FabSwingers.com forum: A perfect date

By *iker Jack OP Man
14 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Now you have the first meeting done, the social, you decide you like each other and want to know more about them

What is your perfect second date?

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By *asterMeliodasMan
14 weeks ago

Newmill

It would depend on what they're into. I wouldn't want to have one that only aligns with my own preferences.

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By *herry delightWoman
14 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

My perfect date would be not going on any date, which is way I am on a swinging site not a dating site.

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By *iker Jack OP Man
14 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Well this has gone down well

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
14 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Bowling

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By *naswingdressWoman
14 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

April 25. It's not too hot or too cold. You just need a light jacket.

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By *inxy777Woman
14 weeks ago

essex

"Well this has gone down well "

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By *r John WickMan
14 weeks ago

The Continental

"Now you have the first meeting done, the social, you decide you like each other and want to know more about them

What is your perfect second date?"

A repeat of the first one, but with some fucking at the end of it.

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By *inxy777Woman
14 weeks ago

essex

Trip to London. X

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By *r John WickMan
14 weeks ago

The Continental

"Well this has gone down well "

Give it chance, you posted it 7 minutes ago.

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By *inxy777Woman
14 weeks ago

essex

"Now you have the first meeting done, the social, you decide you like each other and want to know more about them

What is your perfect second date?

A repeat of the first one, but with some fucking at the end of it.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
14 weeks ago

Ends

A perfect second date. Probably somewhere to do with something we discussed on the first date. Maybe an activity now that we’ve had that initial meeting. It’s hard to say really for me it will vary from person to person.

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By *iker Jack OP Man
14 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"Well this has gone down well

Give it chance, you posted it 7 minutes ago.

More about the comments not the time

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

Well I guess it would depend on the situation, and those involved, I guess perhaps something different or random that would allow the time together to not be over shadowed by any possible awkwardness and allow a space for communication of each other’s intent and desires

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
14 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"A perfect second date. Probably somewhere to do with something we discussed on the first date. Maybe an activity now that we’ve had that initial meeting. It’s hard to say really for me it will vary from person to person. "

Bowling

Sorry mate I'm clueless today I feel like I've been hit with a curveball

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By *asterMeliodasMan
14 weeks ago

Newmill

"April 25. It's not too hot or too cold. You just need a light jacket."

One of my favourite movie quotes. :D

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By *lack beauty 35Woman
14 weeks ago

South west

Never been on a date so wouldn't know what to class as perfect

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
14 weeks ago

Tamworth

"April 25. It's not too hot or too cold. You just need a light jacket."

Exactly this 😂

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
14 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"April 25. It's not too hot or too cold. You just need a light jacket.

One of my favourite movie quotes. :D"

Not exactly a quote but I love this one

September 28th, daylight. The monsters have overtaken the city. Somehow, I'm still alive...

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By *ittlebirdWoman
14 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Dancing and tequila ♥️

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By *ell GwynnWoman
14 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I wouldn't know as I've never actually been on a proper date. I've either got together with friends I'd known for years, or after banging someone I've met on here. I do it all in the wrong order 🤷‍♀️

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By *eliWoman
14 weeks ago

I'm not sure I have a perfect one - it really depends on the person. How the relationship is building, how long I've known them, how much we talk... you get the idea.

But let's say things are going kind of well and I want to know even more about them... you know, a couple of dates down the line.

I think a perfect fourth date would involve cocktails at an underground bar with booths. All dim lighting and candles. Some nibbly bits. Or a candlelight quartet. Wine. And cheese. An excuse to wear heels. A lovely dress.

And then one of those slightly tipsy and giddy hand holding walks back as the sun is setting.

And then a beautiful hotel room. A shower big enough for two. Fluffy dressing gowns. Room service because I'm not leaving the room until I've learnt even more about them.

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By *oo..Woman
14 weeks ago

Boo's World

Dinner,Drinks and being bent over the bed Doggy style 😇🤣

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
14 weeks ago

North West

"April 25. It's not too hot or too cold. You just need a light jacket."

😍👌😂

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
14 weeks ago

North West

Not had a second date with anyone other than B. He came round and cooked for me. He brought a pan. I had pans but he was worried I wouldn't have the right sort of pan.

I made banoffee pie for pudding. He hates bananas.

Somehow we made it to a third date. Probably because he looked fit from behind while he did the washing up. 😍

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
14 weeks ago

Ends

I haven’t been on a date in weeks.

I love dating.

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By *aven.Woman
14 weeks ago

Not the North West...

Meeting me once is enough for most guys. They never come back.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
14 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Meeting me once is enough for most guys. They never come back."

I’m still taking that as a dare.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
14 weeks ago

Southampton

Dating? What's that then?? 🤣☹️

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By *eroLondonMan
14 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"Now you have the first meeting done... ...What is your perfect second date?"

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The Royal Academy swiftly followed by unbridled SÊX.

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By *vaRose43Woman
14 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Take me to your favourite bookshop followed by classic cocktails/mocktails and nibbles in a funky speakeasy, ending the night entangled together in a beautiful hotel

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By *mmaleiaWoman
14 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

A day out in the sea front on your bike

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By *naswingdressWoman
14 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I haven’t been on a date in weeks.

I love dating. "

Weeks! No one knows your pain 😢

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By *enfleetMaleMan
14 weeks ago

Hadleigh

Depends on the first date.

If it was a coffee shop and cake first date, 1 hour then the second would be dinner.

If the first was dinner then the second needs to be less formal, somewhere less formal.

It's the third date that's the real tell tale. You've seen them once, getting to know you date, the second getting their take on the world. The third is the biggest test because you know what they like and don't like, you know about their family and background. Now you need to tread carefully because if they are vanilla and you've been on Fab and on the scene for a few years you definitely can't slip up just yet.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
14 weeks ago

Essex

Flirting

Food

Fine wine (actually ale but that doesn’t sound as good)

Fucking

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By *ddie1966Man
14 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Good food,

Good red wine,

Good conversation sprinkled with humour.

The promise of meeting up again.

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By *anceAloneWoman
14 weeks ago

Adjacent to him

Being wisked away to Barcelona...a stroll round the Gaudi park followed by dinner at Cerverseria Catalana.

Or ....Crazy Golf 😆

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By *ames250122Man
14 weeks ago

Worcester

"Now you have the first meeting done, the social, you decide you like each other and want to know more about them

What is your perfect second date?"

Hmmm a no pulled punches, in-depth, two way, investigative interview, held in the shower lol. No I kid as it’s hard to say what the second date would be as I have no set go to Second Date Plan as any choice I made would really depend on what I learnt about them from meeting the first time. I’d probably want to try and keep that vibe or energy going and build off of that so my choices would be tailored to that. Tailored to what I know they like and to what I know I like to make it as much fun as it can be for us both. So I guess no two second dates would be the same

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By *ansoffateMan
14 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

We arrange to do something, then realise we want to fuck each other, even more than we want to do said activity. Then the most immediate solution, which doesn't include police involvement, occurs.

I like those kinds of dates.

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By *laytime_13Woman
14 weeks ago

Lincs

"April 25. It's not too hot or too cold. You just need a light jacket."

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By *hunky GentMan
14 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Bacon butties are for the first social.

So.....

Maybe an Italian restaurant.

I do love lasagne

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By *laytime_13Woman
14 weeks ago

Lincs

I think I prefer ‘dating’ fab style - no awkward ‘what shall we do’ / clumsy trip to crazy golf (seriously, no one is ever going to find me attractive given my inability at that game) / worry about eating food and spilling it down me and so on.

All those wonderful things that come with second dates.

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By *929Man
14 weeks ago

newcastle

Burger King, hopefully get blown in the toilets while wearing the cardboard crown

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By *ansoffateMan
14 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"Burger King, hopefully get blown in the toilets while wearing the cardboard crown "

I have a date at KFC on Wednesday.

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By *ozzybear1981Man
14 weeks ago

preston

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By *punk n gushCouple
14 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal

Going on 1 with wife 2 times a week I take her out shopping

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By *929Man
14 weeks ago

newcastle

"Burger King, hopefully get blown in the toilets while wearing the cardboard crown

I have a date at KFC on Wednesday."

As far as I know kfc don’t provide any headwear so best take a cardboard crown in your pocket just in case

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By *ozzybear1981Man
14 weeks ago

preston

I’ll report back with a detailed description when I have that perfect date one day

I’ve had some incredible times and met some truly incredible people that haven’t been dates as such but one day hopefully they may be 🥰

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By *ansoffateMan
14 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"Burger King, hopefully get blown in the toilets while wearing the cardboard crown

I have a date at KFC on Wednesday.

As far as I know kfc don’t provide any headwear so best take a cardboard crown in your pocket just in case "

I've got a left over Christmas cracker so there's a paper one in there I reckon.

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By *ripfillMan
14 weeks ago

havant

"My perfect date would be not going on any date, which is way I am on a swinging site not a dating site.

👍

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By *ad NannaWoman
14 weeks ago

East London

A ride on the Uberboat along the Thames, while drinking tea and eating chips.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

You don't really join Swinging sites to date? But maybe it happens regardless.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
14 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Corbieres for pints and free pizza. £5 for the jukebox

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By *ex HolesMan
14 weeks ago

Up North

"Now you have the first meeting done, the social, you decide you like each other and want to know more about them

What is your perfect second date?"

Anal

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
14 weeks ago

North West

"A ride on the Uberboat along the Thames, while drinking tea and eating chips."

That sounds fun. Until I have to get back up off the pier

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By *oubleswing2019Man
14 weeks ago

Colchester

Dating traditionally has romantic connotations. A person going with me on a "date" would know in advance there are no romantic connotations. Doesn't mean I value them any less, it just means our expectations are managed and discussed beforehand.

If we go to a nice restaurant, it's not to impress or show off. It's because I like nice food, and we'd have discussed your likes too in advance.

Probably go to Club AC in London. I like the music, like the vibe and like the folks/demonstrations.

Which rule out quite a lot of folks, but the ones who are left are on the same wavelength, and that's what matters to me.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
14 weeks ago

North West

"Corbieres for pints and free pizza. £5 for the jukebox

Yes please! 😍

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By *arla SwingerWoman
14 weeks ago

Somewhere

Couple of pints, followed by a hotel room, followed by a picnic in the hotel room.

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By *ansoffateMan
14 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"Couple of pints, followed by a hotel room, followed by a picnic in the hotel room. "

Kebab picnic?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
14 weeks ago

North West

The last "date" I had involved watching the football, whilst sitting in bed, eating curry. Clothing was optional. It was a good date ❤️

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By *arla SwingerWoman
14 weeks ago

Somewhere

"Couple of pints, followed by a hotel room, followed by a picnic in the hotel room.

Kebab picnic?"

Absolutely! 😍

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By *eroLondonMan
14 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"The last "date" I had involved watching the football, whilst sitting in bed, eating curry. Clothing was optional. It was a good date ❤️"

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Did that approach curry favour with your partner? Did you both Chaat much? Was there any pillau talk after the sex?

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