymore. What’s that about?

No.

It seems random to you not to them.

They either left or they have hidden their profile.

They are here for them. No one else.

It can’t just be random to me I’m not the centre of the universe.

Do a search for newbies. Within 12 hours I’d say 50% of them don’t exist anymore.

They’re all blokes creating junk accounts for fun - posing as single women or couples to bait the naive. They go UNLOS as soon as it gets too much or scared off.

Don’t waste your time, set your filters for Fab subscribers (I.e. have made some commitment by paying) who have been photo verified and have profile photos otherwise you are going get really pissed off"

Good advice

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By *unTimes172 OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Chester/York


"This seems to be more of a thing at the weekend, with someone joining late at night and then waking up sober "

Definitely a lot of horny people join for just a weekend

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
22 weeks ago

Stoke

Our life on here has been soooo much better since we've blocked newbies!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Central


"Do people just randomly get culled from fab in a wave of deletion?

You get talking to a newbie and then randomly their account isn’t here anymore. What’s that about?

No.

It seems random to you not to them.

They either left or they have hidden their profile.

They are here for them. No one else.

It can’t just be random to me I’m not the centre of the universe.

Do a search for newbies. Within 12 hours I’d say 50% of them don’t exist anymore.

"

It can be interesting to do some research like this, observing how a bunch of newbies progresses.

A lot of people aren't sure about swinging, or Fab, until they get here. It can be daunting, overwhelming, disappointing, etc. And a minority come for the wrong reasons, that the site doesn't support or permit.

A group of people want online titillation and not to meet, even if they may say they do. You'll find all sorts here and maybe never understand what many are up to.

The site does throw people out, for breaking its rules, from time to time.

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By *naswingdressWoman
22 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Do people just randomly get culled from fab in a wave of deletion?

You get talking to a newbie and then randomly their account isn’t here anymore. What’s that about?

No.

It seems random to you not to them.

They either left or they have hidden their profile.

They are here for them. No one else.

It can’t just be random to me I’m not the centre of the universe.

Do a search for newbies. Within 12 hours I’d say 50% of them don’t exist anymore.

"

The newbie experience for a woman is... a lot. Really overwhelming. Being bombarded with messages like you wouldn't believe. Mostly stuff that makes you go

50% doesn't surprise me at all. I bet plenty of people are scared off.

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By *issmorganWoman
22 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Many women join, are bombarded with mail and leave, before they find their filters.

Some are not single

Some just decide it's not for them and for others real life overtakes.

I think its happened to us all at one time, you chat, they vanish.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Maybe if guys didn't pounce on them they'd stay a little longer.

Or they're just guys getting off. 50/50 really.

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By *onkeynutWoman
22 weeks ago

somewhere

When I first found fab I think I lasted a few hours before deleting.

I didn’t really know what to expect when I joined and I was totally overwhelmed and my eyes were very much opening! 😳😂

I’m sure it’s the same for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Fab, just like any dating site is not always the best place for mental health. If it wasn't for the forums or the friends I've made on here I would probably leave as well. This site is definitely better than the dating sites.

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By *nesCouple
22 weeks ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams

Their wives caught them.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
22 weeks ago

Darwen


"Many women join, are bombarded with mail and leave, before they find their filters.

Some are not single

Some just decide it's not for them and for others real life overtakes.

I think its happened to us all at one time, you chat, they vanish. "

This

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
22 weeks ago

Leeds

So many reasons - cheating and got the guilt, fake accounts admin removed, women overwhelmed with all the unsolicited cock in the box & delete. (A few of my friends did this after being bombarded)

Personally I just don't chat to brand new profiles.

Mrs

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By *jorkishMan
22 weeks ago

Seaforth

A mixture of explorers looking at the site

Deliberate timewasters

Wouldn't even trust so called subscribers lol seen plenty of them sign up and delete their profiles a day later

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
22 weeks ago

Leeds

Let’s put it’s this way, yes you may be upset, but at least the bloke on the other end of the phone had a good wank. So take the positives from the situation and smile that you made someone’s day.

The mr

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By *unTimes172 OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Chester/York


"Let’s put it’s this way, yes you may be upset, but at least the bloke on the other end of the phone had a good wank. So take the positives from the situation and smile that you made someone’s day.

The mr "

Don’t even get that far just introductions

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By *naswingdressWoman
22 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Let’s put it’s this way, yes you may be upset, but at least the bloke on the other end of the phone had a good wank. So take the positives from the situation and smile that you made someone’s day.

The mr

Don’t even get that far just introductions "

Some people will get off on the smallest, strangest things.

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By *oxy jWoman
22 weeks ago

somerset


"It SEEMS random to YOU

But the owner of the account made a deliberate action.

It is NOT random to them. "

this 100% ...

if someone blocks you then they have a reason ... swinging is about preference and attraction most wont like most ... its not a sex on a plate scene its selection or rejection and as there are so so many men and so few couples and women thats alot of rejection

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By *ony MannMan
22 weeks ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura

Some women don't like the attentions on here,it can be in the face. Others just ignore most guys messages.

Some newbies just give up.

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