FabSwingers.com forum: Ex’s on Here

By *evouringHabits OP Man
22 weeks ago

kilburn

If you saw your ex on here would you validate them with a nice message? (not trying to get them back or flirt) remember there was a point where you claimed that you loved them

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By *icecouple561Couple
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22 weeks ago

East Sussex

No I wouldn't

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By *naswingdressWoman
22 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. I'd leave well alone and hope they did likewise.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Leave it out mate

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
22 weeks ago

Leeds

Nope.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Hell no!

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
22 weeks ago

Maidstone

No. I've blocked him.

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By *edGrayCouple
22 weeks ago

Swindon

I would be surprised if they are on here and block them.

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By *ea monkeyMan
22 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

My ex is on here and I see her posting fairly regularly. I’ve not blocked her and I do still care so if the situation arose, I would message. I just don’t think that it would be helpful

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By *ripfillMan
22 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

No …. Too dangerous by far

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By *mmaleiaWoman
22 weeks ago

Trowbridge

My ex is on here that I’ve know since I was 17, I’ve left him a lovely veri cause he’s a lovely guy & I wish him all the luck on here

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By *cott14Man
22 weeks ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

The fact you’re asking the question shows this is a daft idea .

You are ex’s for a reason .

Obviously a bit different if you now have a great relationship as friends and are open about being on here and everything that ensues

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By *ongjonsliver555Man
22 weeks ago

London

No love there now so I’d look to see what she’s looking for and fantasise about being there 🤷‍♂️

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By *aseylee324Couple
22 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

I'd think uh-oh because his wife is a very unpleasant individual and stay well out of it.

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By *iker JackMan
22 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Exes are exes for a reason

I’d block and leave well alone

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I'd be intrigued more than anything but certainly wouldn't verify. I'd probably have a right good nosey then block and every so often unblock her again, have another right good nosey and then block again haha. Then repeat this cycle until I get bored of it

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By *emma200Woman
22 weeks ago

Warwickshire

"Exes are exes for a reason

I’d block and leave well alone "

This!!

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
22 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

It's the same answer as getting back with an ex. Fuck no.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
22 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Errr…no 👍🏻

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By *ell GwynnWoman
22 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

No. I've blocked him.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
22 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

More important than the reasons for being with them in the first place are the reasons for no longer being with them.

Depending on those I might reach out. But if it's over because of something irresolvable I'd leave well alone.

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By *idcot58Man
22 weeks ago

Chepstow

I would message them if they wanted to play

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Not normally. I guess it depends on the ex. and how you met and how you parted and all that. It’s possible to still be friends but you’d need to be super careful on fab because of what it is - if you’re not interested in sexy times then you’d need to be make it really clear and also you’re kinda inviting them to follow your veri trail so it’s probs not going to be a good idea…

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By *eliWoman
22 weeks ago

No. Actually I'm friends with a couple of them but I still wouldn't "validate" them. I might check in if they're evidently feeling low.

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By *iberius61Man
22 weeks ago

Pontefract

To broad a question really. I do try to remain friendly with my ex's, not always possible perhaps.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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22 weeks ago

East Sussex

We've been together over forty years I doubt either of us would recognise them and vice versa

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I get on well enough with all of my exes, but whether they'd want a Tgirl verification is a different matter

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By *aytime78Man
22 weeks ago

Aylesbury

ha she wouldnt even suck cock fat chance of her been on a swinging site total fridge tbh it caused the breakup but thats a whole different level of lack of communication

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By *imples24Man
22 weeks ago

tamworth

All depends how it finished

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By *evouringHabits OP Man
22 weeks ago

kilburn

People on here are SOUR BOYYYY im good with all my ex’s can call n talk to all of mine dayummmm

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By *artfordBlokeMan
22 weeks ago

Dartford

Yup, fabbed a pic in latest photos unknowingly, most embarrassing

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By *ovebjsMan
22 weeks ago

Bristol

"If you saw your ex on here would you validate them with a nice message? (not trying to get them back or flirt) remember there was a point where you claimed that you loved them "

No I would just block and move on

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By *opeyXWoman
22 weeks ago

Dundee

"It's the same answer as getting back with an ex. Fuck no."

This. Though if at a organised social or something I'd be civil and say hello.

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By *naswingdressWoman
22 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"People on here are SOUR BOYYYY im good with all my ex’s can call n talk to all of mine dayummmm "

I'm not sour, it's more, that's not my business.

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By *aizyWoman
22 weeks ago

west midlands

Instant block!

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
22 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Instant block!"

D - you are far too nice for that. You don't even know what a block button is.

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By *aizyWoman
22 weeks ago

west midlands

"Instant block!

D - you are far too nice for that. You don't even know what a block button is."

I'm really not

you just haven't got on my bad side!

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
22 weeks ago

Ends

Depends on which ex. Some I would leave a lovely veri for. Some I would block.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
22 weeks ago

Wirral

"Depends on which ex. Some I would leave a lovely veri for. Some I would block. "

Ditto. One in particular if he was local enough I'd try to get back into my bed - we had fantastic times together and left things in a lovely place where we could easily pick them up again.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
22 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Depends on which ex. Some I would leave a lovely veri for. Some I would block. "

Yeah this... Some shouldn't even be allowed near women.

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
22 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Yeah this... Some shouldn't even be allowed near women."

Amen to this! 🙌🏻

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By *aytime78Man
22 weeks ago

Aylesbury

"People on here are SOUR BOYYYY im good with all my ex’s can call n talk to all of mine dayummmm

I'm not sour, it's more, that's not my business. "

I'm healing pmsl

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By *wlmanMan
22 weeks ago

Rugby

Not a chance!!!

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