FabSwingers.com forum: Nervous about my first meet

By *icurious51 OP Man
24 weeks ago

beverley

I’m bicurious nervous about my first ever meet with a guy

Can you help me settle my nerves

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Chat on the phone first…

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By *icurious51 OP Man
24 weeks ago

beverley

Cherrs I like to Skype maybe

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By *rettCoolMan
24 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Take a deep breath and get on with it ..

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By *icurious51 OP Man
24 weeks ago

beverley

Cheers for been brutal lol

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
24 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Diazepam and whiskey will help with them nerves

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By *iker JackMan
24 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Nerves are part of any meet

Make sure you are happy they are who they say they are, have a social first, and enjoy it

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By *icurious51 OP Man
24 weeks ago

beverley

Cheers

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By *lack beauty 35Woman
24 weeks ago

West midlands

If your neverous I would do a social first there's no pressure to do anything. Hope it goes well for you

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By *hunky GentMan
24 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Best of luck to you.

Just relax and enjoy yourself

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By *icurious51 OP Man
24 weeks ago

beverley

Cheers sound advice

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
24 weeks ago

Central

If it's because it's same gender sex, you could possibly try a gay sauna or sex venue, to have a potential selection of people and/or just watch.

Be sure about what you want and what your limits are. You could just get around guys and touch each other.

Obviously nobody, each way, may find another attractive, so go for the facilities, without any expectations of guaranteed action.

But there seems to be a reasonable amount of men here who will partake. It's about putting big boy pants on and getting on with it

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By *erfHerder74Man
24 weeks ago

Inverclyde

Have a coffee, chat, don’t do anything you don’t want to,

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
24 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

12 pints of ball busting real ale. Don't settle for anything lower than 6% ABV.

Take chewing gum though. That'll hide any signs of drinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Regular progress reports back to the forum plz

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Think of it this way: the vast majority of late teen women survive dates with men. They aren't so bad.

Be brave, like a girl

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By *ooBulMan
24 weeks ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

The other person is nervous too!!! Probably.....

Put your hand on your heart close your eyes & think of some situation that made you feel warm & happy, It can be a kiss, meeting family members at a party, your birthday party etc. What ever...

Correct your posture, bend your knees slightly, relax & drop your shoulders, breath in & out (1 breath). Do a total of 8 or 9. Don't rush, do it slowly.

If you've done it right you should feel calm & relaxed. They teach this method to solders fighting in combat when they are nervous or have frozen in their tracks & don't know what to do....

Failing that have a stiff one (drink), assuming you are in a pub if you are early? Lots of tits & teeth.

I personally like a quick stare in a woman's eyes to see if I can have a quick peek at her soul - a bit of warmth? A faint heart never won a fair maiden...

If you don't want to do the last bit breathe & do lots of tits & teeth! You gotta start somewhere right? Good luck mon brave!

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By *icurious51 OP Man
24 weeks ago

beverley

Mmmm Chers

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By *icurious51 OP Man
24 weeks ago

beverley

"Regular progress reports back to the forum plz

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of course x

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By *icurious51 OP Man
24 weeks ago

beverley

"The other person is nervous too!!! Probably.....

Put your hand on your heart close your eyes & think of some situation that made you feel warm & happy, It can be a kiss, meeting family members at a party, your birthday party etc. What ever...

Correct your posture, bend your knees slightly, relax & drop your shoulders, breath in & out (1 breath). Do a total of 8 or 9. Don't rush, do it slowly.

If you've done it right you should feel calm & relaxed. They teach this method to solders fighting in combat when they are nervous or have frozen in their tracks & don't know what to do....

Failing that have a stiff one (drink), assuming you are in a pub if you are early? Lots of tits & teeth.

I personally like a quick stare in a woman's eyes to see if I can have a quick peek at her soul - a bit of warmth? A faint heart never won a fair maiden...

If you don't want to do the last bit breathe & do lots of tits & teeth! You gotta start somewhere right? Good luck mon brave!

Il try il keep u updated xx

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By *till gameMan
24 weeks ago

Oldham

Just imagine them naked

Oops no that’s for a job interview 😀

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By *icurious51 OP Man
24 weeks ago

beverley

"Just imagine them naked

Oops no that’s for a job interview 😀"

Lol I hope they are mmmm or some nice knickers on mmmmmmm

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By *lipy123TV/TS
24 weeks ago

Birmingham

What Sophie said.. Then you have the option to play or just say no thanks.

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By *icurious51 OP Man
24 weeks ago

beverley

Very true

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