FabSwingers.com forum: Justify

By *iker Jack OP Man
14 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Do you feel that sometimes you have to justify to yourself or others on the site why you are here?

Whether you’re married or single or why you’re single or why you’re here married

Whether you want a fb, fwb, one off or a relationship

Whether you want a call or a social or straight to action

Sometimes for me it can be like tick boxes or form filling in

I don’t think you have to justify anything.

Be honest about what you want and what you can offer and there will be someone for you. The more specific the smaller the amount of people potentially but always be someone

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
14 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"Do you feel that sometimes you have to justify to yourself or others on the site why you are here?

Whether you’re married or single or why you’re single or why you’re here married

Whether you want a fb, fwb, one off or a relationship

Whether you want a call or a social or straight to action

Sometimes for me it can be like tick boxes or form filling in

I don’t think you have to justify anything.

Be honest about what you want and what you can offer and there will be someone for you. The more specific the smaller the amount of people potentially but always be someone "

Horny

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
14 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nope. Never.

I'm here because I want to be.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
14 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Its along while since I felt the need to justify myself in whatever I do. On here or real life

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By *ayd100Man
14 weeks ago

clitheroe

Some people can be pushy

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
14 weeks ago

Ends

People ask and sometimes make me feel like I shouldn’t be on here because I have two partners. Fuck them, they’re not for me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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14 weeks ago

East Sussex

I never, ever justify myself to strangers. I rarely justify myself to anyone except my partner.

By the same token I never add 'Sorry' to any opinion that differs to other people's or end what I say with 'just my opinion'.

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By *ustBoWoman
14 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've been given a small amount of grief on here because I'm not meeting anyone new presently and some think I shouldn't be on here so. Well, it's written twice on my profile if people still want to chance their arms by asking for a meet or messaging then they are just wasting their own time,the same as those who try and get me to justify why I'm not meeting. Even if I was the I wouldn't meet them anyhow with attitudes like that.

So no I don't feel the need to justify to anyone why I am on here, because it's my choice to be on here and no one else's business.

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By *viatrixWoman
14 weeks ago

Redhill

I get told all the time what am I doing here, that surely I wouldn’t need to be here looking the way I do… that ai should be able to “pull” IRL with no problem 😂😂😂😂

Just like the people who ask stupid questions about me doing the job I do at my age (and having started relatively recently) …. 😂😂😂

I used to get really would up and insecure about these things but now I laugh.

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By *ealitybitesMan
14 weeks ago

Belfast

The only thing I've ever had to justify on fab is that I'm straight.

I've never had to justify my reasons for being here or my choices despite some taking offence with the latter.

Some don't seem to understand the meaning of straight and often confuse it with being afraid of my sexuality or are of the opinion that I'm narrow-minded because I don't embrace a non existent bi side.

Beyond that I am more than happy with my choices.

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By *aytime78Man
14 weeks ago

daventry

I'm here coz its only a fiver a month what I caint justify is other so called dating apps that charge a fortune

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By *oo..Woman
14 weeks ago

Boo's World

I'll never justify myself to anyone, the exit is that way if they ask me too 👈🚪😊

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By *aytime78Man
14 weeks ago

daventry

"I'll never justify myself to anyone, the exit is that way if they ask me too 👈🚪😊"

and dont forget to shut it on your way out

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By *hunky GentMan
14 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I get asked if I can compete against the '6-pack' mob??

My answer - 'fuck yeah'.

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
14 weeks ago

Wolvo

Ppl want justification for

1) understanding - they genuinely dont get it and want to understand or learn more

2) to invalidate what/why you are doing something.

3) judgement

4) to get you to change your mind

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
14 weeks ago

Leeds

No, I don't feel the need to justify why we are here to anyone, nor would I.

Mrs

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Herts

Some people think I shouldn’t be on here (though less than I experienced in the other site). I don’t think I need to justify being on here though.

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

I don't feel under any obligation to justify my presence or preferences.

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By *neeyedwillieMan
14 weeks ago

Darlington

The only people whos opinions matter are in my life. If you're not in my life, why should I care?

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

In my limited experience, most people trying to justify, prove or convince, someone on here seem mostly trying to justify, prove or convince themselves… …I’m not immune from that statement either…

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
14 weeks ago

Stoke

We justify nothing to no one, don't like it don't look 👍

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By *JcuriousCouple
14 weeks ago

Derby

Don't need too and won't justify ourselves to anyone 😊

Miss S x

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By *orphia2003Woman
14 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I've had people who seem to think I need to justify why I'm here. They usually get an earfull and a block.

I'm here because I choose to be, in the way I choose to be.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
14 weeks ago

Reading

It's the local thing I get pushed on the most even though I'm so clear about it oh my profile.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
14 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

absolutely not

We have often been treated like we are expected to though!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
14 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Well what the fuck are you doing here then is a common enough question.

But we've already long since established that the people reacting that way aren't for me, so why worry about if they think I'm justified in being here 💜

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By *aven.Woman
14 weeks ago

Not the North West...

That's sounds like a lot of work.

I generally just send naked photos.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Central

No. I'm here whether or not others care

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By *a LunaWoman
14 weeks ago

South Wales

I occasionally get a stroppy “well why are you on here then” when I reply that I’m not meeting.

I just say that I’m not meeting NOW, not that I’ve never met. They just missed the bus is all.

We are all here for our own reasons, I don’t question it.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
14 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

No, never. If someone has an issue with my presence here that's their problem, not mine.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
14 weeks ago

Ends

Justify my thug

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Herts

Sat night I had to’ justify’ to a young man why I haven’t had a sex change.

I swear I’ll start a podcast of stupid things people say one day.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
14 weeks ago

Ends

"Sat night I had to’ justify’ to a young man why I haven’t had a sex change.

I swear I’ll start a podcast of stupid things people say one day. "

I would like to be a guest on this podcast. Please

we can discuss ignorant things people say

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Herts

"Sat night I had to’ justify’ to a young man why I haven’t had a sex change.

I swear I’ll start a podcast of stupid things people say one day.

I would like to be a guest on this podcast. Please

we can discuss ignorant things people say"

We need a name for this podcast. Something catchy.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
14 weeks ago

Ends

"Sat night I had to’ justify’ to a young man why I haven’t had a sex change.

I swear I’ll start a podcast of stupid things people say one day.

I would like to be a guest on this podcast. Please

we can discuss ignorant things people say

We need a name for this podcast. Something catchy. "

Shall I ask chatGPT

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By *herry delightWoman
14 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I do feel that sometimes I have to justify and defend my choice in that I don't want a friendship/relationship as apparently every single woman is.

I AM NOT.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Herts

"Sat night I had to’ justify’ to a young man why I haven’t had a sex change.

I swear I’ll start a podcast of stupid things people say one day.

I would like to be a guest on this podcast. Please

we can discuss ignorant things people say

We need a name for this podcast. Something catchy.

Shall I ask chatGPT"

That’ll confuse people who are googling if they should ask chstGPT though

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By *ittlebirdWoman
14 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I don’t justify myself ever. I’m me. Take it or fucking leave it 🌈

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